
Sounds Fake But Okay
A podcast where an aromantic asexual girl and a biromantic demisexual girl talk about all things to do with love, relationships, sexuality, and pretty much anything else that they just don't understand.
Latest episodes

Jun 29, 2025 • 1h 3min
Ep 350: Pride 2025 and Biphobia
Hey what's up hello! As June wraps up, we reflect on Pride 2025 - the lack of corporate pride, aspecs at pride events, and rampant biphobia. And do we get a little bit off topic sometimes? Of course we do.See you in August!Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/pride-2025-and-biphobia Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.comBuy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book

Jun 22, 2025 • 50min
Ep 349: Could Changing for a Crush Be a Good Thing?
Hey what's up hello! This week we look at examples of times when changing your interests or look for the sake of a crush actually turned out to be a good thing. We know it's shocking and gross, but could changing yourself for a crush actually be good??Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/could-changing-for-a-crush-be-a-good-thing Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.comBuy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book

Jun 15, 2025 • 59min
Ep 348: Choose Your Own Adventure
Hey what's up hello! This week we play romance and dating choose your own adventure stories on chooseyourstory.com! Spoiler alert: it goes about as well as you think it will.Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/choose-your-own-adventure Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.comBuy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book

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Jun 8, 2025 • 55min
Ep 347: Can Womanhood and Aspec Identities Coexist?
This week, the discussion tackles the clash between societal views of womanhood and asexual and aromantic identities. Can gender be truly separated from sexuality? The hosts explore what it means to be a woman when desire is absent, all while sharing personal anecdotes. They also dive into the nostalgia of female friendships through the lens of American Girl dolls, questioning traditional narratives and celebrating inclusivity. With a mix of humor and insightful reflections, the conversation challenges stereotypes in a relatable way.

May 25, 2025 • 1h 7min
Ep 346: Reddit Rabbit Hole (AITA) pt. 17
Hey what's up hello! We are back and so are the people who make so many bad decisions and then post about them on Reddit.Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/reddit-rabbit-hole-aita-pt-17 Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.comBuy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book

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May 18, 2025 • 1h 7min
Ep 345: Pets Boost Wellbeing More Than Partners
This week, the hosts dive into a study claiming that pets can boost well-being as much as romantic partners! They hilariously dissect the research's questionable math while sharing personal anecdotes about pet companionship. The conversation shifts to the emotional and economic benefits of pets, and they ponder the complexities of measuring love. Expect laughs over quirky pet stories, such as a lizard at a gender reveal party, and reflections on the joys and challenges of cat care. It's a playful yet insightful look at the pets in our lives!

May 11, 2025 • 60min
Ep 344: Portalmania by Debbie Urbanski
Hey what's up hello! This week we're joined by Debbie Urbanski to talk about her excellent collection of short stories, Portalmania. Portalmania dives bravely into the shadowy depths of betrayal, parenthood, revenge, murder, coercive sex, open marriages, asexuality, neurodiversity, and second chances.Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/portalmania-by-debbie-urbanski Pre-order here: https://bookshop.org/p/books/portalmania-stories-debbie-urbanski/21872872?aid=101336&ean=9781668061114&listref=books-by-our-lovely-guestsDebbie's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/debbieurbanskiDebbie's Substack: https://debbieurbanski.substack.com/Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.comBuy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/bookBuy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book

May 4, 2025 • 54min
Ep 343: On Queer Women Loving Boy Bands
Hey what's up hello! This week we discuss the phenomenon of queer women loving boy bands and yell from the mountaintops about how you can be a boy band fan without finding any of the band members attractive!!!Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/on-queer-women-loving-boy-bands Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.comBuy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book

Apr 27, 2025 • 54min
Ep 342: Listener Lore pt. 4
Hey what's up hello! This week we're reading some more lore submitted by our listeners.Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/listener-lore-pt-4 Submit your lore: https://forms.gle/zHQTVVZRACvxmgFn8 Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.comBuy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/bookBuy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book

Apr 20, 2025 • 50min
Ep 341: Trans Aspec Solidarity
Hey what's up hello! This week we discuss the overlap between transphobia and aphobia and the importance of trans aspec solidarity.TW: transphobiaEpisode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/trans-aspec-solidarity Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.comBuy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book