The Patrick Madrid Show

On The Patrick Madrid Show, Cyra from Alberta called in with a tough but crucial question: who should she and her husband pick as legal guardians for their kids in their will? Her top choice is her sister and brother-in-law: loving, family-oriented, and nearby. But there was a hitch: they’re not practicing Catholics.   Her husband, Sebastian, was especially concerned that if their kids ended up in their care, the faith might slowly fade out of their lives: not because of bad intentions, but just because, well, life happens. Cyra, on the other hand, struggled with the idea of choosing someone outside the family.    Patrick’s Advice? Faith Comes First!   Patrick said that faith should be the number one priority when picking guardians. Sure, family closeness and emotional stability are important, but if the guardians don’t actively practice and prioritize the Catholic faith, then there’s a real risk that the kids could drift away from it over time.    Even with the best of intentions, a non-Catholic couple might start strong in raising the kids Catholic, but when it comes to the daily grind: Sunday Mass, sacraments, religious education... things could start slipping. It’s not about doubting their love, but about recognizing human nature.    So, What’s the Best Plan?   If Catholic family members aren’t an option, Patrick suggested looking for strong Catholic friends or community members who would make raising the kids in the faith a true priority. It’s a big decision, but ultimately, the goal is to ensure that the kids grow up knowing, loving, and practicing their Catholic faith.    Get Your Will in Order, For Free!   Patrick gave a super useful tip: check out CatholicLegacy.com, a free service from Relevant Radio that helps Catholics create airtight wills that align with their faith. Because let’s be real: none of us like thinking about wills, but it’s way better to be prepared than to leave things to chance.   If you’re picking legal guardians, don’t just think about love and familiarity... think about who will make sure your kids get to Heaven. 

Patrick tackles the sobering story surrounding Saint Padre Pio and the unsettling rumor about a man’s destiny in the afterlife. He provides clarity, debunking the myth with well-researched facts, and offers guidance on making a proper and sincere confession. He also covers the international crime headlines and warns about the smishing scams spreading across the states.   Patrick starts the show with reading an email with the startling subject line, "Padre Pio said “Your Husband Is In Hell". (00:41) Patrick comments on the 300 deported members of the notorious Venezuelan gang Tren de Aragua into custody of a Venezuela prison (09:53) Southern Baptist denomination is shrinking across the country (20:23) FBI Warns Of Road Toll Text Scam (34:55) Elon exposes 398 million social security numbers — 57 million more than U.S. Population (37:48) Rick - I don’t feel sorry for those who lost their job because of DOGE. I think they are helping our country come back from a bad place. What do you think? (40:48)

Patrick covers an array of topics, from the joys and considerations of adoption to the ongoing debate about the Beatles' influence in music. He addresses listener questions on moral decision-making in music preferences and offers practical advice for handling family challenges. Additionally, he discusses current events, like the effects of federal workforce reductions.   Jude (email) – Is it okay to listen to the Beatles since some of their songs are not in line with church teaching? (03:04) Patricia - How soon should a couple discern adoption? What should they do to take the first steps? (18:35) Lynn - Most people being laid off are getting an eight-month severance pay and Trump is making more jobs for people, so I don't think it is as bad as it seems. (24:05) Mike (email) – DOGE: I think it’s important to actually read about how the firings went down. (35:03) Diego - My 23-year-old brother in the army is deploying soon. We want to visit them but found out that his girlfriend will be going there a day early, should we be concerned that they will be alone together for a day before we get there? (37:37) Pamela – My 41-year-old-son has Asperger’s. He usually loses his job, and when he does he asks me for money. Should I keep giving him money or let him move in if he asks? (41:24)

Patrick gets into a wide range of topics, from personal finance wisdom to the power of prayer in times of adversity. Sharon brings in wisdom from her conservative banker father on financial stewardship. Patrick tackles complex questions on religious practices and highlights the profound impact of patience and prayer in guiding wayward loved ones back home through Juanita's heartfelt story. Plus, he explores the nuances of family planning within a faith-based framework.   Krishna (email) - When we were first married, we conceived right away but just the baby in a motor accident. We failed to conceive after that. (00:32) Sharon - DOGE: It’s about time our government is audited. (02:21) Debbie – The Jimmy Kimmel show posted an offensive video on the Crucifix. What can we do about the video? I wrote to him already and think we should write to people who we know not to watch it. (10:43) Juanita - I waited 18 years for God to return my son after I turned him away. He finally turned his life around. (13:14) Daniel – Why does the Gospel of Matt say, “call no man Father”? (18:40) Chris (email) – Are their spiritual dangers at stadium events? (32:48) Tiffany - Is it licit to fast during NFP? (35:33) Rae - I told my son that I couldn't support him anymore, and he said okay and he did really well for himself. (46:01) Edwardo (email) – I was told my vasectomy reversal was going to cost $200,000. (47:49)

Patrick celebrates St. Patrick's Day by focusing on the life and legacy of St. Patrick himself. Patrick highlights the facts and dispels the myths, emphasizing that St. Patrick was indeed a Catholic. He shares how St. Patrick played a crucial role in bringing Christianity to Ireland. He also addresses misconceptions about St. Patrick's teachings and his connection to the authority of the Church in Rome. In addition, Patrick engages in a discussion on the start of life, considering both philosophical and scientific perspectives with callers.   Patrick shares Saint Patrick’s Prayer and the history of Saint Patrick (3:58) Brad – Does life begin at implantation or conception? (27:28)

Patrick engages in enlightening conversations about faith, life, and the intricacies of human beliefs. He explores how to tackle arguments with philosophical insights, discusses theological nuances like the beginning of life, and interacts with callers dealing with personal and spiritual questions. From revelations and spiritual signs to the importance of maintaining faith when raising children, Patrick covers it all with depth and clarity.   Patrick share’s Barb’s email and reiterates that every effect has a cause (0:32) Ronnie - What Brad is saying is true and not true. We all come from God from beginning of time. We were loved before we were born. (3:22) Audrey - Can people that go to Heaven come back to say goodbye, or is that satanic? (9:14) Cyra - How do we choose proper caretakers from among our children to put in our will? (19:57) Tom - If you commit no mortal sins, do you still have to confess during Lent? (34:00) Eric - Stairway to heaven: You said this song promotes Satan if you listen in reverse. Does this song stain the rest of their music? (38:55)

Patrick kicks things off by exploring the life and legacy of St. Patrick on his feast day, clearing up some common misconceptions about this famous saint. He engages in conversations with callers like Pete from Chicago, who shares his thoughts on rock legends like Ted Nugent and Led Zeppelin, leading to a deeper discussion on faith and music. Patrick offers insightful advice to Ethan from Maine, who is working through the complexities of a mixed marriage while wanting to return to his Catholic roots. Plus, enjoy the humorous take on explaining the Blessed Trinity.   Pete - What about Ted Nugent as a replacement for Led Zeppelin? He has underlying religious messages. (01:15) Rebecca - God can read our minds, but Satan can't. Do we need to pray out loud to the saints? (13:30) Patrick recommends the new movie, “The Count of Monte Cristo” (20:58) Ethan - I am in mixed marriage with Protestant wife. Can I have a dispensation and have my marriage blessed? She doesn’t want to be Catholic. (25:29) Albert - How do I not be judgmental about others? (31:38) Patrick shares a St. Patrick’s X post from Mr.Casey32 (36:27) Audio: St. Patrick's Bad Analogies (40:44) Martha – Is it true that St. Patrick is not Irish? (44:32) Jay – How do I explain to someone that their baby wasn’t really baptized? (46:28)

Patrick explores deep, thought-provoking questions about God's nature, with listeners like Joe and John asking complex theological questions. He also shares heartfelt moments with callers seeking solace after tragic losses, reminding everyone of the power of prayer and community. Plus, he takes a nostalgic look back at past political efforts to streamline government efficiency, sparking lively debate.   Katrina - Could God change the past so that a current addict never did drugs in the past so that person would never have become an addict? (00:56) Audio: 2011 - Obama announces a DOGE department and puts Joe Biden in charge of it (11:30) Dennis - Was God with my son right at the moment of his passing? (22:02) Dave - Is going to a Protestant men's group? What is my responsibility? (33:02) Robert - I also lost my older son. I always pray that the Lord came to him at his passing. (46:16)

Patrick addresses the pressing concerns of education gaps in U.S. eighth graders, highlighting the benefits of Catholic schooling and homeschooling. He examines the moral complexities surrounding sterilization and contraception within Catholic marriages and offers insightful resources that are free to download. Additionally, Patrick explores how social media can rewire your brain and discovers how parenthood can keep it young and agile.   8th graders struggling in reading & math (00:43) John - Can you elaborate on 'being who you are'? How can I know 'who I am'? (06:40) Brian - Is Confiteor optional during the Mass? Is it okay to clap after the choir sings at Mass? (10:07) Study: young parenthood helps the brain stay young (20:02) Sharon - Invalid Baptism: both my daughters baptized in Presbyterian Church. Do they need to be baptized again? Vasectomy: my daughter's husband had a vasectomy. Should I try to educate him on the Church’s teaching? (23:14) Study: Social Media Rewires Your Brain (32:54) Scott – Is there a practice of only saying Sorrowful Mysteries during Lent? (35:01) Tina - How can I present NFP to my husband who has a lot of anxiety issues? (38:39)

Patrick explores the importance of traditional practices, such as the rosary and receiving Holy Communion on the tongue, and how these shape the Catholic faith experience. He also addresses questions about purgatory, discussing its biblical basis and its significance for Catholics. Plus, Patrick shares real-life stories from listeners about living out their beliefs, like finding priests for last rites and dealing with medical ethics in marriage.   Terry (email) - According to a priest friend of mine, it used to be customary to pray the sorrowful mysteries on Sundays during Lent but is not required. (00:40) Gerard - Wife and I had a pretty heavy discussion about conceiving by age of 50. She is still open to life. She is worried about conceiving. Is there reason to abstain from sex after 50? (05:22) Teresa - Is there a priest that you could recommend in Surprise, Arizona? (14:10) Olivia (email) - I thought Holy Water could only be poured directly into the soil. Could you clarify how to dispose of Holy Water when necessary? (18:49) *Anna Marie - Where can we find Purgatory in the Bible? People are saying there is no word 'Purgatory' in the Bible? (20:27) *Mike - Is it improper to receive the host on the hand? (35:49) Kaylee – NFP: I recommend Marquette Method or Sensiplan (41:39) Rita - Purgatory question. How does plenary indulgence fit in with what you are saying? (43:59)