

chessfeels: conversations about chess, psychology & mental health
JJ Lang, Julia Rios
chessfeels is a podcast about chess culture, improvement, and psychology from chess teacher JJ Lang and therapist Julia Rios. Tune in for irreverent conversations about this game we're all obsessed with.
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Dec 1, 2022 • 54min
25: men would rather hire a chess coach than go to therapy
What do chess teaching and practicing therapy have in common? It sounds like a joke, and probably is, but you'll have to listen if you want to find out the actual answer. Check out our recommended courses on chessableBuy our really good merchTell us you love us by following us on twitterShow us you love us by giving us some moneyBook lessons with JJ

Nov 23, 2022 • 58min
24: men only want one thing and it's disgusting (with WGM Jennifer Shahade)
Julia and JJ are joined by WGM and multi-hyphenate US chess champion, poker pro, and author Jennifer Shahade to talk about the future (and past) of social media, the mental side of chess, and the open Sicilian. Purchase Jennifer's book, Chess Queens!Check out our recommended courses on chessableBuy our really good merchTell us you love us by following us on twitterShow us you love us by giving us some moneyBook lessons with JJ

Nov 10, 2022 • 55min
23: you're studying openings wrong (with FM Nate Solon)
You're studying openings bad and you should feel bad! In the first podcast to ever feature two of the four highest rated chess players in the state of Nebraska, Omaha-based FM Nate Solon joins Julia and JJ to talk about how he studies openings and why that makes him better than other people. He also talks about his new book, "Evaluate like a GM," co-authored with GM Eugene Perelshteyn, and why 'evaluation' is an undervalued art in chess study.Subscribe to Nate's controversial and brave SubstackBuy Nate and Eugene's book on AmazonConsider buying other books, that aren't only available on Amazon, somewhere other than AmazonMaybe like bookshop.orgCheck out our recommended courses on chessableBuy our really good merchTell us you love us by following us on twitterShow us you love us by giving us some moneyBook lessons with JJ

Oct 31, 2022 • 1h 25min
22: do you know where your tooth is? (halloween special)
Julia and JJ solicited scary and "scary" stories from listeners and compiled them for a very spooky episode. Check out our recommended courses on chessableBuy our really good merchTell us you love us by following us on twitterShow us you love us by giving us some moneyBook lessons with JJ

Oct 20, 2022 • 53min
21: do you ever get nervous? (the anxiety episode, pt 2)
Julia and JJ continue their conversation about how anxiety can impact your chess. They talk about how to notice when your thoughts turn from 'observational' to more 'reactive' or 'evaluative,' and how annotating your own (slow) chess games can be a great way to practice these observational skills. JJ mentions the chess dojo training program which is really goodCheck out our recommended courses on chessableBuy our really good merchTell us you love us by following us on twitterShow us you love us by giving us some moneyBook lessons with JJThe Miami Temple Israel would like to remind listeners that they did not condone the message of Drake's music in his 're-bar-mitzvah' music video.

Oct 13, 2022 • 51min
20: do you love this shit? (the anxiety episode, pt 1)
Julia explains what anxiety really is, and JJ talks about how they see this manifest in several of their students' annotations of their own slow games. You can learn how to, like, do anything about it next week. Check out our recommended courses on chessableBuy our really good merchTell us you love us by following us on twitterShow us you love us by giving us some moneyBook lessons with JJ

Sep 29, 2022 • 56min
19: the gang fixes lichess (with @NoJokeChris)
Julia and JJ are joined by Chris Callahan, the community organizer for LiChess.org. They discuss what LiChess does, and could do, about the addictiveness of blitz, how to be more accessible, and, about all sorts of cool stuff LiChess already does. Follow Chris on twitter and lichessJoin the lichess discord serverChris mentions the outrageous variants on pychess and visualization training on listudySee this page for the full list of extensions People are still loving our Free Hans shirts Check out our recommended courses on chessableTell us you love us by following us on twitterShow us you love us by giving us some moneyBook lessons with JJ

Sep 22, 2022 • 50min
18: it was only a blitz, how did it end up like this?
Julia and JJ talk about The Cheating Scandal, against their better judgment, breaking down the philosophical questions and psychological implications of The Scandal and make lots of jokes about anal beads in the process. Why does it matter that Magnus did not explicitly accuse Hans of cheating? What counts as evidence of cheating? Would the scandal be a scandal if You People didn't tweet so much? Free Hans shirtFree Magnus shirtI Think Hans Cheated shirtCheck out our recommended courses on chessableTell us you love us by following us on twitterShow us you love us by giving us some moneyBook lessons with JJ

Sep 15, 2022 • 36min
17: you can't quit us, we're fired
What should we do when our love of chess and our exhaustion with competition come into conflict? Julia and JJ tackle the question of why competitive and amateur chess players alike make such a big deal out of quitting. What does it mean to 'quit chess' if it's still a part of your life? What could 'recreational chess play' look like? Where does the desire to quit, rather than merely take a break, from playing competitive chess come from? Why do people think the options are 'keep improving' or 'quit playing'? Why are we like this? Check out our recommended courses on chessableBuy our really good merchTell us you love us by following us on twitterShow us you love us by giving us some moneyBook lessons with JJ

Jul 8, 2022 • 36min
16: the unsolicited advice episode (with Omar Mills of Chess Von Doom)
After a week where chess twitter imploded under the weight of its users debating the value of giving unsolicited advice to other chess players, Julia and JJ decided to unsolicitedly tell everyone why they're using twitter wrong. They're joined by the legend Omar for a heartfelt discussion about how hard it is to hear the hard truth sometimes (stop playing bl*tz). While we take a break to get ready for season 2 of chessfeels (#2chess2feels), you canrep our merchstudy our fave chessable coursesbook lessons with JJdonate to the pod fund


