On the Table with Ashley

Send us a textEpisode one of our series on Death + Dying. Existential Maturity is on the table today! In this episode, we're joined by Dr. Alex Gamble, a palliative care doctor and clinical assistant at Stanford University. Dr. Gamble graduated from St. Louis University School of Medicine in 2010, completed his residency at the University of Iowa Hospitals and Clinics in 2015, and pursued his fellowship at the University of Kansas in 2016. He specializes in improving the quality of life for patients nearing the end of life, drawing from his deep expertise in palliative care.Dr. Gamble sits down with Ashley to discuss his experiences as a palliative care physician and the profound lessons his patients have taught him about life, death, grief, and emotional maturity. Their conversation explores the philosophical aspects of death anxiety and dives into the diverse emotional landscapes of his patients.Death Anxiety is a fundamental aspect of the human experience, influencing many of the choices we make in an effort to mitigate our fears surrounding mortality. With this episode, and the series as a whole, we aim to foster open dialogue about this often uncomfortable topic. We believe that through tough conversations, we can find inner peace. No subject is off-limits in our pursuit of meaningful connection.You can learn more about Dr. Gamble and his practice at North Kansas City Hospital's page as well as on Stanford University's academic staff page. Links to resources mentioned by Ashley and Dr. Gamble in today’s episode:‘‘And Yet It Was a Blessing’’: The Case for Existential Maturity - special report by  Linda L. Emanuel, MD, PhD,  Neha Reddy, BA, Joshua Hauser, MD, and Sarah B. Sonnenfeld.Plato's Allegory of the CaveThe Death Cafe MovementThe Death Positive MovementA Beginner's Guide to the End: Practical Advice for Living Life and Facing Death - by B.J Miller, MD and Shoshana BergerRecomposeFollow Dr.Gamble on X Follow On the Table with Ashley on Instagram and TikTok On the Table with Ashley is presented by Âme Atendre, a luxury home goods and tableware brand with a mission to connect people to all that matters. If you have ideas for new episodes or guests, or just want to share feedback, email us at reachoutanytime@ameatendre.com

Send us a textWe are excited to announce our series on Death and Dying, On the Table With Ashley’s first ever series, premiering August 28th. Through this series, we explore what it means to be curious through vulnerability, as we discover ways to connect with ourselves and others in grief. Âme Atendre believes that with open discussions comes peace, and an intention to live with purpose. From a palliative care doctor to an end of life doula, a will writer to parents who have turned their grief into action, each one of our guests brings a unique perspective on how facing mortality can lead to more peace. Their stories and insights are complex, thoughtful and enriching. We believe in the power of open, intentional conversations - ones that challenge our biases and offer meaningful insights. No conversation is off limits in the pursuit of meaningful connection, and finding more peace. This series is dedicated to Ashley’s father, Harvey Lawrence Gould.

Send us a textHorror is back on the table today! Join Ashley for part 2 of her gripping conversation with the man behind the mask, Kane Hodder. Best known for portraying Jason Vorhees in 4 of the "Friday the 13th" movies, Kane sits down with Ashley to discuss his journey to become the face of horrors most iconic villain.  Kane and Ashley get candid in their discussion, as they delve into his family life, his favorite stunts, and the personal objects that connect him to his loved ones.  Kane's story is a powerful testament to resilience, hard work, and grit. His candid discussion of the trials and tribulations he has faced reveals the strength of the human spirit and the necessity of perseverance.  Kane touches on the importance of human connection, sharing stories of love and family that evidently serve as the foundation of his personal and professional success. This conversation offers inspiration not only to horror enthusiasts but to anyone seeking motivation and insight into overcoming life's challenges.  You can learn more about Kane Hodder and his captivating life journey in his book ‘Unmasked: The True Life Story of the World’s Most Prolific Cinematic Killer’ as well as the updated version 'Kill!', both available now.Buy Kane's books at the embedded link.Watch Kane's documentary, 'To Hell and Back: The Kane Hodder Story', streaming now on Tubi.Listen to Kane's podcast, 'Casualty Friday'.Follow Kane Hodder:Instagram: @kanehodder13X: @kanehodder1 andTiktok: @kanehodder_authormikeKane's Media Recommendations:'Talk Scary to Me' podcast - hosted by Scout Compton and Danielle Harris'Find A Way' - memoir by Diana Nyad'Nyad' - directed by Jimmy Chin and Elizabeth Chai Vasarhelyi'SPRINT: The World's Fastest Humans' - Netflix and World AthleticsFollow On the Table with Ashley on Instagram and TikTok  On the Table with Ashley is presented by Âme Atendre, a luxury home goods and tableware brand with a mission to connect people to all that matters. If you have ideas for new episodes or guests, or just want to share feedback, email us at reachoutanytime@ameatendre.com

Send us a textWe have horror on the table today. Join Ashley for an unforgettable conversation with Kane Hodder, the man behind the mask of horror's most iconic villain, Jason Voorhees, in four "Friday the 13th" films. In part 1 of this 2 part interview, Kane shares his incredible story of survival and triumph, from enduring excruciating burns on over half his body due to a stunt mishap, to becoming a beloved figure in the horror community. In this episode, we cover how Kane overcame physical and emotional scars to carve out a successful career as an actor and stuntman, ultimately leaving an indelible mark on the landscape of cinema. Kane provides an insider's look at the gritty realities of playing one of cinema's most recognizable characters, sharing behind-the-scenes secrets, delving into memorable fan interactions, and revealing the rigorous physical demands of the role. Speaking with Ashley, Kane truly takes off the mask. Kane candidly delves into his upbringing and his trials, as he reveals how these experiences shaped his path. This episode isn't just about horror; it's about resilience, determination, and the power of family support. Kane's journey is a testament to the human spirit's ability to overcome even the most daunting obstacles, and it is sure to be one you have never heard before. Whether you're a horror aficionado or simply someone seeking inspiration, Kane shares an inspiring story about human connection, compassion and recovery.You can learn more about Kane Hodder and his captivating life journey in his book ‘Unmasked: The True Life Story of the World’s Most Prolific Cinematic Killer’ as well as the updated version 'Kill!', both available now. Buy Kane's books at the embedded link. Watch Kane's documentary, 'To Hell and Back: The Kane Hodder Story', streaming now on Tubi.Listen to Kane's podcast, 'Casualty Friday'.Follow Kane Hodder:Instagram: @kanehodder13X: @kanehodder1 and Tiktok: @kanehodder_authormikeFilms mentioned by Ashley and Kane in today’s episode:Friday the 13th Part VII: The New Blood (1988)Leatherface: The Texas Chainsaw Massacre III (1990)Jason Goes to Hell: The Final Friday (1993)Ed Gein: The Butcher of Plainfield (2007)B.T.K. (2008)Free Solo (2018)Follow On the Table with Ashley on Instagram @ameatendreOn the Table with Ashley is presented by Âme Atendre, a luxury home goods and tableware brand with a mission to connect people to all that matters. If you have ideas for new episodes or guests, or just want to share feedback, email us at reachoutanytime@ameatendre.com

Send us a textIn this episode we’re joined by Dr. Allison Boester. Dr. Boester is an OBGYN practicing in New York City. A cum laude graduate of Tufts University, Dr. Boester received her MD at the University of Maryland School of Medicine. Her postdoctoral training included a residency in obstetrics and gynecology at the Drexel University College of Medicine. Dr. Boester has been on the faculty at Weill Medical College of Cornell University since 2005. She joins Ashley to share the realities of her work and what led her down the path to becoming an OBGYN. She talks about the facets, pace and oftentimes intensive but rewarding tone of her work, how communication with patients has shifted in her practice, and the pros and cons of the introduction of technology. Dr. Boester discusses where we have room for improvement in reproductive healthcare for both doctors and patients and ultimately how balancing and remembering her true calling keeps her grounded in her personal life and as an MD. You can learn more about Dr. Boester and her practice at Weill Cornell Medicine’s Obstetrics and Gynecology Department. Links to topics mentioned by Ashley and Dr. Boester in today’s episode: Borum Postnatal RetreatACOG - American College of Obstetricians and GynocologistsLessons in Chemistry by Bonnie GarmusAuthor Jodi PicoultLink to the Crystal Bowls, Wooden Serving Spoons and Cocktail Napkins gifted to Dr. Boester and offered by Âme Atendre. Follow On the Table with Ashley on Instagram @onthetablewithashleyOn the Table with Ashley is presented by Âme Atendre, a luxury home goods and tableware brand with a mission to connect people to all that matters.

Send us a textIn this episode we’re joined by Ann Martin and Emily Schum Terry of lifestyle organization service “Get Organized”. Ann and Emily work with clients to evaluate, simplify and develop sustainable organizing solutions for their lives and homes. Whether it be preparing a home for the market, developing repeatable and accessible organizing systems within a home or going room by room sorting, decluttering and purging, “Get Organized” helps people through the process of letting go. They join Ashley to talk about their journey into the world of home organizing, Ann coming from a background in merchandising and psychology and Emily in forensic investigations. They share a bit about what their “decluttering” process looks like, why decluttering can be such an emotional process and how hiring a professional can help alleviate the stress. They discuss ways of building effective organizing solutions that don’t hurt your wallet, trends in the organizing space, how to strike a balance between collecting fewer better things and letting go of everything else. Ann and Emily also cover why organizing and purging a home, whether it be a single room or the entire house, is a unique, emotional and ultimately freeing process. You can learn more about Ann, Emily and Get Organized on their website. Get Organized is on Instagram @getorganizedpc and Facebook at Get Organized PC. You can email Emily and Ann at emily@getorganziedpc.com and ann@getorganizedpc.com. Links to topics mentioned by Ashley, Ann and Emily in today’s episode: Fewer, Better Things by Glenn AdamsonThe Art of Gathering by Priya ParkerJennifer Johnson’s @theorderlyspace @horderlyRía Safford’s @riorganizeLink to the Crystal Tumblers and Red Oak Serving Board gifted to Emily and Ann and offered by Âme Atendre. Follow On the Table with Ashley on Instagram @onthetablewithashleyOn the Table with Ashley is presented by Âme Atendre, a luxury home goods and tableware brand with a mission to connect people to all that matters.

Send us a textIn this episode we’re joined by Jon Cohen. Jon is a senior technology executive, knowledge creator, and data scientist. In 2014, Jon joined Survey Monkey as its chief research officer. Prior to Survey Monkey, he was vice president of research at the Pew Research Center and led The Washington Post’s polling operation as director of polling and polling editor. In 2018 he presented his Tedx talk “Curiosity is your Superpower” with Spencer Harrison around curiosity as a key driver for success. He was later named “New-School Pollster” by the National Journal as one of “50 People Changing the Game in Washington.” He joins Ashley to talk about his background and experience in the world of polling, and why resituating our lens on polling to include people rather than just data sets is so pivotal. He discusses what goes into polling and survey language and why it has such an effect on results, why good information doesn’t always drive “good decisions”,  and why polling matters for the future of the United States. You can learn more about Jon on LinkedIn. Links to topics mentioned by Ashley and Jon in today’s episode: John Cohen and Spencer Harrison’s Tedx talk “Curiosity Is Your Super Power”Superforecasting: The Art and Science of Prediction by Philip E. Tetlock and Dan Gardner Daniel Kahneman - Adversarial CollaborationPivot PodcastCall me Back with Dan SenorThe Ringer PodcastsAll in PodcastEpisode 11Episode 176Link to the small and large Crystal Bowls, Wooden Serving Spoons and Cocktail Napkins gifted to Jon and offered by Âme Atendre. Follow On the Table with Ashley on Instagram @onthetablewithashleyOn the Table with Ashley is presented by Âme Atendre, a luxury home goods and tableware brand with a mission to connect people to all that matters.

Send us a textIn this episode we’re joined by McKinley Merchant. McKinley is a certified social worker practicing out of Salt Lake City, Utah. McKinley approaches her deep understanding of trauma work and how trauma affects our daily lives and relationships through a lens of mind-body bridging that aims to heal the whole self. McKinley also practices holistic modalities like sound baths and is passionate about the profound positive impact of ketamine assisted therapy for the right clients. She joins Ashley to talk about her life  and what led her to integrate ketamine assisted therapy into her practice, and its benefits when administered in the appropriate setting. She talks about how to find and interview new therapists, how to advocate and collaborate with your therapist if you do not feel you’re progressing and ultimately how you can build the tools and knowledge to become your own medicine. You can learn more about McKinley on her website becomingcounselingslc.com and on  Instagram.Links to topics mentioned by Ashley and McKinley in today’s episode: Circles of Grace or Life Star SLC Psychology Today Directory MAPS Research When the Drummers Were Women by Layne RedmondHow to Change Your Mind, lead by Micheal PollanA Beginner's Guide to the End: How to Live Life to the Full and Die a Good Death by BJ Miller and Shoshana BergerMaybe You Should Talk to Someone by Lori GottliebThe Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma by Bessel van der Kolk M.D. Loving What Is, Revised Edition: Four Questions That Can Change Your Life; The Revolutionary Process Called "The Work" by Byron Katie and Stephen Mitchell Untamed by Glennon Doyle

Send us a textIn this episode we’re joined by Eric Mendell. Eric is a leading expert in the Jewelry and Watch industry. He and his brother David are co-owners of Kerns Fine Jewelry, a retailer that for 80 years has specialized in Fine Jewelry, Swiss Timepieces, Corporate Gifts and Tabletop objects. Eric graduated from the University of Arizona with a BA in Political Science and has a Graduate Degree in Gemology from the Gemological Institute of America. He joins Ashley to talk about his life managing a family business, and how the fine jewelry world is ultimately about trust, close relationships and family. He talks about the value of Fine Jewelry and Swiss Timepieces, including passing them down to the next generation. You can learn more about Eric and Kerns on their website www.kernsjewelers.com, on Instagram, Facebook and LinkedIn, Pinterest and Yelp. The current physical store is at 214 Lorton Avenue in Burlingame (appointments required), with new San Francisco locations coming in 2024.Links to topics mentioned by Ashley and Eric in today’s episode: The Gemological Institute of America Graduate Gemologist diploma program delivers a comprehensive gemology education on diamonds and colored stones. Kern’s Timeline Link to the Smoke Tumblers and “Time is More Important than Timing” Cocktail Napkins gifted to Eric and offered by Âme Atendre. Follow On the Table with Ashley on Instagram @onthetablewithashleyOn the Table with Ashley is presented by Âme Atendre, a luxury home goods and tableware brand with a mission to connect people to all that matters.Follow Âme Atendre on Instagram @amatendre.

Send us a textIn this episode we’re joined by Jenn Drummond, the first female world record holder to climb the second highest summits on each of the seven continents. In addition to being a highly accomplished mountaineer and athlete, Jenn is business owner, author and a mother of seven children. She joins Ashley to talk about her life on and off the mountain. The car accident that kick started her record breaking journey, how she navigates what she calls “the messy middle” between the highs, being an honest role model for her kids and how anchoring yourself in the present journey is even more important than summiting.You can learn more about Jenn on her website: https://jenndrummond.com/. You can follow Jenn on Instagram @thejenndrummond. Links to topics mentioned by Ashley and Jenn in today’s episode: Jenn’s book Breakproof, a book for every entrepreneur and motivated professional who wants to make a bigger impact, become more resilient and leave a lasting legacy. Jenn’s podcast Seek Your Summit, where she shares personal stories and interviews others who have led a life of both success and significance and now they’re paying it forward. How Will You Measure Your Life by Clayton Christensen, James Allworth, and Karen Dillon about the unconventional wisdom behind achieving a fulfilling life. Link to the 9” Royal Blue Goatskin Notebook, Wood and Leather Tray and Ceramic Appetizer Bowls gifted to Jenn and offered by Âme Atendre. Follow On the Table with Ashley on Instagram @onthetablewithashleyOn the Table with Ashley is presented by Âme Atendre, a luxury home goods and tableware brand with a mission to connect people to all that matters.Follow Âme Atendre on Instagram @amatendre