
The Divorce Field Guide
The Divorce Field Guide is an informational podcast for listeners who are considering, at the outset of, or in the midst of a divorce. We break the topic of divorce down into bite-sized pieces, with the goal of making your divorce process feel more manageable and clear as you go through it. Each episode covers a different topic related to divorce. You can find episode transcripts as well as a free guide to divorce on our website: thedivorcefieldguide.com.
Latest episodes

Nov 28, 2018 • 19min
#65 - Can You Mediate If You Can't Stand Your Spouse?
Mediation isn’t just for amicable couples; it can work even when tensions run high. The discussion focuses on identifying the tipping point where mediation becomes ineffective. Key elements for success include strong communication, self-awareness, and a willingness to compromise. Strategies for navigating contentious divorces are explored, emphasizing the importance of understanding different perspectives on fairness and the potential need for expert guidance. It’s a deep dive into managing conflict effectively, even in challenging circumstances.

Nov 14, 2018 • 19min
#64 - When Your Spouse Won't Negotiate
Facing a stubborn spouse during negotiations can be incredibly challenging. The discussion dives into strategies for managing unreasonable demands in divorce settlements. It emphasizes balancing personal interests with the potential repercussions of court involvement. Listeners learn how to navigate these tough conversations while prioritizing their own needs and making sense of the negotiation landscape. It's an insightful look at maintaining composure when faced with intransigence.

Oct 31, 2018 • 15min
#63 - Changes in Spouses' Incomes During Divorce
Explore how changing incomes during divorce can complicate negotiations. Understand the impact of a decrease in income on child support and spousal maintenance. Learn strategies for validating these income changes and adjusting financial agreements. Discover insights for both parties that will help them navigate their new financial realities in the divorce process.

Oct 17, 2018 • 20min
#62 - Divorcing with a Significant Other
Navigating a divorce while involved with a new partner can be a double-edged sword. The discussion showcases how these relationships can influence negotiations, bringing both support and complexity. Key tips are shared to help individuals maintain focus on settlement terms, ensuring that new dynamics do not derail the process. This exploration highlights the delicate balance between personal relationships and legal matters during a divorce.

Oct 3, 2018 • 17min
#61 - Mediating When You Don't Trust Your Spouse
Exploring the challenges of divorce mediation when trust is absent, this discussion highlights the intricacies of financial disclosures. It emphasizes the need for procedural safeguards and expert evaluations to navigate negotiations. Red flags regarding transparency and integrity are also examined, helping listeners determine when mediation might not be suitable. Open communication is key to overcoming obstacles and fostering a more equitable mediation process.

Sep 19, 2018 • 11min
#60 - Accepting the Changes Divorce Brings
Divorce brings a whirlwind of unwelcome changes, and understanding these shifts is crucial. The discussion dives into the emotional landscape, revealing how different individuals respond based on who initiated the separation. Listeners learn practical strategies for managing lifestyle adjustments, emphasizing financial clarity and the importance of healing time. Supporting a spouse through these transitions is also highlighted, making the journey a bit easier for both parties.

Sep 5, 2018 • 14min
#59 - When Your Spouse Hires An Aggressive Attorney
When faced with an aggressive attorney on the opposing side, divorce can take an unexpected turn. Strategies for maintaining composure and focusing on your own goals are discussed. Rather than escalating conflict, learn how to navigate negotiations effectively. Emphasizing personal empowerment, the conversation highlights the importance of a constructive approach to a challenging situation.

Aug 22, 2018 • 15min
#58 - Letting Your Divorce Lapse
Couples often start the divorce process but then hit the brakes. Discover the emotional, legal, and financial consequences of letting a divorce lapse. Learn practical tips for re-engagement and the importance of addressing unresolved issues. This discussion sheds light on maintaining personal well-being amidst the chaos of stalled divorce proceedings.

Aug 8, 2018 • 17min
#57 - Changes in Asset Value During Divorce
This discussion uncovers the complexities of asset value fluctuations in divorce. It emphasizes how perceptions of economic partnerships can influence key decisions. The contrast between different approaches to managing retirement accounts and real estate assets reveals the nuances involved. Understanding appreciation and depreciation during this tumultuous time can significantly impact outcomes, making it a crucial topic for anyone navigating divorce.

Jul 25, 2018 • 20min
#56 - Returning to the Workforce
Returning to work after a divorce can be a challenging transition, especially for those who have been stay-at-home spouses. The conversation dives into practical strategies to ease this shift, focusing on effective communication and setting realistic expectations. It also highlights the importance of support systems in navigating these changes. Listeners will find valuable insights into managing the emotional and logistical aspects of re-entering the workforce during such a significant life transition.