Olay & Friends

This week on Olay & Friends, we break down the Diddy verdict and why so many people were outraged that he beat the more serious charges. We get into what the ruling actually means, how power and influence shaped the outcome, and why the industry enabled him for so long. We talk complicity, accountability, and what this moment reveals about the gap between public perception and the justice system. Chapters:0:00 Intro1:04 Hello! So...the Diddy Case...6:36 Cognitive Dissnance Reagarding the Victims11:09 Same Sh*t, Different Sentencing20:21 Intentional Datedness of Law in Regards to R*pe27:11 The Cultural Respect for Women & Children is Regressing41:40 Young Miami and the Midnset When being Actively abused49:52 Diddy Actually had LESS support?56:30 God Forbid Anyone Just Has Morals58:40 Tyler Perry: Master Propogandist, & Media as Records of Representation

This week on Olay & Friends, we get into B. Simone’s messy fallout with her friends, the IG-baddie-to-religious-influencer pipeline, and why Christianity in the Black community remains the giant, problematic elephant in the room nobody wants to talk about. We break down the performative “rebirth” trend, the way religion gets weaponized for clout, and how faith, influence, and hypocrisy keep colliding online.Chapters:0:00 Intro1:32 Hello!/Maybe Got the Christian Thing Wrong9:28 The Twisting of Christian "Prosperity"15:12 Pt 2: The Church ALSO Twisting It20:27 Plot Twist: She is NOT the Good Friend28:42 Using Christianity to Fill the Uncertainty34:21 The More Systemic Side of the Problem45:42 Where Alt-Right Pipelines Tend to Come In53:43 Friends As Resource1:01:44 The Economic Promise of Christianity1:07:38 The Lack of Challenge Against Christian Practice1:11:49 The Social Argument for Christian Practices1:20 :39 Christian Contradictions when politics arrives1:24:09 Unlearning Christianity (And the Usually Long Road)

This week on Olay & Friends, we sit down and react to one of the wildest episodes of the Dear Future Wifey podcast to ever hit the internet.Chapters:0:00 Intro0:47 Hello!/Just Reacts!9:54 The Find Jesus Moment to Zero Value Pipeline15:57 The Family legacy30:57 JAIL.NOW.42:06 Making A Molehill out of a MOUNTAIN of Trauma55:21 The Depths of His Psychopathy1:06:51 "This is A CULT"

This week on Olay & Friends, we sit down and react to one of the most chaotic episodes of Pop the Balloon.  Chapters:0:00 Intro0:50 Hello/Pop the Balloon Reacts!3:56 Without Hesitation14:33 "Man of God" Immnuity25:17 Intergenerational suffering30:32 It's A Match!32:07 The Next Fella34:49 the AUDACITY36:29 Especially Egregious Exhibit A55:51 The "Tall Dude" Dsicourse1:03:11 Ninja Turtle Read1:08:41 The Girlies Banding Together1:14:24 Things Women Must/Will say outside of "Hostile"1:23:51 WHERE ARE THEY HIDING?

This week on Olay & Friends, we get into why people keep defending Diddy — and why so much of that defense is rooted in misogyny and homophobia. We break down how the dismissal of women’s accusations, the erasure of queer victims, and the culture of celebrity worship all work together to protect powerful men. We talk patterns, denial, and why accountability still feels optional for someone with this much smoke around him.Chapters:0:00 Intro1:47 The Diddy Discussion Begins7:33 Contrarian Views and Their Impact12:31 The Double Standards in Gender Dynamics16:44 Misogyny and Male Solidarity19:48 Understanding Victimhood and Abuse22:48 The Psychological Impact of Abuse29:59 The Subtle Shift: Control in Relationships31:25 Loneliness and Online Communities: A Dangerous Connection34:13 The Cycle of Abuse: Understanding Stockholm Syndrome35:21 The Double Standards: Women vs. Men in Accountability56:04 Cultural Reflections: Are We Seeing a Shift?1:02:12 Community Building as a Solution1:05:01 Understanding Male Responses to Abuse1:07:53 Cultural Norms and Gender Dynamics1:11:14 Media Representation and Gender Bias1:15:12 The Cycle of Loneliness and Abuse1:19:18 The State of Modern Relationships

This week on Olay & Friends, we talk about why people need to stop defending Tory Lanez and stop vilifying Megan Thee Stallion. We break down the misogyny, misinformation, and outright hostility that fueled years of denial even after the facts and the conviction were right there. We get into why Black women are never believed, how stan culture warps reality, and why accountability still feels optional when the victim is a Black woman.Chapters:0:00 intro1:12 Hello!/Is Tory Lanez Lying?7:44 How the Framing Flipped Between Tory & Megan16:59 The Valid vs. the Natural Response to Domestic Absue (& How the system Handles It)33:04 Abuser, & Abusers Who Claim to Fight the Abusers47:46 Creating Culture of Accountability

This week on Olay & Friends, we break down Marc Lamont Hill’s viral appearance on Piers Morgan — including the way he effortlessly checked the racists on that panel. We get into the talking points he dismantled, the tactics used to bait and gaslight him, and the impact of his clarity in a hostile space. We also debate whether there’s any real value in Marc continuing to enter these environments at all, or if these platforms are designed to waste his brilliance. Chapters:0:00 Intro1:24 Hello!/Unserious Updates in Free Speech Discourse5:59 The Shiloh Hendrix Mess14:43 Is This From 2014???20:26 Mark's Position in "Being the Content"40:12 Honest Racists Being A Good Thing in the Long Run53:33 Fighting Against the Rise of Horrid Policies

This week on Olay & Friends, we talk about how Shedeur Sanders got done dirty at the NFL Draft — not because of his talent, but because the league is invested in humbling him and his father. We break down the racism baked into the NFL’s “character” narratives, why confident Black athletes get punished for swagger, and how the media helped shape a storyline meant to put the Sanders family in their place. We get into the politics, the bias, and the patterns that keep repeating.Chapters:0:00 Intro1:35 Hello!/The Shandor Sanders Draft10:05 Forced to be Humbled15:00 Black men in football & the Sytemic neglect of Their Wellbeing34:00 CJ Storytime!44:05 REmaining Confident46:54 Trump's Attempted Claim Over the Shador Draft50:04 The Saquon Bark Situation56:18 Problematic Rapper Faves1:20:27 The Ethics Behind Making Fun of Kanye1:27:37 Kanye: Effective or Ineffective Propogandist?

This week on Olay & Friends, we break down the lawsuit against Shannon Sharpe after an OnlyFans creator accused him of sexual assault — and the whirlwind of reactions that followed. We get into how quickly the internet rushed to defend him, why accusations against powerful men are dismissed on sight, and the misogyny baked into the way people talk about women who do sex work. We unpack the legal claims, the public discourse, and the double standards that shape who gets believed and who gets mocked.Chapters:0:00 Intro1:13 Hello!/"This is Egregious"9:52 A Display of Victim Blaming & Zero Consent Culture16:37 Using Social Misunderstandings As weapons to Vilify29:01 Masculine Dominance & How It Explains Attraction tro Girls33:51 Reacts!36:18 Desperatley Achieving Unattainable masculinity1:01:30 "Back to Shannon" & A Deeply Unserious man

This week on Olay & Friends, actor Omar Benson Miller joins us to talk about Sinners — why it was great, why it was necessary, and why it was absolutely not a “Black trauma” film. We dig into the lazy discourse around “we don’t need any more Black trauma movies” and the oversimplified demand for “only Black joy,” breaking down how these conversations flatten our stories and erase the complexity of Black art. Together, we get into what Sinners actually represents, what people misunderstood, and why Black storytelling deserves more nuance than the internet allows.Chapters:0:00 Intro1:14 Hello!/Omar Appearance3:49 Movie Rundown7:43 How "Sinners" Creates Black Humanity in film26:34 Current Value of Black Art & How it Creates a Reflection35:21 Supporting Black Media with INTENT45:41 The "Garden" of Black Media Representation (Tyler Perry Critique)1:01:04 Art & Processing It Thoroughly1:12:29 When EVERYONE is a critic