Certified Master Sex Coach Rebekah LaRobardiere has a degree in Psychology and is on the show talking with Havilah about why marriages are struggling sexually especially in the covid season. Listen in as they talk about what is ‘normal’ what is not, what part we as individuals play in our sexuality, how our perspective and beliefs about sexuality affects how we show up in our marriage, how to improve intimacy and your sex life in marriage and a few myths that you might not have known! As a bonus, Rebekah has a special journal that will help you in your journey you can find here if you’re interested! Also don’t miss Havilah’s LIVE Masterclass TOMORROW, October 14, 2021 to give you the keys to be a powerful communicator and get you ready for the stage! Kick fear in the face so when God calls you to communicate next you will be able to step confidently into what He has for you! Register HERE. Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com + truthtotable.com + theinfluencertable.com

Havilah has been getting so many messages and emails about marital struggles. She wants to get you resources and help in the best way she can! One of the things that has been so helpful for Havilah has been Connection Codes. Listen in as Havilah interviews Dr. Glenn and Phyllis Hill, creators of the Connection Codes Courses. It applies not just to marriages but to parent/child and family relationships, work relationships, roommates and friendships. We are hardwired for connection and identity. How our brains work and how our bodies are triggered by what happens in the brain are all factors in how we experience one another and the world around us. Get ready to take notes because this will help you immensely in whatever relationships you’re struggling with! They are offering an exclusive code: home25 for Havilah’s community to give you 25% off their course! Click HERE to get the discount!  BONUS: Free 3-Day Course is happening right now and link is here: 3-day course and follow them on Instagram here. Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com + truthtotable.com + theinfluencertable.com

Enjoy this message Havilah preached earlier this year at the She Conference. The Church is usually in one of two camps when it comes to spiritual warfare: the devil is everywhere or we ignore the devil. The war is already won, but we still have to know how to fight in the battles that come our way in life. Enjoy this profound teaching as Havilah breaks down how to fight a very real enemy who is coming to steal, kill and destroy the purpose and call on your life! You are meant to live the abundant life so you can know if you’re feeling mentally, emotionally or spiritually depleted it’s because your enemy is stealing from you. Listen in as Havilah restores your hope with a now message for you in this season. Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com + truthtotable.com + theinfluencertable.com

Enjoy this message Havilah preached in San Jose earlier this month at the Unique Conference. Your call is too great and your purpose too essential to be deterred by offense. Shake the dust of offense off of you so you can go into your promised land free and clear! You don’t want to take the offense of the desert in with you to the next season and land God has sent you into. Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com + truthtotable.com + theinfluencertable.com

Havilah has so many things she wants to catch you up on today! Remember when the Cunnington’s started asking God if they were in the right place back in June? Remember when they visited Nashville? Tune in to hear their new thoughts on this and where God is leading them. Havilah shares the importance of really leaning into what God has for them instead of doing it and then asking for blessing in it. Waiting sucks, we get it! But waiting on God is never a bad idea. Havilah shares encouragement if you’re in a season where you don’t know what’s next and you’re longing for something different. What you have control over is today! So let’s focus on the one thing you can do to give God glory TODAY. You won’t want to miss the BIG NEWS that came out of a meeting with a few Bethel leaders recently and how it affects everything else in their world. Did someone say new home? Havilah is excited to dive head first into something new and we hope you stick around for the ride! P.S. Make sure you go back and listen to our Boundaries Series we did last month! P.P.S. Join Havilah for her brand new FREE event “Created For More: Defining Your Boundaries, Knowing God’s Voice, and Dreaming His Way” by saving your spot HERE! Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com + truthtotable.com + theinfluencertable.com

In today’s podcast with special guest Danny Silk, Havilah and Danny discuss how to set boundaries in a ministry setting. Listen in as they talk about common themes that are experienced in ministry like how no one has taught Christians to say no to one another or how to be unhappy with one another. It sounds funny, but it’s true. We have been taught that people pleasing is ‘Godly’ and having people upset with us means we did something wrong. But is that true? Find your answers to the questions of what is AND IS NOT healthy in ministry and how to set boundaries in a ministry setting. Also: Don’t forget to sign up for Havilah’s FREE EVENT: CREATED FOR MORE event at: https://www.thetruthacademy.com/created-for-more Get clear on boundaries and how to maintain them, how to chase your dream God’s way and how to hear God’s voice in every circumstance in your daily life! We are taking all of your most-asked questions and rolling it into a 3-Day exclusive event where Havilah will teach you everything you need to know about how to live your purpose and remove the blocks that stand in your way! Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com + truthtotable.com + theinfluencertable.com

How do you set Boundaries in your workspace and still work with integrity? Having boundaries in the workplace is the kindest thing you can do for your employers. When you figure out your YES’s - your core values - your NO’s will get really clear. Your boss doesn’t burn you out - YOU burn you out. You train your employers what access they have to you. That doesn’t make you a bad employee it makes you more reliable and trustworthy. Boundaries are FOR us, not AGAINST someone else. Showing up like a spiritual grownup means you set boundaries, which is showing up more obediently to God. We serve God and not man; a fear of man will likely result in boundary issues in the workplace. Being clear on the boundaries of your role and duties, your boss’s role and duties and what hours you will be able to work to produce with excellence and bring maximum value to your role and responsibilities is foundational. Then, sticking to it and not allowing guilt or shame to run the show is the key to maintaining boundaries in your work! What did you think of this episode? Let us know in our socials! Can’t wait to hear from you on Facebook and Instagram - tag us in your stories + posts! @truthtotable @havilahcunnington

Family of origins is tricky especially in the faith space There’s the verse: “Honor your father and mother in the Lord for this is right.” So how do we reconcile that and live with healthy boundaries and apply them to our family of origins? Isn’t it disrespectful to come up against your parent’s wishes and say ‘no’? This week licensed therapist Dr. Alison Cook @alisoncookphd is on the show and shares about how honoring our parents isn’t about how they feel, but rather, about becoming the person God wants us to be. Dr. Cook and Havilah about how to set boundaries in the relationships in life that tend to be the relationships that are the most sticky: family. Nothing is off-limits, we talk about relationships with mothers, in-laws, children, what does actual toxicity in a relationship look like? We took questions we heard from you on socials and got answers straight from Dr. Cook! Listen in and find out the key signals that clue you in that there is an issue with unhealthy boundaries in your life.

Boundaries in marriage might sound like it’s a contradictory statement. Anyone else have a hard time knowing how to be ‘one’ with someone while also maintaining boundaries? The biggest question I get when speaking is “How do I know I’m in unity and still say no when it’s healthy?” Following the example of the Trinity and God and creation we find some key markers for how boundaries in marriage work. There is no whole, pure love where there is no power of choice. Distinctly different entities and yet they are wholly and fully God as one. Living powerfully means you don’t need to wait for anyone else to participate. You living the abundant life only requires one participant: YOU. He knows how to make 2 one - but He also doesn’t require us to lose ourselves for the sake of our spouse. Are you showing up wholeheartedly in taking ownership of your attitudes, choices and feelings and stewarding them in a way that doesn’t require your spouse's participation? Listen in as Havilah shares a real, personal story that illustrates how Boundaries in marriage work and unpacks how it plays out in real life when you partner with the Holy Spirit.

Join Havilah in the last of a relationship series for those who are in a season of waiting or singleness. This week, Havilah invited Courtney Cruz, a Truth To Table staff member to share her story of not waiting well and how that played out in her life. Married at 21, Courtney’s dream life of doing ministry and starting a family was turned upside down pretty quickly. What transpired after that was messy. Single parenthood, more than one marriage and divorce, the consequences of chasing her dreams over God’s best carried a heavy price. Hear Courtney’s journey of trying to write her own love story and chasing after her own romantic dreams and what it took for God to get her fully to Himself. Listen in as Havilah chats with her about how Ishmaels get created when we aren’t willing to wait for our Isaac and the beauty and hope that await those that truly surrender to allow God to write the story for their lives. Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com + truthtotable.com + theinfluencertable.com