The Patrick Madrid Show

David - President Trump is a secular authority. Pope Francis is leader of the Church and to criticize him would be short sighted and we need as Catholics to have our priorities straight. (1:27) Frank - The culture wars in America are based on Catholic Christian values. (19:16) Joe - At the wedding at Cana, Jesus addresses Mary as 'Woman'. Would the servants have understood this as 'Eve'? (21:35) Amy - My daughter is thinking of working for Focus and that would take her away for 2 years for service work. How can I help her? (25:45) Paul - Pope Francis said we are unstable. Is this something a pope should say? (39:01) Christine – There were times I really wanted to do something, but the door was shut. God showed me the blessings from this. (46:31)

Audio: DNA uses an alphabet to spell who you are (1:32) Nick – Even when I was an atheist, I couldn’t get past the idea that I’m a biological fluke (8:45) Patrick reads and responds to an email thanking him for suggesting The Walton’s (19:23) Allison - In-laws are not Catholic, but my mother-in-law wants a Catholic funeral? (25:43) Blake - My mother-in-law is Evangelical. How do I explain to my kids why their grandma doesn't go to Mass with us? (31:40) Nate - What happens to people who don’t have chance to hear about the Gospel? Can they go to heaven? (37:38) Bruce - Have you heard of 'Your Perfect Right'? (48:27)

Patrick discusses the dangers of a boyfriend and girlfriend living together and that parents need to keep strong to try to persuade their children from doing that.  Two people share their stories of living together before marriage and the unfortunate consequences that resulted from that.  Michael emails Patrick about the “O My Jesus” prayer in response to praying for people like Cecile Richards of Planned Parenthood (0:44) Jo asks advice from Patrick on what to do if her daughter is considering living together with her boyfriend. (3:41) Araceli shares her story about living together with her boyfriend and never getting married (20:26) Maria got married in Church after 4 years of living together, but marriage ended after 30 years (35:37) Jessica shared her story of living together not in marriage but is now living a life of faith (49:18)

Patrick helps a caller who wants to understand the Trinity.  Patrick talks with a caller shares his story of redemption after he caused a marriage to fail but is now living as a devout Catholic. And he counsels a listener who is going through a bad time in her life and that there are people who would be able to help her.  Robert -Can you help me understand the trinity better? What does it mean that there are three persons in the trinity? (0:37) Andrew -shares his story of conversion as he was that manipulative and bad husband but changed his life and is living his life as a devout Catholic (16:42) Bryce-How might I separate my household from one side of my family who has not been good for my family (28:00) Marion-I have gone through a really hard year and I am very sad what should I do? (38:12) Anne-I heard that the Jews need to convert before the end of the world. is that true? (43:38) Resources: The Trinity:  https://www.cuapress.org/9780813234830/the-trinity/ The Incarnate Lord: https://www.cuapress.org/9780813230092/the-incarnate-lord/ Theology and Sanity:  https://ignatius.com/theology-and-sanity-thasp/ Legacy by Steve Woods: https://www.amazon.com/Legacy-Fathers-Handbook-Raising-Children/dp/0972757139 Good Pictures Bad Pictures: https://holyheroes.com/products/good-pictures-bad-pictures?srsltid=AfmBOoo63FTJYBFvW1Du36K4NiJ1IhRpmhwWH2YUlCJ-J49IMVAtDST2 Good Pictures Bad Pictures Jr:  https://holyheroes.com/products/good-pictures-bad-pictures-jr?srsltid=AfmBOorj43WgzEitTIku56f-iWVKQNuVnhIbqJPWHiiq8FQz0bN7er90

Patrick answers questions about confession where a priest talks about a specific confession during a homily and also about the importance of mass compared to protestants.  Steve-What are the limits of disclosing confession? A priest during the homily said that a woman in confession the other day told him something. That seemed pretty explicit. (0:37) Stuart-When did the protestants stop saying the mass? (11:28) Emailer has developed feelings of attachment to her priest and is wondering how to explain change of parish to her friends?  (21:37) Gee-I am tried to raise my son Catholic. He told me he was moving to live with a woman but she looks like a trans person. What should I do? (33:16) Charlotte-Read a book, The Gift of Love by Joel S. Goldsmith. Just wondering if you've heard of this book or have any information on it? It’s a non-Catholic book (35:10) Connie-My son came over the other day and said the new Pope has approved gay priests. I looked it up and I don't understand what all this means. Can you explain? (37:19) Marie-Translation of the Our father. In the section where it says give us this day our daily bread, that word in Greek means super substantial, not daily. Why not use a different term? (45:08) Resources:  Characters of the Reformation: https://ignatius.com/characters-of-the-reformation-chrep/

Patrick shares what to do in a situation that conflicts with morals especially in regards to the gender situation and to hold firm in your beliefs.  He also discusses the importance of Catholics dating Catholics as opposed to a mixed relationship.  And callers share situations in Church were people are acting up during mass and adoration and Patrick gives advice on what to do.  Brooke emails Patrick about complying with gender affirming care for graduation and if it’s moral (1:10) Michael emails Patrick about his daughter getting married to a Protestant and doesn’t plan to pay for the wedding because she’s not getting married in the Church (10:32) Al asks Patrick about ashes around someone’s neck (20:51) Al asks Patrick about swearing in Church (24:53) Len emails Patrick about an adult acting up at mass as someone was too loud (28:46) Teresa on what to do with kids running around adoration chapel (36:47) Pete asks if sports have been corrupted because of casinos and gambling (44:22)

Patrick counsels a listener about gift giving and what to do when it comes with a condition.  He also gives advice about Natural Family Planning and when it’s okay and not okay to use it.  He gives his thoughts on dinosaurs as well.  Patrick talks about the dangerous fertility rates around the world (9:04) Megan-Do I have a right to give gifts to my adult children that comes with a condition? I gifted them with some money and asked them to give some of it to a life affirming pregnancy center. They didn't like it. (9:13) Nicolas  emails Patrick what does he think about a priest says “sisters and brothers” in the liturgy (9:28) Emailer asks Patrick when is it licit to practice NFP (9:31) Todd My son was very involved in his Catholic Faith but then married an evangelical and he left the Church. They now don't want to baptize their child. What should we do?  (9:38) Sam Why were dinosaurs not mentioned in the Bible and why did God create them? (9:48) Resources mentioned:  https://fortune.com/2025/01/19/top-economies-population-collapse-fertility-rates-china-us-debt-gdp-growth/ The Divine Comedy by Dante:  https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/545486/the-divine-comedy-by-dante-alighieri/ Hope Reborn (Drug Rehab Center): https://www.hopereborn.org/ Surprised by Truth: https://tanbooks.com/products/books/surprised-by-truth-11-converts-give-the-biblical-and-historical-reasons-for-becoming-catholic/?gc_id=17487855346&gad_source=1&gclid=Cj0KCQiAhbi8BhDIARIsAJLOlufeooj9Uq_HYfepdvpZTYeSBdKcIMMcQp_WnAZHHBbirrm04G7oQycaAhzTEALw_wcB

Patrick talks about the gifts of the spirit in regards to 1 Corinthians 12 and also the importance of praying for everybody, including those who’ve done harm in the world.   Bridget asks if it’s okay to go to a birthday party on a Sunday (3:04) Lane wants to know the connection between 1 Corinthians 12 about the Gifts of the Holy Spirit and the Wedding Feast of Cana (4:38) Patrick goes on a deep dive on the spiritual gifts mentioned in 1 Corinthians 12 including talking about the gift of tongues (10:12) Mary Lou asks What is the difference between legalism vs telling someone the truth about the faith and morality and being rigid (14:12) Gianni-Why should we pray for Cecille Richards who was a bad person? There are plenty of good people to pray for? (22:31) Albert-If gifts come from the Lord, are they blessed? (29:23) Patricio-5 yo granddaughter is asking me how do you know God exists? (37:25) Bolek Many came dressed in sandals and short to wedding mass. what do you think of this? (42:44) Matt-John 17:21- Jesus prays we will all be one - What does it mean? is that still to come? (46:38) Resources:  Pope St. John Paul II’s Apostolic Letter on the importance of the Sabbath:  https://www.vatican.va/content/john-paul-ii/en/apost_letters/1998/documents/hf_jp-ii_apl_05071998_dies-domini.html

Alright, friends, here’s the gist of Patrick Madrid’s conversation with Ken from Wisconsin about Confirmation sponsors: do they really need to be in good standing with the Church?   What’s the Job of a Sponsor Anyway?   Patrick says to think of a Confirmation sponsor (or a godparent) as a spiritual guide. They’re supposed to help the person they’re sponsoring grow closer to Jesus and the Church. But if a sponsor isn’t living their own faith: like, say, skipping Mass or being lax about Church teachings, then… how can they guide anyone else?    As Patrick explained, the Church has basic rules for sponsors. Here’s a quick checklist:   -Must be baptized and confirmed in the Catholic Church.   -Should be living their faith (like, actually going to Mass on Sundays).   -If married, they must be married in the Church.   -Can’t be the parent of the person being baptized/confirmed.   Ken’s Situation    Ken shared a tricky situation: one of his OCIA (Order of Christian Initiation for Adults) students picked her uncle as her sponsor. Sounds fine, right? Well, turns out the uncle doesn’t really go to Mass. Uh-oh.   Patrick was super thoughtful here. He pointed out that this isn’t just about checking a box. Being a sponsor isn’t a ceremonial role; it’s a real responsibility! A sponsor is meant to guide someone to heaven, not just wave from the pews on Easter Vigil. If this uncle isn’t practicing his faith, then... what exactly is he "sponsoring"?    The Gentle Fix: What Would Patrick Do?   Patrick encouraged Ken to handle this with love and respect: no finger-wagging or guilt trips here.    Educate gently: Ken can explain the importance of a sponsor’s role during class, so it doesn’t feel like he’s calling out Uncle Mass-Skipper directly.   Encourage a comeback: Patrick explains that maybe the uncle just doesn’t realize how serious this role is. It could even inspire him to start going to Mass again. Imagine: he helps his niece AND rekindles his own faith. That’s a win-win!    What We Can Take Away From This?   Sponsors matter! They should be role models in faith, not just placeholders.   Sometimes people need a loving nudge to take their faith seriously.   God can use situations like this to bring people back to Him. Never underestimate His grace!    So, moral of the story? If you’re ever asked to be a sponsor, don’t just say yes for the photo-op. Live the role. Go to Mass, pray, grow in your faith, and help guide someone else toward Christ. 

Samantha from Ohio shared her struggle with a deeply personal family issue: her brother, who now claims to be a "trans woman," and the challenge of lovingly but firmly setting boundaries for the sake of her young daughters' innocence. Patrick's advice? Classic Madrid: truthful, compassionate, and anchored in Catholic teaching. Here's the recap:   The Situation:   Samantha, a busy mom of two girls under two, loves her brother but doesn't agree with him.   Her big question: How do I protect my kids' innocence while staying compassionate toward my brother?   She doesn’t want to expose her daughters to confusion (or have to explain why "Uncle is dressed like Auntie") but is struggling with how to tell her brother he’s not invited to family gatherings like her daughter’s first birthday.   Patrick’s Wisdom:    Protect Your Kids First: He says that Samantha's instincts are 100% right. As a parent, her first responsibility is to protect her daughters. Patrick reminded her that she’ll have to answer to God someday for how she raised them and shielding them from confusion is an act of love.    Truth Over Delusion: Patrick stressed the importance of calling things what they are. A man claiming to be a woman is still a man. Period. (Matthew 19:4: "In the beginning, God made them male and female.")   Society may push false terms like "trans woman," but using them only feeds the delusion. Patrick adds that it's like telling an anorexic person they're fat when they’re dangerously thin: it doesn’t help them. Truth, even when it's hard, is the most loving approach.    Love + Boundaries: You can be loving without compromising on truth. Whether through a thoughtful letter or a face-to-face conversation, Samantha should show truth with charity.   Example: “I love you, but I won’t expose my daughters to ideas that contradict reality. I hope you understand.”   If he reacts badly? That’s on him, not her. Seeds of truth often take time to grow.    Books to Help: Patrick suggested two excellent reads for understanding this cultural madness:   When Harry Became Sally by Ryan T. Anderson 📖   Trans by Helen Joyce    Samantha’s Response:   Samantha plans to either write a heartfelt letter (because who doesn’t love old-school snail mail?) or have a tough but loving conversation. She shared that she’s already told her brother she won’t affirm his delusion, but now it’s time to be firmer about her boundaries.    Takeaway for Us All:   This is the kind of challenge many Catholic families are facing today. The culture may be in chaos, but as Patrick reminded us, truth doesn’t change. God made us male and female and affirming reality: compassionately but firmly, is an act of love.    So, if you’re in a similar boat:   Pray. Ask for wisdom and courage.   Be firm. Love isn’t afraid to set boundaries.   Stay compassionate. Speak truth but do it with gentleness and kindness.   Drop a prayer for Samantha, her family, and her brother.