Sounds Fake But Okay

Hey what's up hello! This week we chat with David Jay (and a second mystery guest) about having a child and parenting as an asexual person. We also discuss David's three parent household and the Equality Act.Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/asexual-parenting    Ace discrimination video submission: https://bit.ly/acediscrimination    Tavi's favorite Mongolian metal band: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jM8dCGIm6yc    Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod    Follow: @soundsfakepod    Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt    www.soundsfakepod.comBuy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book

Hey what's up hello! This week we list out just a few things that people on the asexual and aromantic spectrums DON'T OWE YOU!Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/things-that-aspecs-dont-owe-you   Our new P.O. Boxes:Kayla KaszycaP.O. Box 2303Baton Rouge, LA 70821Sarah CostelloP.O. Box 16453North Hollywood, CA 91615Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod    Follow: @soundsfakepod    Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt    www.soundsfakepod.comBuy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book

Hey what's up hello! This week we take a dive into the long history of bi/ace solidarity. We explore how our communities interacted in the past and what they are doing to support each other in the present.Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/bi-ace-solidarity     Bi/Ace Solidarity Tumblr Masterpost: https://autismserenity.tumblr.com/post/142035894961/the-acesaros-were-part-of-the-bi-community-until     Slate Care and Feeding Article: https://slate.com/human-interest/2021/01/capitol-riot-nephew-legal-aid-care-and-feeding.html   Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod    Follow: @soundsfakepod    Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt    www.soundsfakepod.comBuy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book

Hey what's up hello! This week, Sarah takes the ultimate test. Does she know Kayla better than her boyfriend Dean does? Listen to find out.Episode transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/boyfriend-vs-best-friend  Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod    Follow: @soundsfakepod    Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt    www.soundsfakepod.comBuy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book

Hey what's up hello! This week we talk about how asexuality is viewed in both the medical and mental health world. We take a look at the DSM-5 and discuss hypoactive sexual desire disorder.Episode transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/medicalization-of-asexuality    Articles/posts mentioned in this episode:- http://www.asexualityarchive.com/asexuality-in-the-dsm-5/      - https://www.asexuality.org/en/topic/206722-re-my-mom-pushed-me-to-bring-up-my-asexuality-at-a-doctor-appointment-late-and-looong-update/?tab=comments#comment-1064090994    - https://www.asexuality.org/en/topic/157750-should-i-tell-my-therapist-that-im-asexual/    Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod    Follow: @soundsfakepod    Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt    www.soundsfakepod.comBuy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book

Hey what's up hello! For our last episode of 2020, we will be naming someone the Allo of the Year. Listen as we read this year's weirdest stories about sex and romance and try to figure out if the allos are actually okay.Episode transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/allo-of-the-year    Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod    Follow: @soundsfakepod    Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt    www.soundsfakepod.comBuy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book

Hey what's up hello! This week we are excited to have our amazing friend Perry on as a guest. We chat with Perry about Dungeons and Dragons and the potential it has to let you explore your identity.Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/dungeons-and-dragons     Listen to Into the Gridge: https://anchor.fm/intothegridge   Follow Perry: @perryfier0   Check out Perry's Twitch: https://www.twitch.tv/swamswimswum   Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod    Follow: @soundsfakepod    Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt    www.soundsfakepod.comBuy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book

Hey what's up hello! As we've always said, there are just too many songs about romance and sex. So today, we take it upon ourselves to rewrite popular romance songs to be about anything else.Episode Transcript: soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/rewriting-songs-about-romance-and-sex     Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod    Follow: @soundsfakepod    Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt    www.soundsfakepod.comBuy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book

Hey what's up hello! This week we take a page from Billie Eilish's book and we begin the journey of recording the same podcast episode and answering the same questions every year. Buckle in, it gets emo.Responding to Asexual Hate Comments: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LHho-Sz02h4     Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/same-podcast-one-year-apart-the-first-year   Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod    Follow: @soundsfakepod    Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt    www.soundsfakepod.comBuy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book

Hey what's up hello! As November comes to an end, we reflect on the ever-present No Nut November. What's the point of this challenge? Who participates? And what does it tell us about how the world views sex?Episode transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/no-nut-november     Register for Dream Glow Magazine's free "Glow Up: BTS Fandom and Professional Development" event: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdI-W6PVRtJnJ0tHbBeOZneT5j5-79jaLB9cTfhb1bpVUy3Rg/viewform    Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod    Follow: @soundsfakepod    Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt    www.soundsfakepod.comBuy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book