The Patrick Madrid Show

Patrick answers the following listener questions in Hour 3: Michael asks if using contraception after wedding vows could invalidate a marriage. Carmen shares her 25-year marriage experience, including domestic violence, and asks if she should pursue an annulment. Steve asks about a good book to help his wife understand Catholicism. Tom asks if, after death, we are still bound by time in heaven. Caden wonders whether it's acceptable to attend a child's sporting event on Holy Thursday or if they should skip it. Savannah seeks advice on how to lead her family into the Catholic Church, given that she's new to the faith. Richard asks about the effectiveness of Natural Family Planning (NFP) for avoiding pregnancy. Jeff asks if it’s okay for a Catholic and non-Catholic couple to attend other churches together. Bobby shares a dilemma about a being invited on vacation with adult children who don't practice the faith and are unwilling to attend Mass. Richard asks whether or not he should donate proceeds from a book he wrote to the church.

Patrick takes a closer look at the news of the Department of Education's closure and weighs in on the principle of subsidiarity, emphasizing local versus federal education control. Patrick also shares thoughts on the decline of American test scores and offers alternative education solutions. Curious about the possible changes that could arise? Don't miss Patrick's engaging discussions filled with fresh perspectives and the latest updates.   Audio: Ronald Reagan said about the Department of Education in 1980 (01:53) Audio: Karoline Leavitt The Department of Education was founded in the 1970s, and since then, we have spent more than $3 trillion at this federal bureaucracy. (06:27) Mississippi eliminates state income tax (14:21) Doxing website that shows personal details of Tesla owners has Molotov cocktail as cursor (19:01) Joe - A Protestant spoke with you about devotion to Mary and the Saints. I wanted to add some things to that conversation. Not all acts, like kneeling, is considered worship. (27:02) Elizabeth – Email – If my 18-year-old daughter sleeps over regularly at her boyfriend’s house, is this a near occasion of sin? (32:48) Kim – Why won’t we sin in heaven? (41:36)

Patrick, along with Cyrus, discuss a new bill in Tennessee focused on enhancing classroom engagement by restricting the use of technology, including phones and smart devices, during class time. They explore the impact of this initiative, sharing personal stories and anecdotes about the role of technology in education and the challenges of maintaining focus in a tech-driven world. Patrick also addresses a thoughtful email from a Lutheran listener regarding the significance of the Rosary and devotion to Mary, offering enlightening insights and perspectives.   Bill to Ban Devices in Tennessee Schools (00:37) Allen (email) – I’m not Catholic but I pray the Rosary every morning. My Lutheran pastor doesn’t understand the Catholic’s devotion to Mary. (08:31) Karen (email) - We were given misinformation about the two astronauts not being able to get back home. (19:34) Gary (email) - Look what happened to Adam & Eve when God told the not to eat the Apple from the tree of Knowledge (21:04) Burning Tesla is the new BLM Chris – What is the definition of “count your blessings”? (27:24) Alan - I can't go to Mass in Spain and Germany because I go to a Latin Mass. (33:40) Nathaniel - Vatican 2 actually says faithful should know prayers in Latin. (44:02) Kat (email) – I was in many European nations & had the Mass been in Latin, I could have felt more like a part OF rather than apart FROM honoring my Lord. (47:16)

Listeners are treated to a rich discussion about the traditional Latin Mass, the relevance of Tesla's current issues, and an engaging dialogue on the validity of sacraments across different Christian traditions. Patrick responds to insightful calls from listeners, addressing everything from the spiritual allure of specific Mass traditions to the theological questions posed by non-Catholic Christians. Join Patrick for thought-provoking insights that explore faith, tradition, and the beauty of liturgical expressions, all within the context of real-life listener experiences.   Mike - Traditional Latin Mass: I came to it during Covid. (01:35) Vee – What is the Church’s view of Christians who are not Catholic? Can they be saved or not? (10:26) Marci - Can a Catholic spread the ashes of a non-Catholic? (21:36) Candace - I came across a passage in 1 Cor about speaking in tongues and praying that we interpret what they say. Is that what the Novus Ordo is all about, interpreting the Mass so we understand it? (23:42) Michael (email) – I’ve heard Patrick Madrid speak of the schism between the East and West Churches.  My question is, since the East has separated from the West and no longer look to or follow the Pope, but rather have their own “Patriarch,” how can we still view their sacraments as being valid? (33:26) Tony - I need an implant, and they are using the bones from a cadaver. (41:09) Mary Ann – What does the Church teach about donating your body to science? (42:15) Damon - How can you get dispensation to eat meat on Friday? (44:51)

A caller named Mike from Jacksonville asks the big question: Should Catholics receive Communion on the hand or on the tongue?    Here's Patrick's response...   What the Church Says:   -Traditionally, Communion has always been received on the tongue in the Western Church.   -After Vatican II, some people started receiving on the hand as a kind of liturgical trend. At first, the Church said, “No, you shouldn’t do that.” Yet people just kept doing it, and it became so widespread that eventually, St. Pope John Paul II permitted it to avoid constant conflict.   -In the Eastern Churches (e.g., Byzantine Rite, Eastern Orthodox), receiving in the hand is unthinkable. Communion is always spooned directly into the mouth, and the idea of touching the Eucharist with your hands is considered outrageous.   What’s Allowed Now:   -The Church officially permits receiving Communion on the hand, but the preferred method is still on the tongue.   -If you choose to receive in the hand, it’s recommended to make an extra sign of reverence, like a bow or making the Sign of the Cross.   -Standing is the norm in the U.S., but kneeling is also allowed if you prefer it.   Why Patrick Thinks Communion on the Tongue is Better:   -Hands Matter: Priests’ hands are consecrated as part of the Sacrament of Holy Orders. The rest of us? Not so much. So, there’s a reverence factor there.   -Tradition Matters: For about 1,500 years, the standard practice was to receive on the tongue, kneeling if possible. Sure, there were some places in the early Church where Communion in the hand happened, but that was far from the norm.   -Personal Conviction: Patrick admits he’s in the minority here, but he thinks the traditional way is better because it emphasizes reverence and respect for the Eucharist.   The Bottom Line:   Yes, you can receive Communion in the hand, but if you ask Patrick: on the tongue is better. He thinks most people just automatically receive on their hands because that's how they were raised.

Patrick addresses the complex moral issues surrounding IVF, including a recent legal case from Virginia that raises questions about embryo rights. Patrick discusses the Catholic stance on these matters, emphasizing the importance of understanding and educating others about the Church's views. He reflects on the influence of radical changes within religious communities and their impact on growth. Plus, Patrick answers listener questions on topics ranging from religious practices during Lent to interfaith relationships.   Judge finds frozen embryos are not divisible property in cancer survivor's case against ex-husband Benedict - A friend keeps on leaving and then coming back to the Catholic faith. How can I help him to make the faith stick? (13:24) Email – Is getting married after 2 months too soon? (19:51) Lauren - My old Catholic nun teachers post prochoice things on social media. What should I do? (26:27) Is the Pyramid story trending real? Who knows. (37:19) Janice - I was born and raised Catholic but I was never into my faith until the last few years. My understanding of Lent is that we shouldn't eat meat on Friday's is that true? My dad says otherwise. (39:42) Kathleen - IVF: A family adopted an embryo. It seemed like a good thing which people could do for those embryos. (47:18)

Patrick tackles an array of engaging topics, from the theological significance of Jesus' unfiltered temple moment to whether Mary opens the gates of heaven. He discusses data privacy—highlighting how data brokers have a keen eye on individual habits—and even shares listener stories to bridge gaps in spiritual misconceptions. Plus, Patrick touches on the charismatic gifts beyond religious figures.   Patrick responds to an email from Dennis who makes some false claims about what’s been said on the show (01:07) Rhonda - Was no one allowed to enter heaven until Jesus died on the Cross? (04:52) Kim - Because of the fall of Adam and Eve there had to be a blood sacrifice. Did Jesus do it because he had to, or out of love? (09:03) Jim - What are your thoughts on the Garabandal apparitions? (20:35) Steve - When we say the Rosary, what are the promises of Christ we are praying for? (25:32) Mike - Is my analogy of a smudge for Purgatory and using a spray bottle to wipe it off be a good analogy for Purgatory and Confession? (29:29) Christopher - I am reformed Baptist. You referred to people who don't venerate Our Lady as 'Flat Earthers. I want to defend our view. (34:24) Devin (12-years-old) - If Jesus wants us to love our enemies, why did he destroy merchandise of sellers outside of the Temple? (40:44) Sharlin – My Church had a healing service with a Catholic mystic performing a healing service. (43:33)

Patrick engages in compelling conversations and uncovers the truths that matter as he tackles big questions from faith perspectives on cremation within the Catholic Church to unraveling complex geopolitical issues in the Middle East. He addresses the controversial narratives surrounding Israel and Palestine.   Patrick from Newton Falls, OH – How do I reconcile the Body being a temple of the Holy Spirit with Cremation? (00:38) Joseph - How much detail should I get into when talking about hell with young kids? (08:08) Anna Lisa - My sister wants to become a Muslim. How do I handle this and stay positive? (14:16) Audio: Bill Maher to Chappell Roan – He completely dismantles the superficiality and ignorance of pro-Palestinian supporters and the useful idiots in America (22:08) Audio: Brigitte Gabriel on Piers Morgan: The Truth about Israel and Palestinians (31:42) Audio: An Arab citizen of Israel tells exactly what happened in 1947 (37:15) Audio: Assita Kanko just dropped the Mic big time at the European Parliament. Assita was born a Muslim and has been fighting against Radical Islam and Terrorism for a long time (39:15) Audio: Palestinian Ahmed Fouad Alkhatib explains Gaza situation CBS News (41:19) Darmen - Is it okay to go to a Protestant Bible Study? Is there an online resource about the Bible? (43:40) James - I received a statue of St. Joseph lying down. What does that mean? (47:38)

Patrick Madrid explained why Purgatory is actually a very biblical doctrine, even though the word itself isn’t spelled out in Scripture (kind of like the word "Trinity"... but we all believe in that, right?).   Step 1: Bible Alone? Not So Fast!    Patrick started by calling out the big assumption that everything has to be proven from the Bible alone (Sola Scriptura). That idea is actually unbiblical... and even anti-biblical!    🔹 2 Thessalonians 2:15: St. Paul says to hold fast to both written and oral tradition. 🔹 The Bible itself doesn’t say “go by the Bible alone” (kind of a problem for that argument, huh?). 🔹 Even the list of books in the Bible (the Canon) comes from Church tradition, not from the Bible itself! So, if you believe in the Bible… well, you’re already trusting the Church.   Now that we’ve settled that, let’s talk Purgatory!    Step 2: Purgatory in the Bible? Yup. Right Here.    Patrick points straight to 1 Corinthians 3:10-15: which, when you really read it, sounds exactly like what Catholics describe as Purgatory:   After death, your works will be tested by fire. Some people will suffer loss but will still be saved... but only as through fire. This happens to those who die in God’s grace but still have some 'wood, hay, and straw' (aka, imperfections) that need to be burned away before they enter heaven.   Sounds a lot like purification after death, doesn’t it? That’s Purgatory!   Step 3: What About Judgment?    Some people think we’re only judged at the Second Coming. Nope. The Bible teaches two judgments: Particular Judgment: (Hebrews 9:27): Right after death, you’re judged. Heaven or hell? That’s decided immediately. If you’re saved but still need purification, that’s Purgatory. Final Judgment: At the end of time, everyone gets the final big picture judgment.   Step 4: If I Go to Confession, Do I Still Go to Purgatory?    Hopefully not! But maybe, yes. Why? Because…   Confession removes the eternal penalty of sin (hell). But it doesn’t necessarily remove the effects of sin.   Example: If you rob a bank and later repent, God forgives you. But guess what? You still gotta return the money and maybe serve time in jail. Same with sin... it leaves effects on the soul that need to be purified.   That’s why penance, fasting, and acts of charity are so important! They help purify us now, so we need less purgation later.    Final Thoughts: Purgatory = God’s Mercy    Purgatory isn’t a “second chance”; it’s God’s final cleanup crew to get us spotless before we enter heaven (Revelation 21:27: "nothing unclean shall enter it").   Even St. Augustine and the Early Church Fathers pointed to 1 Corinthians 3 when talking about Purgatory! So, next time someone says, “Purgatory isn’t in the Bible!”: just smile and say, “Let’s read 1 Corinthians 3 together, shall we?”    If you die in God’s grace but aren’t perfect yet, God finishes the job before you enter heaven. That’s Purgatory, and it’s straight from the Bible.

On The Patrick Madrid Show, Cyra from Alberta called in with a tough but crucial question: who should she and her husband pick as legal guardians for their kids in their will? Her top choice is her sister and brother-in-law: loving, family-oriented, and nearby. But there was a hitch: they’re not practicing Catholics.   Her husband, Sebastian, was especially concerned that if their kids ended up in their care, the faith might slowly fade out of their lives: not because of bad intentions, but just because, well, life happens. Cyra, on the other hand, struggled with the idea of choosing someone outside the family.    Patrick’s Advice? Faith Comes First!   Patrick said that faith should be the number one priority when picking guardians. Sure, family closeness and emotional stability are important, but if the guardians don’t actively practice and prioritize the Catholic faith, then there’s a real risk that the kids could drift away from it over time.    Even with the best of intentions, a non-Catholic couple might start strong in raising the kids Catholic, but when it comes to the daily grind: Sunday Mass, sacraments, religious education... things could start slipping. It’s not about doubting their love, but about recognizing human nature.    So, What’s the Best Plan?   If Catholic family members aren’t an option, Patrick suggested looking for strong Catholic friends or community members who would make raising the kids in the faith a true priority. It’s a big decision, but ultimately, the goal is to ensure that the kids grow up knowing, loving, and practicing their Catholic faith.    Get Your Will in Order, For Free!   Patrick gave a super useful tip: check out CatholicLegacy.com, a free service from Relevant Radio that helps Catholics create airtight wills that align with their faith. Because let’s be real: none of us like thinking about wills, but it’s way better to be prepared than to leave things to chance.   If you’re picking legal guardians, don’t just think about love and familiarity... think about who will make sure your kids get to Heaven.