

Sounds Fake But Okay
Sounds Fake But Okay
A podcast where an aromantic asexual girl and a biromantic demisexual girl talk about all things to do with love, relationships, sexuality, and pretty much anything else that they just don't understand.
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Dec 7, 2025 • 1h 6min
Ep 368: Same Podcast, One Year Apart (The Sixth Year)
Hey what's up hello! For our last episode of the year we're returning to our annual tradition of recording the same episode one year apart, a la the Billie Eilish Vanity Fair interviews.Thank you for another fantastic year! We are so grateful for you all and will be back in your ears in 2026!Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/same-podcast-one-year-apart-the-fifth-year Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.comBuy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book

Nov 30, 2025 • 55min
Ep 367: Aromanticism and Asexuality at Work
Hey what's up hello! This week we talk about what it's like being aromantic or asexual at work. We discuss whether being aspec puts you at a disadvantage when trying to bond with coworkers and the pros and cons of coming out at work.Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/aromanticism-and-asexuality-at-work Article on benevolent intentions toward coworkers: https://www.nature.com/articles/s41599-025-05963-w Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.comBuy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book

Nov 23, 2025 • 57min
Ep 366: Writing Aspecs
Hey what's up hello! This week we look at harrowing posts from r/menwritingwomen and talk about what it takes for straight people to successfully write queer characters and for allos to successfully write aspec characters.Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/writing-aspecs Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.comBuy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book

Nov 16, 2025 • 55min
Ep 365: Sex in Horror Movies (feat. Stepdean)
Hey what's up hello! This week we're talking about spooky horror movies. Why do the characters who have sex always get killed? And what does it mean? Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/sex-in-horror-movies-feat-stepdean Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.comBuy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book

Nov 9, 2025 • 56min
Ep 364: Are Single Folks Punished Financially?
Hey what's up hello! This week we're talking about ~money~, and the evergreen question: are aspecs, single folks, and those in non-normative relationships punished financially in our society for their way of life? Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/are-single-folks-punished-financially Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.comBuy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book

Nov 2, 2025 • 57min
Ep 363: Reddit Rabbit Hole (AITA) pt. 20
Hey what's up hello! We're back on Reddit, and you can't stop us.Content warning: graphic descriptions of poop and unhygienic behavior (we’re so sorry)Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/reddit-rabbit-hole-aita-pt-20 Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.comBuy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/bookBuy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book

Oct 26, 2025 • 55min
Ep 362: Listener Lore pt. 6
Hey what's up hello! More listener lore m'lord? This week we've got large game, horrifying gifts from crushes, pepper spray, annoying dudebros, and more!Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/listener-lore-pt-6 Submit Your Lore: https://forms.gle/rYVDYf4em9dexwvd7 Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.comBuy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book

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Oct 19, 2025 • 58min
Ep 361: Tops, Bottoms, and Queer Heteronormativity
This week dives into the complexities of queer heteronormativity, focusing on top and bottom dynamics. The hosts unpack a Twitter debate on tagging these roles in fanfic, questioning whether such labels reinforce traditional gender norms. They explore the fluidity of sexual roles and the motivations behind rigid expectations in fandom. Personal anecdotes and reflections add a relatable touch, while a comparison of tagging in fanfic to traditional book ratings highlights the ongoing conversation about content warnings.

Oct 12, 2025 • 57min
Ep 360: True Love's Kiss and the Science of Kissing
Hey what's up hello! This week we discuss the mythos of "true love's first kiss," why it's a lazy plot device, and why humans like kissing so dang much in the first place.Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/true-loves-kiss-and-the-science-of-kissing Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.comBuy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book

Oct 5, 2025 • 54min
Ep 359: Reddit Rabbit Hole (AITA) pt. 19
Hey what's up hello! We're back with Reddit stories about hair bears, vegan drama, and picking up the check. Plus, a passionate rant about Magic 8 Balls.Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/reddit-rabbit-hole-aita-pt-19 Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.comBuy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book


