The Dr. Psych Mom Show with clinical psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten

Subscribe if you love the DPM show! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes! Most recent subscriber episode: "Why Don't I Tell Both Partners To Change In All My Podcasts And Posts?" For my secret Facebook group, the "best money I've ever spent" according to numerous members, go ⁠⁠here⁠⁠! It's $4.99/mo. For coaching from DPM, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.drpsychmom.com/coaching/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ For therapy or life coaching, contact us at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Follow me on TikTok! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@therealdrpsychmom⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqLm4xRaUeroBodFc-h4XDQ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Today we discuss when people are more comfortable in a child role than the role of an adult and partner. Covered: how this impacts marriages, what type of parenting leads to this outcome, and how to work on it as an individual and a couple.

Subscribe if you love the DPM show! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes! Most recent subscriber episode: "Why Don't I Tell Both Partners To Change In All My Podcasts And Posts?" For my secret Facebook group, the "best money I've ever spent" according to numerous members, go ⁠⁠here⁠⁠! It's $4.99/mo. For coaching from DPM, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.drpsychmom.com/coaching/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ For therapy or life coaching, contact us at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Follow me on TikTok! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@therealdrpsychmom⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqLm4xRaUeroBodFc-h4XDQ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Which men have particular difficulty empathizing with women, why, and what can they do about it? Such a common issue in the couples I see for counseling, and you'll learn about it in today's episode!

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Discussed older men and younger women a couple episodes ago... what about the opposite? Today I discuss what I most often see when these couples come in for counseling, as well as which women go for younger men and why! Subscribe if you love the DPM show! ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes! Most recently: why does your wife not want to go down on you? For my secret Facebook group, the "best money I've ever spent" according to numerous members, go ⁠here⁠! It's $4.99/mo. For coaching from DPM, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.drpsychmom.com/coaching/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ For therapy or life coaching, contact us at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Follow me on TikTok! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@therealdrpsychmom⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqLm4xRaUeroBodFc-h4XDQ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Subscribe if you love the DPM show! ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes! Most recently: why do all your wife's friends also have low sex marriages? For my secret Facebook group, the "best money I've ever spent" according to numerous members, go ⁠here⁠! It's $4.99/mo. For coaching from DPM, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.drpsychmom.com/coaching/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ For therapy or life coaching, contact us at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Follow me on TikTok! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@therealdrpsychmom⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqLm4xRaUeroBodFc-h4XDQ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Everyone likes a happy, fun, cute girlfriend, makes sense psychologically and evolutionarily. But when the honeymoon stage fades, what issues do I see in the couples who come in where the guy is a decade plus older than his wife? Listen up for why there is..... as always.... NO FREE LUNCH!!!!

Subscribe if you love the DPM show! ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes! Most recently: why do all your wife's friends also have low sex marriages? For my secret Facebook group, the "best money I've ever spent" according to numerous members, go ⁠here⁠! It's $4.99/mo. For coaching from DPM, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.drpsychmom.com/coaching/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ For therapy or life coaching, contact us at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Follow me on TikTok! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@therealdrpsychmom⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqLm4xRaUeroBodFc-h4XDQ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Many people have dreams about exes or keep fantasizing about them even when married to someone else. Here's what these thoughts mean, and what to do about it!

Subscribe if you love the DPM show! ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes! Most recently: why do all your wife's friends also have low sex marriages? For my secret Facebook group, the "best money I've ever spent" according to numerous members, go ⁠here⁠! It's $4.99/mo. For coaching from DPM, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.drpsychmom.com/coaching/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ For therapy or life coaching, contact us at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Follow me on TikTok! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@therealdrpsychmom⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqLm4xRaUeroBodFc-h4XDQ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ So many people tell themselves there's a way to inoculate themselves from infidelity, but almost everyone who cheats never thought they would. Here's how to understand this issue more clearly, how to work on making yourself less susceptible, and who is at higher risk of cheating.

Subscribe if you love the DPM show! ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes! Most recently: when stay-at-home partners and working partners grow apart. For my secret Facebook group, the "best money I've ever spent" according to numerous members, go ⁠here⁠! It's $4.99/mo. For coaching from DPM, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.drpsychmom.com/coaching/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ For therapy or life coaching, contact us at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Follow me on TikTok! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@therealdrpsychmom⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqLm4xRaUeroBodFc-h4XDQ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Lots of women "need" their daily coffee, wine, exercise or more but then look down on their husbands for "needing" sex without blinking, because they don't see the connection with their own behavior. This episode will give you 110% more empathy as well as point out what actual sex addiction is and isn't. Listen up!

Exploring preoccupied attachment in men seeking online relationship advice, analyzing misconceptions about cheating and attachment behavior, breaking the negative cycle, navigating online forums for diverse relationship insights, and the importance of individual therapy for preoccupied attachment males to avoid echo chambers.