Gentlemen's Collective Podcast

Mindy DeSeta is a doctor of human sexuality and a licensed mental health counselor specializing in relationships and dating.Located in Miami—which is known for its competitive dating market—Mindy has a huge amount of experience working with high-performing male clients who find their romantic lives and sex lives much more difficult to navigate than their careers.She sat down with James to discuss the dating scene not only of Miami but of big cities across the West, the issues men are facing in the bedroom, and the challenges that come with dating a significantly younger woman.Expect to learn: What women find difficult about dating, and how guys can step it up The best way to date and build a social network in a new city How to have the “What are we?” conversation like a gentleman📌 Get 10% off at Otaa.com with code JAMESLAWLEY10🗞️ The Gentleman’s Digest — your weekly guide to a more gentlemanly life:https://tinyurl.com/3amfx95b🌎 Our private member’s club — applications currently open:https://tinyurl.com/2ubx7fjwListen on Spotify:https://open.spotify.com/show/6zEF3PynXwko6g1IyH8sfs

Molly K. Tomlin, a Dallas-based certified etiquette coach, blends British elegance with Texas charm. She shares insights on the modern gentleman's etiquette, highlighting the importance of thoughtfulness in dating and how subtle gestures like handwritten notes can make a big impression. Molly discusses the influence of old money on contemporary style and critiques the superficial aspects of the Instagram aesthetic. She emphasizes the uniqueness of Texas dating culture and the role of respect and intention in building meaningful connections.

Blasko, a seasoned bassist and manager known for his work with legends like Ozzy Osbourne and Rob Zombie, shares his journey through the highs and lows of rock life. He dives into the underrated importance of the 23 hours off stage and how personality often trumps talent. Blasko reveals backstage realities that defy glamorous stereotypes and discusses the evolution of metal culture in the face of social media. From strategic instrument choices to the impact of branding, he provides invaluable insights for anyone chasing their dreams.

Join Claire Farwell, a British model, journalist, fashion designer, and AI advocate, as she recounts her thrilling journey from a small Devon village to the global runway scene. Claire shares vibrant stories of 80s modeling, the art of confidence beyond looks, and her foray into fashion entrepreneurship. Discover her take on today’s influencer culture and AI's impact on creativity. Known for her love of diverse experiences, Claire also emphasizes the importance of reinvention, finding joy in life, and the transformative power of community.

Nick Alexander, a former Deloitte consultant turned menswear YouTuber, shares his journey of life reinvention in his late 20s. He discusses the loneliness often felt in big cities and contrasts the European 'slow-life' culture with Toronto's hustle. Revealing how being laid off spurred his transition to content creation, Nick highlights the importance of authenticity and discipline in building a brand. They touch on the challenges of dating while pursuing a creative career and reflect on the learning experiences of their twenties.

Stefan Dobrescu is a 25-year-old YouTuber whose channel Gentlemen's Order is part of a growing movement among young men toward classic style, etiquette, and even classic values.We get into why dressing well changes how you see yourself, the limits of costume-y vintage looks, and how to stand out in a world of hoodies without looking ridiculous.Stefan shares his approach to dating without apps, being a good man in a relationship, and avoiding the modern “submissive boyfriend” trap.We finish with his favorite novels, plans for a future clothing brand, and whether the gentleman movement is really just self-improvement advice but in better clothes.Enjoying this podcast? Then you'll love the Gentleman's Digest – a weekly newsletter of reflections, recommendations, and challenges personally written by James and sent to your inbox every Sunday.Become a reader here 👉 https://mailchi.mp/gent-z/q6eh1wuyqc

Use code JAMESLAWLEY10 to get 10% off ties, shirts, accessories and more at https://otaa.com/Fameez Haroon is one of the founding brothers of Otaa – a men’s accessories brand from Melbourne, Australia.Despite having no prior experience in the clothing industry, Fameez and his brother have grown the company into one of the most popular tie brands in e-commerce.Their designs have been worn by not only Hollywood actors, but also Robert F. Kennedy and Fox News anchor Jesse Watters.Enjoying this podcast? Then you'll love the Gentleman's Digest – a weekly newsletter of reflections, recommendations, and challenges personally written by James and sent to your inbox every Sunday.Become a reader here 👉 https://mailchi.mp/gent-z/q6eh1wuyqcTimestamps:00:00 – Intro: OTAA, discount code & who is Fameez Haroon00:39 – The rebellious origin story: a bad shop experience that started OTAA04:58 – Outsiders in fashion: first principles, no pedigree & anti-snobbery08:09 – Year one realities: overdue bills, no traffic & playing the long game15:03 – “How to tie a tie”: YouTube tutorials & early Instagram growth21:18 – Jesse Watters, Fox News & the real power of traditional media23:05 – Hollywood, politicians & how OTAA ends up on screen29:34 – Do ties still matter? Dressing well, Covid & the return of formalwear37:06 – Designing Bond-level style with data, movies & accessible luxury41:30 – Style rules vs creativity, AI and why real people still matter59:20 – Knock-offs, customer intimacy & scaling a founder-led global brand1:05:55 – Fameez’s daily routine, law school dropout story & final advice

In this engaging discussion, performance coach Jack Krucial, founder of Lethal Gentleman, shares his insights on achieving peak performance. He delves into the fusion of aesthetics and actionable advice, advocating for a 'modern Renaissance man' ideal, much like Bruce Wayne and James Bond. Jack emphasizes training for life rather than merely for the gym and offers practical tips for staying lean while traveling. He discusses the importance of building automated health systems and the mindset needed to pursue long-term mastery and holistic success.

Savanna Stone, a young stay-at-home wife and social media creator, passionately advocates for traditional family values. In this engaging discussion, she reveals what traditional women seek in men, including traits of stoicism and physical strength. Savanna shares insights on building a family on a single income and highlights the importance of clear communication through weekly 'Sunday marriage meetings.' She also emphasizes the value of asking critical questions on first dates, like politics and faith, to find compatible partners.

<p><strong>Dr. Juan Carlos Cassano</strong> is a fitness historian and clinical scientist who runs the YouTube channel <strong>Golden Era Bookworm</strong>. He was a key researcher for the Netflix documentary <em>Arnold</em> and is a renowned expert on all Golden Era bodybuilders, including Schwarzenegger, Tom Platz, and Mike Mentzer.</p><p><em>Expect to learn:</em></p><ul> <li>What Golden Era bodybuilders did differently to look so good</li> <li>The daily routine of Arnold Schwarzenegger at Gold's Gym</li> <li>The surprising link between bodybuilding and being a gentleman</li></ul><p><strong>Timestamps:</strong></p><ul> <li><a href="#t=0">00:00 – Why men are still fascinated by the Golden Era physique</a></li> <li><a href="#t=70">01:10 – The art and aesthetics of bodybuilding as human sculpture</a></li> <li><a href="#t=140">02:20 – Joe Weider: the salesman who turned bodybuilding into a dream</a></li> <li><a href="#t=260">04:20 – From outcasts to icons: how Weider built a new empire</a></li> <li><a href="#t=360">06:00 – Selling the California fantasy — muscles, girls, and freedom</a></li> <li><a href="#t=460">07:40 – Arnold’s arrival and how Weider spotted his star potential</a></li> <li><a href="#t=600">10:00 – The reality behind the dream: life at Gold’s Gym in the ’60s</a></li> <li><a href="#t=720">12:00 – What set Arnold apart from other lifters of his time</a></li> <li><a href="#t=940">15:40 – Inside Arnold’s daily routine and training cycles</a></li> <li><a href="#t=1230">20:30 – Diet in the Golden Era: real food, few supplements</a></li> <li><a href="#t=1460">24:20 – Early steroid use and how it evolved across decades</a></li> <li><a href="#t=1980">33:00 – Why physiques looked better then: training, food, and mindset</a></li> <li><a href="#t=2400">40:00 – The lost camaraderie of old gyms vs. isolation today</a></li> <li><a href="#t=2540">42:20 – How the image of bodybuilding has changed since the ’80s</a></li> <li><a href="#t=2820">47:00 – Hyper-masculinity, Hollywood physiques, and lost gentlemanly values</a></li> <li><a href="#t=3360">56:00 – Unreal expectations in the age of social media</a></li> <li><a href="#t=3480">58:00 – The birth of Golden Era Bookworm: from childhood fascination to YouTube historian</a></li> <li><a href="#t=3960">1:06:00 – Hilarious behind-the-scenes stories from Arnold’s apartment</a></li></ul><p><strong>Want to learn how you can use social media to build a life of freedom, status, and financial success?</strong><br>👉🏻 <a href="http://bit.ly/3KsuE4Q" target="_blank">Watch this free training here</a></p><p><strong>Enjoying this podcast?</strong> Then you'll love the Gentleman's Digest – a weekly newsletter of reflections, recommendations, and challenges personally written by James and sent to your inbox every Sunday.</p><p>👉 <a href="https://mailchi.mp/gent-z/q6eh1wuyqc" target="_blank">Become a reader here</a></p>