The Patrick Madrid Show

Patrick explores how to honor our parents, heal, and find lightness in letting go.Dealing with difficult parental relationships can be tough, but honoring your father and mother doesn't mean putting them on a pedestal. It's about giving the due respect they deserve, even if your parents have hurt you or done wrong. Forgiveness is key. Release that emotional baggage and find peace. Even if you don't feel the warm and fuzzies, praying for them can be enough. Don't stay in toxic or dangerous situations, but know that honoring them can also mean setting boundaries.   Joan - How do you know if a marriage is valid or could be annulled? (00:52) Tom - What if you were the child of Hitler/Mussolini, should you honor them?  I say no.  Regardless of where you came from, the best way to honor parents is to live a Godly life and bring honor to the family. (22:55) Patrick talks with Cyrus about forgiveness and not carrying the weight of anger and resentment with you (30:58) Diane - Because of Patrick's show, I’m getting married again to my husband in a Church! (40:42) Job - There was a tremendous amount of infidelity on my wife part (who's in the public eye) and I slapped her.  My children hate me.  We don't have an annulment.  I don't know how to approach her.  How do I get through to my kids that I'm the good guy? (47:58)

Patrick dives deep into a real-life story of heartbreak, family dynamics, and difficult boundaries. He hears from Mary in Chicago, who shares her emotional journey dealing with an unfaithful ex-husband and the impact on her children. Patrick talks about forgiveness, self-respect, and the importance of maintaining boundaries, especially when dealing with toxic behaviors and difficult relationships.   Patrick continues his conversation with Job from the end of the previous hour. He tells Patrick, “There was a tremendous amount of infidelity on my wife part (who's in the public eye) and I slapped her.  My children hate me.  We are separated but we don't have an annulment.  I don't know how to approach her.  How do I get through to my kids that I'm the good guy?” (00:38) Mary - My son is cut off from his father.  We've been divorced for 30 years.  I've not dated, but my ex-husband was a repeat adulterer.  How could my son honor his father in this situation? (11:29) Don - I've read recently that many Catholics are not registered to vote in the elections and those registered don't bother to vote.  I heard from a priest that it's an obligation for Catholics to vote.  Where does this come from? (17:38) John - The NAVY Seals are hunting drug cartels in Venezuela and they withheld last rites from a drug dealer unless he gave up important information. (21:04) Monica - My ex-husband turned 3 of my 4 kids against me.  How often does that happen? (31:30) Lynette – My husband wants to separate. He’s not interested in counseling. What can I do? (38:58)

Patrick delves into powerful stories of faith journeys, like a Protestant man worried about converting to Catholicism due to his wife's opposition—an emotional turn of events that leads to an unexpected family conversion. He also tackles the work-life balance for moms, offering practical advice for maintaining a career while raising kids. Plus, he explores pivotal New Testament insights from Acts chapter 15 on the early Church's decisions.   Patrick reads and responds to an email from Ken who claims Patrick said non-Catholic weddings are invalid and that Catholics shouldn’t go to non-Catholic funerals (00:44) Angel – Should I wait for my anti-Catholic husband to change his beliefs so we can both convert to Catholicism together? Rita - I was able to work part time as an engineer and I was able to raise my kids. (34:50) Richard - What happens to our Guardian Angels when we die? (44:47) Monica - I didn't have the option to not work full time (47:36) Bonnie - I was an attorney. When my first child was born, I chose to stay home. It has been the best decision in my life.

Today on The Patrick Madrid Show, Patrick dives deep into the world of stay-at-home parenting. From battling alcoholism to breaking cycles of neglect, his guests share raw and powerful stories. He hears from fathers like Francisco, embracing full-time caregiving, and moms balancing careers with family life. Their experiences highlight the complexities and rewards of these roles, emphasizing love, patience, and support.   Jaqueline (email) – I was left alone and neglected when both my parents choose their careers over me (00:31) Jodi - My mom was a stay at home mom. When I was 8-years-old she went back to school. I was very traumatized by this. It was difficult for me. (06:28) Francisco - My wife went to work and I had to be at home. I think that it was God's way of telling me to take care of my kids. (19:03) Sue - I am a working mom and I have a lot of regrets. The homemaking will always fall on us. So I think we are just making things harder for us by not staying home. (22:41) Linda - I think being a stay at home mom is wonderful and I think all women should get to experience it Anthony - I am a stay at home dad and the reversing of roles is hard. It was difficult for me to get used to, but after a while I started to see the blessings in it Dolores - I think it's important for siblings to have shared time together as they are growing up. Mary - I had to work because my husband had been in a religious order, so he didn't have income. We both had to work and raise the kids together. (40:27) Diane - My mom stayed at home with us and worked nights. I got a Masters and I decided to stay at home with my kids instead of using it. Suzie - We had to coordinate things and we were able to equally share the load. Liz - My parents’ marriage has been a model for us and I wanted to state the importance of being a team player with your spouse

Patrick tackles the real-life struggles and triumphs of stay-at-home parenthood. From the vital role of spousal support to the evolving dynamics in modern marriages, the callers share deeply personal stories and insights. Patrick discusses balancing careers and family, the emotional impact on kids, and the importance of prioritizing our loved ones. Whether you're a stay-at-home parent or juggling a career, today’s show is packed with wisdom and heartfelt advice.   Patrick continues his conversation with Bonnie from the end of the last hour. She left her career to raise her children. (00:32) Elizabeth - I chose to stay at home and I don't regret it. (10:10) Martha - My mother went back to work when I was a teen and I hated it. Patrick shares an email from a listener that disagrees with his take on moms staying at home whenever possible and the kind of help they can give their husbands (36:49) Rosemary – My husband's day ended after work in our home but the mom's day went on even after he got back. I think it is good for both parents to work in the evenings. (40:59) Mary - Are woman willing to do the lawn work and fixing things? Men do things around the house that women don't do.

Mary calls in and shares the heart-wrenching struggles of her 40-year marriage where she feels utterly alone. Patrick explores the complexities of being a supportive spouse amidst apathy and addiction, and the emotional toll it takes when change seems out of reach.   Bernardo - How do the fruits of the spirit and the gifts of the spirit work together in the spiritual life? Why does the number very sometimes? (03:24) Ruben (8-years-old) - How can I help take care of my sibling who will be born in July? (09:39) Sam - I am a new Catholic. I used to be Protestant. At Mass, when communion started, I knew I was in mortal sin and felt a feeling that I would go to hell in this state. How can I overcome my weaknesses? Melody – I’m an Evangelical Protestant who believes in the Real Presence of the Eucharist. Why does the Catholic Church say it requires a priest to consecrate it? (31:35) Mary - I am struggling with my marriage. I have been doing everything I can, but I am too the point where I am wondering if I need to separate from my husband. What should I do? (43:04)

Are you wrestling with life's hardest questions, yearning for encouragement, or seeking real-world advice grounded in faith? Patrick tackles tough situations like Mary's struggle with her husband's alcoholism and explores avenues for hope, such as canonical separation and organizations like Mary's Advocates. Discover how others, like Amy and Brad, find strength in prayer, community support, and the courage to involve family in their trials. Remember, whether it's dealing with addiction or praying for your children's return to faith, you're not alone.   Patrick continues his conversation with Mary from the end of the previous hour. (00:21) Amy - I had the same situation as Mary with my husband and I stayed close with Christ. We went through separation and he did go through recovery and he cleaned up his act. (07:01) Brad - I am in a similar situation as Mary. Maybe she can get her adult kids to help with the situation? (10:25) Patrick shares practical advice for helping keep your kids on the right track (18:00)  George - I am going through the same situation accept I am in her husband's shoes. My advice is for the husband to fix it NOW. I work hard, but I had a drinking problem. I am going through a divorce now. (25:41) Linda - Several years ago, my children stopped going to church when they went to college. I started texting them Catholic bits and now both of my kids are back in the Church. (34:06) Ann - My dad was a violent alcoholic. We convinced mom to leave the house before he killed her. It wasn't until my dad realized that she was serious about leaving that he turned his act around. He quit cold turkey and they were back together again. Sylvia - I understand what George is going through. I am a recovering alcoholic. I put my family through a lot, but there is hope. (46:15)

Are you unnerved by the idea of a cashless society? Today, Patrick ponders whether it's a step towards totalitarianism or just a change in currency mediums. He tackles the mark of the beast and privacy implications, discovering a balance between caution and freedom. In a world swamped with pessimism, Patrick shares advice on overcoming media-induced anxiety—counseling a focus on faith, family, hobbies, and unplugging from the news cycle.   Patrick shares a powerful scene from the movie Days of Wine and Roses where a husband admits to his wife that he’s an alcoholic and that she is too, and they need to stop drinking to survive Steve - How many degrees of separation are needed to use deadly force to protect my family? (05:42) Jorge - I need some guidance on everything that is happening in the world today and in our Church (25:46) Joey - Killing out of self-defense: Do you think that counters what Thomas Aquinas said? Francie - I would like to support the woman whose kids are fallen away. My children all fell away from the Church. I have been lukewarm Catholic but then I had a conversion and prayed really hard. Tony - My kids do martial arts. When they walk into the dojo they bow before they enter and before they leave. We bow in Church so is it confusing for kids to bow before the master? (45:42) Al - God does have an angry side to him. If the government decides to do digital currency, we have a right to defend ourselves.

Patrick delves into a humorous but thoughtful satire that questions the atheist viewpoint on the resurrection of Jesus Christ. He explores why this theory of a hoax falls apart, highlighting the immense risks and gruesome sacrifices the apostles face to spread the word. Even if you're skeptical, understanding these perspectives can enrich your critical thinking.   Audio: This is how atheists think Christianity started (03:33) George - The problem with the satire is that the Apostles would have needed to know in advance that they would be killed. (14:48) Email – Why are parents afraid to be parents? (21:06) Piedad – I think parents are attending more games because they are more aware of the need for their kids to have them there, not because of guilt. (39:32) Email – Daycare centers are raising children, so the parents feel the need to go to every concert or game (44:26)

Patrick engages in a heated debate with Gabe, a belligerent, hostile caller who relentlessly challenges Patrick to defend the compatibility of religious beliefs as they conflict with the LGBTQ++ worldview. Patrick calmly and methodically turns the tables on Gabe, neutralizing his flailing attempts to fluster and put him on the defensive, by responding to his ferocity using the Socratic method of argumentation. This call generated a greater than usual massive outpouring of listener emails and phone calls, overwhelmingly expressing their astonishment and appreciation at how instructive this dramatic the call was.   AI can turn your WiFi router into a “camera that can work in the dark attuned for tracking living beings.” (43:00) Dave - I think a good perspective is that we have a lot of wealth and freedom now in work and in our society. I would go to games because of the social element. (08:50) Dave - I would like to plug the Walton’s who you turned me on to and how great of a family they life they have. (12:14) Gabe – Your anti-trans messaging is wrong (21:31) Heidi - I think you could have made a few points with Gabe that could have helped. There are many countries that are not backing up trans. (42:38) Paola - Could you talk about how you handled that last call and what debate tactic you used? (46:11)