The Bad Girls Bible - Sex, Relationships, Dating, Love & Marriage Advice

In this episode of the Bad Girl's Bible podcast, I talk to swinger Cooper S. Beckett from the Life in the Swingset podcast. Cooper explains in detail what swinging is, the steps a couple can take to safely explore it, how it can help your relationship (or hinder it!) and more. Show Highlights 1.25 - how he got into the swinging scene. 4.55 Why monogamy, NOT SWINGING is the right choice for many people. 6.05 - The traditional definition of swinging 6.50 - What polyamory and why it's different. 8.15 - Why swinging and polyamory is definitely not cheating 9.45 - The problem with life's unspoken "social contract." 10.35 - How to start talking to your partner about swinging in a smooth way. 18.10 - Why non-monogamy has improved Cooper's communication skills. 18.35 - How to start your swinging journey with your partner and make sure it's a great experience, and why some couples have a bad first experience. 21.55 - Tips on how to spot and avoid fakers when using swinging sites 23.30 - How to make your first swinger date easy going and successfull. 25.10 - What to do if one partner has reservations. 28.40 - Dealing with jealousy. 33.55 - What to do if swinging doesn't work for you 43.55 - One of the most important benefits of non-monogamy Show Notes Kinsey scale - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kinsey_scale Cassidy - https://www.kasidie.com - the swinger site Cooper mentioned on the show More On Cooper If you want to get in touch with Cooper, you can find him online at: http://coopersbeckett.com/ https://twitter.com/coopersbeckett?lang=en https://www.facebook.com/coopersbeckett/ https://www.instagram.com/coopersbeckett/ Cooper's Podcast Podcast website: http://www.lifeontheswingset.com/ Podcast on iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/life-on-swingset-swinging/id354627460?mt=2 Cooper's Collection of Swinging Podcasts: swingset.fm Cooper's 1st book http://coopersbeckett.com/books/my-life-on-the-swingset-adventures-in-swinging-polyamory/ Cooper's 2nd book http://coopersbeckett.com/books/a-life-less-monogamous-a-novel-by-cooper-s-beckett/ Special Discount for Listeners Cooper kindly gave me a discount code that you can use to get 10% off anything you purchase on his site, coopersbeckett.com. Just enter the word bible in the offer code section and that 10% discount will be applied to your order.

Sex Therapist Dr. Lori Buckley is my guest on the podcast today. We talk about everything from how to more easily reach orgasm during sex to getting over sexual shame and exploring new fantasies and ideas in the bedroom. You'll also learn why a "judgy" attitude in the bedroom is a bad idea and why "asking" for sex is even worse. Show Highlights 1.35 Lori's background and how she became a sex therapist. 5.10 We discuss why some women struggle to reach orgasm during sex. 9.20 Why getting "out of your head" is vital for reaching orgasm more easily. 11.40 A simple technique to help you orgasm during sex. 15.30 Tips for getting over sexual shame and exploring new fantasies and ideas. 20.00 Simple steps for sharing your sexual fantasies and fetishes with your man. 23.10 Why a "judgy" attitude is going to kill your sex life. 28.30 An easy trick for getting in the mood, IF you are in a long term relationship. 29.15 Why asking for sex is a BAD idea. 35.30 Why women sometimes need their man to be more assertive. 36.20 Why many gifts don't need to cost a cent but still have a massive impact. 37.00 We talk about the deep importance of sexual tension in your relationship. You can learn more about Dr. Lori Buckley at https://www.drloribuckley.com/ and listen to her podcast here on iTunes (https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/looking-for-love/id1146640020).

In this engaging conversation with Scot McKay, a coach from X&Y Communications and host of the Mountain Top Podcast, listeners explore the vital role of communication in relationships. Scot shares why viewing your partner as your best friend can keep the spark alive, and how to avoid the trap of routine. He tackles the tricky dynamics of masculine and feminine energy and provides tips for healthy arguments. Plus, learn why sex should be fun instead of serious, and how to create memorable experiences together.