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In rough days, it's easy to see God as our #1 critic. Is He fighting for us--or fed up with us? Author Dane Ortlund examines whether God's adding the unbearable weight of perfection on top of our pain...or if it's true His burden is light. Show Notes and Resources Learn more about Dane Ortlund at Daneortlund.com Get his book, "Gentle and Lowly" in our FamilyLife shop Learn more about our Weekend to Remember events at weekendtoremember.com Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com. See resources from our past podcasts. Find more content and resources on the FamilyLife's app! Help others find FamilyLife. Leave a review on Apple Podcast or Spotify. Check out all the FamilyLife's podcasts on the FamilyLife Podcast Network   See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy

Where is God in our families' lowest moments? Bestselling author Dane Ortlund paints an image of a God in the mess with us at rock-bottom--who's advocating and compassionate, gentle and lowly. Show Notes and Resources Learn more about Dane Ortlund at Daneortlund.com Get his book, "Gentle and Lowly" in our FamilyLife shop Learn more about our Weekend to Remember events at weekendtoremember.com Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com. See resources from our past podcasts. Find more content and resources on the FamilyLife's app! Help others find FamilyLife. Leave a review on Apple Podcast or Spotify. Check out all the FamilyLife's podcasts on the FamilyLife Podcast Network   See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy

Do happy couples really never go to bed angry? Surprising research might challenge the age-old advice revealing how to navigate conflict constructively, even if it means hitting pause for the night. Show Notes and Resources Listen to the "Married With Benefits" podcast. Get Shaunti's book "The Surprising Secrets of Highly Happy Couples." in our shop  Learn more about our Weekend to Remember events at weekendtoremember.com Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com. See resources from our past podcasts. Find more content and resources on the FamilyLife's app! Help others find FamilyLife. Leave a review on Apple Podcast or Spotify. Check out all the FamilyLife's podcasts on the FamilyLife Podcast Network See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy

Could one of the long-held beliefs of happy couples actually be wrong? Guests from the "Married With Benefits" podcast discuss why going to bed angry can sometimes lead to better marriages. Show Notes and Resources Listen to the "Married With Benefits" podcast. Get Shaunti's book "The Surprising Secrets of Highly Happy Couples." in our shop  Learn more about our Weekend to Remember events at weekendtoremember.com Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com. See resources from our past podcasts. Find more content and resources on the FamilyLife's app! Help others find FamilyLife. Leave a review on Apple Podcast or Spotify. Check out all the FamilyLife's podcasts on the FamilyLife Podcast Network See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy

Intentional parenting isn't accidental. Author Kathy Koch shares how to consciously cultivate biblical character in your children, navigate tough topics like sleepovers and sex, and model the very traits you hope to instill. Show Notes and Resources Learn more about Kathy Koch's ministry "Celebrate Kids" on her website. Listen to the "Celebrate Kids" podcast  We will send you Kathy's book, "Parent Differently" at no cost to you with a donation of any size this week, as our way of saying a huge "Thank you!" for partnering with us. Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com. See resources from our past podcasts. Find more content and resources on the FamilyLife's app! Help others find FamilyLife. Leave a review on Apple Podcast or Spotify. Check out all the FamilyLife's podcasts on the FamilyLife Podcast Network See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy

In this enlightening conversation, Kathy Koch, an author and expert in parenting, shares her wisdom on raising kids with strong character. She emphasizes shifting the focus from achievements to moral development. Koch discusses the importance of compassionate communication, especially regarding sensitive topics like gender identity. She also highlights the essence of instilling biblical values and the role of intentional parenting in shaping resilient, community-oriented children. Get ready for practical tips and inspiring anecdotes!

Are you tired of the same old parenting advice? Are you ready to parent differently? Author Kathy Koch shares her powerful insights on raising children with purpose and love, emphasizing the crucial role of character development, empathy, and gratitude. Show Notes and Resources Learn more about Kathy Koch's ministry "Celebrate Kids" on her website. Listen to the "Celebrate Kids" podcast  We will send you Kathy's book, "Parent Differently" at no cost to you with a donation of any size this week, as our way of saying a huge "Thank you!" for partnering with us. Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com. See resources from our past podcasts. Find more content and resources on the FamilyLife's app! Help others find FamilyLife. Leave a review on Apple Podcast or Spotify. Check out all the FamilyLife's podcasts on the FamilyLife Podcast Network See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy

It's not easy to build a marriage that lasts, but it can be done! Dave and Ann Wilson share their experience navigating a health crisis and the challenges it presented to their relationship. They open up about a time of disconnect and the crucial lesson they learned about supporting each other through difficult times. This episode explores how trials, while painful, can be opportunities for growth, individually and as a couple. The Wilsons emphasize the importance of vulnerability, not just with each other but within the church community, highlighting how shared struggles create connection and offer hope. Discover how their faith became a cornerstone in their journey, reminding us that God is present even in our darkest moments. More than just a story, this episode offers practical insights and encouragement for building a marriage that not only survives but thrives, empowered by faith and the transformative power of shared experiences. Learn how to embrace vulnerability, find God in the midst of hardship, and build a lasting bond that impacts the world around you. Show Notes and Resources Reserve your spot for the 2026 Love Like You Mean It Cruise  Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com. See resources from our past podcasts. Find more content and resources on the FamilyLife's app! Help others find FamilyLife. Leave a review on Apple Podcast or Spotify. Check out all the FamilyLife's podcasts on the FamilyLife Podcast Network See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy

Unexpected challenges, or "cows," can appear in any marriage–from financial struggles and rebellious children to illness and infertility. These "cows" can cause damage if left unaddressed. In this episode, Brian and Jen Goins explore how to "tame the cows" in your marriage by building resilience through intentional habits. We'll discuss how resilience is crucial to navigating adversity and why it's vital to avoid isolation by seeking support from your community. Discover practical habits like prioritizing quality time ("play"), intentionally praising each other, pursuing connection after conflict, and regularly praying together. Learn how these "small acts of love" can cultivate a strong and resilient bond, helping you and your spouse face any "cow" that comes your way. Show Notes and Resources Reserve your spot for the 2026 Love Like You Mean It Cruise  Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com. See resources from our past podcasts. Find more content and resources on the FamilyLife's app! Help others find FamilyLife. Leave a review on Apple Podcast or Spotify. Check out all the FamilyLife's podcasts on the FamilyLife Podcast Network See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy

Tired of the same old marital struggles? Join us as we explore the secrets to a thriving marriage, straight from couples who have weathered the storms and found lasting joy. This episode dives into powerful insights from a panel of experienced couples who emphasize that the key to a successful marriage isn't about changing your spouse but about surrendering to God and focusing on your own spiritual growth. We'll unpack the often misunderstood concepts of headship, submission, respect, and love, moving beyond transactional love to embracing the unconditional love that strengthens and sustains. Discover the importance of mutual surrender, where both partners prioritize serving one another. We'll also discuss balancing career and family, avoiding neglecting your spouse, and reigniting the spark of playfulness that keeps joy alive. Learn how faith can be the foundation of your marriage and how trusting the Holy Spirit to work in your partner can bring about transformative change. Show Notes and Resources Reserve your spot for the 2026 Love Like You Mean It Cruise  Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com. See resources from our past podcasts. Find more content and resources on the FamilyLife's app! Help others find FamilyLife. Leave a review on Apple Podcast or Spotify. Check out all the FamilyLife's podcasts on the FamilyLife Podcast Network See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy