

What Would Love Do?
Jonathon Aslay
The What Would Love Do? Podcast explores life, love and inner peace through and with the eyes of love.
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Sep 27, 2025 • 0sec
Men Who Care About You Always Do THIS
Men Who Care About You Always Do THIS
Both men and women in midlife are often caught in the ‘sandwich’ generation, where they get their kids out of the house and then a parent gets sick and needs attention.
Or they might have a health scare themselves. Sometimes the pressure is enough to make a partner leave the relationship but that simply means they were not right for you.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how you know your guy is a keeper, especially when life throws its curveballs.
Let’s talk about…Men Who Care About You Always Do THIS
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Sep 23, 2025 • 0sec
Real Reason Why Men Do THIS More Than Women
Real Reason Why Men Do THIS More Than Women
Today we’re revisiting the Kiss-cam seen around the world, where a cheating couple was caught on camera at a Coldplay concert.
There was plenty of blame going around when the news broke but we’re going to dive into who cheats more and why. Are men always the ones who cheat or do more women cheat than we realize?
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about what leads up to someone cheating and the ripple effects an affair has on family members.
Let’s talk about…Real Reason Why Men Do THIS More Than Women
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Sep 16, 2025 • 0sec
7 Things Men Do During Lovemaking When He’s Genuinely In Love
7 Things Men Do During Lovemaking When He’s Genuinely In Love
Let’s be real…guys have their “locker room talk” about their sexual escapades. Maybe you’ve only seen it depicted in movies or on TV but it’s true.
Sex for most single guys is just something fun that anyone can do. But when an emotional connection happens, that’s what pushes the simple act of sex into lovemaking.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about transforming sex into a sacred act that bonds a couple together.
Let’s talk about…7 Things Men Do During Lovemaking When He’s Genuinely In Love
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Sep 9, 2025 • 0sec
High Value Men Are Drawn To Women With THIS Self Worth
High Value Men Are Drawn To Women With THIS Self Worth
Many men are “flying blind” in the dating world. Not because they’re stupid or clueless but because they were never taught about emotional clarity.
But do we really need to settle for guys who keep swiping aimlessly and strike up conversations hoping that something sticks?
That sounds like wishful thinking instead of having an understanding of what they want in a relationship.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about why emotionally available men need a long term dating strategy instead of a short term strategy.
Let’s talk about…High Value Men Are Drawn To Women With THIS Self Worth
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Sep 6, 2025 • 0sec
What Makes A Man Suddenly Commit To a Woman
What Makes A Man Suddenly Commit To a Woman
Humans seem to value pleasure over substance and loyalty these days.
In the early stages of dating, many are not concerned with building trust. They want the instant gratification of good sex through chemistry, thinking that’s the ultimate goal.
But what happens when you decide you want a long-term commitment?
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about the different stages of commitment and why arranged marriages have a higher success rate than traditional marriages.
Let’s talk about…What Makes A Man Suddenly Commit To a Woman
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Sep 2, 2025 • 0sec
Does His Silence Mean It’s Over? Maybe or Maybe Not
Does His Silence Mean It’s Over? Maybe or Maybe Not
Human pair bonding is complicated, plain and simple. It gets more complicated when you question what men are looking for.
Are they chasing a relationship or are they chasing sex?
Midlife dating is different than dating in your 20s and 30s. We have divorce, health issues, and a slew of other baggage that is part of our persona.
But all is NOT lost! Love IS possible in midlife so let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to discern if a guy wants a companion or a life partner and how that choice fits into your life.
Let’s talk about…Does His Silence Mean It’s Over? Maybe or Maybe Not
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Aug 26, 2025 • 0sec
Psychology of Modern Dating and Relationships
Psychology of Modern Dating and Relationships
Compatibility has always been complex but in our younger years, it was less complicated to find a partner because there was a clear purpose to the relationship: create a family.
The problem we face in midlife is that we come with a vast array of different experiences and the purpose of a midlife relationship is often very unclear. Do you want someone for companionship or do you want a long term “til death do us part” relationship? And amid those broad terms, what do those types of relationships look like to you?
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to determine what kind of relationship you want and how to express that to current suitors.
Let’s talk about…Psychology of Modern Dating and Relationships
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Aug 23, 2025 • 0sec
Why Men Need THIS To Decide If They Love You
Why Men Need THIS To Decide If They Love You
Many people believe that love is involuntary, that you’ll just be attracted and fall in love when the time is right.
But I believe that love is a choice to let go of the past hurts, fear, and the fantasy of ‘involuntary love.’ Love and chemistry CAN grow over time.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about why instant chemistry and attraction doesn’t mean anything without a foundation of friendship.
Let’s talk about…Why Men Need THIS To Decide If They Love You
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Aug 19, 2025 • 0sec
Men Make THIS Gigantic Mistake When Dating Women
Men Make THIS Gigantic Mistake When Dating Women
Today’s dating world is often based on a short term strategy which focuses on attraction, entertainment, romance, and physical connection all based on pleasure. Throw in some ambivalence, arrogance, and/or naivete from men and you run the risk of hindering the development of a genuine connection.
Those who are seeking a life partner instead of just a physical connection show up differently. These are the men who are willing to ask deeper questions than the standard, “How was your day?” They are the ones who hear you when you describe your values and life dreams. They are the ones who reflect on how they can improve life with you instead of shirking responsibilities.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to shift out of short-term mating strategies and embrace getting to know someone on a deeper level.
Let’s talk about…Men Make THIS Gigantic Mistake When Dating Women
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Aug 16, 2025 • 0sec
Men Who REALLY Care About You Have THIS In Common
Men Who REALLY Care About You Have THIS In Common
Emotionally wounded men look to online dating apps to find women who will act like therapists. These men *think* they just need to find the right woman and their wounds will heal but we all know that’s unrealistic.
Let me remind you that no one can do this healing work for you. Ultimately you have to love yourself first, enough to find therapies that help you heal before opening yourself up to another person. Two broken people don’t heal each other; they pull each other under because they don’t know any better.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to shift from transactional relationships to emotionally mature relationships where values and lifestyles blend easily.
Let’s talk about…Men Who REALLY Care About You Have THIS In Common
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
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Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
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