The Patrick Madrid Show

Sarah - how do you explain sacramentals to people without it sounding superstitious? (7:00) Patrick - Does the Catholic church teach divine simplicity? And what are your thoughts on it? Lonny - When Satan fell, wouldn't a higher level of angel need to challenge him? Why St. Michael? (15:02) Jim - Confession - the only sins i ever have are in my thoughts and I get rid of them right away. I don't know what to confess when I get there. (21:34) Break 1 Leticia - In California, most of our cities are named after saints. I think we have a sleeping giant here and we need to pray. David - (on lamb call) Jesus is the ultimate Shepard. (36:13) Break 2 (37:04) Does a couple need to break up if they are intimate before marriage? Patrick answers this question. Jan - (on Elizabeth’s call) I had a similar experience when I was pregnant. They said that the baby was stressed and if he was, he was already gone.

(0:31) Mike - I have a son that is estranged from me. I've tried to talk to him but he wants nothing to do with me. Is there anything I can do about it? Christina - on double effect - if mom finds out she is pregnant and uses the medication that induces labor but not anything else, is that still wrong? (19:59) Break 1 Tim - what are your thoughts on things like pyramids, lost technology, and aliens? Anita - Who determines what music is acceptable for mass? Is this new music an act of disobedience? (30:02)) Mike - Why is it alright for a child to receive the Eucharist when they don't totally understand but someone who hasn't taken the classes is not allowed to? (35:20) Break 2 (36:08) Lizeth - I came from a very broken family. We have just started coming together. I found out that we were all listening to Relevant Radio and It's like we are all on the same journey back to God and each other. Carl - (On the estrangement call) Keep working at it. It's all in God's time and never give up. Ryan - you mentioned a movie Days of wine and roses. I wanted to comment on that. Carol - How can I be less afraid of dying? I am 82

Let's dive into a conversation that many Catholic parents ponder over: "When and how do I have THE talk with my kids?"  Patrick Madrid received a question from a concerned mom, Sandra, who was wrestling with this very question. Sandra and her husband have two boys, aged 9 and 11, and they're at a crossroads about who should lead this delicate discussion and when.   Patrick's advice? Go for it, but with a strategy!    Father Knows Best? Yes, says Patrick. He leans towards the idea that dads should initially take the helm, when it comes to their sons. The magic age? Eleven seems to be the sweet spot, considering the societal influences kids are exposed to today. Why dads? It's about creating a comfortable space for questions and understanding, minus any awkwardness.   Moms, You're Up for Daughters: Patrick shared how, in his own family with 11 kids, he chatted with his sons, while his wife chatted with their daughters.   The Walk-and-Talk Method: Ever considered a heart-to-heart in a cemetery? Sounds gothic, but Patrick found this serene setting perfect for "the talk." Why? No distractions, just peace, making it easier to chat about becoming a man, the changes to expect, and the birds and the bees, all wrapped up in a message of love, growth, and the beauty of life's cycles.   Keep It Light, Keep It Right: The discussion doesn't have to be a somber affair. Infusing humor and keeping a light-hearted tone can help ease any tension. Remember, it's about opening a dialogue that continues as your child grows, ensuring they know they can always come to you with questions or concerns.   School Talks & Peer Chatter: Patrick emphasizes the importance of parents taking the lead before schools or friends do. Misinformation is rampant, and a guided, loving conversation from a parent can set the right foundation for understanding sexuality in the context of love, marriage, and procreation.   TL;DR: Patrick champions a thoughtful approach to discussing sexuality with children, aiming for an atmosphere of openness and trust. The goal? Equip kids with knowledge, grounded in faith and family values, ready to navigate the world informed, confident, and connected to their parents.    Your Turn! When did you have "the talk" with your kids, or how do you plan to approach it?

Is it ever permissible to lie? Patrick explores St. Augustine's take, dissects the Catechism's stance, and weighs it against real-life, high-stakes scenarios. Patrick also tackles some intriguing biblical questions, from Mary's role in Jesus' miracle at Cana to the details surrounding His burial cloth.   Daniel - Is it always a sin to tell a lie? (01:00) Yollie – Did Mary tell Jesus to make more wine at the Wedding of Cana? Did the soldiers break Jesus' legs? (12:25) Steve - In John 20: it says the burial clothes are two separate pieces, but the Shroud of Turin is only one piece of cloth. Why is there a discrepancy? Email – Question about feeding tubes and end of life decisions Neil (email) – My company only lets me invest half of my 401K the way I want, and the other half supports companies that support abortion. What should I do? Matt (email) - What should we do if we receive unclear or seemingly extraordinary penances that may be nearly impossible to fulfill completely? (32:29) Michelle - If we have a perfected body in heaven, do we get a perfected body in hell also? (40:12) Miles – Having a questionable 401K is remote cooperation, much like a mail man delivering pornography. I don't think it is wrong.

The birds and the Bees: Patrick tackles a subject close to the heart of every parent—navigating the delicate conversation about sexuality with our kids. Patrick suggests the ideal age to talk about these changes, who should lead the discussion, and he shares personal stories and strategies that work. Patrick connects the dots between childhood, adolescence, and becoming a well-rounded adult, providing wholesome, virtuous guidance every step of the way.   Patrick speaks to the importance of praying for those who have died (00:41) Terence – Why do Catholics need to marry in the Church? (05:03) Patrick shares how he gave “the talk” to his sons (19:31) Anne - When I gave “the talk” to my oldest daughter, she didn't believe me. She thought it was too ridicules. (41:30) Nora - Thank you for talking about the birds and the bees. I was told about it from my uncle, which was not very helpful. (47:23)

Patrick explores the importance of protecting one's innocence in the digital age and how to avoid potential online traps. The conversations he has with callers serves as a necessary reminder of the need to be vigilant about what we engage with online. Patrick emphasizes that maintaining innocence and prudence in our digital interactions is not only possible but essential.   Chris - I was raised Catholic and loved Jesus as a child. I lived with my uncle who left his porn all over the house and that was my gate way to later having other addiction issues. Michael - Just wanted to say I love your show. Victor - Mark 2:14; is Matthew's father the same one as James and Judas? (11:15) Email – What if a dad refuses to give “the talk” to his son? Email – What are the requirements for the banns of marriage? (20:28) Veronica - How do I talk with my sister about not getting her tubes removed? (23:25) Lynn - My son doesn't think he needs confession or the saints because the thinks he can go straight to Jesus. Cathy - My husband is exposed to a lot of soft porn on Facebook. I felt foolish that it happened and thought other people should know. (37:21) Vonnie - How does “faith and works” work together? Why do we call it “Good Friday”? Toni - The same thing happened sending Facebook video’s with me to a brother in Christ. He got a way different video than what I sent him. I was so embarrassed John - When Jesus was on earth did He have a guardian angel? (50:26)

Mary calls in and shares the heart-wrenching struggles of her 40-year marriage where she feels utterly alone. Patrick explores the complexities of being a supportive spouse amidst apathy and addiction, and the emotional toll it takes when change seems out of reach.   Bernardo - How do the fruits of the spirit and the gifts of the spirit work together in the spiritual life? Why does the number very sometimes? (03:24) Ruben (8-years-old) - How can I help take care of my sibling who will be born in July? (09:39) Sam - I am a new Catholic. I used to be Protestant. At Mass, when communion started, I knew I was in mortal sin and felt a feeling that I would go to hell in this state. How can I overcome my weaknesses? Melody – I’m an Evangelical Protestant who believes in the Real Presence of the Eucharist. Why does the Catholic Church say it requires a priest to consecrate it? (31:35) Mary - I am struggling with my marriage. I have been doing everything I can, but I am too the point where I am wondering if I need to separate from my husband. What should I do? (43:04)

Are you wrestling with life's hardest questions, yearning for encouragement, or seeking real-world advice grounded in faith? Join Patrick Madrid on The Patrick Madrid Show, where he tackles tough situations like Mary's struggle with her husband's alcoholism and explores avenues for hope, such as canonical separation and organizations like Mary's Advocates. Discover how others, like Amy and Brad, find strength in prayer, community support, and the courage to involve family in their trials. Remember, whether it's dealing with addiction or praying for your children's return to faith, you're not alone.   Patrick continues his conversation with Mary from the end of the previous hour. (00:21) Amy - I had the same situation as Mary with my husband and I stayed close with Christ. We went through separation and he did go through recovery and he cleaned up his act. (07:01) Brad - I am in a similar situation as Mary. Maybe she can get her adult kids to help with the situation? (10:25) Patrick shares practical advice for helping keep your kids on the right track (18:00)  George - I am going through the same situation accept I am in her husband's shoes. My advice is for the husband to fix it NOW. I work hard, but I had a drinking problem. I am going through a divorce now. (25:41) Linda - Several years ago, my children stopped going to church when they went to college. I started texting them Catholic bits and now both of my kids are back in the Church. (34:06) Ann - My dad was a violent alcoholic. We convinced mom to leave the house before he killed her. It wasn't until my dad realized that she was serious about leaving that he turned his act around. He quit cold turkey and they were back together again. Sylvia - I understand what George is going through. I am a recovering alcoholic. I put my family through a lot, but there is hope. (46:15)

Are you unnerved by the idea of a cashless society? Today, Patrick ponders whether it's a step towards totalitarianism or just a change in currency mediums. He tackles the mark of the beast and privacy implications, discovering a balance between caution and freedom. In a world swamped with pessimism, Patrick shares advice on overcoming media-induced anxiety—counseling a focus on faith, family, hobbies, and unplugging from the news cycle.   Patrick shares a powerful scene from the movie Days of Wine and Roses where a husband admits to his wife that he’s an alcoholic and that she is too, and they need to stop drinking to survive Steve - How many degrees of separation are needed to use deadly force to protect my family? (05:42) Jorge - I need some guidance on everything that is happening in the world today and in our Church (25:46) Joey - Killing out of self-defense: Do you think that counters what Thomas Aquinas said? Francie - I would like to support the woman whose kids are fallen away. My children all fell away from the Church. I have been lukewarm Catholic but then I had a conversion and prayed really hard. Tony - My kids do martial arts. When they walk into the dojo they bow before they enter and before they leave. We bow in Church so is it confusing for kids to bow before the master? (45:42) Al - God does have an angry side to him. If the government decides to do digital currency, we have a right to defend ourselves.  

Do you use the missalette at Mass? Or do you follow along on your phone? In a recent episode of The Patrick Madrid Show, a riveting discussion unfolded around the use of traditional missalettes versus digital devices during Mass. Here's the breakdown:   Patrick Madrid explored the purpose of the missalette - that little book filled with Mass readings, prayers, and rituals. It's a handy guide for you to participate in the Mass.    📱 Digital Dilemma: A tweet sparked debate: Is it appropriate to use a phone as a missal during Mass? One churchgoer tried to offer a traditional missalette to a fellow parishioner engrossed in his phone, suggesting it was less distracting. The response? A decline, emphasizing personal preference and sparking a broader conversation on modernity in Mass.   Patrick leans into the evolution of tech in prayer and worship, acknowledging the convenience of apps and electronic missals. He acknowledges the practicality of digital devices, from enlarging text to housing multiple resources in one's pocket. Yet, he advises discretion to avoid distracting fellow worshippers.   🤔 Etiquette & Empathy: The consensus? While tradition holds its charm, the integration of technology in worship is an undeniable trend. The key lies in balancing respect for individual worship needs. Suggestions ranged from using phones discreetly to possibly designating tech-friendly seating areas in churches.   What's your call on this? Should the tech stay or go at Mass?