The Patrick Madrid Show

Ever been stuck wondering if you should attend a wedding of a fallen-away Catholic? There can be anger, tension, and hurt in the family if you don't go, and it's tempting to want to keep the peace! What should you do? Patrick Madrid dives into this tricky situation! Here’s some advice that can help you!    Listener Letter: Maggie and Bill write in, grappling with attending a wedding of Catholics who’ve drifted from the Church and are getting married outside of it. They present objections from fellow Catholics challenging Patrick's stance against attending such weddings.   Patrick's Key Points:   Catholic Marriage Validity: A marriage involving at least one Catholic must take place in a Catholic Church before a bishop, priest, or deacon to be valid. Otherwise, it’s not recognized by the Church.   Natural Marriages: Marriages between non-Catholics, like Protestants or non-Christians, are considered valid by the Church. Catholics can attend these ceremonies without issues.   Scandal and Conscience: Attending an invalid Catholic marriage can cause scandal and gives the impression of endorsing it. This is a matter of conscience, not just a public stance.   St. John the Baptist Analogy: Patrick uses St. John the Baptist’s refusal to endorse Herod’s invalid marriage to show the moral duty to uphold Church teachings, even when it’s tough.   Objections and Patrick's Responses:   "John the Baptist was a political figure."   Response: John wasn’t a political figure; his actions had political implications. The moral duty to stand by your conscience applies to everyone, regardless of prominence.   "No one else cares if I attend."   Response: God cares. It’s about your conscience and integrity. Even if no one else knows, compromising your beliefs for convenience isn’t right.   "Isn't it better for them to be civilly married?"   Response: For Catholics, a civil marriage without following Church law is just cohabitation. The state’s recognition doesn’t make it valid in the Church's eyes.   "Lying during Pre-Cana is worse."   Response: Both lying and entering an invalid marriage are wrong. The right path is to avoid both and adhere to Church teachings.   "Is there a benefit to attending and showing quiet disapproval?"   Response: Attending might imply endorsement, causing more harm than good. Upholding your beliefs and setting an example is more beneficial.   Family Dynamics: Patrick totally understands how difficult it can be to take a stand for truth, but he reminds you that we always need to do God's will, even when others are against us. Ask Jesus for the courage to follow Him no matter what.

Patrick Madrid explores a crucial topic with caller Ron from Staples, Minnesota: the proper way to show reverence to Jesus in the Holy Eucharist.    Ron's Journey: Ron, a longtime listener and first-time caller, shared his increased participation in Eucharistic adoration thanks to the Eucharistic revival. He's noticed various reactions during these ceremonies and wanted Patrick's take on how to best show reverence.   Patrick's Insightful Response: Patrick emphasized that reverence for Jesus in the Blessed Sacrament can't be overdone. Jesus desires to receive everything we can give, and we owe him every ounce of veneration possible.    Kneeling Tradition: In the Latin rite, kneeling during the consecration has been a tradition for over 1,500 years. However, some people with physical limitations might not be able to kneel, which is understandable.   Eastern Rite Practices: On the flip side, the Eastern Churches stand as a sign of respect. Both forms are valid expressions of reverence.   Different Expressions: Patrick pointed out that during Eucharistic adoration, you'll see different expressions of reverence—some people kneeling, others standing, and some even lifting their hands in praise. Every person is on a different point in their faith journey. All these acts, though different, should stem from a place of love and respect for Jesus.   Assume Good Faith: Because of the variety of practices post-Vatican II, Patrick encouraged us to assume good faith in others' expressions of reverence. The fact that they're present and worshiping is a testament to their love for Jesus.   Liturgical Guidelines: Patrick pointed out that in the U.S., the Bishops Conference states that kneeling is the proper posture during consecration. It should be the way we give worship to Jesus in this moment at Mass.   While the ways of showing reverence might vary, the important thing is that people are coming to adore Jesus and showing him respect in their way.    Key Takeaway: "Assume good faith and recognize that diverse expressions of reverence all stem from a deep love for Jesus in the Holy Eucharist."    Will you visit Jesus in adoration soon? He loves you and desires to spend time with you!

Patrick has a powerful conversation with Maria who bravely shares her chilling experience with AI phone scams. He discusses how scammers are using advanced AI to mimic the voices of loved ones, creating emotional and financial havoc. Listen to learn critical tips on protecting yourself from these high-tech cons and stay one step ahead.   New Portal Lets You Renew Your U.S. Passport Online Patients at Ascension hospital network given dangerous doses of narcotics after disastrous cyberattack Paul - Why is the Rosary shown being prayed, why is it counterclockwise as opposed to clockwise? (06:24) Leo - My nephew is getting married outside of the Church and want to know how I should talk to him about this? (10:17) Audio: Is it a new Paul McCartney song? Nope. It’s AI and it’s amazing. (19:30) 200 musical artists sign an open letter against unethical AI in music, what to know Maria - I received a call claiming to be my grandson and it sounded like Artificial Intelligence. It was really strange. I was scared. (39:08) AI phone scam mimicking your voice can now be used to scam family, friends, experts warn

Patrick takes on theological questions on the authority of the Catholic priesthood and the nuances that differentiate it from other denominations. He explores whether a Lutheran minister could perform the miracle of transubstantiation and the legitimacy of exorcism by those outside the Catholic faith. Patrick clarifies complex scriptural passages and addresses the importance of valid ordination within the sacraments, drawing insights from the early Church Fathers.   Catherine (email) - Is it okay to wear tee shirts with things like the Sacred Heart printed on the front? (00:28) Edward - When did Jesus institute the priesthood? Why can't non-Catholics do the same thing? (02:18) New law requires all Louisiana public school classrooms to display the Ten Commandments (19:34) Julie - During Benediction, Jesus is referred to as 'it'. This seems weird in a day when we use all of these different pronouns for people. (38:30) Michael - I know a couple who are Catholic and getting married. The person officiating the civil service is also Catholic. Is this a sin? Joseph - Technique for the 10 Commandments in school: If they can name them in order, I ask them which one they would want their kid to avoid. (33:36) Kari - I am a mother of 3 children and one of my daughters is graduating from high school. She is dating a young man, and they are going away to college. He said he doesn't believe in God, so I am concerned. How can I gently talk to him about this? (45:03)

Patrick tackles a challenging and often recurring question: should you attend a non-valid Catholic wedding? He shares his reasons for advising against it, citing the Church's teachings and the example of St. John the Baptist. Patrick breaks down objections, clarifies misconceptions about natural marriages, and emphasizes the importance of upholding the Church’s canonical form.   Patrick answers Kari’s question posed at the end of that last hour: Should I encourage my adult daughter to not date an atheist? (00:34) Jacquie - I was speaking with a friend who said you can never lose the love of God. If you can't lose your salvation, what's the point of the 10 Commandments? (10:21) Mary - Where is it best to keep cremated ashes before the memorial? (15:57) Michelle - Can I attend my non-practicing Catholic brother's wedding? He is getting married outside the Catholic Church. (27:35) Maggie and Bill (email) – What is Patrick’s response to two baptized and confirmed Catholics who refuse to attend pre-Cana or raise their kids as Catholics? (29:49) Sue - What is your opinion on those who put cremated ashes in jewelry? (46:36)

Patrick examines the widespread appeal and the creative liberties taken by the popular series "The Chosen." While he acknowledges the exceptional acting and the relatable portrayal of Jesus by Jonathan Roumie, Patrick voices his concerns about certain artistic decisions, particularly in the portrayal of biblical characters and events. He explores whether it's appropriate for directors to deviate from the New Testament's gospel accounts, citing examples like the show's depiction of a fabricated plot twist involving the apostle Thomas and his fiancée, Rama. Patrick engages with callers to discuss the impact of these deviations and the challenges of balancing artistic license with scriptural fidelity.   Kansas Attorney General sues Pfizer for "misleading Kansans on COVID vaccine." (00:43) JoAnn - I almost lost my life to COVID, and people lost their jobs for asking questions. (14:36) Dallas Jenkins Defends 'The Chosen' Season 4 Shocking Plot Twist (20:18) Terry - I signed myself out of the hospital because they were going to kill me. I found a doctor that helped me (28:51) John - I agree with you on The Chosen. It seems to make people forget that it's the word of God. (36:41) Sarah - In the Gospel, Jesus discussed not healing the woman, whereas Elijah saved a woman and her son but not the rest of the Jews. (42:07) Mary - I stopped watching The Chosen when they added people who weren't in the New Testament (47:14)

Patrick delves into the polarizing reactions to "The Chosen." He discusses how the show's embellishments stir both appreciation for humanizing the apostles and concerns about distorting sacred narratives. Listener opinions vary from love for its relatability to caution about straying from biblical accuracy.   Will (email) – The defenders of The Chosen seem to be pushy (00:39) Bob - I think The Chosen makes the bible more realistic and more personal (01:52) George – Mary is the right age and Patrick sounds stupid for saying otherwise (05:17) Katerina - I think they need to be more respectful of Jesus' words. Also, I met a wonderful older man who was spiritual but not Catholic. Will he go to Heaven? (07:26) Jim – Why do we use Deuteronomy for the 10 Commandments, but other churches use Exodus? (15:30) Patrick shares some of the many emails coming in concerning The Chosen (21:49) Allan (email) – Is it a sin to hang up on a spam caller Maria - Catholic Teaching says that Mary would not age because she was free from sin, and she would have been young and beautiful (34:36) Julia - What purpose do you think that Jesus had for not healing the lady served? (40:15) Sally - Can you give me resources for my son who is living with his girlfriend? (45:20) Nicki - My nephew feels lost with religion and was asking me questions. My dad told him not to talk to me about religion and to go seek his answers somewhere else. What should I do? (47:24)

Patrick gives a heartfelt tribute to the late Al Cresta, a pioneering voice in Catholic radio who recently passed away from cancer. Patrick reflects on Al's significant contributions, personal anecdotes, and the impact he had on bringing people closer to their faith. He also has a heartfelt chat with a trucker who shares how Catholic radio brought him back to his faith.   Mark – Why is Pope Francis cancelling the Latin Mass? (01:14) Dave - Could you offer a comment on the passing of Al Kresta? (06:09) Natalia - How do you warn a family member who is going to see a medium? (11:24) Stephanie – Do you wear a Brown Scapular? (18:17) Jim - I don't think that it's a good thing that Jesus and Mary are portrayed as different races (30:08) Eileen - At funeral masses, some priests aren't allowing eulogies. Where did this come from and why is it happening? (35:09) Jean - What is the difference between punishment and discipline? (42:17) Theresa - My friend has been lying to me for a year about why she doesn't want our daughters to be friends. How do I handle this in a Christ like way? (47:02)

Patrick tackles some deep questions on navigating medical care at institutions with conflicting moral values, and the complexities of joining a deliverance ministry. He emphasizes the importance of making decisions that align with your faith and gut instincts. Plus, stay tuned for insightful commentary on the Gaza conflict.   Julie (email) – Is it okay to receive care at a hospital that promotes or gives services that are immoral? (00:44) Employees at the OCF Coffee House in Philadelphia voted to unionize. 1 week later, all 3 stores closed down. Now they're protesting the closure (05:39) Anthony – I’ve been asked to help with exorcisms and I don’t know that that’s something I want to do (10:03) Patrick shares and comments on audio from Douglas Marray’s rebuttal to Medhi Hasan during the “Anti-Zionism vs Anti-Semitism” Munk debate (17:34) Maria - I have two sisters that are living with their boyfriends. Am I required to warn them that what they are doing is wrong? (45:21)

Patrick dives deep into a complex and often misunderstood aspect of Catholic doctrine: the annulment process. One caller poses a challenging question about the validity and implications of marriage vows made before God and the authority of the Catholic Church to grant annulments. Patrick thoughtfully unpacks the nuances of ecclesiastical declarations of nullity, the binding nature of vows, and how civil law views children from annulled marriages. It's a discussion that might just change the way listeners think about marriage and the Church's role in it.   Pirso - Is insulting Mother Mary a sin against the Holy Spirit? (05:54) Joe - Today's reading - I though the Elijah couldn't go to Heaven because the gates of Heaven weren't open till the New Testament? (08:07) Gracie - My daughter is having trouble with her period and the doctor said we could try an IUD. My priest said it's ok if it's for health reasons, but I'm not sure about it. (15:20) Nick - In the Western Church, they say that Mary Magdalene and Mary of Bethany are two different people. In the Eastern Church, they say it's one person. (22:06) Joyce – Does the Church honor marriage vows? What about annulments? I thought that they would honor that and shouldn't let me get divorced (42:38)