

Decisions, Decisions
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Welcome to "Decisions, Decisions," the podcast where boundaries are pushed, and conversations get candid! Join your favorite hosts, Mandii B and WeezyWTF, as they dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often-taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love.
Every Monday, Mandii and Weezy invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. With a blend of humor, vulnerability, and authenticity, they share their personal journeys navigating their 30s, tackling the complexities of modern relationships, and engaging in thought-provoking discussions that challenge societal expectations.
From groundbreaking interviews with diverse guests to relatable stories that resonate with your experiences, "Decisions, Decisions" is your go-to source for open dialogue about what it truly means to love and connect in today's world. Get ready to reshape your understanding of relationships and embrace the freedom of authentic connections—tune in and join the conversation!
Every Monday, Mandii and Weezy invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. With a blend of humor, vulnerability, and authenticity, they share their personal journeys navigating their 30s, tackling the complexities of modern relationships, and engaging in thought-provoking discussions that challenge societal expectations.
From groundbreaking interviews with diverse guests to relatable stories that resonate with your experiences, "Decisions, Decisions" is your go-to source for open dialogue about what it truly means to love and connect in today's world. Get ready to reshape your understanding of relationships and embrace the freedom of authentic connections—tune in and join the conversation!
Episodes
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Nov 4, 2024 • 1h 9min
EP 394: Mandii Watches A Gang Bang
This week the ladies are SOLO again, giving us a CATCH UP on Mandii’s 34th Bday, moving to ATL, and the reality of living in NYC. For the “Vanilla-Ish” the ladies get into the role of ethics during a potential HSV1 outbreak in the OF content space (Please Get Tested Y’all). For the Heaux-Doeurve the ladies get into having aliens laying eggs into your body. After getting into Mandii explaining her break from dating, she gets down and gritty on the details of the group play of 2 women and 16 men that she was able to witness for the Whoreible Decision. Lastly Mandii gives tips for a successful “group play” at home, heaux-tales, plus much more! The ladies are back LIVE for ONE NIGHT ONLY in NYC at SONY HALL, DEC 3RD!Tickets are available now:https://tinyurl.com/te54w99d Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Whoreible Decisions pagesInstagram @whoreible_decisionsTwitter @whoreiblepodDon't forget to tag #whoreibledecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsWant some Whoreible Decisions merchandise? GET YOURS NOW AT WHOREHIVE.COMSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Oct 28, 2024 • 1h 11min
Ep 393: Platonic Problems & Micro Cheating
This week's conversation dives into hilarious Halloween costume mishaps and personal stories about keloid scars. The hosts explore the concept of micro-cheating, revealing the gray areas in platonic relationships. They tackle misconceptions around intimacy, emphasizing eye contact's significance in the bedroom. From playful role-playing scenarios to the awkwardness of first kisses, the episode is filled with laughter, reflections on love, and the complexities of modern relationships.

Oct 21, 2024 • 1h 30min
Ep. 392: Life Is A Catfish (Ft. Kamie Crawford)
This week the ladies are joined by the very talented Kamie Crawford starting with her early pageant days, getting into her celebrity crushes, what horoscope signs she rocks with, and why height can turn a man into your little brother. After giving her seggs tip, the ladies and Kamie go into serial dating, hiding your significant other’s face on social media, being catfished, and making sure to put your peacock on the table when people try you. Finally the ladies & Kamie get into the worst “Catfished” scenario she’s seen, being on different levels of delulu, why people like recreating their own realities, and much more. The ladies are back LIVE for ONE NIGHT ONLY in NYC at SONY HALL, DEC 3RD! Tickets are available now: https://tinyurl.com/te54w99d Make sure to follow our guest(s)! @kamiecrawford Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Whoreible Decisions pagesInstagram @whoreible_decisionsTwitter @whoreiblepodDon't forget to tag #whoreibledecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsWant some Whoreible Decisions merchandise? GET YOURS NOW AT WHOREHIVE.COMSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Oct 14, 2024 • 1h 13min
EP 391: Single By Choice
This week the ladies are back and SOLO. Weezy finally gives the backstory behind her braces, and why compliments from random people hit harder. Mandii gives us an update from her move to ATL, and the funk that life has been throwing her. Then the ladies get into the importance of streaming and politics, plus Mandii’s new venture into streaming. For the Vanilla Ish, the ladies get into the other letters in the alphabet community. After getting into “painting” the ladies walkthrough the best ways to prep your “boo-tay-hol” for the bedroom. The Whoreible Decision this week has a RING to it, breaking down Mya’s marriage…to herself & combatting the idea of being single by choice. Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Whoreible Decisions pagesInstagram @whoreible_decisionsTwitter @whoreiblepodDon't forget to tag #whoreibledecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsWant some Whoreible Decisions merchandise? GET YOURS NOW AT WHOREHIVE.COMSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Oct 7, 2024 • 1h 10min
EP 390: Monetizing Our Love in the Bedroom (Ft. Jade & Jamal)
This week the ladies are joined by OF extraordinaires, Jade & Jamal! Starting easy with the duo, the icebreaker gets into their OF origins, rating their “first time”, and even seeing which friends they’d bring in the bedroom. For seggs in the news, the ladies get into the SECOND most popular kink the US, and it smells. For the Heaux D’oeurve, Jade & Jamal get into their favorite angles, and how they got better with camera work in their videos. Heaux mail gets interesting as Jade and Jamal spill how fast they got comfortable in their relation, and much more! Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Whoreible Decisions pagesInstagram @whoreible_decisionsTwitter @whoreiblepodDon't forget to tag #whoreibledecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsWant some Whoreible Decisions merchandise? GET YOURS NOW AT WHOREHIVE.COMSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Oct 5, 2024 • 1h 10min
Whoreible Decisions: Olympic Dating ft. Anwar The Dating Coach
The Black Effect Presents... Whoreible Decisions! This week the ladies are joined by Anwar The Dating Coach! They start the episode off by defining the two types of women in a relationship, 3 boundaries to help secure a successful relationship and even attracting certain men to get into a relationship with. After figuring out the “investment” date, the ladies and Anwar get into giving gifts on the third date, interracial dating, unfulfilled relationships with our fathers, and much more! @DatingCoachAnwarGetYourGuyCoaching.Com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Whoreible Decisions pagesInstagram @whoreible_decisionsTwitter @whoreiblepodDon't forget to tag #whoreibledecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsWant some Whoreible Decisions merchandise? GET YOURS NOW AT WHOREHIVE.COMSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Sep 30, 2024 • 1h 14min
Ep. 389: Manifesting Love
This week the ladies are hitting back to back solo episodes, and manifesting LOVE. First they recap their outings together, seeing fans on the street, and sending love to every listener and viewer that says hello. After that, Mandii lets Weezy know she sees a good change in her after starting her relationship. For the Vanilla Ish, the ladies get into really bad dating tips, couples therapy on the plane. After getting into manifesting love, the ladies get into the heaux mail, and much more! Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Whoreible Decisions pagesInstagram @whoreible_decisionsTwitter @whoreiblepodDon't forget to tag #whoreibledecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsWant some Whoreible Decisions merchandise? GET YOURS NOW AT WHOREHIVE.COMSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Sep 23, 2024 • 1h 23min
EP 388: Good Dad, Bad Dad
TRIGGER WARNING /// Mentions Of R*pe & P*dophila @28 Mins This week the ladies are SOLO starting off with the troubles behind Love Is Blind UK, having the Florida coming out of the girls, and even why YG’s height doesn’t make it to Mandii’s hall pass. Trigger warning for the Vanilla Ish being based around new laws in Louisiana involving surgical castration laws. Weezy eventually gets into tips in the bedroom with braces & gauging what is a true “active” parent in this day and age. After the Whoreible decision, the ladies get into figuring out who is qualified in being able to give dating advice to hetero couples. Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Whoreible Decisions pagesInstagram @whoreible_decisionsTwitter @whoreiblepodDon't forget to tag #whoreibledecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsWant some Whoreible Decisions merchandise? GET YOURS NOW AT WHOREHIVE.COMSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Sep 16, 2024 • 1h 10min
Ep 387: The Root Of Gayness & Homophobia (Ft. Jay Jurden)
This week the ladies are joined by Jay Jurgen! Starting off with homosexuals in medieval times, gay people being washed away from the history books, & white people coming from lizards. After getting into Mandii’s MMF factive call, Jay & the ladies get into black men & queer activity, respecting lesbians, black men coming out to black women, and why HIV rates are high within heterosexual black women. Finally we get into pretty privilege paying bills & Gabrielle Union being considered a GOAT black actor. Follow Our Guest:@JayJurden Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Whoreible Decisions pagesInstagram @whoreible_decisionsTwitter @whoreiblepodDon't forget to tag #whoreibledecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsWant some Whoreible Decisions merchandise? GET YOURS NOW AT WHOREHIVE.COMSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Sep 2, 2024 • 1h 24min
EP 385: The Quirks Of Joining A Throuple
Back to back SOLOS for the ladies, as we get into why Wolf has static for the ladies. Then we get into Dr.Umar’s tip for women that have a cheating spouse, followed by making sure to have good communication with your partner. For the Whoreible Decision we get into Mandii’s Throuple situation, and why she feels like we shouldn’t try to lead a life of monogamy, plus much more! Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Whoreible Decisions pagesInstagram @whoreible_decisionsTwitter @whoreiblepodDon't forget to tag #whoreibledecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsWant some Whoreible Decisions merchandise? GET YOURS NOW AT WHOREHIVE.COMSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.