The Patrick Madrid Show

From discussing the essence of sacrifice and good deeds during Lent to exploring unique insights about Daylight Saving Time and health impacts, Patrick covers a variety of topics. He addresses listener questions about spiritual growth and family dynamics, providing heartfelt advice on the path to rediscovering faith.   Patrick from Albuquerque (email) – Comment about sacrificing or taking on something during Lent (00:46) The ‘spring forward’ of daylight-saving time comes with health concerns (07:16) Kyle - There was a tabernacle off to the side in a Church I went to. I talked with the priest about it. What should I have said? (18:30) Molly - I secretly baptized my niece and nephew, now I realize that wasn't the right thing to do. What should I do now? (21:58) Joshua - Lenten sacrifice being different from adding to good things: I feel selfish when I am feeling down because I pray, and it helps. Is that okay? (28:27) The story of Ignaz Semmelweis (37:10) Tony – If Adam and Eve were the first humans, how were more babies made? Why did people live so long back then? (46:45)

A listener shares how embracing traditional marriage roles rooted in scripture has transformed her family life. Patrick discusses the Catholic Church's perspective on these roles amidst cultural shifts and modern feminism. He also offers heartfelt advice for couples seeking to conceive and emphasizes the transformative power of prayer.   Christi - What is the Catholic Church's advice for women being stay at home moms? (01:26) Angela - A friend told me that her parents didn't get married in the Catholic Church and don’t receive communion. What can they do? (10:43) Maryanne - My grandson and his wife are trying to conceive. I can't do the Walk to Mary but is there anything else I can do to help them conceive? (15:02) Juanita - What is the husband’s role and what should he do and not do? (24:41) Richard - Story about Conceiving: After a couple stopped drinking diet products, they got pregnant right away. There are many other things that are unhealthy to take which makes having babies difficult. (36:08) Jeff - What is a good book to give my son to help with Revelation? (37:10) Will - My son wants to live with his girlfriend as brother and sister in our basement. Is that okay? (45:11)

Patrick discusses compelling topics like the challenges of using study Bibles, understanding moral teachings on contraception, and the rising cost of eggs. He addresses the complexity of gender identity in the workplace and the impact of public-school agendas on families. Tune in for Patrick's insightful discussions, listener calls, and practical advice on living a Catholic life in today's world.   Email – You often recommend that Saint Ignatius Study Bible. What about the Navarre Study Bible? (00:35) Amy (email) - No one ever told us that contraception was a serious sin. (02:03) George - What does it mean in the bible when Jesus says, 'I don't know you'? (12:16) Egg prices nearly doubled last year (18:03) Mary - Co-worker is transitioning to a woman and not sure how to approach him (22:03) Carol (email) - I fully agree with the Church's approval and teaching on NFP, but I believe that couples have tended to use NFP when not actually necessary (37:09) Diane - Public school and private schools in MN are indoctrinated due to the governor, and the teachers will lose their license if they don't comply (41:51)

Patrick explores marriage hurdles when your preferred priest isn't available and discusses the power of offering up sufferings in line with Catholic teaching. He shares insights on the role of Our Lady's sinlessness in her merit and addresses debates on overpopulation myths, featuring a surprising take from Elon Musk. Plus, he shares heartwarming listener stories that highlight the joys and trials of living out the faith.   David (email) – My priest is really hard to get in touch with. What would happen if we got married in her Lutheran Church? (00:45) Robert - Since Mary had no sin was her suffering more powerful since she didn't have to suffer for herself. (04:35) Theresa - We lived in Australia when I was getting married, so we got married at a Cathedral since we weren't parishioners at any place in the USA. (13:32) Desmond (email) - Is all seafood okay to eat on Fridays in Lent? (20:02) Bryan - Mary's immaculate conception: Analogy could be, if you are on a ship and you are up against a railing which gives way, and someone reaches out and grabs you before you fall into the water. (22:44) Jessica - I just bought breakfast with meat in it but forgot it was Friday. I am also pregnant, so does the fasting and no meat rules apply to me? (28:01) Trump: U.S. will fast-track citizenship for south African farmers fleeing land seizures (34:15) Audio: Elon: make babies in whatever way possible, including IVF – The planet is not overpopulated, we're underpopulated. (39:21) Sylvia - If I broke a Lenten penance, is that considered a sin? (47:35)

Patrick discusses the spiritual significance of Lent practices, debates the complexities of relationships when faith isn't shared, and shares heartening stories of faith-led decisions.   Cyrusette - Since I don't like meat, wouldn't it actually be a greater Lenten practice to eat it rather than to not eat it? (00:37) Alex - I am on fire for God and I feel like my wife is not so on fire for God even though she brought me into the Church. What can I do for her? (03:01) Randy - How does a Catholic get his marriage validated? (06:25) Carol - Can I make the sign of the cross with my left hand? (12:31) Audio: Reparations: CNN presenter asks British guest about reparations for slavery. She responds by saying YES, Africans enslaved those people so let’s go and get reparations from them and also give some money to the British people who abolished slavery. (17:39) Josephine - Have you seen the movie, “Somebody Like You”? It is about a family that used IVF. What do you think of it? (23:17) Amy - I thought there was supposed to be Holy Water in the Churches during Lent (33:33) Heidi - Getting engaged to a non-Catholic: I broke off an engagement 2 months before the wedding and lost thousands of dollars. I ended up marrying a good Catholic man and have been married for 25 years! (41:17)

A listener inquires about the spiritual benefits of having holy water at home, highlighting its connection to baptism. There's a lively discussion on whether to support Target amidst a boycott related to their DEI policies. Young Isaac asks probing questions about ethics in self-defense and the timeline of dinosaurs in the Bible. The conversation touches on rekindling faith through literature and navigating interfaith relationships, blending scripture with contemporary dilemmas to foster a deeper understanding of Catholic beliefs.

Mark from Honolulu called into The Patrick Madrid Show with a Lent question that you might have wondered about:   "Can I add something extra for Lent (like good deeds or ministry work) instead of giving something up?"   Sounds appealing, right? You don’t have to suffer through black coffee and no streaming services... just do extra good stuff!    Patrick’s take? Not so fast. (no pun intended)   He explains that this whole "just add something" idea actually became trendy in the ‘90s. Lent is about self-denial; just like Jesus said: "If you wish to be my disciple, deny yourself."    Giving something up is about: Mastering our bodily appetites (self-control) Learning to detach from things we like Deepening our dependence on God   So, bottom line? Adding good deeds = Good  Skipping self-denial = Not so good    You can add something extra, but don’t skip the sacrifice. Time to say goodbye to that daily coffee run (or, you know, whatever your comfort is) and embrace the Lent struggle. 

Okay, let’s get real about fasting. Patrick Madrid explains in this episode, and honestly? It’s not as scary as it sounds, especially compared to Jesus’ 40-day fast in the desert. Like, can you imagine?    So, What’s the Deal with Catholic Fasting?   First, fasting isn’t some random rule the Church made up. It’s an ancient discipline that goes all the way back to Jesus Himself. And if He did it, even though He didn’t need to... then yeah, maybe we should take notes.   Fasting is about gaining control over our appetites before they control us. Let’s be honest: we live in a world where skipping one meal feels like the end of civilization. But fasting teaches self-mastery and unites us to Christ in His suffering.   What Are the Actual Fasting Rules?   Ash Wednesday & Good Friday Fasting → One full meal, plus two smaller snacks that don’t add up to a second meal. (No, you don’t need to weigh your food like a bodybuilder.) Abstinence from meat → No steak, no chicken, no bacon.    Fridays in Lent   No meat → But you don’t have to eat fish. (Seriously, where did that myth come from?)   Wait… Can I Have That Lobster Dinner on a Friday?    Technically? Yes. Spiritually? Ehhh. The whole idea is to keep it simple, not turn abstinence into an excuse for a five-star seafood feast.    Why Does This Matter?   Because it’s a tiny sacrifice to remind ourselves that we are not slaves to our desires. It’s a way of saying, “Lord, I want to unite my small suffering with Yours.”   So yeah, fasting isn’t easy. But it’s worth it; if nothing else, it makes you appreciate that Easter ham a whole lot more.      -Fasting = 1 full meal + 2 small snacks (Ash Wed & Good Fri).   -No meat on Fridays in Lent.   -Fish is allowed but not required.   -Keep it simple; don’t turn “sacrifice” into a seafood buffet.   Now, go forth and fast… but maybe don’t plan a Costco trip on an empty stomach.   

Patrick brings attention to the health risks and addiction issues linked to vaping. Patrick shares firsthand accounts from those affected by vaping-related health problems such as collapsed lungs. He explores the appeal of vaping among young adults and highlights marketing strategies that target them.   A new study flags vaping as a bigger health hazard than cigarettes, linking it to dementia, heart disease, and organ failure (00:51) Daylight saving falls out of favor with most Americans (12:57) Karen - Vaping: I own a vape shop. I want to make the public aware that there are a lot of deaths through smoking. I think vaping is a good way to get off of cigarettes. (19:13) Elizabeth - I had a collapsed lung twice in my life, but the doctor was able to fix it both times. (32:16) Mari - I am 21 and all of my friends are addicted to vape, and they also do other drugs. (41:38) Ruben - Can a Deacon say Mass without a priest present? (46:21)

Patrick shares a heartfelt email from a listener grappling with the moral implications of in vitro fertilization and seeking hope and forgiveness within the Catholic faith. This hour also features an engaging discussion with Alicia from Chicago, who faces challenges in a mixed-faith relationship and is contemplating the future of her marriage. Patrick offers fatherly advice, providing insights into the potential hurdles and heartaches of such unions while encouraging listeners to consider the long-term impacts on family and faith.   Susie (email) – I had children using In Vitro Fertilization (IFV) before I knew it was a sin. I love my kids, but I feel guilty over what I did. (00:39) Alicia - I am 24 and in a relationship with a non-Catholic. I asked him if he would come to church with me. He said that he didn't want to be part of my religion. (07:48) Ada (email) - Would the advice you gave to Alicia also apply for a non-practicing Catholic? (21:32) Richard - My wife was a practicing Catholic, and she told me that I need to be a strong Catholic if we were to marry. I would say she should give him that ultimatum. (26:36) Anonymous email - Why did God design it so that we fall in love based mainly on hormones when in the long run our hormones have nothing to do with marital success? (29:11) Michael - My stepdaughter married an atheist man, and they have issues in the marriage and neither go to church anymore. (36:16) Marie - I have been married for 30 years to a non-Catholic, and it is the loneliest I have ever been (43:31)