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Oct 16, 2025 • 35min
Marryam Chehelnabi on how to do relationship maintenance
Therapy is generally associated with relationships in dire straits. But, psychotherapist Marryam Chehelnabi, from SBS' Couples Therapy Australia, says there are ways to strengthen your connection in calmer periods to, potentially, avoid ever getting to that crisis point. What does "relationship maintenance" look like for you?

Oct 16, 2025 • 12min
Ask Aunty: Being roasted on the group chat
What happens if you're part of a tight-knit friendship group but you realise that those same friends have been laughing about you behind your back on the group chat ... for ages.After the initial horror -- would you call it out? and how?

Oct 15, 2025 • 24min
Is universal basic income really the solution to all our problems?
What would happen if every person in the country - from the bottom to the top - got $500 income every week, no further information required?Wealth inequality is worsening and new figures show 1 in 7 Australians now live below the poverty line, so what impact would introducing a universal basic income really have?

Oct 15, 2025 • 10min
Ask Aristotle: The ethics of standing up and speaking out
Recently in the United States, six former surgeons general - their country's leading spokespeople on public health - joined forces to write an opinion piece for The Washington Post.They argued Robert F. Kennedy Jr. should not be in his current position as Secretary of Health and Human Services.They accused him of endangering the health of the nation and amplifying the rapid spread of health misinformation.Of course, Mr Kennedy's agency immediately responded... and threw accusations back at them.So what are the ethics of speaking up versus maintaining silence? Especially when it's unclear whether speaking out will make a difference?

Oct 15, 2025 • 12min
What if you didn't have to wait for an insurance payout after extreme weather?
Extreme weather events are becoming more common, and that's making insurance harder to afford - or in some places, impossible to get.Even if you are covered, payouts and repairs can take months... or even years.But what if you didn't have to wait at all? What if your insurer paid you automatically as soon as the cyclone reached a certain wind speed, or the floodwaters reached a certain height?That sort of cover does exist - it's called parametric insurance. It's not common here in Australia but experts say it could help households and communities recover faster from catastrophic events.

Oct 15, 2025 • 5min
The memoir that changed Astrid Jorgensen's life
Voting has closed for ABC Radio National's Top 100 Books of the 21st Century.You spent weeks collating your list and casting your votes.We've been asking some notable readers to share the book that changed their life. This week, Astrid Jorgensen, the founder and director of Pub Choir, discusses her special book.

Oct 14, 2025 • 13min
What it takes to be a hostage negotiator
If you've watched the news this week, you've seen the powerful reunions.Hostages, some taken years ago, finally back with their families. Israel and Hamas have both released captives, to long-awaited hugs, tears, and relief.But these moments don't come easy. Negotiations are fragile and hard-fought - when every message, every word, carries the weight of human life.World leaders have fronted the cameras, but who actually makes these deals happen?

Oct 14, 2025 • 12min
Ending the relationship just before you say "I Do"
The venue is booked. The invites have gone out. And the wedding gown is purchased. But something doesn't feel right.Ending a relationship shortly before you're set to say "I Do" can be complex.It's an emotionally charged time, family and friends are invested in the big day.... not to mention the financial fall-out and tricky logistics.

Oct 14, 2025 • 25min
The end of hostels and hangovers? Aussie coming-of-age trips are changing
For generations, young Australians marked adulthood with a backpack, a bus pass, and a blur of hostels and happy hours. But today’s young travellers are chasing something very different. Sunrise yoga, ‘run club’ tours, and meaningful cultural experiences are replacing the boozy bus tours of the past.We explore the coming-of-age travel adventure, and how it's evolving.

Oct 13, 2025 • 17min
Millions of Aussies work at night: why aren't our cities built for them?
What if your work day is actually a work night? Four million Australians work between 6pm and 6am - from nurses and cleaners to delivery drivers and security staff. But the people who keep our cities running after dark are largely invisible in planning.Researchers from the University of Melbourne’s Night Shift project say it’s time to design cities that better support night-time workers. So what would that look like?


