

Marriage and Intimacy Tips for Christian Couples: Secrets of Happily Ever After
Monica Tanner - Marriage and Intimacy Coach for Christian Couples
Have you ever wondered what makes the difference between those couples who absolutely LOVE to be together and the ones who merely tolorate each other in their old age? I always want to run up to the cute old couples who still hold hands while walking down the street and ask them all their secrets to relationship success. This podcast gives me the opportunity to do just that!I'm Monica Tanner, wife to a super hunky man, mom to 4 kids, weekly podcaster and relationship and intimacy expert/enthusiast. I help couples ditch the resentment and roommate syndrome and increase communication, connection and commitment, so they can write and live out their happily ever after love story. If that sounds like something you want, this podcast is absolutely for YOU! Each week, I'm teasing out the principles that keep couples hopelessly devoted and intoxicatingly in love with each other for a lifetime and beyond. I'm searching high and low for the secrets of happily ever after and sharing those secrets with you right here. Sound marriage advice for Christian couples who want to live happily ever after and achieve a truly intimate friendship and passionate partnership, because an awesome marriage makes life so much sweeter. Let's get to it!
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Oct 11, 2023 • 24min
Unlocking the Power of Sexual Intimacy to Bond You Together
Are you ready to unlock the power of sexual intimacy to bond you together? This episode is filled with personal stories, hard-learned lessons, and practical advice drawn from my own experiences. Discover how vulnerability can actually be the most authentic expression of love and connection. We'll also discuss how practicing sexual intimacy can have a profound ripple effect, blessing your children and family for generations to come.Being tired should never be an excuse to put off intimacy! I'm challenging this mindset and emphasizing the need to make time for your relationship, even when exhaustion hits. As a gift for listening to this episode, I'm offering you a FREE download called 13 Alternate Times to Make Love When You're Not Exhausted Right Before Bed --> https://secretsofhappilyeverafter.com/13timestoconnectIf your connection isn't as strong as you'd like it to be, don't procrastinate seeking help any longer. Find ways to work with me at: https://monicatanner.com.Send us a text

Oct 4, 2023 • 19min
Creating an Extraordinary Marriage and Six Pillars of Intimacy® with Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo
What if in just a few days time, you could unlock the power of intimacy and connection in your marriage? In this week's episode, I'm thrilled to have Tony and Alisa DeLorenzo from ONE Extraordinary Marriage, sharing their wisdom and experiences. They've spent over a decade running a podcast, learning invaluable lessons, and using those insights to save their marriage and thousands of others from the brink of divorce. We're discussing their six pillars of intimacy and how these can serve as a roadmap for couples looking to refocus, take action, and experience success in their relationships.We're also talking about our newest project - the Unlock the Power of Intimacy Summit. We're bringing together an incredible group of experts, each with a unique skill set and a shared passion for enriching marriages. This summit is designed to equip couples with knowledge and action steps to foster stronger, more intimate relationships. Join us on this journey, and let's create a marriage manual that will transform your relationship into something truly extraordinary!Get your FREE ticket to the Unlock the Power of Intimacy Summit HERE --> https://powerofintimacysummit.comSend us a text

Sep 27, 2023 • 21min
Your Marriage Needs Intimacy Like Humans Need Oxygen
Are you ready to unlock the secrets of a fulfilling marriage? Do you want to experience the kind of intimacy that brings joy, connection, and passion into all your relationships? My own journey towards building this intimacy was filled with challenges, hard times, and mistakes. Yet, with understanding, commitment, effort, resilience, and stamina, I discovered the essence of a truly intimate relationship.In this episode, I'm talking about some of my personal breakthrough moments and the secret project I promised to share with you this week! Are you ready your own breakthrough moment?Drumroll, please.... it's called the Unlock the Power of Intimacy Summit, where I called 30+ of my favorite authors, speakers, coaches and therapists to collaborate on an incredible event for the purpose of strengthening marriages intimately.Prepare to be swept off your feet as we share our personal experiences, valuable insights, and help you create your very own, personalized marriage manual. Check out the full line-up of speakers at: https://powerofintimacysummit.com.Let's embark on this journey towards happily ever after together.Send us a text

Sep 20, 2023 • 19min
How to Supercharge the Emotional Intimacy in Your Marriage
In today's episode, we explore communication, understanding your partner, and fostering mutual spiritual, physical, sexual, and recreational intimacy. It's not just about theory, but it's packed with practical steps including incoorporating daily connections into your routine and the secrets behind creating memorable date nights. Imagine dedicating just 20 minutes per day and three hours each week to yield a deeper connection with your partner. I've also create and cheat sheet with 51 insightful questions to help you explore your partner's inner world. You can download this resource here --> https://secretsofhappilyeverafter.com/51questionsWith this episode, you'll walk away with a toolkit to supercharge the emotional intimacy your marriage, which leads to increasing all the other types of intimacy. Don't miss this opportunity to enrich your relationship.Send us a text

Sep 13, 2023 • 24min
Ep 241: Utilizing the Power of Thoughts to Transform Your Marriage
Ever wondered about the secret weapon for a long-lasting, fulfilling marriage? It's simpler than you think, yet, powerful enough to transform your relationship. In this episode, I will guide you through a revolutionary approach to cultivate deep connection and intimacy in your marriage. Let's unravel the natural progression of a marriage, from the all-consuming initial attraction to the mundane reality of everyday life. Together, we'll delve into the 'magnetic marriage blueprint' and the three transformative laws that shape it. Join me to learn how you can rewrite the narrative of your marriage, and see your spouse through a brand-new lens of love and appreciation. No magic potions, no impossible demands - just the power of thought and the beauty of love. It's time to transform your marriage into an intimate, magnetic partnership.Husbands, if you are ready for more attention, affection and appreciation from your number one fan, be sure to join me for the Offensive Playbook Challenge by clicking this link --> https://offensiveplaybookchallenge.comSend us a text

Sep 6, 2023 • 43min
Ep 240 How to Woo Your Wife - a Conversation with Mike Frazier MD
This week, I'm joined by Mike Frazier from the Stronger Men, Stronger Marriages podcast to talk about how to woo your wife, going beyond the physical and diving deep into the emotional and mental.We tear apart the popular concept of "Happy Wife, Happy Life," and bring you a fresh, healthier outlook. You can be an attractive man to your wife, not only by helping her "close down the tabs" of her day but also by fostering trust, empathy, and understanding. We also discuss how celebrating your successes together can nurture intimacy and connection, transforming your relationship into a more meaningful bond.For all those high-achieving Christian men out there, we've got some golden nuggets for you. We share how to take your relationship to the next level with a love-focused mindset, going beyond the physical aspects of a relationship and investing in the emotional and mental facets. Finally, we unfold the essence of creating a "happily ever after" marriage, stressing the importance of service, appreciation, and a mindset of admiration and trust. Get ready to make your relationship soar with all you're going to learn in this episode.Send us a text

Aug 30, 2023 • 31min
Ep 239 Deepening Family Relationships Through Conscious Parenting with Sapna Rad
Are you ready to revolutionize your approach to parenting? This week, I'm sitting down with Sapna Rad to unpack the secrets of conscious parenting. We delve into how to maintain a strong connection with your children amidst the busyness of life, and the transformative shift from 'yelling' to 'zenning'. Sapna offers a wealth of insight into understanding the nuances between conscious and controlling parenting and shares practical advice on navigating the early stages of parenthood as well as connecting with teenagers.Sapna shares stories about her own parenting journey, reminding us that expertise does not mean perfection. She leans into the comforting truth that the real value lies in having the right tools and strategies. We discuss conscious parenting and how to effectively work with your partner to acheive it. Sapna's expertise also shines a light on how fostering strong bonds with our children can enrich the parenting experience. This conversation is a must-listen for anyone seeking to deepen their relationship with their children through conscious parenting.Learn more about the Passionate Marriage Club HERE --> https://secretsofhappilyeverafter.com/clubSend us a text

Aug 23, 2023 • 22min
Ep 238 Investing in Your Marriage for Your Children's Benefit
What if the secret to giving your children a brighter future was hidden in your marriage? This week, I'm excited to share my insights on the profound impact a healthy marriage can have on your children's life. Kids who grow up in intact homes are more likely to graduate high school, enroll in college, and secure consistent employment.They're also less prone to risky behaviors like substance misuse and premature sexual activity. Let me guide you on how to create a loving environment that models positive conflict resolution, respectful communication, and prioritizing your significant other.Imagine what could happen when you set aside sacred time for your spouse, when you make daily connections, and plan weekly date nights. How might these actions shift the dynamics within your family, teaching your kids valuable lessons about love, respect, and communication? I share practical strategies to help you make these changes, encourage you to spread the message that 'happily ever after' is possible and not just a fairy-tale. And remember, it's not just about your happiness. It's about laying a solid foundation for your children so they can create their own healthy relationships. Visit my website to learn how we can work together further, and be sure to join me next week for more!Send us a text

Aug 16, 2023 • 25min
Ep 237 How to Handle Back-to-School Together Like Rockstars
Are you drownding in the chaotic whirlwind of school supplies and extracurricular activities, and yearning for some quality time with your spouse? In this episode, I'm sharing 5 practical strategies to help you prioritize your relationship and keep that spark alive amidst the chaos. From planning regular date nights, figuring out finances together, to ensuring you always make time for each other, you'll get an insider's glimpse into my own marriage, as I recount a candid conversation with my husband that shed light on the magic of open and honest communication.But that's not all! We also delve into the importance of setting intentions for maintaining connection and upholding happiness throughout the school year. I introduce a novel concept of establishing code words with your partner to quickly express how you're feeling after a draining day. This episode is sure to equip you with all the tools you need to balance family life and marital bliss during this busy season. And if you're eager for more, join our free Wise Wife and Hero Husband challenges and learn the secrets of getting everything you want and need out of your relationship. Learn the simple tactics you need to maintain passion and understanding, even during the busiest of times!Wives, join us for the FREE Wise Wife Challenge here --> https://secretsofhappilyeverafter.com/wisewifechallengeHusbands, join us for the FREE Hero Husband Challenge here --> https://secretsofhappilyeverafter.com/herohusbandchallengeSend us a text

Aug 9, 2023 • 34min
Ep 236 Connecting During Perimenopause with Bria Gadd
Ever wondered about the secrets your body holds during perimenopause? How this stage of life affects not just your physical health, but also your relationships? Join us as we unravel these mysteries with Bria Gadd - a personal trainer, holistic health coach and integrative nutritionist with a special expertise in female hormones. Bria guides us through the facts and myths surrounding perimenopause and menopause, highlighting the critical transitions occurring during this period in a woman's life. She emphasizes the importance of understanding this stage, as it affects 40 million women worldwide, half of whom don't understand the distinctions between perimenopause and menopause.We break down myths like menopause being caused by estrogen deficiency while discussing the role of progesterone. We also focus on the body's need for more energy during certain periods, how this affects metabolism, and how low-impact movement can contribute to our overall wellbeing during this time. We then shift our attention to how cortisol and inflammation factor into our physical health, the significance of age and lifestyle habits, and how we can better handle and understand these changes.Finally, we discuss the four pillars of health: sleep & rest, nutrition & fuel, movement & exercise, and pleasure. These pillars not only form the foundation of our health but also strengthen our relationships. Bria shares valuable insights into why some women struggle more than others during perimenopause and how we can ensure we are not one of them. Wrapping up the episode, Bria leaves us with resources and advice for women and partners to smoothly navigate this challenging, yet rewarding time in life. To download the resource Bria mentioned in the episode go to --> https://briatheperiodwhisperer.com/opt-in-10-laws-of-happy-hormonesTo join the Hero Husband Challenge go to --> https://secretsofhappilyeverafter.com/herohusbandchallengeTo join the Wise Wife Challenge go to --> https://secretsofhappilyeverafter.com/wisewifechallengeSend us a text