The Dr. Psych Mom Show with clinical psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten
Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten
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Clinical psychologist Dr Samantha Rodman Whiten (DrPsychMom.com) discusses relationships, sex, family & parenting with no BS. Unpopular opinions: don't overfocus on kids, physical touch is the most important love language, and marriage issues are due to BOTH partners. Therapy/coaching with me or my team: bestlifebehavioralhealth.com. NOT medical advice. Email samantha@drpsychmom.com
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Clinical psychologist Dr Samantha Rodman Whiten (DrPsychMom.com) discusses relationships, sex, family & parenting with no BS. Unpopular opinions: don't overfocus on kids, physical touch is the most important love language, and marriage issues are due to BOTH partners. Therapy/coaching with me or my team: bestlifebehavioralhealth.com. NOT medical advice. Email samantha@drpsychmom.com
Join my secret FB group for talk about relationships, sex & more: https://www.facebook.com/groups/drpsychmom!
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Jul 7, 2024 • 18min
Stop Asking Your Wife So Many Questions Already
If you ask your wife too many questions, she doesn't want to have sex, talk, or be on the same planet as you! People ask questions compulsively for two main reasons... listen and learn what they are! Also: what to do instead.
Subscribe if you love the DPM show! https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes! Most recent subscriber episode: "'The World Is Hard Enough... Home Should Be A Safe Haven For Kids' NO STOP"!
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For coaching from DPM, visit https://www.drpsychmom.com/coaching/
For therapy or life coaching, contact us at www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com.
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Jul 2, 2024 • 17min
Reasons Your Wife Doesn't Want Sex That DO Have To Do With You
Certainly, desire decreases after the honeymoon stage, due to the biological end of the "drunk on new love" feeling. At this point, too many guys just blame biology for their wives not wanting sex. While I've spent a lot of time focusing on the biological changes, sometimes you're doing stuff that no woman in her right mind would find appealing. Listen and learn!
Subscribe if you love the DPM show! https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes! Most recent subscriber episode:
"Don't Have Non-Orgasmic Sex Too Often!"
For my secret Facebook group, the "best money I've ever spent" according to numerous members, go here! Or click blue subscribe button on my Facebook page. It's $4.99/mo.
For coaching from DPM, visit https://www.drpsychmom.com/coaching/
For therapy or life coaching, contact us at www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com.
Follow me on TikTok! https://www.tiktok.com/@therealdrpsychmom and YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqLm4xRaUeroBodFc-h4XDQ
Jun 30, 2024 • 20min
Do Something New Once A Week
When people struggle with anxiety, depression, or rigidity, they can become terrified of doing anything new. This anxiety is not directly expressed, but comes out as judgment or criticism toward anyone who is perceived as trying to "force" them to do something new, or even think about something in a new way. What's an excellent way to treat anxiety? Exposure therapy! Listen to learn about how just doing new things in ANY area can loosen up rigid and anxious cognitive frames and make your relationships much less frustrating!
Subscribe if you love the DPM show! https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes! Most recent subscriber episode:
"Don't Have Non-Orgasmic Sex Too Often!"
For my secret Facebook group, the "best money I've ever spent" according to numerous members, go here! Or click blue subscribe button on my Facebook page. It's $4.99/mo.
For coaching from DPM, visit https://www.drpsychmom.com/coaching/
For therapy or life coaching, contact us at www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com.
Follow me on TikTok! https://www.tiktok.com/@therealdrpsychmom and YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqLm4xRaUeroBodFc-h4XDQ
Jun 28, 2024 • 19min
"You Don't Just Want Me To Agree, Do You?"
Should you just agree with your partner? What if you don't really agree? If you struggle with this question and you've ever used the word "yes man," this episode is a dive into how you grew up and why it's affecting your relationships now. Also: how to reframe "not agreeing" in a way that will help you get along with most people.... even if just agreeing is still a bridge too far for you!
Subscribe if you love the DPM show! https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes! Most recent subscriber episode:
"Don't Have Non-Orgasmic Sex Too Often!"
For my secret Facebook group, the "best money I've ever spent" according to numerous members, go here! Or click blue subscribe button on my Facebook page. It's $4.99/mo.
For coaching from DPM, visit https://www.drpsychmom.com/coaching/
For therapy or life coaching, contact us at www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com.
Follow me on TikTok! https://www.tiktok.com/@therealdrpsychmom and YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqLm4xRaUeroBodFc-h4XDQ
Jun 24, 2024 • 18min
The Delusion That You Can Change An Avoidant Man
Listen for my impression of The Young Woman Who Thinks She Can Change The Avoidant Man... such a common archetype that it deserves its own episode! Plus... what to do if you married this guy.
Subscribe if you love the DPM show! https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes! Most recent subscriber episode:
"Which Women Are Okay With Their Husband Having Long Work Hours/Work Travel And Which Aren't!"
For my secret Facebook group, the "best money I've ever spent" according to numerous members, go here! Or click blue subscribe button on my Facebook page. It's $4.99/mo.
For coaching from DPM, visit https://www.drpsychmom.com/coaching/
For therapy or life coaching, contact us at www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com.
Follow me on TikTok! https://www.tiktok.com/@therealdrpsychmom and YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqLm4xRaUeroBodFc-h4XDQ
Jun 22, 2024 • 14min
Sex Isn't A Reward And Which Men And Women Think It Is
I recently wrote a Facebook post saying that if a guy didn't get laid the week after Mother's Day, he probably didn't hit it out of the park the way he imagined he did. Some angry men said that sex shouldn't be a reward. As this was not at all what I meant, it made me think about which men would interpret this post this way and what that framing means for their relationships overall!
Subscribe if you love the DPM show! https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes! Most recent subscriber episode:
"Which Women Are Okay With Their Husband Having Long Work Hours/Work Travel And Which Aren't!"
For my secret Facebook group, the "best money I've ever spent" according to numerous members, go here! Or click blue subscribe button on my Facebook page. It's $4.99/mo.
For coaching from DPM, visit https://www.drpsychmom.com/coaching/
For therapy or life coaching, contact us at www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com.
Follow me on TikTok! https://www.tiktok.com/@therealdrpsychmom and YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqLm4xRaUeroBodFc-h4XDQ
Jun 19, 2024 • 18min
Change After The Honeymoon Stage Is Harder For Highly Sensitive People
This can be a really hard transition if you're an HSP! Listen and learn if you've thought that the decrease in honeymoon stage hormones has been worse for you than your partner or vice versa!
Subscribe if you love the DPM show! https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes! Most recent subscriber episode:
"Which Women Are Okay With Their Husband Having Long Work Hours/Work Travel And Which Aren't!"
For my secret Facebook group, the "best money I've ever spent" according to numerous members, go here! Or click blue subscribe button on my Facebook page. It's $4.99/mo.
For coaching from DPM, visit https://www.drpsychmom.com/coaching/
For therapy or life coaching, contact us at www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com.
Follow me on TikTok! https://www.tiktok.com/@therealdrpsychmom and YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqLm4xRaUeroBodFc-h4XDQ
Jun 14, 2024 • 14min
The Next Question From "Boyfriend Jealous Of Sex Toy" Listener... It's About Erikson's Stages But Is It Really?
Possibly my most interesting episode ever. Gotta listen to her first question and then you'll get a small taste of what insight oriented therapy is all about... I saw a very interesting pattern in what this listener asked and her prior question. People who martyr themselves to difficult partners... this is for you!
Subscribe if you love the DPM show! https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes! Most recent subscriber episode:
"Physiological Variables That Impact How Irritable Your Partner Is... Guess What Is Included."
For my secret Facebook group, the "best money I've ever spent" according to numerous members, go here! Or click blue subscribe button on my Facebook page. It's $4.99/mo.
For coaching from DPM, visit https://www.drpsychmom.com/coaching/
For therapy or life coaching, contact us at www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com.
Follow me on TikTok! https://www.tiktok.com/@therealdrpsychmom and YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqLm4xRaUeroBodFc-h4XDQ
Jun 12, 2024 • 17min
What Men Want From Their Wives
As promised, the companion to the prior episode about what women want!
If you didn't see a healthy marriage growing up, it can be hard to understand what men want. Researching this stuff online can bring you to internet rabbit holes that get you further away from the relationship you want. Today, I discuss what healthy men want from their wives. See how many you already knew and which are new!
Subscribe if you love the DPM show! https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes! Most recent subscriber episode:
"Physiological Variables That Impact How Irritable Your Partner Is... Guess What Is Included."
For my secret Facebook group, the "best money I've ever spent" according to numerous members, go here! Or click blue subscribe button on my Facebook page. It's $4.99/mo.
For coaching from DPM, visit https://www.drpsychmom.com/coaching/
For therapy or life coaching, contact us at www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com.
Follow me on TikTok! https://www.tiktok.com/@therealdrpsychmom and YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqLm4xRaUeroBodFc-h4XDQ
Jun 9, 2024 • 19min
What Women Want From Their Husbands
If you didn't see a healthy marriage growing up, it can be hard to understand what women want. Researching this stuff online can bring you to manosphere rabbit holes that get you further away from the relationship you want. Today, I discuss what healthy women want from their husbands. See how many you already knew and which are new!
Subscribe if you love the DPM show! https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes! Most recent subscriber episode:
"Physiological Variables That Impact How Irritable Your Partner Is... Guess What Is Included."
For my secret Facebook group, the "best money I've ever spent" according to numerous members, go here! Or click blue subscribe button on my Facebook page. It's $4.99/mo.
For coaching from DPM, visit https://www.drpsychmom.com/coaching/
For therapy or life coaching, contact us at www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com.
Follow me on TikTok! https://www.tiktok.com/@therealdrpsychmom and YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqLm4xRaUeroBodFc-h4XDQ
