

Raising Lifelong Learners
Colleen Kessler
The Raising Lifelong Learners podcast helps homeschooling parents encourage their differently-wired kids to learn, explore passions, cultivate creativity, and become fascinated by the world around them. Join host Colleen Kessler -- educational consultant, gifted specialist, author, and speaker -- for interviews, audioblogs, tips, and encouragement to help your differently-wired kiddos become lifelong learners -- children who know that they can find the answers to anything they want to know if they can just view their world with play, passion, and fascination.
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Mar 27, 2024 • 45min
RLL #238: Building Strong Writers at Home | Insights from Occupational Therapist Sarah Collins
In the latest episode of the podcast, we chat about a skill that often leaves even the most adept homeschooling parents in search of guidance: handwriting. Sarah Collins, our favorite occupational therapist with a homeschooling background and a love for nurturing writing skills in children, unpacks the multifaceted journey of handwriting, from the initial scribbles to fluent cursive. Key Takeaways From This Episode Include: Encouraging fine motor skills in everyday play. Understanding and leveraging technology to support writing. Instilling self-advocacy in your learners. The vital role of grip strength and motor control in writing. Strategies for boosting endurance without causing burnout. ✍️ Actionable Insights for Your Homeschooling Adventure The episode is more than a mere dialogue. It’s a treasure trove of actionable tips and heartwarming humor (don’t miss the part about being “raised by wolves”!). 📚 Resource Roundup We’ve heard your calls for resources, and Sarah Collins doesn’t disappoint. From fine motor screeners to grip-strengthening exercises, we provide a rich landscape of free resources and proven curriculums tailored to your individual learner’s needs. 👂 Listen and Learn Ready to demystify handwriting hurdles? Tune in to this inspiring session with Sarah Collins. Our sponsor for today’s episode is CTC Math Links and Resources from Today’s Show: Pre-Order - The Homeschool Advantage: A Child-Focused Approach to Raising Lifelong Learners Raising Lifelong Learners Membership Community - The Learners Lab Raising Resilient Sons by Colleen Kessler, M.Ed. Homeschool OT with Sarah Collins The OT is IN Podcast Join the OT is IN Membership! Strengthening Executive Function Skills: A Conversation with Sarah Collins Helping Our Kids Self-Regulate with Sarah Collins Coping with Stress | Supporting Kids and Teens Thriving Together | Creating Supportive Environments in Homeschooling Self-Care and Co-Regulation | Balancing Parenting and Sensory Needs The OT is IN - Understanding the Role of Vision in Your Child's Learning Journey The OT is IN - Visual Pathways to Learning: Harnessing Nature and Vision in Homeschooling The OT is IN - Understanding the Power of Form Drawing: A Parent's Guide to Waldorf Education Handwriting Motor Skill Assessment Connect with Sarah Collins Website: Homeschool OT You can also find Sarah on Instagram @HomeschoolOT Connect with Colleen You can find Colleen on Twitter, Facebook, Instagram How does your child learn best? Take the Quiz!

Mar 20, 2024 • 45min
RLL#237: A Thriving Homeschool | Strategies for Setting Boundaries
In This Episode: As homeschoolers and parents, we often find ourselves juggling the demands of educating our children, managing our professional lives, and maintaining personal well-being. It's a balancing act that calls for solid boundaries. In the latest RLL episode, Colleen dives into the art of setting and adapting these vital limits. Take a listen to insights stemming from her own recent hiatus and the deeper exploration of boundaries in homeschooling environments: Key takeaways from this episode include: Setting Boundaries: Learn the significance of establishing boundaries to maintain a healthy balance between homeschooling, work, and family life. Managing Time: Get inspired by Colleen's personal journey towards better time management and organization, which is especially crucial for parents with neurodivergent children. Modeling Healthy Behavior: Discover the importance of teaching our children to set their own boundaries and prioritize, a skill essential for lifelong success. Our sponsors for today’s episode are CTC Math and Night Zookeeper Links and Resources from Today's Show: Pre-Order - The Homeschool Advantage: A Child-Focused Approach to Raising Lifelong Learners Raising Lifelong Learners Membership Community - The Learners Lab Raising Resilient Sons by Colleen Kessler, M.Ed. Finding Homeschool Balance Masterclass | Prioritizing Self-Care Dear Mom With Quirky Kids: You Cannot Do it All Self-Compassion for a Healthier Mindset | A Conversation with Michelle Brownell Finding Energy to Balance it All Thriving Together | Creating Supportive Environments in Homeschooling My Neurodivergent Kiddo Needs So Much Help… Self-Care and Co-Regulation | Balancing Parenting and Sensory Needs Boundaries Updated and Expanded Edition: When to Say Yes, How to Say No To Take Control of Your Life - NEEDS AFFILIATE LINK Masterclass | Building Family Connections Finding Peace in a Life Filled with Intensity Prioritizing Self-Care is Important for You and Your Kids Connect with ColleenWebsite: Raising Lifelong LearnersYou can also find Colleen on Instagram or on Facebook How does your child learn best? Take the Quiz - https://raisinglifelonglearners.com/quiz/

Mar 13, 2024 • 53min
RLL #236: Homeschool Rising | A Conversation with Christy Faith
In this episode: With her new book Homeschool Rising, Christy is here to deconstruct the myths surrounding the conventional educational system and to advocate for a tailored, flexible approach to teaching our kids at home. Whether you're new to homeschooling or a veteran, Christy's story—from her professional background working with affluent families in Los Angeles to her decision to homeschool her own children, including twins, prior to the global pandemic—will resonate with you. From her classical education inclination to embracing the philosophies of Charlotte Mason and unschooling, Christy's journey is a testament to finding what truly works for your family. We'll dive into her unique ideas, explore why big box curricula may not be the one-size-fits-all solution, and discuss the irony of the socialization debate. For any parent grappling with the idea that only trained teachers can effectively educate our kids, or struggling to advocate for a child with special needs, this episode offers deep insights and compassionate encouragement. So, let's dispel the misconceptions, embrace the unique needs of each child, and discover together how to be confident in raising lifelong learners. Stay tuned for a fascinating conversation with Christy Faith. Key takeaways from this episode include: Parents Are Natural Educators: Data and experience support the idea that parents, regardless of professional training, are highly suited to homeschool due to their instinctive understanding of their children's needs. Flexible Approach is Key: Integrating various homeschool styles—classical education, Charlotte Mason, interest-led, and unschooling—can create a custom-fit curriculum that respects the individuality and pace of each learner. Child Advocacy and Customization: Homeschooling offers unparalleled opportunities for child advocacy, allowing education to be tailored precisely to each child's developmental and learning style, which is often unachievable in traditional school settings. Our sponsors for today’s episode are CTC Math and Night Zookeeper Links and Resources from Today's Show Pre-Order - The Homeschool Advantage: A Child-Focused Approach to Raising Lifelong Learners New Release! Homeschool Rising: Shattering Myths, Finding Courage, and Opting Out of the School System by Christy Faith The Christy Faith Show Podcast Raising Lifelong Learners Membership Community - The Learners Lab Raising Resilient Sons by Colleen Kessler, M.Ed. Christy Faith - Homeschool and Educational Expert Homeschooling Middle School Using Your Own Interest-Based Curriculum Thriving Together | Creating Supportive Environments in Homeschooling Building Our Own Curriculum – Why it’s Easier Than Buying Boxed Homeschool Curriculum Choices Create the Best Homeschool for Your Family Taking An Eclectic Approach To Homeschooling Your Gifted Child Homeschooling and Public Schooling | Differentiating for Your Own Kids RLL #80: Why Are You Still Sending Your Kids to School? with Blake Boles RLL #97: (Facebook Live) Empowering Kids Through Homeschool Buy-In Connect with ChristyWebsite: https://christy-faith.com/You can also find Christy on Instagram or on Facebook Connect with ColleenWebsite: Raising Lifelong LearnersYou can also find Colleen on Instagram or on Facebook How does your child learn best? Take the Quiz - https://raisinglifelonglearners.com/quiz/

Mar 6, 2024 • 41min
RLL #235: Cultivating Curiosity for a Thriving Homeschool
In This Episode: We discuss the importance of foundational skills while still leaving room for our kids to pursue their passions. We'll talk about balancing the digital with the tangible and how technology can be a powerful tool that complements our children's learning styles. Are you worried about too much screen time? Well, you're not alone. Colleen shares her own struggle with her son's screen habits and how choosing the right tools—like a mini Sphero or coding kits—can transform screen time into an educational experience that prepares them for the future. We'll also delve into the versatility of homeschooling curriculums and how to tailor learning to fit your child. Colleen will take you through her approach to organizing her family's physical space to encourage curiosity and hands-on exploration, while also acknowledging the beautiful mess that homeschooling can sometimes be. Whether you're reading with your kids, picking out the right educational app, or seeking that elusive balance between clutter and order, we've got you covered. And for those of you feeling the weight of taking on the homeschooling journey, remember, you are capable, and we're here to support you every step of the way. Plus, stay tuned for details on how to preorder my new book, "The Homeschool Advantage," where I dive even deeper into these topics and offer strategies for fostering that love of learning. So grab your notes, get cozy, this is Raising Lifelong Learners, and we're about to create a learning-rich oasis right in your own home. 🔑 Key Takeaways: A tailored learning experience is pivotal. Incorporating foundational skills with the freedom to explore personal interests helps in raising engaged and self-directed learners. Technology, when used mindfully, can enhance learning. It’s about empowering kids to create with tech, not just consume it. The environment matters. A home that invites curiosity and discovery paves the way for children to imbibe a genuine love for learning. 💫 Sponsors for this episode: CTC Math and Night Zookeeper 💫 Links and Resources from Today's Episode Pre-Order - The Homeschool Advantage: A Child-Focused Approach to Raising Lifelong Learners by Colleen Kessler, M.Ed. Raising Lifelong Learners Membership Community - The Learners Lab Raising Resilient Sons by Colleen Kessler, M.Ed. Unit Studies - Raising Lifelong Learners Books - Raising Lifelong Learners Unleashing Childhood Creativity in the Homeschool Environment Cultivating a Learning-Rich Environment The Learning Game | A Conversation with Ana Lorena Fabrega 101 Reasons Eclectic Homeschooling Works for Gifted Kids Nurturing a Strength-Based Approach to Learning in Homeschooling Making Homeschool Fun for Early Learners Benefits of Keeping It Playful With Teens Homeschooling High School With Interest-Led Learning Interest Led Homeschooling: Helping Your Child Find Their Interests Every Book List You Will Ever Need For Your Homeschool! Connect with Colleen ⭐️ Instagram ⭐️ Facebook ⭐️ Twitter ⭐️ How does your child learn best? Take the Quiz And Find Out Now https://raisinglifelonglearners.com/quiz/

Feb 28, 2024 • 1h 1min
RLL #234: Thriving Together | Creating Supportive Environments in Homeschooling
NOTE: This episode as been re-edited due to one of the guest's sound issues. In the previously uploaded episode it seemed like the show cut out, but it was actually a very quiet mic. We've re-engineered it because the content is valuable, but know that in bringing the sound up for the one guest, it caused another's voice to be very loud in a few cases. We are SO sorry for the sound difficulty and will make sure to check guests' audio setups better in the future before recording. In This Episode: We're joined by two amazing guests, Christy Faith and Sarah Collins, to engage in an insightful discussion about the challenges and joys of homeschooling, particularly as it pertains to finding and building community. Both Christy and Sarah bring a wealth of experience to the conversation as they tackle the often tricky balancing act that working moms face in establishing a solid support system within homeschool co-ops. They underscore the value of intergenerational interactions and fostering connections that go beyond traditional age brackets. Throughout the episode, we delve into the necessity of adaptability and the pursuit of relationships over the elusive ideal of perfection. In a world that’s more connected yet increasingly isolating, we discuss the importance of guiding our children through ambiguous social situations and nurturing real, meaningful connections. Our discussion also explores the shifting landscape of homeschooling communities, particularly in the wake of the pandemic, and how our community needs evolve alongside our children's growth. We emphasize the need to embrace community support, and not just for our children – we talk about the value of finding like-minded individuals and the need for parents to cultivate their own friendships and networks. Together, we journey through the complexities of modern relationships and how these affect our kids and ourselves. At the end of this heartfelt and honest conversation, we realize that the shared experiences extend beyond our microcosms and plan to cross-promote this enriching dialogue across all of our platforms. So grab a cup of something cozy, and let's dive into a discussion full of empathy, practical advice, and heartfelt insights into the world of homeschooling communities. This is Raising Lifelong Learners, episode 234. Let's get started. Key Takeaways: The Power of Intergenerational Connections: Uncover the irreplaceable value of forming bonds beyond traditional age groups, fostering a community that enriches our children's learning experiences. The Art of Adaptability: Learn about balancing work, homeschooling, and parenting through a lens of flexibility, emphasizing the vitality of prioritizing heartfelt relationships over the elusive ideal of perfection. The Evolution of Community and Relationships: Explore the challenges and opportunities of raising children in a highly connected yet isolating modern landscape, and the essential role of guiding them in forming authentic, enduring connections. Our sponsors for today’s episode are CTC Math and Night Zookeeper Links and Resources from Today's Episode: The OT is In! Podcast with Sarah Collins The Christy Faith Show Raising Lifelong Learners Membership Community - The Learners Lab Raising Resilient Sons by Colleen Kessler, M.Ed. The Homeschool Advantage by Colleen Kessler, M.Ed. Homeschool Rising Book by Christy Faith Finding Homeschool Community (for our children and ourselves) Why Community Is So Important For Gifted And Twice Exceptional Kids Finding Community: Building a Support System Online and In-Person Find a Place of Belonging for Your Neurodiverse Kids Helping Our Kids Self-Regulate with Sarah Collins Strengthening Executive Function Skills: A Conversation with Sarah Collins Homeschooling with Clarity, Confidence, and Calm | A Conversation with Michelle Brownell Connect with Sarah Collins Website: https://www.homeschoolOT.com You can also find Sarah on Instagram @HomeschoolOT Connect with Christy Faith Website: https://christy-faith.com/ You can also find Christy on Instagram @Christy Faith Homeschool or on Facebook @Christy-Faith Homeschool Connect with Colleen Twitter @Colleen Kessler Facebook @Raising Lifelong Learners Instagram @Colleen Kessler How does your child learn best? Take the Quiz - https://raisinglifelonglearners.com/quiz/

Feb 22, 2024 • 52min
RLL #233: Self-Compassion for a Healthier Mindset | A Conversation with Michelle Brownell
In this episode: This week's episode continues last week's conversation with Michelle Brownell. Join us as we dive deeper into the emotional landscape of parenting and homeschooling. Michelle shares her personal journey of connecting with her children through the highs and lows, her strategies for cultivating a nurturing environment, and the power of self-compassion in the process. Three Key Takeaways: The Eight C's of Connection: Michelle introduces the 'Eight C's' as a robust framework for staying grounded and compassionate, especially vital for parents navigating intense emotional landscapes with high-needs children. Self-Care as Crucial Care: Learn why prioritizing your emotional well-being isn’t just beneficial; it’s essential—for both you and your children. From breathing techniques to the magical moments of everyday touch, we explore practical methods to foster resilience. Play Isn't Just for Kids: Rediscover the joys of play as an adult. It's not only stress-relieving, but it also fortifies the bonds with our children, and Michelle's family traditions offer ample inspiration. Tune in to this incredible episode filled with both vulnerability and humor, touching on everything from dealing with teenage appetites to the power of six-seven-eight breathing. Whether you're a parent, an educator, or simply on a journey of lifelong learning, there are invaluable nuggets of wisdom. Our sponsors for today’s episode are CTC Math and Night Zookeeper Links and Resources from Today’s Show: Raising Lifelong Learners Membership Community - The Learners Lab Homeschool Essentials Community with Michelle Brownell Homeschooling with Clarity, Confidence, and Calm | A Conversation with Michelle Brownell Raising Resilient Sons by Colleen Kessler, M.Ed. Self Compassion - The Proven Power of Being Kind to Yourself - Dr. Kristin Neff Masterclass | Building Family Connections Masterclass | Prioritizing Self-Care RLL #70: More Than Enough with Kara Anderson Prioritizing Self-Care is Important for You and Your Kids The Family and the Intense Child Dear Tired Mom of Gifted Kids Dear Mom With Quirky Kids: You Cannot Do it All Moms, You Are Doing A Great Job Self-Care and Co-Regulation | Balancing Parenting and Sensory Needs RLL #69: [Audioblog] Seven Tools for Peaceful Parenting that You Can Use Today Benefits of Keeping It Playful With Teens The Importance Of Play For Your Entire Family Activities to Strengthen Your Family Team Connect with Michelle Brownell Connect with Michelle on Instagram and Facebook Michelle’s website: https://homeschoolessentials.net/ Free gift: https://homeschoolessentials.net/wow/ Connect with Colleen You can find Colleen on Twitter, Facebook, Instagram How does your child learn best? Take the Quiz!

Feb 14, 2024 • 54min
RLL #232: Homeschooling with Clarity, Confidence, and Calm | A Conversation with Michelle Brownell
In this episode: Join as special guest Michelle Brownell, a veteran homeschooling parent and advocate for emotionally secure learning environments chats with us about the challenges of homeschooling twice-exceptional children and the universal lessons on setting healthy boundaries for family wellbeing. Check out these takeaways: Understand and exercise your right to say no to protect your family’s emotional well-being and maintain a tranquil household. Create a learning partnership with your children that respects their stress thresholds and leverages their innate interests. Remember that sometimes less is more - slowing down can lead to deeper learning and stronger family bonds. Join us on a journey of discovery, compassion, and growth on your path as a homeschool parent. Whether you're new to homeschooling or a seasoned pro, there's something for everyone in this rich conversation. Our sponsors for today’s episode are CTC Math and Night Zookeeper Links and Resources from Today's Show: Raising Lifelong Learners Membership Community - The Learners Lab Homeschool Strengths & Struggles Conference Starting February 15th with Michelle Brownell Homeschool Essentials Community with Michelle Brownell Raising Resilient Sons by Colleen Kessler, M.Ed. Parenting Gifted Kids with Gail Post Ph.D. Parenting in the Moment with Your Child Parenting and Teaching a Twice Exceptional Child Parenting Gifted and Intense Children RLL #102: A Conversation about Connection with Shawna Wingert Finding Homeschool Balance Coping with Stress | Supporting Kids and Teens Connect with Michelle Brownell Connect with Michelle on Instagram and Facebook Michelle’s website: https://homeschoolessentials.net/ Free gift: https://homeschoolessentials.net/wow/ Connect with Colleen You can find Colleen on Twitter, Facebook, Instagram How does your child learn best? Take the Quiz!

Feb 7, 2024 • 57min
RLL #231: Benefits of Keeping It Playful with Teens
In this episode: Colleen delves into why play isn't just for little ones. Join us as we debunk myths and highlight play's pivotal role in the growth and development of adolescents. Parents -or anyone invested in the wellbeing of teens – this one's for you. Tune in for insights into how shared moments of joy can forge stronger relationships and promote resilience. Here are some takeaways to pique your interest: Skill Building: Play isn't just fun and games; it's key for developing critical skills. It enhances problem-solving abilities, fosters creativity, and improves emotional regulation, setting up our teens for success in all walks of life. Emotional Wellbeing: Through activities like role playing and theater, teens learn to navigate complex emotions and build resilience. Play is therapeutic – it's a stress-buster and a source of endorphin release, contributing to happier, healthier adolescents. Stronger Bonds: Play is a gateway to open, judgment-free communication. By engaging in play that resonates with teens, we demonstrate respect for their evolving personalities, support their growth, and strengthen our connections with them. Whether through board games, theater, sports, or role-playing games, play is essential in raising well-rounded, lifelong learners. Discover more practical tips, compelling stories, and strategies by listening to the full episode, and don't forget to share your own experiences of connecting through play! Listen, learn, and let's raise the bar together for teens' development! Links and Resources from Today’s Show: SPONSOR|CTC Math SPONSOR|Night Zookeeper Raising Lifelong Learners Membership Community - The Learners Lab Raising Resilient Sons by Colleen Kessler, M.Ed. Great Games for Teens and Their Families The Importance Of Play For Your Entire Family Why I Still Read Aloud To My Tweens and Teens RLL 04 Amy Milcic: Keeping Things Fun While On-the-Go - Raising Lifelong Learners A Different Kind Of Family Togetherness: Ideas and Encouragement For Connecting With Our Kids Raising Creative Kids: A Collection of Simple Creativity Prompts for Children Les Miserables Movie Study The Social Benefits of Online Gaming Connect with Colleen You can find Colleen on Twitter, Facebook, Instagram How does your child learn best? Take the Quiz!

Feb 1, 2024 • 44min
RLL #230: Delight-Directed Learner Turned Published Author | A Conversation with Millie Florence
In the latest episode, Colleen sits down with the talented Millie Florence, whose literary works are captivating readers of all ages. Prepare to be swept into a world of persistent dreams, sibling dynamics, and the sheer courage of pursuing one's passion – all in the backdrop of historical and high fantasy. In this episode, you'll hear about: The unique process Millie underwent to find a publisher that cherishes the quirky and indefinable genre of her books. The varied paths to getting published and the importance of steadfastness and strategy. The role that familial support plays in fostering creativity and confidence in young authors. Key Takeaways: Learn how to be your child's biggest cheerleader in their creative endeavors. Explore strategies for marketing at events and online to reach a wider audience. Understand the significance of self-education, curiosity, and tailored learning environments in raising lifelong learners. Don’t miss out on this enriching discussion – perfect for aspiring writers, parents, and anyone with a love for literature and learning. Links and Resources from Today’s Show SPONSOR | CTC Math SPONSOR | Night ZooKeeper Raising Lifelong Learners Membership Community - The Learners Lab Find out more about Millie Florence at MillieFlorence.com Millie’s latest book The Balter of Ashton Harper Millie’s first book Honey Butter Raising Resilient Sons by Colleen Kessler, M.Ed. Create a Custom Homeschool The Learning Game | A Conversation with Ana Lorena Fabrega Interest-Led Learning In The Early Years: Preschool and Beyond Homeschooling Our Gifted Children: The Power Of Artful Questions Why Unit Studies are Ideal for Interest-led Learning Homeschooling Middle School Using Your Own Interest-Based Curriculum Homeschooling Your Gifted Child With Interest-Led Learning RLL #107: Learning as an Unschooling Family with Robyn Robertson Homeschooling High School With Interest-Led Learning RLL #68: Self-Directed Education with Peter Gray, PhD Connect with Millie You can find Millie on Intagram, Facebook, and YouTubeMillie’s website: MillieFlorence.comNewsletter Sign Up and Free Gift: millieflorence.com/free Connect with Colleen You can find Colleen on Twitter, Facebook, InstagramHow does your child learn best? Take the Quiz!

Jan 24, 2024 • 54min
RLL #229: Unleashing Childhood Creativity in the Homeschool Environment
In today's episode, we talk about managing expectations and fostering an environment where your children's uniqueness can thrive. There are incredible benefits to prioritizing and nurturing your child's creative spirit—benefits that extend far beyond the canvas. They have an impact on cognitive, emotional, and social development. Get ready to explore how open-ended play and critical thinking are key to raising problem solvers and innovative thinkers. Fostering artistic talents in various forms can enhance your child's problem-solving skills and confidence to tackle life's hurdles. Whether it's through journaling, imaginative play, or academic endeavors, creativity is a window to self-expression, emotional processing, and personal growth. So, let's get comfortable with creative messes and remember to trust in our children's natural drive to explore and innovate. You don't want to miss today's conversation. So settle in, grab your watercolor pencils, and start sketching out your thoughts as we discuss how to weave creativity into the tapestry of your daily learning adventures. ➡️ Our sponsors for today’s episode are CTC Math and Night Zookeeper ⬅️ Links and Resources from Today’s Show Raising Lifelong Learners Membership Community - The Learners Lab Raising Resilient Sons by Colleen Kessler, M.Ed. The Different Faces of Giftedness: Understanding Your Child Raising Creative Kids: A Collection of Simple Creativity Prompts for Children Real-Life Science Mysteries Book Falling Unexpectedly in Love With Homeschooling My Gifted Child The Best Advice I Can Give You: Become A Student Of Your Child Inspiring Creativity in Kids Sparking Creativity with Dragons and Netflix Hands-On Art History–Discovery through Creativity Learning with Spielgaben | Play-Based Problem-Solving Inspire Creativity with LEGO and Netflix Creativity Means Dreaming Big Raising Problem Solvers Creative Thinking Activities for Kids How to Encourage Innovative Thinking in Your Kids Q-Tip Snowflake STEM Snowflake STEM Bundle Connect with Colleen You can find Colleen on Twitter, Facebook, Instagram How does your child learn best? Take the Quiz!