
Gent Z Podcast
A guide to everything a sophisticated gentleman needs in his life. With new guests each week, your host, James, discusses style, dating, where to live, what to do, and what not to do.
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Feb 13, 2025 • 1h 23min
#13 Dimitry Toukhcher - Clothes and the culture war
Dimitry Toukhcher, CEO of LGFG Fashion House and designer for clients like Jordan Peterson, dives deep into the world of fashion and personal expression. He discusses how clothing serves as a vehicle for self-identity and social commentary. The conversation touches on tailoring as an art form, societal biases against fashion choice, and the powerful influence of dress on perception in professional settings. Dimitry also reflects on cultural differences in ambition and the evolving nature of masculinity and personal branding in a fast-changing world.

Jan 31, 2025 • 1h 30min
#12 Dr. Paul Eastwick and Eli Finkel - What Red Pill Gets Wrong About Attraction
Join leading psychologists Dr. Paul Eastwick and Eli Finkel as they dissect modern dating dynamics. They tackle the significance of scent in attraction and the disparity between stated and revealed preferences, revealing surprising truths about what people truly desire. The conversation highlights flexibility in romantic preferences, the influence of dating apps, and how societal norms shape perceptions of love. They also critique cinematic portrayals of desire, emphasizing the evolving understanding of relationships in contemporary culture.

Jan 24, 2025 • 1h 21min
#11 Blaine Anderson - What most men get wrong with dating
Blaine Anderson is a dating coach and influencer recently seen on Shark Tank.
Expect to learn how to market yourself properly in the online dating world, stop your dates from feeling like job interviews, and meet and approach more high quality women in real life.
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Timestamps:
00:00 The Shark Tank Experience
05:59 The Role of Social Media in Dating Coaching
11:57 Marketing Yourself in the Dating World
18:06 First Date Strategies
23:56 Crafting the Perfect Opening Message
29:53 Illusion of Unique Interests
35:13 Importance of Quality Photos
39:25 Decline of Traditional Meeting Places
43:20 Approaching Women: Mindset Matters
46:54 Signals of Interest: Reading the Room
49:12 Height: A Common Concern
52:33 The 666 Rule and Other Misconceptions
53:51 The Role of Money in Dating
56:07 Understanding Women's Perspectives on Stability
59:18 Importance of Texting in Dating
01:00:47 Romance and Seduction in Relationships
01:02:30 Physical Touch
01:04:29 Paying ad Gift-Giving
01:06:27 Understanding Women's Boundaries in Dating
01:07:58 Emotional Connection and Physical Intimacy
01:09:22 Authentic Confidence in Dating
01:10:50 Dressing for Success on Dates
01:12:38 Chivalry in Modern Dating
01:14:15 Balancing Financial Responsibilities in Relationships
01:15:27 Awareness of Financial Status in Dating
01:16:17 Women’s Criteria in the Dating Pool
01:17:46 Creating Chemistry on Dates
01:18:54 Understanding the 'Ick' Factor
01:19:54 Three Key Tips for Improving Dating Life

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Jan 17, 2025 • 1h 35min
#10 Dr. Robert Glover - Defeating Your Inner Nice Guy
Dr. Robert Glover, author of the influential book No More Mr. Nice Guy, dives into the hidden struggles of 'nice guys' and their quest for validation. He discusses the rise of nice guy culture, the detrimental effects of social media on masculinity, and how to improve dating in the age of apps. Glover also explores the paradox of modern ease vs. meaningful challenges, emphasizing the importance of authentic connections. Finally, he highlights coaching programs that empower men towards personal growth and navigating complex male sexuality.

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Jan 12, 2025 • 1h 22min
#9 Aurelia, Mademoiselle Diaries - defining classic femininity
Dive into the world of classic femininity with Aurélia, founder of Mademoiselle Diaries. Explore the artistry of elegance through iconic figures like Audrey Hepburn. Discuss the balance of modern dating, emphasizing authentic connections and the importance of self-reflection. Uncover the power of monotasking amidst a world of distractions. Reflect on the dynamics of empowered femininity and its influence on masculinity. Finally, appreciate how true relationships stem from character rather than superficial traits.

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Jan 6, 2025 • 1h 1min
#8 Aaron Marino - Becoming AlphaM
Aaron Marino, the trailblazing men's lifestyle YouTuber, candidly discusses his transformation from bankruptcy and addiction to building a multi-million dollar empire. He reflects on the impact of social media on masculinity and the essential journey toward sobriety. Aaron emphasizes the importance of a supportive community and the right environment for personal growth. He also shares insights on launching a hair and grooming line while balancing control and delegation in his entrepreneurial endeavors. His story is one of resilience and self-discovery.

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Dec 31, 2024 • 1h 23min
#7 - Adam Radcliffe - Becoming a Modern Adventurer
Join Adam Radcliffe, a daring modern adventurer and personal trainer, as he shares his bold transition from corporate life to thrilling exploration. He discusses his upcoming transatlantic rowing expedition and the profound lessons learned from each adventure. Adam addresses the myths surrounding fitness and self-confidence while emphasizing the journey of personal growth. He also touches on the importance of authenticity and finding purpose beyond societal expectations, inspiring listeners to embrace their true passions and live fully.

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Jun 16, 2024 • 1h 9min
Episode 6 - AskOkey
Okey Onyegbule, also known as Proff, is the visionary behind AskOkey, a bespoke clothing brand. With a past as a Wall Street banker and amateur boxer, he shares fascinating insights on discipline as a key to success. Okey discusses transitioning from finance to entrepreneurship and highlights the role of mentorship in personal growth. He dives into the importance of health, embracing risk, and how global experiences shape entrepreneurial mindsets. His journey emphasizes creativity, community, and living vibrantly.

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Jun 9, 2024 • 1h 38min
Episode 5 - 40OverFashion
John Galfano, a men's style expert and host of the popular YouTube channel 40OverFashion, delves into the unique challenges and transformations of men's fashion for those in their 40s and 50s. He shares insights on dating dynamics across age groups, emphasizing the role of style and confidence. John also discusses his journey in content creation, touching on the emotional complexities and the importance of authenticity. Plus, he explores the thrill of high-performance cars and the nuanced art of shopping for a partner's fashion choices.

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Jun 8, 2024 • 1h 24min
Episode 4 - Stephanie Ganowski
Stephanie Ganowski, a clinical sexologist and sex coach for men, dives deep into issues surrounding men's intimacy and communication. She shares insights on what truly makes a man good in bed and discusses the pros and cons of porn. The podcast also introduces mindful masturbation as a tool for self-discovery. Highlighting changes in dating dynamics, Stephanie emphasizes the importance of emotional intelligence and open communication in navigating modern relationships. Plus, she explores the impact of societal shifts on intimacy and sexual expectations.
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