
The Dr. Psych Mom Show with clinical psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten
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Clinical psychologist Dr Samantha Rodman Whiten (DrPsychMom.com) discusses relationships, sex, family & parenting with no BS. Unpopular opinions: don't overfocus on kids, physical touch is the most important love language, and marriage issues are due to BOTH partners. Therapy/coaching with me or my team: bestlifebehavioralhealth.com. NOT medical advice. Email samantha@drpsychmom.com
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Latest episodes

Mar 5, 2024 • 19min
Why Being A Good Stepdad Gets Men A Lot Of Love And How To Approximate This Effect If You're Not A Stepdad
I have long noticed that guys who remarry women with kids get a lot of love from their wives, and this topic just came up in my Facebook group as well. And it's my own situation, fwiw! What is the reason, and how can you understand it in a way that helps you get the same love from your wife if you aren't remarried?
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For coaching from DPM, visit https://www.drpsychmom.com/coaching/
For therapy or life coaching, contact us at www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com.
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Mar 3, 2024 • 17min
Nostalgia For Your "Prime" And How This Impacts Men And Women
The prime years of your life can look different based on your personality, gender, and values. Here is how nostalgia for your "prime" looks for many men and women I see in my practice, and how this impacts their relationship in different stages. Also, what if you didn't feel you had a prime?
Subscribe if you love the DPM show! https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes! Most recent subscriber episode: "Why Your Dirty Talk Fails To Turn On Your Wife"!
For my secret Facebook group, the "best money I've ever spent" according to numerous members, go here! It's $4.99/mo.
For coaching from DPM, visit https://www.drpsychmom.com/coaching/
For therapy or life coaching, contact us at www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com.
Follow me on TikTok! https://www.tiktok.com/@therealdrpsychmom and YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqLm4xRaUeroBodFc-h4XDQ

Mar 1, 2024 • 23min
Why Men Nowadays Don't Know That Drive Drops For Men After The Honeymoon Stage And With Age
Men in earlier generations admitted this freely. Here's why they don't anymore! Included: The Coolidge Effect, testosterone, porn, and more!
Subscribe if you love the DPM show! https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes! Most recent subscriber episode: "Why Your Dirty Talk Fails To Turn On Your Wife"!
For my secret Facebook group, the "best money I've ever spent" according to numerous members, go here! It's $4.99/mo.
For coaching from DPM, visit https://www.drpsychmom.com/coaching/
For therapy or life coaching, contact us at www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com.
Follow me on TikTok! https://www.tiktok.com/@therealdrpsychmom and YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqLm4xRaUeroBodFc-h4XDQ

Feb 26, 2024 • 15min
Yes, Sex Is A Proxy For Connection. But, Connection Shouldn't Be Your Central Obsession Either!
Discussion on how sex can be a proxy for connection for preoccupied attachment styles. Emphasis on maintaining balance between connection and autonomy in relationships. Exploring risks of tracking intimate data and importance of human connection. Caution against prioritizing sex and coercive tactics. Importance of balancing emotional connection and personal space in relationships.

Feb 24, 2024 • 15min
Why You Can't Find A Partner After Divorce
If you're finding this very difficult, then here's a breakdown of why and what to do!
Subscribe if you love the DPM show! https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes! Most recent subscriber episode: "Sulking When You Don't Get Laid Is As Wrong As Sulking If Your Kids Don't Listen"!
For my secret Facebook group, the "best money I've ever spent" according to numerous members, go here! It's $4.99/mo.
For coaching from DPM, visit https://www.drpsychmom.com/coaching/
For therapy or life coaching, contact us at www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com.
Follow me on TikTok! https://www.tiktok.com/@therealdrpsychmom and YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqLm4xRaUeroBodFc-h4XDQ

Feb 22, 2024 • 18min
"Gaming" or "Hacking" Your Wife Makes Her Respect You Much, Much Less
Some guys go beyond "working on their marriage" and think they can somehow "hack" their wife to make her constantly desire them. This is silly and makes your wife think of you like a child. Here's how this dynamic plays out and why it is one of the worst things you can do!
Subscribe if you love the DPM show! https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes! Most recent subscriber episode: "Sulking When You Don't Get Laid Is As Wrong As Sulking If Your Kids Don't Listen"!
For my secret Facebook group, the "best money I've ever spent" according to numerous members, go here! It's $4.99/mo.
For coaching from DPM, visit https://www.drpsychmom.com/coaching/
For therapy or life coaching, contact us at www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com.
Follow me on TikTok! https://www.tiktok.com/@therealdrpsychmom and YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqLm4xRaUeroBodFc-h4XDQ

4 snips
Feb 18, 2024 • 18min
Should Your Husband "Be Happy With What He Gets" In Bed?
This podcast delves into the importance of prioritizing emotional connection in sexual relationships, exploring the link between sex, insecurity, and secure attachment. It also discusses how low self-esteem can impact relationships, navigating unrealistic expectations, and debunking the notion that partners should settle for less in bed.

Feb 16, 2024 • 16min
What To Say To Your Husband When You Don't Want Sex... Instead Of Mean Stuff
The podcast discusses how to navigate declining sex in a relationship, emphasizing open communication and respect. It explores the challenges of differing sexual expectations and offers tips on maintaining intimacy. The host addresses the importance of saying 'yes' to new experiences with your partner and provides insight on fostering harmony in relationships.

Feb 14, 2024 • 19min
Happy Valentine's Day... Here's How To Make It Good!
What can you do RIGHT NOW to make this an awesome Valentine's Day, and why "Hallmark holiday" is a foolish term that translates to "I'm closed minded, difficult, and avoidant."
Subscribe if you love the DPM show! https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes! Most recent subscriber episode: "You NEVER Kiss Me/Act Like You Love Me/Talk To Me"!
For my secret Facebook group, the "best money I've ever spent" according to numerous members, go here! It's $4.99/mo.
For coaching from DPM, visit https://www.drpsychmom.com/coaching/
For therapy or life coaching, contact us at www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com.
Follow me on TikTok! https://www.tiktok.com/@therealdrpsychmom and YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqLm4xRaUeroBodFc-h4XDQ

Feb 10, 2024 • 17min
When in Rome... Have Sex! (The Impact Of Confident Momentum)
Explore the influence of confident momentum on marriage and the power of setting frames in relationships. Learn how adult mood affects the home atmosphere and attachment styles, and how therapy can address preoccupied and anxious attachment. Discover the correlation between aligning with expectations and increased sexual intimacy. Find out how confidence plays a role in setting the frame for romantic experiences and how confident momentum enhances relationships.