They Think It's All Sober

Hi there, you lovely individual! This week, we bring you a very open, honest, and raw conversation between two friends exploring their relationship with grief after a recent loss. Jamie and Tom reflect on their emotions and how sobriety has helped them truly connect with their feelings. As we all know, alcohol is often the first thing many turn to during extreme despair, but a surprising peace can be found when grieving while sober. In this candid conversation, they unpack how their journey with sobriety has shaped their experience with grief.T/W: This podcast contains real and difficult conversations around grief. Please only listen if this feels safe for you.

We’re back from our longest season break! Crowd goes wild That’s right—your favourite sobriety podcast is back, and we’re kicking things off with a bang.Joining Jamie and Tom this week is London-based singer, producer, and DJ - DRIIA. She’s worked with the likes of Rudimental and Jax Jones, been named a BBC Radio 1 Future Star, and is shaking up the scene with Ministry of Sound’s Sober Rave - a game-changing night making clubbing fun and accessible for the sober community.In this episode, DRIIA gets real about how university drinking spiralled, how loosening her own rules made sobriety feel more natural, and why getting to know yourself is the ultimate tool for recovery.Want in on the sober rave? It’s happening this Sunday 11th May at Ministry of Sound, Elephant and Castle. Grab your tickets here with this special discount code: https://link.dice.fm/o0e62c0283a9?code=SOBERSESH10Our Patreon is now live at: https://www.patreon.com/theythinkitsallsoberFollow us on socials - https://www.instagram.com/thinkitsallsober or email us at theythinkitsallsober@gmail.com

Another season already finished? Time flies! Season 5 has been packed with incredible guests, inspiring stories of resilience, and plenty of sober wisdom. In this finale, Jamie and Tom share their final thoughts, reflect on the journey so far, and set the stage for Season 6.A massive thank you to our amazing community and listeners—we couldn’t do this without you. If you haven’t already, hit subscribe so you don’t miss the return of Season 6!Want to stay connected while we’re away? Join our Patreon for exclusive content and behind-the-scenes moments during the break https://www.patreon.com/theythinkitsallsoberFollow us on socials - https://www.instagram.com/thinkitsallsober or email us at theythinkitsallsober@gmail.com

This week on the podcast, Jamie and Tom answer your burning questions! They dive into dream celebrity interviews, managing relationship guilt while sober, and setting boundaries with yourself. Sit in with the sober gents for another insightful and laid-back conversation!Our Patreon is now live at: https://www.patreon.com/theythinkitsallsoberFollow us on socials - https://www.instagram.com/thinkitsallsober or email us at theythinkitsallsober@gmail.com

Jamie and Tom are joined by their childhood friend, Alex, lead singer of the metal band COSEN and godfather to Tom’s son!This episode is a real trip down memory lane - Tom was in the first-ever band Jamie managed, and he and Alex were bandmates. The three go way back, making it all the more interesting that they've each found their way to sobriety after years of heavy drinking.Alex opens up about how the rock and roll lifestyle became a crutch for his drinking, leading to some harrowing experiences that brought him dangerously close to death’s door. Together, they reflect on their journeys to sobriety, sharing stories of chaos, change, and clarity.Our Patreon is now live at: https://www.patreon.com/theythinkitsallsoberFollow us on socials - https://www.instagram.com/thinkitsallsober or email us at theythinkitsallsober@gmail.com

This week on the podcast, Jamie and Tom take a moment for an honest check-in, marking Tom's three-year journey. They reflect on the realities of sobriety - navigating boredom, reconnecting with the motivations from day one, and appreciating the process. It's a humble and heartfelt conversation, full of useful takeaways. Check-in with us, as we check in with ourselves! Our Patreon is now live at: https://www.patreon.com/theythinkitsallsoberFollow us on socials - https://www.instagram.com/thinkitsallsober or email us at theythinkitsallsober@gmail.com

This week on the podcast, Jamie's new partner in crime is Alcohol Change UK Ambassador Scott Pearson, AKA @proudandsober!Scott shares his journey through sobriety, anxiety, and self-acceptance, reflecting on how alcohol became a crutch for socializing and navigating relationships. After coming out as a teenager, he immersed himself in the party scene, leading to struggles with drinking. At 28, he embraced sobriety and now supports others on similar paths through his online content and work with Alcohol Change UK.Together, they explore identity struggles, the role of alcohol in social life, and the transformative mindset shift that comes with sobriety.Our Patreon is now live at: https://www.patreon.com/theythinkitsallsoberFollow us on socials - https://www.instagram.com/thinkitsallsober or email us at theythinkitsallsober@gmail.com

A very powerful and important episode this week.Jamie and Tom are joined by multi-genre London DJ, Savannah Simms!Savannah joined the for a chat in November when she was 8 months sober. During that conversation, she shared her experiences navigating sobriety in the music scene, where substances had long been her main temptation. By sharing her journey on social media, she held herself accountable and inspired others.Today, Savannah finds herself in a situation where alcohol and other substances have challenged her this last month. Determined to stay on track, she reconnects with Jamie and Tom for a raw and honest discussion about the ongoing challenges of maintaining a sober lifestyle.

This week on the podcast, Jamie and Tom catch up to reflect on the end of Dry January! First, congratulations to everyone who made it through the month with a fresh perspective on alcohol and substance use. Whether you cut back, took a full break, or simply reassessed your habits, that’s a huge milestone.But here’s the thing - it doesn’t have to end here. This could be the start of something bigger. Another month, six months, or even a full year of making more intentional choices.In this episode, Tom and Jamie explore the key reflections to consider after a month off drinking, the unexpected impact of their decision to ban caffeine, and what those changes have meant for them. Plus, they’re joined by Sober Psychotherapist David Gibbs, who shares his insights on sobriety’s place in modern life.

A very special episode this week, listeners! Thanks to your support - and the help of some incredible individuals - we hosted our first ever They Think It's All Sober Fine Dining Experience! And what an experience it was!We partnered with the amazing team at Alcohol Change UK to host a non-alcoholic dinner at the widely celebrated Ugly Butterfly restaurant, created by Chef Adam Handling in the stunning St Ives area. You can practically hear the smiles and laughter of our past podcast guests in this episode as they savor the finest non-alcoholic beverages available.The Ugly Butterfly has been a trailblazer in creating space for non-alcoholic dining, and this event was a true celebration of all the hard work, energy, and passion poured into our podcast.Tune in to hear more about this incredible evening and the inspiring thoughts from the pioneers leading the sobriety movement in the UK. We’re so grateful for this amazing community and thrilled to share it all with you.Now, bottoms up - time to pull up your seat and enjoy the episode!Our Patreon is now live at: https://www.patreon.com/theythinkitsallsoberFollow us on socials - https://www.instagram.com/thinkitsallsober or email us at theythinkitsallsober@gmail.com