This week on Get Naked, Dr. Kate sits down with Modern Intimacy's Digital Media Coordinator Claudia Vera to answer your pressing questions about sexuality and relationships!Together, they three listener questions:• Why is it that I can't get aroused unless someone is watching? • My partner has a fantasy about having a threesome with me... is he not sexually satisfied with me? Will he still desire me? • Why do we (in the beginning of a relationship) feel the need/desire for sex, but then after awhile it goes away? Do you have a question you want Dr. Kate to answer on the podcast? Send it to QUESTION@GETNAKEDPODCAST.COM or fill out this Google form for the chance to have your question featured on the podcast! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

As technology has advanced, so has the ability to harness images without consent – this is where deep fakes and AI generated images enter the picture. On this week's episode of Get Naked, Dr. John Delatorre joins Dr. Kate to break down WHY image-based sexual violence is so damaging, how it appears in our culture today, and the small but meaningful ways we, as individuals, can intervene. Together, they unpack: • The implications of distinguishing the real from the fake via AI image• What may compel someone to engage in creating deep fakes • The dehumanization of celebrity as an object for consumption• The Taylor Swift AI lawsuit and controversy that followed• The role of fear and anger in deep fake perpetrators and so much more!  John Delatorre, Psy.D. is a licensed psychologist in Texas, Arizona and New York State. He provides therapy and assessment for a variety of concerns, including providing interventions to the severely mentally ill, individuals with significant trauma histories, and crisis interventions/de-escalation.A special thank you to this week's sponsor, LUME Deodorant!Control Body Odor ANYWHERE with @lumedeodorant and get 15% off with promo code GET NAKED at LumeDeodorant.com! #lumepod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In your day to day life, how often do you do something for yourself? Do you incorporate pleasure into your routine, or do you find yourself yearning for some moments of intention? On this week's episode of Get Naked, Bedside host Tatiana Fogt returns to the podcast to talk about how a person can build a sustainable (and accessible) pleasure practice into their daily lives. Together with Dr. Kate, the two explore:• Identifying the significance between rest and pleasure• How to escape from constantly being in a "doing" mindset• Exploring what brings you joy by tapping into childhood• The myth of needing to "earn" pleasureand so much more!Tatiana is the brilliant creator and host behind Bedside, a charting podcast series unpacking the intricacies of modern love, dating, relationships, and all things sex. By chatting with sexperts, therapists, innovators, thought leaders & more, she's on a mission to make sexual wellness more accessible and approachableBe sure to join the waitlist to grab a copy of Tatiana's latest journal here. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What is an incel? What leads a person to become an incel? And what does it mean to be black-pilled and red-pilled?On this week's episode of Get Naked with Dr. Kate, Dr. Kate is joined by Brendan Kwiatkowski, an educator, researcher, and speaker specializing in the social-emotional development and well-being of boys and men. The two dive into an illuminating conversation that aims to better understand the root reasons that men become drawn to inceldom, including the roles that entitlement and shame play.Together, Brendan and Dr. Kate work to unpack:• What traits embody precarious masculinity • Why a person may find themselves identifying with incel culture• Why men in particular are targeted by / attracted to the incel community • The difference between red and black pilled ideologiesand so much more!A special thank you to our sponsors for this week's episode, Lume Deodorant and VIIA Hemp!VIIA HEMP 👇Head to Viiahemp.com and use the code GETNAKED to receive 15% off + one free sample of their sleepy Dreams gummies. (21+). Celebrate 4/20 the right way with VIIA. Happy Holidaze! #adLUME DEODORANT 👇Control Body Odor ANYWHERE with @lumedeodorant and get 15% off with promo code GET NAKED at LumeDeodorant.com! #lumepod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How can you keep the curiosity alive in a relationship?In this episode, we revisit a community favorite where Dr. Kate and Dr. Alexandra Solomon talk about the nuances of relationships. They explore some of the questions that Dr. Solomon created in her quiz that reveals roles we take on within relationships. The two work to unpack how our past shapes our present and our early experiences effect our relationships now.Together, they discuss: • How to approach relationship and sexual challenges as a team with your partner.• How conflict can be turned into opportunities for intimacy and growth.• How to love someone while not losing yourself.& so much more!Dr. Alexandra H. Solomon is a professor, therapist, speaker, author, retreat leader, and media personality. She is the author of two bestselling books, Loving Bravely: Twenty Lessons of Self-Discovery to Help You Get the Love You Want and Taking Sexy Back: How to Own Your Sexuality and Create the Relationship You Want. Be sure to check out her latest book, Love Every Day: 365 Relational Self-Awareness Practices to Help Your Relationship Heal, Grow, and Thrive.Original air date: October 10, 2023 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dr. Kate chats with Julia and Jeremiah from Sexvangelicals about healing from purity culture. They discuss impact on pleasure, grief from leaving, and redefining sex's role. Check out their podcast for insights on sexuality, deconstruction, and healing from past beliefs.

Did you know that there are 14 muscles in the pelvic floor? Do kegels actually work? And what IS the pelvic floor, exactly?We are revisiting a community favorite this week with pelvic floor expert Courtney Virden!Together with Dr. Kate, the two unpack:• How pelvic floor strength and sexual pleasure are tied together• The shame around pelvic floor dysfunction • Accessible pelvic floor exercises& so much more!Courtney Virden is a pelvic floor expert, fitness trainer, and founder of iCORE Method. Her iCORE method app with core and pelvic floor programs is used by women worldwide to restore pelvic floor health and wellness. She is a contributor for Kourtney Kardashian's Poosh and consults as a pelvic floor expert for many publications and outlets.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Why are men afraid of women? The answer may surprise you.Dr. Kate is joined by Dr. Avrum Weiss on this week's episode of Get Naked to discuss the ways that men's fear of intimacy may negatively impact their relationships with women.Together, they unpack • The deepseated root of fear of intimacy, starting from our childhood relationships• The strain that fear can place on intimate relationships between men and women• How men unconsciously identify their own fears of intimacy• The role of the patriarchy when it comes to control• Starting points to help men overcome fear of intimacyand so much more. Dr. Avrum Weiss is a psychologist, author, and speaker. He has written four books, the most recent “Hidden In Plain Sight: How Men’s Fears of Women Shape Their Intimate Relationships”.A special thank you to this episode's sponsors, VIIA and LUME DEODORANT!Head to Viiahemp.com and use the code GETNAKED to receive 15% off + one free sample of their sleepy Dreams gummies (21+).Lume’s Starter Pack is perfect for new customers. It comes with a Solid Stick Deodorant, Cream Tube Deodorant, two free products of your choice (like Mini Body Wash and Deodorant Wipes), and free shipping. As a special offer for listeners, new customers GET $5 OFF a Lume Starter Pack with code GETNAKED at LumeDeodorant.com. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Is it ever acceptable to cheat? What do fidelity agreements look like in partnership? This week, we are revisiting a community favorite episode with the one and only Dan Savage!Dr. Kate and Dan talk about sex, fidelity, monogamy, non-monogamy and the importance of creating the type of relationship and family YOU want, not one dictated by society. Together, they unpack:• The dimensionality of fidelity and loyalty • Inviting sustained and controlled chaos into your relationship• The power of practice in group and community settings• The Karmic Rule of Kinkand so much more!Dan Savage is a sex-advice columnist, podcaster, media pundit, author, journalist, and LGBT community activist. Be sure to check out his column, Savage Love, and his podcast, Savage Lovecast. A special thank you to the sponsors for this episode, BEDUCATED and MAYER LABS!Head to BEDUCATED's website and use code "drKate" for 40% off a yearly pass. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are anal play and pegging are safe (and okay to enjoy)?This week on Get Naked with Dr. Kate, Australia's leading men's sex coach Cam Fraser joins the podcast to discuss all things anal play, and to help shed some of the stigma surrounding it within male spaces.Together, they unpack:• Myths around male sexuality and masculinity• Why some men may fear anal play, and why they may be curious about it• How prostate orgasms can be achieved (and what sets them apart)• Tips for getting started with pegging and anal play in solo/partnered sexAnd so much more. We hope that this episode can help to dispel myths around anal play, masculinity, and what it means about one's sexuality, so that individuals can feel free to explore what feels safe and pleasurable for them. Cam Fraser is a Professional Sex Coach, certified with the World Association of Sex Coaches, as well as a Sexologist, and the current Deputy Chair of the Society of Australian Sexologists. His work aims to help men go beyond surface-level sex and into full-bodied, self-expressed, pleasure-oriented sexual experiences free of anxiety or shame.You can learn more about Cam by visiting his website.A very special thank you to this episode's sponsor, FACTOR MEALS!Head to FACTORMEALS.com/getnaked50 and use code "getnaked50" to get 50% off. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices