

Delusional! Big Dreams, Real Stories with Michelle Coyle
Michelle Coyle
Delusional! Big Dreams, Real Stories with Michelle Coyle (formerly known as Seekers and Shifters) is a podcast about the blurry line between dreaming big and losing your mind. (Spoiler: anyone who has ever achieved anything probably did a little of both.)We sit down with founders, creatives, and visionaries who bet on themselves—often when no one else would. These are the behind-the-scenes stories of people who went for it anyway. The goal? To remind you that the path to something extraordinary almost always looks “delusional” at the start.
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Jul 23, 2024 • 45min
From Trauma To Transformation
Send us a textWelcome back to another transformative episode of *Seekers & Shifters*! In this episode, host Michelle Coyle sits down with Will Rezin—a somatic coach, trauma educator, and mystic philosopher. Together, they explore the fascinating interplay between mysticism and science, the complexities of personal growth, and the profound impact of trauma on our sense of self. Will shares deep insights about the Zen concept of koan, highlights the significance of self-awareness, and emphasizes the importance of gradual, consistent efforts in personal development. Listen in for a dose of wisdom, practical guidance, and inspiring success stories. Time Stamps:00:00 - Introduction****02:30 - Intersection of Mysticism and Science****06:45 - Beginnings of Personal Development Journey****10:15 - Modern Science Arrogance and Cultural Insights****15:00 - The Koan Concept****20:22 - Influence of Trauma on Self****25:10 - Self-Awareness and Biohacking****30:45 - Vision and Mission****34:15 - Trauma’s Impact on Pain Orientation****38:25 - Setting Goals from an Aligned Place****42:00 - Consultative Process with Clients****46:40 - Rational Thought vs. Biological Functions***51:35 - Importance of Gradual Change****55:22 - Addressing Unconscious Patterns***58:45 - Inner Work Leading to Extraordinary Achievements****01:03:12 - Importance of Accepting All Parts of Ourselves****01:07:45 - Marketing Authenticity****01:11:20 - Closing Remarks and Future Episodes**Stay Connected:Join Seekers Club on www.seekersclub.orgSubscribe to our YouTube Channel @SeekersShiftersConnect with our guest Social Media:@willrezin@traumaandsomaticsWebsites: www.willrezin.comwww.traumaandsomatics.comConnect with MichelleInstagram: @michelletoscale Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/michellecoyleTiktok: @michelletoscaleDisclaimer: Seekers & Shifters acknowledges the privilege associated with engaging in personal growth activities and encourages listeners to consider their own circumstances and resources when embarking on a journey of self discovery.

Jul 16, 2024 • 51min
Creating Space and Embracing Abundance
Send us a textIn this insightful episode of Seekers & Shifters, host Michelle Coyle sits down with Vanessa Shaw to delve into the profound impacts of environment changes, the significance of CEO time, and the complex emotions tied to busyness and worthiness. Vanessa shares her wisdom on financial empowerment for women and how personal growth intertwines with business success. Tune in for practical tips, heartfelt stories, and strategies to find balance, creativity, and abundance in your entrepreneurial journey.Listen as we explore how facing our own brilliance and power can be both daunting and liberating, and why emotional mastery and personal well-being are integral to entrepreneurial success. Plus, Vanessa Shaw invites our listeners to valuable resources that can further aid in their financial and personal growth journey. Get ready to challenge your current paradigms and embrace a new version of yourself.Time Stamps:00:00 Introduction and Welcome 03:15 Changing Your Environment to Break Patterns 07:40 The Importance of CEO Time 11:30 Genius Types and Effective Scheduling 15:00 Learning to Say No 19:45 Busyness as a Trauma Response 24:10 Personal Realizations and Deep Rooted Issues 30:05 Grounding Abundance in Reality 34:50 Money and Mentorship Criticism 40:20 Travel as Inspiration 45:15 Revealing Coaching Program Realities 50:30 Dealing with Boredom and Creativity 55:40 Embracing Space and Boundaries 1:02:00 Entrepreneurship and Emotional Mastery 1:07:15 Financial Empowerment for Women 1:12:30 Managing Emotions and Home Environment 1:18:45 Final Thoughts and ResourcesStay Connected:Join Seekers Club on www.seekersclub.orgSubscribe to our YouTube Channel @SeekersShiftersConnect with our guest Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/vanessashawcoachInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/vanessashawcoach/LinkTree: https://linktr.ee/businessgrowthacademy?fbclid=IwZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAR1qOo2N7PkThTrgIjkzMt-KFRM9ukobdConnect with MichelleInstagram: @michelletoscale Facebook: www.facebook.com/michellelareeTikTok: @michelletoscaleResources Mentioned Millionaire Master Plan by Roger James HamiltonBusiness Growth Academy: [https://businessgrowthacademy.com]Free Guide on Money Blind Spots by Vanessa Shaw: [https://vanessashaw.com]Disclaimer: Seekers & Shifters acknowledges the privilege associated with engaging in personal growth activities and encourages listeners to consider their own circumstances and resources when embarking on a journey of self discovery.

Jul 9, 2024 • 44min
The Dynamics of Source, Psychedelics, and Relationships
Send us a textWelcome to another transformative episode of Seekers & Shifters! In "The Dynamics of Source, Psychedelics, and Relationships," host Michelle Coyle chats with Rob and Gary, founders of the Journeymen collective, and dive deep into the intersections of human experience, consciousness, and relationships.Together, Rob and Gary share insights on the importance of self-work within relationships and the vital process of knowing when to move on for one's health and well-being.The trio explores the multifaceted dynamics of control in relationships, the reality of multiple truths, and the infinite versions of reality. They also touch on the marvels of ancient cultures and human potential, emphasizing the importance of inner peace—a state some have yet to experience.Their transformative journeys with psilocybin reveal new dimensions of self-discovery and growth. They discuss the significance of taking the first step, exploring quantum realms, and asking profound questions about one’s purpose.Join Michelle, Rob, and Gary in this inspiring episode as they guide listeners through their quest for peace and spiritual awakening. Tune in for profound insights on love, consciousness, and the uncharted territories of the human spirit.Time Stamps:00:00 Using psilocybin journey transformed grief into joy.03:48 Depression, grief, and personal growth journey.06:55 Destiny, co-creation, push, new aliveness, yellow brick.10:09 Corporate background merges with science for psychedelic guidance.14:34 Mushroom decomposes and frees energy for renewal.19:06 Uninstall divine Wi-Fi, seek higher business purpose.23:11 Finding positives in scarcity, emphasizing faith's importance.24:30 Consciousness transcends physical form, life is cyclical.28:11 Other beings watching, guiding, and observing humanity's journey.32:17 Recognize internal struggles, be gentle with yourself.34:12 Safe relationships trigger growth and self-discovery.40:03 Discovering truth is ongoing and humbling.41:57 Humanity needs to find peace within themselves.Connect with our guest Instagram:@thejourneymencollectiveFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/JourneymenCollectiveWebsite: https://www.thejourneymencollective.com/?Connect with MichelleFacebook: www.facebook.com/michellelareeInstagram: @michelletoscaleTikTok: @michelletoscale Disclaimer: Seekers & Shifters acknowledges the privilege associated with engaging in personal growth activities and encourages listeners to consider their own circumstances and resources when embarking on a journey of self-discovery.

Jun 25, 2024 • 47min
Where Are All The Dudes?
Send us a textWelcome to "Seekers & Shifters" where we talk to the world’s foremost experts and personal growth and development and ask them everything we really want to know.In this transformative episode of Seekers & Shifters, Michelle Coyle sits down with Dan Oliver, a mindset coach whose journey from business coaching to deep personal transformation work is both inspiring and insightful. Dan recounts his unique path, from nearly becoming a therapist to finding his calling in coaching, and how his passion deepened through the Integrative NLP program.Whether you're an entrepreneur facing hurdles or someone eager to explore self-discovery, this episode is packed with insights on aligning with your true desires and achieving lasting change. So, join us as we explore the core of what it means to be connected to your purpose and mission in entrepreneurship and life.Time Stamps:00:00 Business strategy as personal transformation and discovery.05:40 Shifting conversation to women in personal development.07:54 Gender socialization impacts therapy and coaching diversity.10:53 Gender perceptions vary across different social spaces.13:45 Men face pressures from toxic masculinity, upbringing.16:43 Diverse experiences shape individual human uniqueness.20:31 Business coaching addresses both internal and external challenges.23:29 Value your own emotions and experiences.28:27 Supporting friend through tough times leads transformation.32:38 Excited to learn about NLP from friend.33:34 Became certified NLP trainer, now creating trainings.38:05 Unconscious weight gain may stem from trauma.41:01 Personal growth can be addictive and empowering.46:09 Seekers club welcomes entrepreneurs for coaching.46:48 Expressing gratitude for a fun gathering, with plans.Connect with our guest Instagram: @coachdanoliverFacebook: Dan Oliver Coaching Website: https://coachdanoliver.com/Connect with MichelleFacebook: Michelle Coyle TikTok: @michelletoscaleInstagram: @michelletoscaleDisclaimer: Seekers & Shifters acknowledges the privilege associated with engaging in personal growth activities and encourages listeners to consider their own circumstances and resources when embarking on a journey of self-discovery.

Jun 18, 2024 • 45min
Powerful Transformation
Send us a textWelcome back to "Seekers & Shifters" where we talk to the world’s foremost experts and personal growth and development and ask them everything we really want to know.In this episode of Seekers & Shifters, host Michelle Coyle talks with performance coach Kylie Ryan about the transformative power of personal growth. Join us as we explore Kylie’s journey—from her mystical childhood experiences to her introduction to Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) and beyond. Learn how they both navigate the emotional highs and lows of personal development while emphasizing the importance of embracing one’s vulnerabilities.Get ready for an inspiring episode filled with rich discussions on breaking personal limitations, achieving success, and the privilege and perseverance needed to make transformative changes. Tune in and join the conversation, dreamers and doers, because this episode is all about the power and joy of personal transformation.Time Stamps:0:00 - Introduction1:30 - Kylie Ryan’s childhood and clairvoyance5:15 - Astral traveling, lucid dreaming, and telekinesis9:45 - Discovering NLP at 23 and its impact13:20 - Exploring mindset coaching and The Spiral modality18:00 - Michelle Coyle’s experience with Hawaiian Huna22:45 - The emotional challenges of personal growth28:15 - The spiritual path and creating positive change33:00 - The privilege and perseverance in personal journeys38:15 - Debunking the myth of instant success43:00 - Commitment to future projects and their impact45:30 - Invitation to engage with the Seekers ClubStay Connected:Join Seekers Club on www.seekersclub.orgSubscribe to our YouTube Channel @SeekersShiftersConnect with Kylie Ryan Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kylieryanmmc Website: https://mymindcoach.com.auLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kylieryan/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kylieryan.mymindcoach?igsh=emZzazc3M2hqaWhhConnect with MichelleInstagram: @michelletoscaleFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/mcoyedTikTok: @michelletoscaleDisclaimer: Seekers & Shifters acknowledges the privilege associated with engaging in personal growth activities and encourages listeners to consider their own circumstances and resources when embarking on a journey of self-discovery.

Jun 11, 2024 • 46min
The Journey from Victimhood to Empowerment
Send us a textWelcome to "Seekers & Shifters" where we talk to the world’s foremost experts and personal growth and development and ask them everything we really want to know.Today Michelle is joined by an incredibly inspiring guest: Moe Poole. Moe is a queer mompreneur, mindset coach. Michelle and Moe have worked together for many years. In this episode, we'll dive into Moe's specialized coaching approach, focusing on psychology, NLP, and supporting queer and questioning teens and women.We'll explore the parallels and distinctions between coaching entrepreneurs, relationships, and children, emphasizing the importance of addressing core wounds and insecurities. Moe will share valuable insights on being authentically oneself, the significance of vulnerability, and the challenges of staying true in public spaces. We’ll also delve into the crucial role of parents in their children's development and the importance of modeling healthy boundaries.Stay tuned for a thought-provoking conversation that encourages seeking help, embracing your true self, and taking small steps towards vulnerability and growth.Time Stamps:[02:30] Professional Journey[06:15] Coaching Spectrum[10:20] Creating Safety in Coaching[14:05] Authenticity and SpongeBob[17:45] Internal Dialogue and Behavior Modeling[21:10] Finding Aligned Support.[24:00] Investing in Personal Development[28:30] Contact Information[31:00] Blame vs. Self-Reflection[34:45] Victim Role and Empowerment[38:20] Impact of Parenting[42:10] Embracing Vulnerability[46:00] Radical Vulnerability[49:35] Complexity of Vulnerability[53:00] Authenticity in Communication[56:15] Addressing Triggers and Open-mindedness[1:00:00] Emotion Management in Parenting[1:03:30] Transitioning in Parenting[1:06:45] Self-care and BoundariesConnect with Moe PooleInstagram: @poolemoeFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/moe.poole.9TikTok: @coachmoe11Website: www.bgsdstrategies.comConnect with MichelleFacebook: www.facebook.com/michellelareeInstagram: @michelletoscaleTikTok: @michelletoscale Disclaimer: Seekers & Shifters acknowledges the privilege associated with engaging in personal growth activities and encourages listeners to consider their own circumstances and resources when embarking on a journey of self-discovery.

Jun 4, 2024 • 45min
Unlocking Growth: Seeing Challenges as Opportunities
Send us a textWelcome to "Seekers & Shifters" where we talk to the world’s foremost experts and personal growth and development and ask them everything we really want to know.In today's episode, Michelle Coyle and Brook Bishop dive into the depths of beliefs, manifestation, and perception, providing you with insights and tools to navigate life's challenges.They explore the transformative power of shifting perspectives, seeing challenging moments as opportunities for growth, and the brain's natural tendency to categorize in order to manage overwhelming information.Join Michelle and Brook as they discuss the importance of asking quality questions to navigate life's journey, the significance of timing when seeking positivity amidst difficulties, and a variety of emotional release techniques. Michelle shares her expertise on energy-based and somatic approaches for emotional release, emphasizing the readiness to let go and the unconscious mind's role.This episode also touches on how past experiences affect current perceptions, especially in relationships, and encourages listeners to seek alternate perspectives within the supportive environment of the Seekers club. Michelle shares her personal journey of overcoming judgment through NLP, focusing on respect for different worldviews. Together, they dissect the impact of social media's polarizing effects, communication styles, and the evolving nature of personal beliefs.Stay Connected:Join Seekers Club on www.seekersclub.orgSubscribe to our YouTube Channel @SeekersShiftersTime Stamps:00:00 Divorce changes behavior due to circumstances shift.04:52 Understanding others' lenses and communication styles is vital.09:19 Diverse perspectives are crucial for growth.11:19 Actors used social media to polarize people.16:17 Influence without holding onto personal beliefs.18:43 Perception varies, reality is subjective, pivotal concept.20:28 Beliefs about manifestation and positivity in life.23:58 Faith shapes life's purpose and direction.27:17 Timing of toxic positivity can be problematic.31:45 Releasing work helps address underlying emotional issues.36:03 Recognizing the importance of letting go.38:48 Unconscious trauma might require specialized therapeutic help.42:50 A safe space for deep, esoteric conversations.44:42 Seeking like-minded people to hang outConnect with our Guest: Brook Bishop-Facebook https://www.facebook.com/brookthebishop -Instagram: @brookthebishop1-Linkedin https://www.linkedin.com/in/brookbishop/-Website: https://www.empirepartners.ioConnect with Michelle:- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mcoyed- Instagram: @michelletoscale- TikTok: @michelletoscale Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more empowering conversations on personal growth, diverse experiences, and navigating life’s shifts.**#SeekersAndShifters #PersonalGrowth #MindsetShift #EmotionalRelease #BeliefSystems #Communication #SelfExplorationTune in and let’s unlock your highest potential together!*[Disclaimer: This episode may contain discussions on sensitive topics. Listener discretion is advised.]*

May 28, 2024 • 51min
Healing Yourself To Heal The World
Send us a textWelcome to "Seekers & Shifters" where we talk to the world’s foremost experts and personal growth and development and ask them everything we really want to know.Join us for an enlightening conversation with Barrett Lee Tegner as we explore the intersections of community, economy, and personal growth. In this episode, Barrett shares his vision for creating sustainable communities through innovative economic models and emphasizes the importance of internal transformation. We delve into the challenges of modern society, the concept of a community trust fund, and practical steps for personal and collective healing. Whether you're interested in economics, community building, or personal development, this episode offers valuable insights and inspiration.Stay Connected:Join Seekers Club on www.seekersclub.orgSubscribe to our YouTube Channel @SeekersShiftersTime Stamps:(0:03:33)Challenges in Modern Society The disconnect between traditional ways of living and modern economic pressures.The impact of external dependencies on local communities, particularly in Hawaii.(0:07:14) Vision for Community-Based Economy Barrett’s idea of using community trust funds to create debt-free cooperatives.(0:10:45) The Need for New Systems Critique of the current economic system and the push for a more balanced approach.The importance of local production and reducing reliance on external resources.(0:14:32) Personal and Collective Transformation The role of individual healing in fostering a strong community.Techniques for resolving internal conflicts and traumas(0:31:20) Learning from Experiences and Expanding Data The importance of adapting and growing from past experiences.Barrett’s next career steps in aiding community function through modern lenses.(0:33:00) Community Trust Fund Concept: Harmony Explanation of the Harmony community trust fund and its objectives.Creating a cycle of abundance through debt-free cooperatives.(0:34:25) Addressing Economic and Social Imbalances The imbalance in the current economic system and the need for grounding.Insights into how the world can benefit from inspired communities. (0:36:00) Organic Shifts and Community ConsciousnessThe natural shift towards new ways of living through community efforts.Encouraging people to find okayness within themselves.(0:38:00) Combining Economic Models Blending the benefits of communism and capitalism for collaborative effort.Ensuring basic needs through community-owned provisions.(0:40:00) Importance of Trust and Altruism in Communities Building trust within the community to prevent authoritarianism.Emphasizing altruism and collaborative effort over competition. (0:43:00) Practical Steps for Healing and GrowthMethods for personal healing and addressing unresolved traumas.The significance of Ho'oponopono, a Hawaiian practice of forgiveness.Connect with our guest Instagram: @barrettleetegnerFacebook: Barrett Lee TegnerTikTok: @barrettleetegnerConnect with MichelleInstagram: @michelletoscale Facebook: www.facebook.com/michellelareeT

May 21, 2024 • 45min
Navigating Trauma: From Healing to Joy
Send us a textWelcome to "Seekers & Shifters" where we talk to the world’s foremost experts and personal growth and development and ask them everything we really want to know.In this episode, Michelle and guest Pavini dive into the profound journey of healing from trauma and moving towards a life filled with joy and pleasure. They share their insights from years of experience in trauma therapy and discuss the revolutionary understanding that trauma is not just a mental experience but one deeply rooted in the body.Time Stamps:[00:02:30] Understanding Trauma:Introduction to the concept that trauma lives in the body, not just the mind.Influential books like "The Body Keeps the Score" by Bessel van der Kolk and "Waking the Tiger" by Peter Levine.The limitations of cognitive therapy in addressing the physical manifestations of trauma.[00:10:45] Somatic Approaches to Healing:The importance of addressing trauma through somatic technologies.Personal experiences of trauma release through physical activities like weightlifting.The concept of trauma stored in different parts of the body and its impact on emotional well-being.[00:22:15] Generational Trauma:The transmission of trauma across generations and its manifestations.Scientific perspectives on epigenetics and behavioral transmission of trauma.Personal anecdotes illustrating generational trauma and resilience.[00:35:00] Healing Practices and Empathy:The role of attention and focus in healing and living a joyful life.The power of empathy and the need for collective healing.The importance of practices that cultivate joy, pleasure, and internal well-being.[00:47:30] Moving from Trauma to Pleasure:Transitioning from a focus on trauma to pursuing activities that bring joy.The significance of pleasure in achieving a balanced, fulfilling life.How pleasure and joy contribute to personal and communal growth and empathyStay Connected:Join Seekers Club on www.seekersclub.orgSubscribe to our YouTube Channel @SeekersShiftersConclusion This episode is a heartfelt exploration of how understanding and addressing trauma can lead to a more joyful and empathetic life. Michelle and Pavini’s insights and experiences provide valuable guidance for anyone on a healing journey or those interested in the deeper aspects of human experience and resilience. Join us in this enlightening conversation and learn how to transform pain into pleasure and trauma into joy.Connect with our guest Instagram: @pavinicoakwellmorayWebsite: www.pavinimoray.comAmazon: www.amazon.com/How-Hold-Power-Respect-30-embodiment/dp/1623179246Connect with MichelleInstagram: @michelletoscaleFacebook: www.facebook.com/michellelareeTikTok: @michelletoscaleDisclaimer: Seekers & Shifters acknowledges the privilege associated with engaging in personal growth activities and encourages listeners to consider their own circumstances and resources when embarking on a journey of self-discovery.

May 14, 2024 • 44min
Cultivating Awareness Through the Entrepreneurial Journey
Send us a textWelcome to "Seekers & Shifters" where we talk to the world’s foremost experts and personal growth and development and ask them everything we really want to know.In this episode, we dive deep into the world of entrepreneurship and the emotional rollercoaster it often entails. Join us as we explore the importance of being present, avoiding overthinking, and finding equanimity amidst the challenges of running a business.Time Stamps:Part 1: The Importance of Being Present[00:00:45] Michelle and Christina explore the significance of being present in the moment and how it can bring clarity and vitality to life.[00:02:15] They discuss the tendency to detach from reality, especially in the digital space, and the damaging effects of overthinking.[00:04:30] Christina emphasizes the importance of cultivating awareness and experiencing each moment fully to shift away from unhealthy detachment.Part 2: Navigating Entrepreneurial Challenges[00:10:12] The conversation shifts to the unique challenges faced by entrepreneurs, including stress, fear of failure, and financial pressures.[00:12:45] Christina highlights the importance of grounding oneself in the present moment, especially during moments of anxiety and uncertainty.[00:15:20] Michelle shares her experience of working with entrepreneurs and the need for emotional support in navigating the entrepreneurial journey.[00:18:05] They discuss the societal pressure to dissociate from emotions and the importance of embracing emotional intelligence in entrepreneurship.[00:20:30] Christina reflects on her journey as an entrepreneur and the emotional toll it can take without proper support and awareness.[00:22:15] Michelle emphasizes the need for a holistic approach to entrepreneurship that includes emotional well-being and self-care.Part 3: Overcoming Obstacles and Thriving[00:25:00] The conversation delves into strategies for overcoming obstacles and thriving as an entrepreneur.[00:27:45] Christina shares insights on the developmental nature of entrepreneurship and the importance of learning from experience.[00:30:00] Michelle highlights the need for entrepreneurs to find balance between planning for the future and staying grounded in the present moment.[00:32:15] They discuss the prevalence of mental health issues among entrepreneurs and the need for greater awareness and support in the industry.[00:35:00] Christina and Michelle share resources and invite listeners to connect for further support on their entrepreneurial journey.Connect with our guest Instagram: @christina.providenceFacebook: Christina Providence Website: www.theprovidencemethod.comConnect with MichelleInstagram: @michelletoscale Facebook: www.facebook.com/michellelareeTikTok: @michelletoscale