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Join Seth Kaplan, an expert on fragile states, and Pete Davis, a civic advocate and author, as they discuss the decline of community in America. They explore how weakened relationships can lead to loneliness and mental health issues. Davis highlights the paradox of modern commitments versus the need for civic life. With practical tips like 'knock, invite, repeat,' they encourage listeners to reconnect with neighbors and prioritize belonging. Their insights remind us that small gestures can foster deep connections and enhance our well-being.

Most of the news we see each day is negative. This constant stream of bad news fuels news avoidance, anxiety, and animosity — all of which harm us at a spiritual level. This episode proposes a new, spiritually healthy way of engaging with the news, looking at how we can use our media diets to help us fulfill our personal vocations and cultivate the virtue of hope. Focusing on news you can act on will improve your mental health and your ability to make positive impacts; as Emma Varvaloucas explains, focusing more on positive news also increases your ability to create positive change because it allows you to see that change is possible and what strategies best advance it.Featured voices:* David Bornstein* Sharon Brous* Jonathan Haidt* Brett McCracken* Kathryn Murdoch* Hannah Ritchie* Chris Stirewalt* Emma VarvaloucasArticle 13 is produced by Maria Devlin McNair, Zachary Davis, and Gavin Feller. Music is by Steve LaRosa. Art is by Charlotte Alba. You can learn more about Article 13 here.We express our thanks to the Wheatley Institute for their support.LISTEN ON APPLE PODCASTSLISTEN ON SPOTIFYEPISODE TRANSCRIPT* IntroductionIt’s 1 AM. You should be asleep. But instead, you’re doomscrolling – swiping through story after story on your social media feeds and news channels, and they all seem to be negative. Democracy is under threat. AI is coming for your job. Children are dying in wars abroad. The climate is about to collapse.This deluge of danger makes you want to do what a lot of people have done – stop reading the news altogether. But then imagine you come across a story like this:Documentary:  Humans are extraordinary. We're such a miracle. The land is resilient. We are resilient. We've got to believe that there's a better way where people have clean air, clean water, available food, cheap, abundant energy. The big shared human projects confronting climate change, staying a step ahead of the next pandemic, preventing nuclear conflict, will require cooperation. That's the key for success, and we are one team, the world. It's ideas that determine our trajectory as a species. The idea that progress is possible is probably one of the most powerful ideas we've ever had. People are building better futures for themselves and the communities around them.Most news stories about our future aren’t nearly so optimistic. But that’s precisely why this story needed to be shared.This footage is from a 2024 PBS docuseries called A Brief History of the Future. At an Aspen Ideas event, Executive Co-producer Kathryn Murdoch explained why she wanted to create it:Murdoch: Of the main reasons I did this project was actually because my daughter came to me a few years ago and said she didn't see any hope for the future. And I was really shocked because I've been working on climate change for like 17 years, and she knows all the solutions that we work on, and and we do democracy reform, she's very familiar with all those things, but she said to me, “But look at the films, look at the television shows, look at the books, especially the YA books. Everything is dystopian.” And I sort of went around trying to prove her wrong, and I couldn't. Everything that we have visualized about our future is dystopian now. Some of it's ecological, but, you know, there's all kinds of choices, there's 27 flavors of dystopia, but there's no version where we actually get things right.A Brief History of the Future offers visions of what it could look to get things right– and how we could get there.Alexis Soloski discusses the docuseries in a New York Times article titled “Climate Doom Is Out. ‘Apocalyptic Optimism’ Is In.” The article discusses recent climate books that are striving, like this docuseries, to replace climate doomerism with a certain kind of informed, well-earned optimism. None of them deny that the problems are real and gravely serious. But they insist that focusing solely on the problems will make us worse at solving them. As data scientist Hannah Ritchie put it, “There’s been a really rapid shift in the narrative, from almost complete denial to, ‘Oh, it’s too late now, there’s nothing we can do, we should just stop trying.’”If the news convinces us that the problems are insurmountable, then we won’t be motivated to do anything about them. That’s why Ritchie, Murdoch, and many others believe we need a different approach to world issues and how they’re reported. And the most practical approach here may, in fact, be one founded on a certain spiritual virtue. Soloski puts it this way: “Intimations of doom have failed to motivate us. Perhaps we will work toward a better future if we trust that one … is possible. When it comes to climate catastrophe, is our best hope hope itself?”Welcome to the Angle – a podcast that brings together cutting edge research and spiritual wisdom to provide blueprints for a better world. I’m your host, Zachary Davis. In this episode, we develop spiritual guidelines for navigating the news – especially the division and negativity the news now fosters. We examine the spiritual stumbling blocks posed by our media environment; we outline a media diet that can help us live out our personal missions; and we explain why we need the virtue of hope – so that what we learn about the world can change the world.* Spiritual formation and dispositionsWhen people tell us why we should read the news, the reasons aren’t usually spiritual ones. It’s to hold people in power accountable, to be well-informed about issues on the ballot. It’s a vital political issue – serious scholars of democracy agree that it needs an informed citizenry.But there are also vital spiritual dimensions to our news-consumption habits. How we get our news affects the way our minds are shaped, the moral dispositions we cultivate towards other people, and our ability to carry out our mission in the world.In their 2023 book The Great Dechurching, pastors Michael Graham and Jim Davis ask why 40 million churchgoing Americans have recently left their churches. In this book, they spent a lot of time looking at how different demographics get their news. That’s because Graham and Davis noticed a relationship between news consumption and spiritual formation – what we fill our minds with, and what our minds are like.A report released by Pew Research Center in 2023 relayed that “half of U.S. adults get news at least sometimes from social media.” It also reported that “Facebook outpaces all other social media sites” in terms of where Americans regularly get their news. But as Graham and Davis note, “Through … leaked internal Facebook corporate memos, we learned, ‘[Facebook] algorithms exploit the human brain’s attraction to divisiveness … If left unchecked,’ Facebook would feed users ‘more and more divisive content to gain more user attention and increase time on the platform.”“We are in a crisis of spiritual formation,” they conclude, “because we live in an attention economy. Attention is money.” And nothing sustains attention like anger.Every proprietary algorithm at all the large tech and social media companies has discovered what the Bible has already told us, Graham and Davis write. We are inherently prone to division, strife, and anger. We consume content that puts our brain in a cortisol state and makes it increasingly difficult to be renewed in our minds and to embody the fruits of the Spirit.But you don’t have to be a pastor to be concerned about media consumption and personal formation. You could be a psychologist. Psychologist Jonathan Haidt, who studies religion and moral psychology, points out that spirituality is a core concept even for those who don’t belong to a religious faith or believe in God. People innately perceive certain kinds of objects and actions to be pure or elevating or sacred in some way, and some others to be disgusting or degrading. A spiritual life, on this account, is one that strives to embrace what is elevating and avoid what is degrading. And Haidt believes that a lot of mainstream media is dangerous for our collective spiritual lives.Haidt: We're drowning in trivia that was created yesterday.This is Haidt speaking with Trinity ForumHaidt: Epictetus says, If your body was turned over to just anyone, you would doubtless take exception. Why aren't you ashamed that you've made your mind vulnerable to anyone who happens to criticize you, so that it automatically becomes confused and upset? I mean, that's Twitter, he said, Don't go on Twitter. And then this is Marcus Aurelius, Marcus Aurelius said, The things you think about determine the quality of your mind; your soul takes on the color of your thoughts; so avoid degrading things, avoid things that lower you, focus, expose yourself to things that elevate you.We might agree that it can be spiritually corrupting to immerse ourselves in outrageous stories about our political enemies, or trivial celebrity gossip, or the videos of real-life violence that show up all over news channels and social media. But could even the most thoughtfully chosen stories feel “elevating,” if so much of the news is simply so bad?* NegativityVarvaloucas: There has actually been research that's been done that counts the number of times negative emotions appear in headlines over the last 15 or so years. And there's been a definite uptick in negative emotions in headlines, meaning anger, fear, disgust – there has been a real change in how the news is presented in recent years.This is Emma Varvaloucas, Executive Director of the Progress Network. Working in journalism herself, she has a close look at this phenomenon of increasing negativity in the news. This negative tone isn’t accidental. Varvaloucas explains that the news is “negative by design”:Varvaloucas: What I meant by the news is negative by design is that it's not designed to tell you what's going on, average all over the world on any given normal day, which right now is mostly peacefulness in most corners of the world, it's mostly people making more money and living better lifestyles than they did 50 years ago, 100 years ago. So what the news is reporting on are the things that defy our idea of normal, so things that go wrong.Part of this negative focus comes down to a desire for attention: as the industry mantra goes, “If it bleeds, it leads.” People feel compelled to read about crises.Part of it also comes down to mission. Most of what we experience in daily life doesn’t qualify as news. News organizations prioritize events that are unexpected, disruptive, or have widespread consequences, ignoring everyday occurrences that don't meet the criteria of conflict, controversy, or urgency.And journalists often feel the best way to help the world is by calling attention to problems that need solving. Reporting on what’s doing just fine can seem a less urgent task – even a less responsible one.But this well-meaning mission can backfire by making people avoid the news. Given the uptick in negative news, it’s not surprising that there’s also been an uptick in news avoidance. In 2023, the Reuters Institute for the Study of Journalism found that 38% of US survey respondents actively avoid the news. The Washington Post reported: “Digital media has made news ubiquitous … And much of it, people say, drives feelings of depression, anger, anxiety or helplessness.”Varvaloucas: I think what the news is serving people is really, really negative, and I think people are just tired.Reading the news can feel like the opposite of spiritual elevation – an immersion in hatred and hopelessness. But there is a way to engage differently. First, we can avoid the news-consumption habits that drive the worst kinds of emotions. Second, we can focus our engagement in the same way we focus our spiritual engagement.* How to read the news – the basicsSo which habits are the worst drivers of anger, anxiety, and out-of-control doom-scrolling?1. Getting your news from social media,2. Getting your news from free news sites3 Getting your news from cable television.All these platforms have incentives, usually related to advertising revenue, to serve up the most high-drama, high-stress stories possible. These stories are designed to grab our attention and trigger our most reactionary emotions – not to engage our minds and conscious judgment. A good alternative habit to watching sensationalized video clips is to get your news by reading it. Reading “interrupts our reaction cycle and invites slow, careful processing,” write media scholars Benjamin Peters and Seth Lewis in their article “How to Make Sense of the World: The Case for Reading the News.”And what kind of news should you read? Peters and Lewis recommend starting with Reuters and the Associated Press, for basic, accurate reporting on events around the world. Then, to dive a little deeper, invest in a subscription to a high-quality mainstream news source – one that doesn’t need to support itself through clicks. Think The Washington Post or The Wall Street Journal.And if at all possible, subscribe to a second news source, one with a different perspective from your first source – and from you. Deliberately reading news that challenges your existing beliefs will help you counteract confirmation bias and see the world from the perspective of others.Stirewalt: If you're doing it right, if you're living up to your obligations as a citizen, you should regularly be hearing things that you disagree with, you should regularly hear ideas and points of view that make you uncomfortable, that might even point out that you're wrong from time to time.This is Chris Stirewalt. Like many media theorists, he strongly recommends reading multiple sources with different points of view. This doesn’t mean turning to hyper-partisan outlets to see what the “crazy other side” is doing. It means seeking out legitimate, fact-checked sources that will surprise and challenge your instinctive opinions. This balanced reading won’t just give you a more accurate picture of the world; it will also help you cultivate curiosity and generosity towards people outside your own tribe – much more spiritually fruitful dispositions than contempt or hatred.Stirewalt: My plea to Americans is, Break out. If you're conservative, you better have NPR on in the morning, you better do something to break it up a little bit. If you're a liberal, you better be reading The Dispatch, of course, which is delightful, or National Review, or the Wall Street Journal editorial page, you better be listening to something else that shakes it up, that breaks it out.* EmbodimentNow, even if you adopt these practices, keeping up with the news can still feel unproductive and overwhelming, simply from the sheer volume of stories you can access – information from literally around the world. Brett McCracken, author of The Wisdom Pyramid, cites an argument from educator Neil Postman to explain why so many people face this sense of overwhelm:McCracken: Postman argues that our mental health is actually better when that information action ratio is pretty even, when the information that fills our brains is largely things that we can take action on. Now with the Internet, it's just like become way out of whack, so that the vast majority of information that we come across in our mental space is unactionable information, and so you can understand why anxiety and mental illness is on the rise, because we were not created to have the burden of the world's worth of unactionable information in our minds, like we were created to be in physical embodied space where the inputs that came into our mind were actionable.Information becomes merely distressing, rather than inspiring or helpful, when it gets too far away from our own decisions and actions – what we, as embodied creatures, are able to act upon. Many religious practices involve physical motion or in-person gathering or communal feasting, and for the same reason – we are embodied creatures.So a more spiritual approach to reading the news would be a more embodied one. Try targeting your news-reading around those areas where you can take action in the physical world. Build a general picture of world events, but focus your most intensive reading on the information that will shape the decisions you make that impact people around you.One way to do this is by attending to news about your immediate area. When you follow local news and react to what you hear, whether that's through contacting your local government, or introducing new ideas at a town council meeting, you're helping make your neighborhood better. But local doesn't just mean the geographic space nearest to you. It also means the issues nearest to you. Maybe you're a doctor advising patients on the latest developments in a particular field. Or maybe you're a parent gathering information about teen mental health. Those subjects are local to you because they have a direct impact on you and your decisions.Reading on these issues may still be discouraging at times But it will also be empowering, because the knowledge you gain will enable you to do more good with the actions you take.Then there's the one other vital piece to our approach. As noted, for reasons good and bad, news, for most news outlets, means bad news. What's absolutely imperative is to read more good news.* Positive newsSharing good news is Emma Varvaloucas’s mission as Executive Director of the Progress Network. Founded by Zachary Karabell, the Progress Network brings together journalists and organizations dedicated to sharing stories about progress.Varvaloucas: And the idea is really to balance out this strongly negative viewpoint that,not only the mainstream media, but also media influencers on the right and the left, have these days, to help show people there is progress actually happening.Progress is happening. But it often happens invisibly. It’s not just because many news organizations are incentivized to publish negative news; it’s because progress often doesn’t take the form of “news” at all. It’s isolated, unique, stand-out events that tend to get reported on – not slow, gradual change where each day looks quite similar to the day before. And so gradual progress – like the way millions of people have been lifted out of poverty in the last 30 years – never gets reported as “breaking news.” But, Varvaloucas warns, ignoring these slow, positive stories has negative consequences.Varvaloucas: So if you don't believe that progress on any particular issue is possible, it leads you to a certain set of decisions, right? UYou look at global poverty today, there's been a spike in global poverty in the last maybe three years, but it's been on like the long term decline. And if you look at that and say, ‘Well, lots of people are still starving, nothing that we did made a difference,’ what kind of decisions are you then going to make? First of all, you're going to stop paying attention. Second of all, if you're someone like a government employee or someone's voting, you're not going to be interested in funding international aid because you're like, ‘Oh, we're just throwing money around and nothing's happening.’If you never hear or learn about the progress that is happening, you probably won’t think it’s possible. And if you don’t believe that progress is possible, you won’t invest the time and resources needed to make it happen.Varvaloucas: But if you are aware that that progress has happened, it leads to another completely different set of decisions. For me, that spurs further action. If I give money to XYZ place that actually does something, those efforts have actually improved people's lives, so, let's do more of it, because we know that these steps have already worked. Societies that are convinced of their destruction, I think, hasten that destruction, right? And societies that feel like, ‘We might not have the road specifically planned out on how to get from point A to point B, but we believe that something is possible,’ like, that's the first step.The philosophy behind the Progress Network is akin to that of “solutions journalism.” The Solutions Journalism Network was founded to change the way people understand and shape the world by changing the way it’s reported on. The Network’s co-founder, David Bornstein, explained the problem this way on the PBS Newshour in 2022:Bornstein: The main way that the news harms democracy is by providing a view of the world that is largely deficit-framed. I mean, we are amply informed about what is going wrong, about what is ugly, about what is corrupt. But because we don't have a similar amount of information about what's growing, what are the new possibilities emerging, we have a very flawed, kind of one-sided view. It's as if your parents were only ever criticizing what you did and never [] where you had possibilities to grow. Many people who would, I think, would love to participate in contributing to a better community, even a better society or world, have an impoverished sense of their power to do so.On a political level, what Solutions Journalism offers is a blueprint for successful policy going forward. On a spiritual level, what Solutions Journalism offers is hope. Hope that there are other possibilities. Hope that a better future is within reach. Hope that your actions actually can have an impact in making that future a reality.Because hope is not about sitting back and trusting that others will take all the action that's needed. The hope that we as spiritual news readers are called to embrace isn't presumption or complacency. It's a vision that spurs action.Brous: And I want to say this about hope. Hope is not naive, and hope is not an opiate.This is Rabbi Sharon Brous in a 2017 Ted Talk called “It’s Time to Reclaim Religion.”Brous: Hope may be the single greatest act of defiance against a politics of pessimism and against a culture of despair. Because what hope does for us is it lifts us out of the container that holds us and constrains us from the outside, and says, ‘You can dream and think expansively again.’ That, they cannot control in you.As Hannah Ritchie related to the Times: “In order to build a better world, you need to be able to envision that one is possible.” Hope is the ability and the willingness to envision that world, to dream and think expansively about it, and then to accept the responsibilities that vision entails for how we, personally, must help bring that vision about.Hope in this sense is a “spur, a prod, an uncomfortable goad”, as Soloski puts it. But hope is much less uncomfortable and much less difficult to cultivate when we have a realistic picture of the tools we do have to build our future.In her TED Talk, Rabbi Brous talks about four commitments she sees in revitalized forms of religion around the country. The first she names is “wakefulness.”Brous: We live in a time today in which we have unprecedented access to information about every global tragedy that happens on every corner of this Earth. Psychologists tell us that the more we learn about what's broken in our world, the less likely we are to do anything. It's called psychic numbing. We just shut down at a certain point. Well, somewhere along the way, our religious leaders forgot that it's our job to make people uncomfortable. It's our job to wake people up, to pull them out of their apathy and into the anguish, and to insist that we do what we don't want to do and see what we do not want to see. Because we know that social change only happens when we are awake enough to see that the house is on fire.Solutions journalists might add, “We know that social change only happens when we are awake enough to see that the house is on fire, and when we know what’s working today to put fires out.” We do have unprecedented access to news about every global tragedy. We do risk spiritual overwhelm, either in despair over problems we can’t solve or hatred for people we see as causing the problems. The answer isn’t to shut down and tune out. But neither is it to focus only on “what we do not want to see.” It’s essential that we make positive news a staple of our spiritual news diet to nourish our hope and guide our action: to let us see a better world is possible, and to give us the knowledge we need about how best to bring that world about.* ConclusionSo what does a spiritual approach to the news entail? Being mindful of how the content we consume forms our minds and hearts. Avoiding those platforms and stories designed to generate hatred and contempt. Seeking out stories that make us better able to understand those we disagree with. Diving into those stories that help us live out our vocation. Maintaining a basic working picture of the world. And building in much more positive news so we can cultivate the virtue of hope and help the world change for the better. You can start finding those vital positive stories by going to TheProgressNetwork.org and signing up for their free weekly newsletter; subscribing to the “What Could Go Right?” podcast; visiting the Solutions Story Tracker at SolutionsJournalism.org; and subscribing to updates from OurWorldinData.org.Reading the news is often framed as political duty, but in a talk at the American Enterprise Institute, Stirewalt framed the same duty slightly differently:Stirewalt: You do owe your neighbor something about how you get your news and how good you are at consuming it. As citizens, we all owe each other a filial duty of love to each other in the country to be well informed.A spiritual approach to reading the news is nothing less than an extension of your devotion to truth and to love. Your love for others is what motivates you to understand and improve their world. Let the news help you do just that.Errata: 1) In the recorded version, Jim Davis’s last name is once spoken as “David” rather than “Davis.” 2) A podcast is referred to as “Common Grounds”; the correct name is “Let’s Find Common Ground.”EPISODE CREDITSA special thanks for Benjamin Peters for his feedback and suggestions on this episode.Ari Wallach (host), A Brief History of the Future (trailer) | PBS | 2024“A Brief History of the Future: Kathryn Murdoch & Ari Wallach with Mariana Atencio” | | The Aspen Institute | 2024A Conversation with Andy Crouch & Jonathan Haidt, “After Babel: Reclaiming Relationship in a Technological World” | The Trinity Forum | 2022Interview with Emma Varvaloucas | Article 13 | 2023How The Media Rage Machine Divides America: Chris Stirewalt | Let’s Find Common Ground Podcast | 2024The Wisdom Pyramid with Brett McCracken | Church at the Cross Grapevine | 2022David Bornstein, “A journalist's Brief But Spectacular take on telling the whole story” | PBS NewsHour | 2022Sharon Brous, “It's time to reclaim religion” | TED | 2017Broken News: A Book Event with Chris Stirewalt | American Enterprise Institute | 2022 Get full access to Wayfare at www.wayfaremagazine.org/subscribe

For the past several decades, Americans have been leaving Christian churches in record numbers. This phenomenon has been dubbed “The Great Dechurching” by pastors Jim Davis and Michael Graham. What’s surprising is that many of those Americans didn’t leave the church because they stopped believing. They left because their church stopped feeling like a place of belonging. What we need to do to reverse the “Great Dechurching,” argues Jake Meador, is embrace the task of being good friends and good neighbors — a task given to all Christians, but also necessary for all humans.Ryan Burge: Author of The Nones and 20 Myths About Religion and Politics in America.Michael Graham: Co-author of The Great Dechurching with Jim Davis. Works with The Keller Center and The Gospel Coalition.Jen Wilkin: Bible teacher, speaker, and bestselling author advocating for deep Bible literacy.Jim Davis: Co-author of The Great Dechurching, Pastor at Orlando Grace Church. Contributor to The Gospel Coalition.Jake Meador: Writer, editor-in-chief of Mere Orthodoxy.Alan Cooperman: Director of Religion Research at Pew Research Center.Article 13 is a narrative podcast from Faith Matters that brings together cutting-edge research and spiritual wisdom to offer blueprints for a better world. Article 13 is produced by Maria Devlin McNair, Zachary Davis, and Gavin Feller. Music by Steve LaRosa. Art by Charlotte Alba. You can learn more about Article 13 here. Get full access to Wayfare at www.wayfaremagazine.org/subscribe

American boys and men are facing growing challenges in school, in the labor force, and in our culture. Richard Reeves, author of Of Boys and Men, documents those challenges and the steps it will take to solve them — which include a new cultural script for masculinity. Many of our cultural spaces are suspicious of masculinity itself; others celebrate only that masculinity which conforms to the traditional model of strength and dominance. This episode proposes that a powerful new script would be one that celebrates the desire for strength as it is used in service to others.Featured voices:* Arthur Brooks* Richard ReevesEPISODE TRANSCRIPT* IntroductionArthur Brooks: I have three kids, 25, 23, and 20, and my middle son is named Carlos. And Carlos was having a good old time in high school, and [] had substantial grade problems and academic issues. But the problem was he wasn't really having fun, and I think it was a meaning problem.This is Harvard professor and social scientist Arthur Brooks, speaking with podcaster Tim Ferriss in 2023. In response to Carlos’s meaning problem, Brooks asked him to come up with a business plan for his life. The plan, in Brooks’ words, was “appropriately unorthodox.” Carlos got a job on an 8,000-acre working wheat farm in Idaho. He dug rocks out of the soil, chopped down dead trees, and ran a combine 16 hours a day.Tim Ferriss: Why did he choose this? How would he explain that?Arthur Brooks: Because he needed to see what he could do. He needed to find out what it meant to be Carlos Brooks, away from his family, away from everybody. Why? Because he was looking for the answers to the questions. They were inchoate. They were like, “Why am I alive? I don’t know. Maybe I’ll find it in the cab of a combine. Maybe I’ll find it when I dig rocks out of the soil. Maybe I’ll find it by doing something hard with my hands.” Then he joined the military. He was 19 years old. He joined the Marine Corps. Today, he’s Corporal Carlos Brooks, Marines Three-Five Scout Sniper Platoon. And he’s got answers … I’ll tell you his answers. “Carlos, why are you alive?” “Because God made me.” “For what are you willing to die?” “For my faith and for my family and for my friends, and for the United States of America.” Boom. These are not the answers that a lot of people watching us would give, but these are super solid answers. I’m super proud of my son because he earned the answers to his meaning questions that everybody watching us has got to earn it.Carlos Brooks isn’t the only young man to have wrestled with questions of meaning. In 2017, the Pew Research Center asked survey respondents where they found meaning in their lives: “What keeps you going, and why?” One analyst said, quote, “One of [Pew’s] most striking discoveries was that women find more meaning in their lives, and from more sources, than men … Right now, men have a narrower range of sources of meaning and identity, which makes them particularly vulnerable if one of those sources is damaged.”That analyst was Richard Reeves, Founder and President of the American Institute for Boys and Men. As a father of three boys, he would hear about their worries and challenges around the dinner table. As a policy analyst, once he started looking into the data, he became more and more worried about the unique problems that boys and men nationwide were facing – especially since not many people were talking about those problems. So Reeves decided to jumpstart the conversation himself.Richard Reeves: So my most recent book is called Of Boys and Men: Why the Modern Male is Struggling and What to Do about ItThis story of these struggles hasn’t been widely told. But it’s a story we need to hear.Welcome to Article 13– a podcast that brings together cutting-edge research and spiritual wisdom to offer blueprints for a better world. I’m your host, Zachary Davis. Today we’ll look at the particular challenges facing men and boys today and why telling new kinds of stories might offer some new solutions.* What are the problems and what’s causing them?In 2022, Richard Reeves’ published a book called Of Boys and Men. It looks chiefly at how men are performing in education, the workforce, and family life. Data in all three areas indicates that men today are struggling:Richard Reeves: The gender gap in college degrees awarded is wider today than it was in the early 1970s, but in the opposite direction. The wages of most men are lower today than they were in 1979, while women's wages have risen across the board. One in five fathers are not living with their children.In America today, women are 15 points more likely than men to hold a bachelor’s degree. Women’s wages have increased more than 30% since 1983, while men who entered the workforce at that time earn about 10% less in their lifetimes than men who started a generation earlier. One-third of men who hold only a high school diploma are out of the labor force. And these economic struggles impact family struggles, as Reeves described in a conversation with podcast host Coleman Hughes:Richard Reeves: But it's also true that if men are out of work or struggling to earn a decent wage, that makes them much less attractive as marriage prospects or as mate prospects, and so they're less likely to form a family.Men are struggling to complete degrees, to land jobs, and to form stable partnerships. And these challenges, Reeves says, are linked to some other sobering data.Richard Reeves: Men account for almost three out of four deaths of despair from a suicide or an overdose. I mean, these are pretty shocking pieces of information, shocking data points.The data make it clear that boys and men are facing significant problems. So what’s causing the problems? There’s been no shortage of people offering answers. But, Reeves says, these people often claim that men’s problems are problems with men.Richard Reeves: So, from a conservative critic, for example, it might well be, “Well, they're just not masculine enough. They need to be more masculine, more of a breadwinner. They need to man up. They need to be more like their father.” But it's about them. It's about their individual responsibility.Here’s Senator Josh Hawley, for example, speaking with Megyn Kelly.Josh Hawley: My message to men is, “C’mon, this is the time for you to step up, to go out in the adventure of your life ,which is really an adventure of serving, giving, and providing.”Alternatively, some conservatives identify the problem as the culture not letting men man up – as carrying out a “war on masculinity.” This is Tucker Carlson speaking with Laura Ingram on Fox News in 2018.Tucker Carlson: And he’s absolutely right, I mean the Democratic party is anti-masculinity and anti-father, they have to be, that’s their base – and that’s just true.In the U.S. Reeves writes, a third of men of all political persuasions believe that they are discriminated against, and among Republicans, the number is even higher. And there is some truth to that perception. Just think how common the phrase “toxic masculinity” has become.Doug Emhoff: There’s too much toxicity, masculine toxicity, out there.This is Doug Emhoff, husband of Vice-president Kamala Harris, speaking to MSNBC in 2023.Doug Emhoff: We’ve got this trope out there that you’ve gotta be tough and angry and lash out to be strong. I think it’s a problem, and I’m going to use every chance I get to speak out against this toxic masculinity.Richard Reeves: From the left, the problem was that they were too masculine, perhaps they were toxic, and if we could just somehow exercise out that nasty masculinity from them, they'd be okay.Exit polls from the 2024 US presidential election showed that “55 percent of men voted for Trump in 2024, compared to 45 percent of women.” Among Black and Latino voters, the gender gap grew compared to 2020, with more men choosing the Republican candidate. To attribute the gender gap to pure misogyny would be a mistake, Reeves warns: “There is no strong evidence that young men are turning against gender equality. But they have turned away from the left because the left has turned away from them.” Prior to the election, Reeves strove to remind voters that the challenges facing men – especially men of color and working-class men – aren’t reactionary inventions. They are real, and they aren’t being addressed. As Reeves wrote, “The Democrats and progressive institutions have a massive blind spot when it comes to male issues, and this was exposed in the election. At worst, men are seen not as having problems but as being the problem.”Following the election, Reeves called on Democrats to look deeply at the way they speak to men, and called on Republicans to enact policies that will actually help their male voters. Extremists on the right and left often speak as though male problems come down to the choices of individual men. But the reason policy solutions are needed is that these problems aren’t individual; they’re structural.They're about the structure of the education system, the economy and family life. A big reason why boys are falling behind in school is that the current educational system isn’t designed to support boys’ learning styles. Men are struggling in the labor market because large-scale structural changes, like free trade and automation, have vastly reduced the number of blue-collar, traditionally male jobs. And if men are struggling to bring in income, they’re also struggling to fill the role that men have traditionally filled: the primary breadwinner and provider for a family.Richard Reeves: So among all U. S. households, now 40 percent of them have a sole or female or primary breadwinner, female []. These are profound social changes. The central goal of the women's movement in the 1970s was to secure economic independence for women, thereby making marriage a choice. And I think that has been spectacularly achieved in recent decades. And I think it is one of the most wonderful liberations in our history. But it has come with profound consequences. And I think to just either imagine that these trends don't have profound implications for what it means to be a father, to be a man in modern society, when we've defined it so clearly previously, is naive in the extreme.Reeves offers a lot of ideas about policies that could help address these structural challenges. For example, traditionally male jobs in manufacturing are declining, but jobs in health, education, and administration—jobs traditionally perceived as more feminine—are rising fast. Reeves recommends massive investments in recruitment, subsidies, scholarships, hiring bonuses, and other incentives to get men into those professions – to benefit the workers themselves, and the people they would work with.Richard Reeves: We desperately need more men in our classrooms but also in our hospitals and as care workers and as social workers and as counselors.But beyond these policy proposals, we need changes at the level of our culture. Because the problems might start with external factors, like a globalizing economy, but they don’t stay there. They come to impact individuals at the deepest inner level, in terms of how they feel about themselves and their place in the world. And our cultural narratives don’t always offer men a place.In some stories, the very premise of Reeves’ book – that men have problems worth addressing – is mocked. In HBO’s satirical TV show White Lotus, a businesswoman lectures her daughter for not being nice enough to her brother: “He is a straight, white young man, and nobody has any sympathy for them right now. And I just feel like we should. In a way, they’re the underdogs now.” The statement is the signal for her daughter to reply, “Mom, cringe.”The ‘dumb dad’ trope is a decades-old cliche—just think of Homer Simpson— but it was still being deployed even at the end of 2023’s blockbuster film Barbie, as Barbie is driven to an appointment by a family of new real-world friends - a mom, a daughter, and a dad.From Barbie: “You got this! I’m really proud of you.” “Estoy muy orguoso de ti” “Ogulloso.” “Orgulloso … orgulloso de ti.” “There you go. Close enough”“Si se puede.”“That’s a political statement.” “That’s appropriation, Dad.”Yes, the trope is meant to be funny. But it’s not all that funny for actual dads.CNN: Those are funny, but it’s every show, and I want to get your take on this, and what concerns me is my sons, what do they watch on television? Whether it’s Disney channel, Nickelodeon, or all shows, what they’re seeing - and media’s powerful - the dad is an idiot!This was CNN with Josh Levs in 2012. Family counselor and social philosopher Michael Gurian noted the impact that this kind of portrayal can have. When dads in the media are depicted as being stupid and unnecessary, men and women can absorb the dangerous message that men or fathers aren’t needed.And that message –that you are not needed – is perhaps the most destructive one we could send.Richard Reeves: A fundamental human need is to be needed. And if our men and our young boys don't feel needed, then it's no wonder that so many of them are going off the rails. A study of men who commit suicide looked at the last words they used to describe themselves before they did so, and the two words most commonly used by those men were “useless” and “worthless.” It is a fundamental human need to be needed. If we make our men feel that they're not still needed by our society, by our culture, it is small wonder that so many of them are suffering so much.So it is crucial, says Reeves, that we start telling new stories in our culture about what it means to be a man – one that doesn’t label men by default as either “dangerous” or “useless.”Richard Reeves: The cultural task before us is a new script for masculinity. And that new script will contain the best of the old script, which is about self-mastery and autonomy, etc., and interest in forming stable families and mating and having children, etc. But that script won't write itself.We need to write this new script – one that respects what is new and vital in our 21st century society and recovers and renews what was valuable in centuries past.One way to do this is by sharing exemplary stories.* A new scriptSome of these will be real-world stories. Reeves discusses the Carnegie Hero Fund, which issues medals to civilians for courageous acts, specifically risking their life to save a stranger. In 2021, he notes, 66 of the 71 medals awarded were given to men – men like 19-year-old Lucas Mendoza, who was killed while trying to help a 3-year-old out of a burning building.” Men in general have a greater appetite and tolerance for this kind of risk.One way to write a positive script for masculinity, says writer David French, is by embracing and harnessing some of these characteristically male traits. As he wrote in National Review,“Turning boys into grown men means taking many of their inherent characteristics — such as their aggression, their sense of adventure, and their default physical strength — and shaping them toward virtuous ends. A strong, aggressive risk-taker can be a criminal or a cop, for example.”Caitlin Flanagan, writing in the Atlantic, also starts from those inherent, generally masculine traits, and the choice all men face about how to use them:“Men (as a group and to a significant extent) are larger, faster, and stronger than women. This cannot be disputed, and it cannot be understood as some irrelevancy, because it comes with an obvious moral question that each man must answer for himself: Will he use his strength to dominate the weak, or to protect them?”When we help boys and men direct their strength towards virtuous ends – towards the protection and service of others – we get what Flanagan calls “heroic masculinity.” French and Flanagan see heroic masculinity as a goal and desire in many young men, just waiting to be cultivated and called forth, if we as a culture will give them permission to embrace it.[French] “It’s quite safe to say that millions of young boys desire to become a grown man — a person who is physically and mentally tough, a person who can rise to a physical challenge and show leadership under stress … We do our sons no favors when we tell them that they don’t have to answer that voice inside them that tells them to be strong, to be brave, and to lead.”[Flanagan] “Let them be who they are, including those boys who are very interested in what it means to be heroic, in the sense of defending and protecting the weak.”We can model and celebrate this kind of positive masculinity through the cultural myths and stories we share. Stories that depict men using their strength and skills to serve the people around them – stories like Ted Lasso, Just Mercy, or The Lord of the Rings.Ted Lasso: “Every choice is a chance, fellas. And I didn’t give myself the chance to build further trust with y’all. To quote the great UCLA college basketball coach John Obi-Wan Gandalf,‘It is our choices, gentlemen, that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.’ Now I hope y’all can forgive me for what I’ve done.”Just Mercy: “The charges against them have proven to be a false construction of desperate people fueled by bigotry and bias who ignored the truth in exchange for easy solutions, and that's not the law, that's not justice.”The Lord of the Rings: “If by my life or death I can protect you, I will. You have my sword.”The Lord of the Rings, a fantasy epic about a small group of friends banding together to save their land, is beloved by women and by men. The UK journalist Kaleigh Dray observes that“The well-written men of the Lord Of The Rings have given us a beautiful example of healthy masculinity; one that allows men to cry without shame, to experience deep love and affection.”Aragorn, for example, is ready to die for the quest, but also weeps and shows tenderness at the death of his friend Boromir.The Lord of the Rings: “Be at peace, son of Gondor.”The characters don’t show their strength by brutalizing others or dominating over women. But they do show strength – in how they help others.The Lord of the Rings: “We will not abandon Merry and Pippin to torment and death. Not while we have strength left.”We all depend for our sustenance and safety on people who dedicate their strength to the service of others. Strength is a virtue in men and women – but today, in many places, it’s women who are celebrated for it. We need to permit and celebrate men’s desire to be strong as well. And we need to remind them of all the forms strength can take. Not all men will be Carnegie Heroes, or the police chiefs and firefighters that Flanagan cites for heroic masculinity. For many men, the closer model will be another character from The Lord of the Rings – Samwise Gamgee, the gardener, the future husband and father, and friend.The Lord of the Rings: “I made a promise, Mr. Frodo. A promise! ‘Don’t you leave him, Samwise Gamgee.’ And I don’t mean to. I don’t mean to.” “Oh Sam.”Sam is an exemplar of strength called into service. He dedicates himself to the humble, ordinary work of walking alongside the person he is responsible for and caring for his everyday physical and emotional needs. As Reeves notes, we cannot do without men like these:Richard Reeves: Margaret Mead, the anthropologist, said, “Every known human society has rested on the learned nurturing behavior of men.”Caring for another in any sustained way takes great strength – physical, mental, and emotional. But strength isn’t always what we call it, and it isn’t always what we celebrate – not when we’re talking about men. We can change that. We can let men know that their strength is needed and valued. We can encourage boys and men in their desire to be strong. And we can tell stories that show them how to harness that strength in the service of others. After all, that’s what we call heroism. In general, men and boys have a greater appetite for risk. Researcher Ellen Sandseter explains that children love risky play – anything involving great heights, high speeds, dangerous tools, and disappearing from adult supervision – but this is especially true for boys. That’s what gives us stories like the one comedian John Mulaney tells from his childhood:John Mulaney: “Sometimes people would say, ‘What do you think you're doing?’, but that just meant ‘Stop.’ They didn't actually want to know my thought process. They didn't want me to be like, ‘Well, I was gonna put this bottle rocket into this carton of eggs so that when I lit off the bottle rocket, the eggs would esplode everywhere.’ ‘Oh well, that's very interesting, and what brought you to this experiment?’ ‘Oh well, thank you for asking.’”Sure, most normal adults would just immediately take away the bottle rocket. But see if you can resist that temptation just a little while to let boys have that experience of risky, rough and tumble play. According to psychologists, it’s an essential learning process – just have some Band-aids handy.As boys get older, they will need greater challenges. Annie Holmquist, writing about The Lord of the Rings on Substack noted, “Just as the team of males in the quest to destroy the ring had a mission, so men today need responsibility. They need space … to take risks.” Or as one man wrote on Twitter, “Men rarely want to be empathised with. We want to fix a problem.” If that problem is finding his source of meaning or the direction of this life, he might need some struggle to solve it – just like Carlos Brooks did. Support his taking on that struggle.Arthur Brooks: You need to live and to try things and to go through a process of discernment. And the way to do that is to do hard things, is to challenge yourself and to say to yourself, “I will not stop until I have answers to these questions, to my own satisfaction.”Maybe you’re a man who’s also looking for more meaning and direction in his life. Maybe, like Carlos, you’re longing to find out just what you can do and who you can serve – but you haven’t found those answers yet. If so, remember that your work and your presence are needed right now – especially by young people. In some ways, says Reeves, boys need male role models even more than girls need female role models. And right now, we don’t have nearly all the male leaders and teachers and mentors that we need.Richard Reeves: And male teachers are more likely to be coaches, so if we have fewer male teachers, we also have fewer coaches, but also we need more male scout leaders. We need more male, we need more men in just those other male spaces.In this century, a smaller proportion of men are the sole breadwinners for a family. But being a provider doesn’t just mean being a provider of money. Men have many gifts to offer – especially when it comes to bringing up the younger men in their communities.Richard Reeves: My English teacher in high school taught us metaphysical poetry from John Donne, Andrew Marvell, and some amazing Romantic poetry. He was a Korean War veteran who also was a bus driver. And he would have us in tears reading metaphysical poetry. I don't think that would have happened if it wasn't the man, for me. Just for me. I think the fact of a man teaching me to love and write and read poetry was hugely important. I think the fact that he was who he was helped me to read. He's [] a bunch of working class, unruly, 16-year-old boys. You're gonna get them to read John Donne and Andrew Marvell? By God, he did.We are all called, men and women, to serve others with our gifts, our love, and our strength. But today, what some men hear is that their service isn’t wanted or needed. We can’t let that be the message we send. None of this is to diminish the tremendous struggles and challenges faced by women past and present. It’s simply a refusal to ignore any of the human struggles unfolding around us – like the deathly despair provoked by feeling “useless.”Richard Reeves: And you talked about compassion earlier – that's the heart of the project here. We all want human flourishing for everybody. And if you see a group of people, whoever they are, who are struggling or suffering in some way or another, surely we're called to help that group of people. And the fact that we wouldn’t because they don't fall into these neat binary categories of our current political life is not only, in my view, shortsighted, because those problems will fester and come out in different ways, it's actually immoral. So there's a moral force to this argument here too.Novelist Charles Dickens wrote, “No one is useless in this world who lightens the burden of it for any one else.” What else is healthy masculinity but a readiness to help bear others’ burdens? With this in mind, encourage the boys you know in their desire for virtuous strength. And celebrate the quiet but vital ways that men use their strength to help carry the burdens of others.CREDITSArthur C. 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