The Patrick Madrid Show

Patrick marvels at the eye-popping $2.2 billion gross from Taylor Swift‘s recent Eras tour, which leads a broader conversation on the influence of music and its moral implications. Discussing iconic artists like Paul McCartney and Coldplay, Patrick explores the emotional and physiological effects of music, offering thoughtful insights grounded in a Christian perspective.   Good news: Nativity scene displayed at US Capitol for first time in history (00:43) Taylor Swift’s Eras Tour ends by shattering own record, grossing an estimated $2.2B (14:53) Robert - Taylor Swift's music has some elements contrary to the Catholic faith. What is your take on the secular music industry? (22:15) Cody - If mortal sin kills the soul, how can a person desire to go to Confession? Does that not kill that part of their soul? (35:07) Aaron - Screamo music: I think there is a place for this music. Longing for God's righteous judgment. (41:17) Joe - Taylor Swift gave $179 million in bonuses to her crew. (48:02)

Patrick discusses the allure and challenges of wealth, highlighted by Taylor Swift's massive $2.2 billion tour revenue. He shifts focus to what true success means, emphasizing faith and generosity. Callers like Kathy and Iris share insights on the power of prayers and moral choices, even when they strain family relationships.   Kathy – God can use the prayers of other people to encourage someone to seek reconciliation. (07:37) Iris - I had family conflict over Taylor Swift tickets to this tour and I realized how seriously some people take it. (09:49) Mary Lou - Taylor Swift music points to how romantic love shouldn't be dismissed. My not be best moral example, but romantic love in the light of God is very important. (23:58) Linda – The show I’m watching took God's name in vain. When something like this happens, I turn it off. (35:28) Richard - If Jesus asked you to play your favorite song in heaven, what would his face look like in heaven if you played Screamo? Also, what does incense symbolize. (45:57)

Original Air Date: 12/05 Hour 3 Patrick engages in an emotionally charged conversation with a mother who has returned to her faith after a turbulent past. She shares her heart-wrenching struggle with her 34-year-old daughter who just found out the mom had an abortion. Despite her sincere repentance and renewed life, the daughter remains haunted by doubt and pain. Patrick offers compassionate counsel, emphasizing the transformative power of love, forgiveness, and faith.   Anthem Blue Cross Blue Shield to cap anesthesia coverage after certain time frame (00:30) Australia Has Barred Everyone Under 16 From Social Media. Will It Work? (11:50) Daniel - I am a flight dispatcher and it’s important to consider many factors before the plane goes into the air (20:46) Sharon - I had 3 abortions in my 20’s and my ex-husband told our daughter about it. What should I do? (25:08) Michael - When I was flying they weighed each person and distributed them so the plane wasn't unevenly weighted. (37:54) Mary Lou - Legislation in Australia that was too strict about social media: I think it came from a documentary about kids being bullied into committing suicide. It was called Charlotte's Wish. (40:03) Megan - The woman who was calling in shouldn't lose hope. I was the daughter of a woman who had an abortion. Eventually, we did heal. (47:10)

Patrick addresses a tough topic many face: addiction, specifically porn addiction. He reads an email from a listener struggling with this issue and feeling profoundly alone. Patrick’s message is clear: you are not alone. God loves you, and Relevant Radio is here to support you. The path to healing involves seeking professional counseling and spiritual guidance. Together, with prayer and community, true transformation happens. Keep listening, stay hopeful, and know that help is always available.   Email – Porn addiction: It’s not as easy to quite as you’ve implied (01:00) Patrick offers some resources for those battling porn addiction (18:00) Email - I started looking at porn at 11 years old and I climbed out of that morass through spiritual warfare. Lia – We don’t allow our kids to have phones. I have to deal with “mom shame” from other parents. (29:11) Mary Ellen - I support the caller not providing a phone for her teenager. I regret giving my youngest a phone. It hasn't been good for him, and it robs kids of the present moment. (38:36)

Patrick speaks with Kiva, a 17-year-old who has never had a phone. Her Catholic family prioritizes real-life interactions and values. From attending Latin Mass to ballroom dancing, their choices bring genuine joy and connection instead of digital distractions. Kiva’s experience highlights the benefits of living intentionally and may inspire parents to rethink giving smartphones to their children.   Al (email) - I quit porn cold turkey and did it at first by myself. I don't know if I could have kept it up by myself. Something has to fill the void. I chose Relevant Radio and have been growing every day. It's been 5 years. (00:31) Richard (email) - When I pray the rosary, do I have the pray the five mysteries within each day every time I pray the rosary? Or can I just pray one within each (joyful, sorrowful, glorious, luminous) every day? (01:55) Kiva (17-years-old) - I have never had a phone. (07:07) Nick – We have a 14-year-old and 16-year-old. My son is finding it hard to get his friends off their phones to play football. (17:21) John - When I was tempted by pornography, I would pray. Eventually the desires went away. (24:09) Maria - I have a grandson who is 11 and I gave him a cell phone but ended up taking it away. He now uses a smart watch to communicate and to keep track of him. It’s a great way to avoid phone use. (26:25) Katie - I have 6 kids, and we have a shared phone for the entire family. We try to minimize our phone usage but I still feel it is useful. We don’t want to depend on the phone for everything. (29:52) Rachel - My mom tried to do everything right, but we were still exposed to some bad things. (35:28) Steve - I gave my kid a smart phone at 11. The parental controls do have pitfalls. (41:36) Monica - Our younger son didn’t have a phone. Colleges asked him for his social media accounts, but he didn’t have a social media footprint. (44:53) Heidi – I’m reading The Devout Life by St. Francis de Sales. Can you speak a little about evil friendships? My husband thinks we can keep these friendships to bring them to Christ but I am concerned about their bad influence. (46:18)

Patrick discusses maintaining true friendships and avoiding harmful ones. Referencing St. Francis de Sales' "Introduction to the Devout Life," Patrick talks about the importance of choosing friends who align with your values to protect your moral integrity. Learn why keeping a safe distance from negative influences is crucial for your spiritual well-being.   Patrick continues his conversation with Heidi from the end of the last hour about how to handle unhealthy friendships (00:46) Anne - If you put a white glove in mud, the mud doesn't get glovier. It is important to choose good friends. I wish I had isolated my kids more. (14:46) Courtney (email) – What is your advice to living with parents or siblings who are a corrupting influence, given that we also have responsibilities towards our family members? (18:40) Richard - People need to watch what gets into their brain. Once the brain absorbs the bad it is hard to get rid of it. (27:12) Robert - Is it real or demonic when family members appear in dreams? (28:58) Jason – I have friends seeking God, but they don’t believe in Christ's divinity. How can I help my friends understand? (36:36) Rick - I didn't let my kids have phones until high school. We saw a lot of problems with their friends who had smartphones. (40:11) Joshua – Is Catholic counseling okay if it’s over the phone? (44:14) Andrea - Can you speak about Pope Francis and Baby Jesus wearing a keffiyeh (scarf). It is Palestinian. What do you think? (46:33)

Patrick answers questions about the validity of mass from home, fasting before Communion, Church's teaching on True Presence and importance of feast days in the Church.   Patrick answers email questions about valid mass from home, why we believe Mary was immaculately conceived and why some bishops are not valid in certain rites of the Church.   Julie - What is the reason behind fasting an hour before Holy Communion? Can I have coffee and donuts after mass?   Patrick takes a deep dive in explaining the importance of belief in the True Presence and why the Church says the Eucharist is truly Jesus.   Michael - How does the Church decide to move feast days on the calendar?

Patrick answers an email about receiving communion in mortal sin and responds to Stacy's question about attending the baby shower of an unmarried parents. This led to a discussion on diaper brands, cloth diapering and pro-life organizations that support life. Patrick shares the testimony of actor Rainn Wilson on believing in God, talks about the difference between Protestants and Catholics and Orthodox Rites of the faith.   Patrick answers an email about receiving Eucharist in mortal sin.   Stacy – I have been invited to a baby shower for a non-married couple. Is it ok for me to attend and give a gift?   Rick – You should go to the baby shower and love that couple to show the love of Jesus so they don’t turn away from God. How can we be witnesses if we don’t go things like this?   Christine- Did the apostles go to confession before receiving Communion at the Last Supper?   Patrick shares Rainn Wilson testimony that atheism doesn’t make sense.   Matthew - What is the difference between Protestants and Catholics?   Patrick and Sarah talk cloth and disposable diapers and pro-life companies   Cecilia- Is the Roman Catholic Church (the Latin Church) the first Church? How do we know that the Eastern Orthodox wasn’t first and the Latin Rite just branched?  

Patrick discusses vestment protocol at Notre Dame in France, the Orthodox Church, transfer of Holy Days of Obligation, the fact that every hundred years the Earth gets new people, HAL 9000 spoof and more.   Bobby - Opening mass at Notre Dame Cathedral. Where did they get those multicolored vestments from?   Omar - The Orthodox Church is not really a Church as a whole. Really a bunch of Churches that are not in Communion with each other.   Greg – Is today a holy day of obligation since the feast was transferred from Sunday?   Chris – How do we talks with Protestants about Eucharist, Confession and Authority? It seems like there are heresies, the Church hasn't dealt with in the past.   Patrick played audio from a man talking about how we have to try and get along and a spoof off 2001 Space Odyssey   Pete – I want to debate on whether humanity deserves what we get in this life when it comes to technology.   Dave – Hal the computer. The letters H, A, and L, precede IBM. Coincidence?

Patrick discusses a fascinating and often misunderstood topic: genealogical research through the lens of Catholic beliefs. He is asked whether it's appropriate for Catholics to use FamilySearch.org, a genealogy website operated by the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints (LDS), commonly known as the Mormon Church. Patrick explains the theological implications of Mormon practices related to family history, including "eternal progression" and proxy baptisms, and provides a detailed explanation of the LDS Church’s approach to genealogies. He also outlines the moral considerations Catholics should take into account when deciding whether to use such resources.   Jim (email) – Is it okay to search your family history that is operated by LDS? (01:35) Patrick explains why Mormons are so keen on genealogy (10:08) Cyrus - How do you know so much about Mormon history? Do they wear special underwear? Do they store supplies in case of a cataclysmic event? (19:06) Joe - Is the Holy Spirit referenced in the Old Testament? (44:26)