

Before You Kill Yourself: a suicide prevention podcast.
Leo Flowers
When the pain feels unbearable and we feel alone in our suffering this podcast will sit with you. Let's rediscover our purpose, reduce our pain and regain our sense of belonging. Join comedian Leo Flowers M.A. as he shares his own journey through suicidality, interviews guests with lived experiences and discusses with experts on how to escape the flames and create a life worth living.
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Mar 21, 2022 • 35min
How earthquake drills reduce suicides and the potency of rereading a book 3x's
Today we discuss how surviving an earthquake can teach how to manage emotions of despair, hurt, shame and excitement; potency of rereading a book three times; why labeling someone as resilient, gritty or mentally strong can be harmful for our mental health.

Mar 16, 2022 • 9min
Daylight Savings Time and why you might be crying more than usual
We discuss the impact of Daylight Savings Time on mental health.

Mar 15, 2022 • 57min
Mary C Lamia PhD: Why grief isn't something to get over and how shame plays a roll in suicides
Mary C Lamia PhD joins us to discuss her new book, "Grief Isn't Something To Get Over," and how shame plays a role in suicides. Website: https://marylamia.com/aboutBIO: Mary Lamia, Ph.D., is a clinical psychologist and psychoanalyst who works with adults, couples, adolescents, and preteens in her Marin County private practice. She is a professor at the Wright Institute in Berkeley, California. Extending psychological knowledge to the public has been her endeavor for many years. Lamia's opinion has been sought in hundreds of television, radio, and print media interviews and discussions, and for nearly a decade she hosted a weekly call-in talk show, KidTalk with Dr. Mary, on Radio Disney stations. Her books include: Emotions! Making Sense of Your Feelings; Understanding Myself: A Kid's Guide to Intense Emotions and Strong Feelings; The White Knight Syndrome: Rescuing Yourself From Your Need to Rescue Others; What Motivates Getting Things Done: Procrastination, Emotions, and Sucess; and The Upside of Shame: Therapeutic Interventions Using the Positive Aspects of a "Negative" Emotion.If you want go from feeling hopeless to hopeful, lonely to connected and like a burden to a blessing, then go to 1-on-1 coaching, go to www.thrivewithleo.com. Let’s get to tomorrow, together. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline800-273-TALK [800-273-8255]1-800-SUICIDE [800-784-2433]Teen Line (Los Angeles)800-852-8336The Trevor Project (LGBTQ Youth Hotline)866-488-7386National Domestic Violence Hotline800-799-SAFE [800-799-7233]Crisis Text LineText "Connect" to 741741 in the USALifeline Chathttps://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/chat/International Suicide Hotlines: http://www.suicide.org/international-suicide-hotlines.htmlhttps://www.nowmattersnow.org/skillshttps://sobermeditations.libsyn.com/ www.suicidesafetyplan.com https://scaa.club/

Mar 7, 2022 • 52min
Dr. Saliba: 6 Pillars of Mental Health
Psychiatrist Kahlil Michael Saliba, M. D., earned his medical degree in 1987 from the American University of Beirut. In 2001, Dr. Saliba became a double board certified psychiatrist with the American Board of Psychiatry and Neurology for both Child and Adolescent Psychiatry and General Psychiatry. He practiced psychiatry at Laureate St. Francis for over 10 years. From 2010 to 2017, Dr. Saliba served as the Medical Director of Shadow Mountain Hospital. He has extensive experience in inpatient and outpatient evaluation and treatment of children, adolescent and adults. Dr. Saliba is also especially knowledgeable with ADHD and mood disorders, such as depression and bipolar disorders. As a practicing psychiatrist for over 25 years, Dr. Saliba's passion for medicine comes from his life vocation to help patients and see their lives improve. Dr. Saliba attends to many different mental health conditions, stating, “No issue is too small or too large for this practice to handle.” He sincerely cares for all of his patients. Patient care is the heart of his practice. He has lived with his wife, Dr. Lodie Naimeh, a specialist in Allergy and Immunology, and two children in Tulsa for over twenty years. In his free time Dr. Saliba enjoys running, cycling, and traveling, and is an avid soccer fan. If you want go from feeling hopeless to hopeful, lonely to connected and like a burden to a blessing, then go to 1-on-1 coaching, go to www.thrivewithleo.com. Let’s get to tomorrow, together. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline800-273-TALK [800-273-8255]1-800-SUICIDE [800-784-2433]Teen Line (Los Angeles)800-852-8336The Trevor Project (LGBTQ Youth Hotline)866-488-7386National Domestic Violence Hotline800-799-SAFE [800-799-7233]Crisis Text LineText "Connect" to 741741 in the USALifeline Chathttps://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/chat/International Suicide Hotlines: http://www.suicide.org/international-suicide-hotlines.htmlhttps://www.nowmattersnow.org/skillshttps://sobermeditations.libsyn.com/ www.suicidesafetyplan.com https://scaa.club/

Feb 28, 2022 • 56min
Eric Rogers: Overcoming drug addiction and how "My routine makes it a good day for me."
Eric Rogers, the owner, operator and CEO Of Rogers Fitness Academy, natural born leader and entrepreneur. He is a rare breed and man of many aspirations. Even though fitness and bodybuilding are his absolute passion, there is so much more to him than just a six-pack. Eric has persevered through some of the worst things a person can endure: homelessness, addiction, violence, abuse, mental health disorders, incarceration and more. During his darkest moment, Eric almost ended his own life, which is when he decided to pursue a disciplined life and focus on fitness and nutrition. After battling and conquering some of life's biggest challenges, Eric is now a devoted family man, successful businessman and mentor to others that are struggling and striving to become the best they can be and uses the exact technique that helped him change to change the lives of others.Now his goal is simple, to spread a powerful message: you are what you strive to be IF you put in the time and work. He believes that there is no one more influential in your life than yourself, that your attitude and mentality determines success and that the warrior mentality is one that cannot be broken and discipline is the only thing keeping you from reaching your full potential. Eric maintains that ordinary is not an option! He is here to serve his community in becoming one of strength and ambition.He’d appreciate the opportunity to come on your show, Before You Kill Yourself, to help people heal from their deepest pains because he has been there before. He teaches exactly what helped him overcome all the obstacles he faced. website: https://www.rogersfitnessacademy.com/optin1596990299116If you want go from feeling hopeless to hopeful, lonely to connected and like a burden to a blessing, then go to 1-on-1 coaching, go to www.thrivewithleo.com. Let’s get to tomorrow, together. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline800-273-TALK [800-273-8255]1-800-SUICIDE [800-784-2433]Teen Line (Los Angeles)800-852-8336The Trevor Project (LGBTQ Youth Hotline)866-488-7386National Domestic Violence Hotline800-799-SAFE [800-799-7233]Crisis Text LineText "Connect" to 741741 in the USALifeline Chathttps://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/chat/International Suicide Hotlines: http://www.suicide.org/international-suicide-hotlines.htmlhttps://www.nowmattersnow.org/skillshttps://sobermeditations.libsyn.com/ www.suicidesafetyplan.com https://scaa.club/

Feb 21, 2022 • 48min
Jodie Ellenor - Hidden causes to anxiety and how to heal it holistically
BIO: Jodie is an anxiety expert extraordinaire who helps women heal anxiety holistically so they can spend more time enjoying life and less time fearing it.About her program, Holistic Anxiety Fix is a holistic healing service that focuses on helping women to heal anxiety so that they can embrace life with calm confidence. The program integrates more traditional therapeutic approaches to healing anxiety with modern functional medicine approaches for a truly mind/body experience to healing.If you want go from feeling hopeless to hopeful, lonely to connected and like a burden to a blessing, then go to 1-on-1 coaching, go to www.thrivewithleo.com. Let’s get to tomorrow, together. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline800-273-TALK [800-273-8255]1-800-SUICIDE [800-784-2433]Teen Line (Los Angeles)800-852-8336The Trevor Project (LGBTQ Youth Hotline)866-488-7386National Domestic Violence Hotline800-799-SAFE [800-799-7233]Crisis Text LineText "Connect" to 741741 in the USALifeline Chathttps://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/chat/International Suicide Hotlines: http://www.suicide.org/international-suicide-hotlines.htmlhttps://www.nowmattersnow.org/skillshttps://sobermeditations.libsyn.com/ www.suicidesafetyplan.com https://scaa.club/

Feb 14, 2022 • 52min
Lily Allen-Duenas: Self-care, breathwork and how to exit toxic entanglements
Lily Allen-Duenas is an international yoga teacher, meditation guide, and holistic health and wellness coach. She helps overwhelmed individuals reduce their emotional overload, and find balance, breath, and space for self-care. Lily is the founder of the Wild Yoga Tribe and is the host of the Wild Yoga Tribe podcast. She has taught yoga classes and wellness workshops all over the world. Her journey has led her to a life of flexibility, fluidity, and has fostered a vast reservoir of compassion, curiosity, and creativity. She endeavors to guide others on their path to living a life centered on whole-hearted well-being.The Wild Yoga Tribe Podcast is a weekly podcast that explores the central topics of yoga, the path of yoga, and the global yoga community. Lily Allen-Duenas and her guests have thoughtful, insightful, and authentic conversations, which serve as a catalyst for expansion and connection to the global yoga community. If you want to learn more about the Wild Yoga Tribe Podcast, you can find it here. Tune into the Wild Yoga Tribe podcast on Apple, Spotify, Google Podcasts, and more. Connect with Us!Find the Wild Yoga Tribe online: https://wildyogatribe.com/Instagram: @wildyogatribeTwitter: @wildyogatribeFacebook: @wildyogatribeIf you want go from feeling hopeless to hopeful, lonely to connected and like a burden to a blessing, then go to 1-on-1 coaching, go to www.thrivewithleo.com. Let’s get to tomorrow, together. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline800-273-TALK [800-273-8255]1-800-SUICIDE [800-784-2433]Teen Line (Los Angeles)800-852-8336The Trevor Project (LGBTQ Youth Hotline)866-488-7386National Domestic Violence Hotline800-799-SAFE [800-799-7233]Crisis Text LineText "Connect" to 741741 in the USALifeline Chathttps://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/chat/International Suicide Hotlines: http://www.suicide.org/international-suicide-hotlines.htmlhttps://www.nowmattersnow.org/skillshttps://sobermeditations.libsyn.com/ www.suicidesafetyplan.com https://scaa.club/

Feb 13, 2022 • 33min
Lessons from Sylvia Plath, Jordan Peterson and four reasons to keep livin'
We discuss: Jordan Peterson's 4 reasons not to end your lifeHow medication changes can effect your sleep, mood and behaviorsEffects of medication on 26 year old brainsWhy more energy is not always the best thing5 actions to take when you're medications change

Feb 7, 2022 • 51min
Alonzo Bodden: Addiction to recovery
BIO: Alonzo Bodden is an American comedian and actor known for winning the grand prize in the third season of the reality-television series Last Comic Standing. He had been the runner-up in the previous season. In 2007, he released his DVD Tall, Dark and Funny. He shares his journey through addiction to sobriety. If you want go from feeling hopeless to hopeful, lonely to connected and like a burden to a blessing, then go to 1-on-1 coaching, go to www.thrivewithleo.com. Let’s get to tomorrow, together. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline800-273-TALK [800-273-8255]1-800-SUICIDE [800-784-2433]Teen Line (Los Angeles)800-852-8336The Trevor Project (LGBTQ Youth Hotline)866-488-7386National Domestic Violence Hotline800-799-SAFE [800-799-7233]Crisis Text LineText "Connect" to 741741 in the USALifeline Chathttps://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/chat/International Suicide Hotlines: http://www.suicide.org/international-suicide-hotlines.htmlhttps://www.nowmattersnow.org/skillshttps://sobermeditations.libsyn.com/ www.suicidesafetyplan.com https://scaa.club/

Jan 31, 2022 • 1h 36min
Zach Westerbeck: Managing intrusive thoughts and how to light yourself up instead of burning yourself out.
Author, college success coach and speaker joins me to discuss his book, "You're Not Alone: The only book you'll ever need to overcome anxiety and depression.Website: https://zachwesterbeck.com/press/We discuss:managing OCDunknown use for meditationreducing intrusive thoughtshow to cope with a brain that is "betraying you"why you're not "weak, weird or different"why exhaustion and being wired is so painfulwhy feeling like "there's no way out" is a great place to startusing (ERP) Exposure Response Prevention for unwanted and obsessive thoughtswhy therapy and meditation does work"Brain Health Blueprint"how to detach from the outcomefind out if you're pouring water or gasoline on the fire


