The Patrick Madrid Show

Is December 25th really Jesus’ birthday? Patrick answers this and also addresses a real-life dilemma about attending a Christmas celebration hosted by a family member living in sin. The answer rests in balancing faith and family with grace and an informed conscience.   Patrick continues his conversation with Manuel about where to find the errors in the Jehovah’s Witness bible – 01:18) Email – What are the rules of communion and attending Mass? (09:47) Can you get a dispensation from Sunday Mass while on a cruise? (21:10) Steve - X has so much smut that I think you shouldn't be on there. It’s like you are inviting listeners to walk down the Red Light district with you. (27:17) Email – My son uses ChatGPT for hours and is amused and learning at the same time (36:28) Alexandra - Can I go to a Christmas vigil mass before 4pm on Saturday? (39:30) Tracy - Was Jesus really born in December or was it September? Also, can I go to a Christmas celebration at the house of someone who is living in sin? (42:54)

How can those outside the Catholic faith, like Protestants and Buddhists, handle mortal sin without the Sacrament of Confession? Patrick explores the teachings of Jesus about faith, repentance, and the necessity of baptism and confession.   Jim – Sometimes things pop up in real life, just like they do on the internet, and you need to ignore it and move on (01:36) Peter (email) – We went on an Alaskan cruise and made sure one of the stops would allow us to attend Mass Mary - What is a Synod and why is there so much talk about it lately? Mary Lou – Regarding the young girl shooter in Madison, WI. The phenomenon with young people and their extreme phone usage, is it affecting the part of the brain related to empathy? (24:06) Steve - How are protestants restored in the Body of Christ since they don't have confession (28:35) Koko – Did Mary and Joseph have marital relations? (38:48)

Patrick engages with a recent Catholic convert who found inspiration through the station. He addresses questions about the Virgin Mary in response to assertions from the caller’s Pentecostal Apostolic uncles. Patrick clarifies misunderstandings about Mary's perpetual virginity and highlights early Church teachings from apostles like John as well as reformers like Martin Luther and John Calvin that support Catholic doctrine.   Matthew – Did the Virgin Mary have 4 daughters? (00:50) Peter – Is there a difference between praying for those who have passed away or for those who have fallen asleep? (22:51) Email – I don’t like all the sound effects and movie references (29:54) Disney cuts transgender storyline from new animated series (35:47) Al - I am a Christian, not Catholic, and came across this radio station by accident. Love your pop culture spots. I have been listening for a year. (42:27) Deb - My best friend and brother-in-law put out a social media post that hurt my family. We had a huge falling out. How can I go forward? (45:33)

Patrick explores a heartfelt and complicated family dilemma—grief, forgiveness, and unexpected conflicts. Deb from Milwaukee shares her emotional journey after her sister's recent passing and the shocking revelations at Thanksgiving that led to a family blow-up. Patrick offers thoughtful advice on setting boundaries, allowing time for healing, and finding peace in the most challenging situations.   Patrick continues his conversation with Deb from the end of the previous hour. Her sister passed away and now her best friend is dating her brother-in-law (she found out on social media) Karen - I have the opposite perspective. I think the family is being unfair to this gentleman. Maybe this guy and the best friend just knew each other well. (14:49) Charlotte (email) - My brother was a Catholic Priest who got a woman pregnant, civilly married her, had another child, and then divorced her. (20:58) Dolores – The gentleman dating his deceased wife's friend probably has an attraction to her because she is similar to his wife. I think he and the whole family should go for grief counseling. They are all in pain. (32:12) Rosemary - I have gone through a similar situation. I think this woman should look at it differently. (35:56) Ray - I know widowers who have married within a year of their spouses passing. It’s not that unusual. (41:35)

Patrick responds to Elizabeth, a caller seeking advice on a difficult situation at her workplace. Elizabeth talks about being excluded by coworkers over political differences, even though they once had a close and respectful relationship. Patrick offers thoughtful advice on maintaining maturity and perspective in the face of such pettiness. He also touches on broader social influences that make these divisions worse. As Patrick and Elizabeth discuss modern office life, political polarization, and the importance of staying above the negativity, this conversation provides practical advice and highlights cultural issues many people face.   Mary Pat (email) - Would it make a difference if the man was dating his deceased wife’s friend but not posting it on Facebook? (02:31) Alicia - I am in conflict resolution, and I think they need family mediation. Having a neutral perspective would help to work through emotional clutter. (07:46) Mary - We had a similar situation in our family. My sister knew she was going to die and knew her husband needed someone. She told her husband to try to be with a friend of hers. (14:39) Barbara (email) – As a recent window, I have advice to not judge that man so harshly (25:20) Ana - We shouldn't judge people because many people who lose a spouse are hurting so much. (27:44) Joseph - I have been a widower for 4 years. My pastor asked me to lead a men's grief group after she passed. The grieving process has been profound. (32:02) Elizabeth – I’m friends with girls at work. They won't speak to me since the election. They found out who I voted for and now they won’t talk to me. How can I handle this? (38:32) Lisa - For a man who is widowed and not capable of consummating a marriage, is he able to enter a Catholic marriage? (47:20)

Patrick explores an incredible archaeological discovery, the Frankfurt Silver Inscription—an 18-line engraving dating back 1800 years, revealing the oldest known evidence of Christianity north of the Alps. Patrick discusses how modern technology like CAT scans allows us to digitally unravel this silver foil without damaging it. Patrick also highlights the importance of true faith over physical artifacts when it comes to eternal life.   Mark (email) – Porn almost ruined my marriage. Patrick recommends https://catholicinrecovery.com/ (00:41) Mysterious 1,800-year-old silver amulet discovered in Germany could rewrite the history of Christianity in Europe (04:33) Patrick recommends Holy Heroes as a good resource for literature for children Maria - When we see adoration on YouTube, is Jesus really present with us? (17:37) Sophie - Is ok not to believe in the literal stories of the Bible, like Jonah and the whale didn’t actually happen? Is it okay to just focus on the message? (26:13) Patrick shares “Can a Catholic Attend an Invalid Marriage?” by Gregory Caridi (37:54) Mary - Are Old Testament people all in heaven as if they were baptized? (45:16)

Patrick addresses deep questions about the afterlife and Catholic Church teachings on the fate of just and good Old Testament figures. He clarifies how these righteous souls awaited the Messiah and their eventual entrance to heaven, despite not having baptism. This conversation highlights the power of faith and God's ultimate plan.   Patrick continues answering Mary’s question from the end of the previous answer about if those in the Old Testament are in heaven Greg - Teaching young kids in Poland how to use guns. Answer to our problems was given to us at Fatima. Need to pray instead of using guns. (07:53) Scott - I am founder of Catholics in Recovery. Addiction recovery does overlap with the Sacraments. It’s really important during the holidays as temptations, stress and anxiety are all heightened. (11:09) Donna - I went to gay wedding reception. Is that a mortal sin? (19:34) Harold - I was in Diaconal formation and was told to wait for two years (34:07)

Patrick answers a heartfelt question from a young mom who is looking at schools for her 3-year-old and thinking about an SSPX school. Patrick shares why he wouldn't choose SSPX due to their unusual relationship with the Catholic Church. Instead, he encourages supporting local diocesan schools and stresses the importance of being in communion with our bishops.   7 Brands that Reversed Their Big DEI Promises in 2024 (00:41) Peter - What is the plight of those who were never born, aborted or miscarried? What happens to them after death? (10:16) Leticia - Can I send my child to an SSPX school? (21:32) Mary - I disagree with you about SSPX vs local Catholic schools. My kid went to a local Catholic school and it was very secular. My kid's peers don’t know about the Church’s teaching. (31:12) Susan - I know of church that has a solid Catholic program. They serve dinner to families and educate parishioners. (39:33) Robert - I read 'The Hidden Mana'. It is very comforting to know that the faith of the common person has kept the Church going. Richard (email) - If SSPX aren’t in communion with the Church are they just protestants then that play Catholicism?

Patrick responds to an email from Alec in Riverside, California, who shares his interaction with Jehovah's Witnesses and seeks advice on how to respond as a Catholic. Patrick examines the foundational beliefs of Jehovah's Witnesses, their unique practices, and the reasoning behind their abstention from celebrating holidays and birthdays. Alec's story offers practical insights and strategies for engaging in meaningful conversations with door-to-door missionaries, emphasizing the importance of being well-prepared and knowledgeable about one’s own faith. Join Patrick as he shares tips, personal anecdotes, and guidance on managing complex religious interactions with grace and confidence.   Cyrus – Is it too soon to say to retailers “Merry Christmas”? (00:35) Aleck (email) – Shares his experience talking with Jehovah Witnesses (03:28) Isaiah (8-years-old) - When did the angels’ time to choose heaven or hell end? (23:20) Mark – My adult son is engaged. How do I talk to them about marrying in the Church? (29:38) Maria - Jehovah's Witnesses have been to my door several times. I tell them, “I think you are doing a great job but you hit the wrong door. I suggest that you give these pamphlets to someone who will read them.” (39:08) Audio: Crystal Mangum just admitted after 18 years that she made up the rape allegation against three Duke Lacrosse players (44:30)

Patrick discusses Poland's bold move to introduce compulsory gun training in elementary schools. He talks about the reasons behind this decision, given the ongoing threat of Russian aggression, and shares heartfelt and thought-provoking perspectives from listeners. Is it for safety, preparation, or something more unsettling?   Poland has become the first EU country to introduce compulsory gun & shooting classes in all its elementary schools. Following Russia’s invasion of Ukraine, the Polish state wants to familiarize all kids from a young age with weapons.  (00:33) John - I think you are being harsh on the Polish government. As a 7th grader, I had a firearms safety course. We brought our guns to school. Urban culture is different from rural culture. (09:04 ) Mark - I learned how to use a gun at 12. I don't see a problem with this if you know that God's greatest gift is life. (13:36) Sandra - I think Poland is being proactive. It is hard for us to understand this in the US. (27:48) Andreas - I think we have to stand with our fellow Catholics in Poland and support them doing this with their kids. It is a defensive posture. (40:35)