How to Get the Girl: By the Ask Women Podcast

One of the biggest challenges for men in dating and relationships, is understanding how to connect to women the way women want to be connected to. Women are so different than men when it comes to connecting. We can't just enjoy a basketball game with a guy to feel connected. We need more. Not a lot more. But a different more. Which is why this week we dive into what connection means to women and why so many men aren't connecting to women in a way that makes women happy.

Marni is out this week but Kristen is joined by Adam Carolla lackeys Jay Miller and Caelin Beihn to talk about how to text with a girl you just met. They also talk about how dating someone you meet at work may actually be a good idea. They also get to a couple over analyze this questions about rejection and redemption.

Jordan Harbinger joins us AGAIN and tells us all about his journey from shy, geek to owner of one of the biggest social interaction and networking programs for men. He's now taught 1000's of men how to work through their shyness so that they can be the confident men they've wanted to be. Whether it be for women, work, friends.... We also dive into our mail bag and over analyze your questions! Enjoy! Guest: Jordan Harbinger

This week it's just Kristen and I in studio diving into the over analyze this mail bag and answer some questions from our listeners. We over analyze: 1. How to throw a good dinner party and be seen as the leader 2. How to be funny when you aren't funny 3. The best way to introduce yourself to a woman 4. How to bring up sticky topics with women 5. How to get over your perceived shortcomings 6. How to position your perceived shortcomings to women 7. The best lines to use on a woman if she's flaked

Whether it's a one time rejection from a girl you've asked out online, a girl you've been crazy for telling you she has a boyfriend OR big break up from a long term partnership, moving forward can be tough. Your ego is bruised, you don't know who you are any more and it simply feels easier to just give up. Jordan Harbinger is our guest on this weeks show to talk about how to simply get over it and move forward bigger and better.

That first interaction with a woman can be a high pressure biatch!!! What do you say? How do you act? What do you do? Former model and Miss Ohio Candace Smith joins us in studio to tell us how to rock that first impression and beat out all the other men in the room so that women FIGHT for you and make you ask them out. Seriously.... this is what she did with her boyfriend in a room full of very successful, fit, attractive people.... and her BF was not was one of them.

The approach!  One of the most challenging stages for so many men.  I've often told women how hard it is for men and to approach women and they look at me shocked and say "but men are supposed to approach women. I didn't know it was so hard." BUT we know it's hard. Which is why this week we dove deep into the art of approaching. How to approach. What to say. How to act.  How to NOT act. And what works when approaching women. Guests Wing Girl Gigi and Henry From Stop Losing Women

I'm very excited for you to listen to this episode because we have attraction and tension expert Patrick James in studio with us. Patrick dives into the mistakes men making when trying to build sexual tension and gives us 5 great, word for word examples of things to say that guarantee tension is created. They're pretty genius things that both Kristen and I had never heard before.  Even Kristen was impressed and you know she is NEVER impressed with anyone! (Even if you are a woman listening to this show, there is a LOT for you to learn) On this weeks show we also discussed and over analyzed: 1\. Trick for stealing rejection lines from women and using them on THEM to build attraction 2\. How your profile may be ruining your dating life & sending the wrong messages to women  (mansplaining may be the culprit) 3\. Why you don't have to create tension because it's already there and you can use it 4\. How to have the right amount of challenge that you give to women And so much more!!! To lear