The Patrick Madrid Show

Here’s the scoop from The Patrick Madrid Show when Maria from Oshkosh, Wisconsin called in with a very real Catholic dilemma. She asked:   "If a job makes someone work on Sundays, is it a sin to miss Mass?""Can I just go during the week instead?"   Here’s what Patrick had to say:     Not a Sin If…   - Your job genuinely requires Sunday work and it’s outside your control (think: 👮‍♀️ police officers, doctors, nurses, emergency responders: people who keep the world turning).   -You're trying to make it to Mass, but it's just not possible due to your shift.   God knows your heart. If it’s not your fault, you’re not sinning.     It IS a Sin If…   - You could go to Mass but choose not to because:   - Overtime looks good   - It’s more convenient to skip   Basically, if it’s in your power to get to Mass and you just don’t make it a priority? Yeah… not good. That’s skipping out on a serious obligation.     Weekday Mass? Good! But Not a Substitute    - Going to Mass on, say, a Tuesday or Wednesday doesn’t “count” for Sunday.   - Exception: Saturday Vigil Mass (after 4pm) does fulfill the Sunday obligation. The Church made that concession because… life happens.     Real Life Example   Maria’s husband works Friday through Monday, 12–14-hour days. There's no time for Mass. Patrick said that if there’s no humanly possible way to go, and it’s beyond your control... it’s not a sin.   If he can adjust things: maybe shift hours or snag Saturday evening off? He should. Gotta do what you can to keep that Sunday holy      If you can make it to Sunday Mass, you must. If you truly can’t because of work and you’ve tried? God gets it. It's not a sin. Weekday Mass = awesome! But not a Sunday sub. Saturday Vigil? Yes, that works.     Final Thought    We all have to work, but God also knows when you're doing your best. Just don’t treat Sunday Mass like it’s optional; it's a commandment, not a suggestion. Remember: Mass isn’t just an obligation… it’s a gift.

Patrick takes a look at thought-provoking topics such as the ethics of sterilization, choosing a Bible, and respecting statues in Catholicism. He responds to listener emails about community support and the complexities of remarriage for widows. Join Patrick as he continues to explore faith, society, and the everyday challenges we face.   Mike (email) - I’m noticing a dramatic uptick in transgender rage bait stories and discussions ever since “liberation day” tanked the markets (00:41) Any recommendations for a good bible? Patrick recommends the Catholic Edition from Ignatius Press and the Ignatius Press Study Bible (04:02) David (email) – How do I know if someone is trying to scam me? (07:21) Candice (email) – Can a non-repentant non-Catholic on death row receive communion before his execution? (12:52) Madonna - I am a Catholic woman (widow) and met a man who is divorced. I’m not sure about his religion, baptism or if his marriage was valid in the eyes of the church. Before I even take one step forward, I need to know what the church considers a non-valid marriage. (19:56) Hazel (email) – Can I go to an Easter party on Holy Saturday? (25:17) Maria – Mary is not God, so how can she receive our prayers? (27:25) Linda - We have statue of Our Lady. A seer came from Medjugorje and saw Mary come out of this statue. People are praying at this statue outside of chapel. is this ok? Is this holding Mary above Christ. (31:15) Patrick and Cyrus read a few funny emails that came in during the break. (36:10) Alice (email) – Medjugorje was approved. (No, it wasn’t) (40:03) John - Is having a vasectomy a sin? If so, I didn’t know. (42:25)

Patrick takes an unflinching look at the ongoing challenges surrounding gender ideology in schools and sports. Listen in as Patrick and Cyrus discuss the issues of fairness and equality in women's sports, with real-life testimonies like that of Taylor Starling, a high school athlete facing hurdles due to policy changes. This episode highlights the broader effects on society and the necessity of staying firm on values.   Audio: Taylor Starling was removed from her cross country team and replaced with a boy (01:44) Two biological male players compete in women’s pool final (05:58) Audio from Connie Shaw: "So you think that women should not have the right to be in vulnerable situations away from men, if those men say that they're women?" "Yeah." (16:40) Bridget (email) - In one word and one word only, why was the Reformation so bad. (20:55) Sola Scriptura! (27:11) Marie – There’s a first-year teacher doing a bad job and parents are complaining to the principal (without going to the teacher first). Is this gossip or detraction? (36:50) Carolyn - I was interviewed and asked about how I would deal with trans students. I was shunned after saying I would use female pronouns. (42:09)

Patrick tackles real-life dilemmas, addressing pressing issues like the moral questions around vasectomies and the sacred nature of marriage. John from Indianapolis calls in with his situation, and Patrick offers faith-based guidance in a compassionate manner. Hear heartwarming listener stories and glean valuable marriage advice. Join Patrick for discussions that inform, inspire, and enrich your spiritual journey.   Patrick continues his conversation with John who had a vasectomy 45 years ago and is questioning what the Church really teaches on this. (00:22) Harold - You were talking about statues of Our Lady and you said 'Our Lady doesn't inhabit statues'. What about Our Lady of Guadalupe's image? (17:25) Amy – How do I find a Catholic spouse as an adult? (25:32) Sharon – Can grandparents discipline grandchildren? I visited my daughter and son-in-law. I disciplined the granddaughter, and the parents didn't like how it turned out. (35:04) Karen – Co-worker telling me that Jesus meant the Eucharist as a parable. What do you think? (41:44) Alex (10-years-old) - Is Mary still suffering from Jesus dying on the Cross? (44:23) Mary - I want to encourage the woman trying to find a spouse. (47:03)

Patrick explores the world of cultural phenomena, focusing on the buzz around the Minecraft movie and the overnight sensation known as "Chicken Jockey". He also answers insightful questions from listeners on topics ranging from the Jewish roots of Christianity to young love in interfaith relationships. Plus, he talks about a breakthrough in AI research on fingerprint uniqueness that's shaking up forensic science.   Mindcraft, Chicken Jockey, and kids going crazy in the theater (01:03) Jackie - Is there a book that explains everything about the Mass and the things in the Church? (12:28) Noelene - I bought some religious objects at an antique store so they wouldn't be desecrated. What should I do with them now? (16:55) Mary - My son is dating a girl who is non-Catholic and wants him to go to Church with her. (20:22) Patrick reads and responds to a few emails (25:59) Have you ever been fingerprinted? AI proves that fingerprints are not unique, upending the legal system (35:47)

Patrick discusses theological questions like priests receiving Communion while in mortal sin and covers Russell Brand's legal troubles in the UK. Patrick explores teaching kids about the Eucharist, the essence of salvation history, and how to manage Sunday Mass obligations with work commitments.   Stella (email) – I get it that priests need to distribute Communion to the laity, but why is that reason enough for them to personally receive if they are in a state of mortal sin? (00:36) Vicki - I think the UK is attacking Russel Brand because of his faith. I feel like the Vatican should speak up for him. What do you think? (08:18) Carol - How can I explain the true presence to younger kids in my catechism class without them getting squeamish? (18:43) Gabriel (9-years-old) - What should I do if I took communion with a mortal sin on my soul? (25:53) Joe - Are the Gospel’s simply the salvation story? Is the Bible just filling in the timeline? (28:10) Maria - Is it a sin to miss Mass on Sunday if your Job requires you to work weekends? Can a weekday Mass replace Sunday Mass? (38:30) Tim - I was involuntarily born but I need to use my voluntary free will to follow God. I feel like I am missing something. (42:04)

Patrick discusses the importance of the father's role in a child's spiritual life, provides practical advice for raising strong Catholic families, and offers guidance on handling personal struggles with faith, like dealing with family rifts or processing grief after a miscarriage. Listeners also receive insightful recommendations on how to reconnect with the Church and keep their spiritual journey vibrant.   Email – Andrew. It’s not so much that children aren’t finding their mother’s good example but are following their father’s bad example. I think that the Novus Ordo Mass is effeminate and that it drives men away (00:40) Steven - Is it a sin to entertain guests on Holy Thursday? My wife wants to go ax throwing with our guests from out of town (09:47) Lorie - Is my marriage valid in the Church? (13:30) Andrew - I was raised Catholic, but we left when I was young. What is the best way to come back to the practice of my Catholic Faith? (21:54) David - My wife had a miscarriage over the weekend, and I am not sure we disposed of the remains correctly. What should we do to heal after this? 29:48) Kate - What are your top suggestions for raising saintly children? 35:58) Richard - My wife struggles with going to confession and she feels she has so much anger and it is hard to rid herself of these feelings and is not taking the Eucharist. (45:40)

Listener Karen from Illinois wrote in asking what a plenary indulgence is, and Patrick did not disappoint.      So, what is an indulgence anyway?   Patrick breaks it down like this:   Sin is forgiven in confession, but its effects still linger (like spiritual scars).   Jesus paid the penalty for sin once and for all, but we still need to heal the damage done (to us, others, and the world).   Imagine sin is like breaking a window. Confession = forgiveness. But... someone still has to fix the window.     The indulgence.   The Church, using the authority Jesus gave her ("whatever you bind on Earth..."), can apply the spiritual riches of Jesus and the saints to help wipe away the lingering effects of sin. This is what indulgences are all about.   Partial Indulgence = Some of that damage is repaired.     Plenary Indulgence = All the effects of sin are wiped clean.      How to learn more?   Patrick recommends:   The Handbook of Indulgences: Norms and Grants     Why does this even matter?   Because... nothing unclean can enter Heaven (Revelation 21:27). Indulgences help clean you up now, so you don’t have to get purified later in Purgatory.   Patrick says it's totally doable to gain a plenary indulgence every single day (!!!) if you meet the conditions (like Confession, Mass, prayer for the Pope, detachment from sin, etc.).  

Patrick examines the importance of confession and the ethics of scientific advancements like 3D-printed skin. Listener calls address compelling questions about humility and handling family challenges with grace. If you're looking to deepen your spiritual journey or engage in thought-provoking topics, this episode provides valuable perspectives.   You need to go to confession (00:39) 3D-printed ‘skin’ could make testing cosmetics on animals obsolete (03:55) David – Do you have any good resources to learn more about humility? (17:35) Gretchen - My dad was arrested for child pornography. I am devastated. How do I get through this? (20:36) Patrick - If Mary and Joseph got so much gold from the Magi, how come they could only afford turtle doves? (25:17) Road Kill (33:59) Vito – There’s a man in my lector ministry married to another man. This man said that our priest told him to keep it under wraps. Now there’s people telling me not to be so judgmental. What do I do? (36:11)

Patrick discusses the peculiar topic of 'roadkill cuisine' as listeners share their amusing and surprising tales from Wisconsin and beyond. He moves from wild tales from the road to exploring deeper questions about morality and faith. Patrick and callers engage in discussions about sensitive issues within the Church, like confronting scandal and handling situations with priests and parish communities. Patrick also shares powerful testimonies from listeners like Jonathan, whose journey from Mormonism to Catholicism is influenced by family, tradition, and a search for truth.   Cyrus shares a couple of emails about eating roadkill (really). (00:40) Vinnie - I went to the same church Vito went to and was also told not to judge. (06:18) Raoul - I feel that Vito and others should do more. They should report this to the Bishop. (07:52) Jerry - I have processed nine road kills since Feb 1st. I give the meat to the poor. Nothing goes to waste. (10:56) Mary - Does supporting gay marriage make a priest’s masses invalid? (18:18) Joseph – My past sin really gets to me. How can I overcome this? (25:19) Joe – The Catholic Church is sweeping gay marriage under the rug. You make it sound like this stuff goes on all over. (31:02) Vince (email) – Comment about homosexual priests or those who support homosexuality within the Church (37:09) Jonathon - Thank you, Patrick, for helping me to get converted to the church this Easter! (40:12)