What Would Love Do?

Guys Won’t Open Up Emotionally Until You Do THIS! Let’s be real…most guys in the dating world are thinking about one thing…SEX! And men from the Baby Boomer and Gen X generations were taught as children to hide their feelings. So, it’s no wonder that many midlife men are emotionally constipated when it comes to dating. They’re confused about why the women they date want to talk instead of hopping into bed. There’s no judgment from me. Sleeping with someone is a personal decision but I suggest really knowing what type of relationship you want. Do you want a lifelong partner or a friend with benefits? I’ve said before that sexual chemistry is awesome and can lead to a lot of fun but it’s not stable enough to support a long-term relationship. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about starting those important conversations about values and lifestyle to determine if this is the guy for you. Let’s talk about…Guys Won’t Open Up Emotionally Until You Do THIS! Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends The post Guys Won’t Open Up Emotionally Until You Do THIS! appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

THESE Men Love To Be Chased | Know THIS! In other podcasts and videos I’ve talked about how women should not chase men, but there’s a big difference between chasing someone and putting effort into a relationship. Emotionally healthy men want women who aren’t afraid of deep conversations and who take the initiative to plan the next date. Women who put in effort truly want to know this new man in their life as opposed to just wanting to jump into bed because he’s attractive. However, certain types of men enjoy the chase and they want to play these dating games because they don’t have a healthy respect for women and they don’t have any idea what they want in life. Once you understand how these men operate, you’ll be able to avoid dating them, especially if you long for a lifelong companion. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about the types of men who get a thrill from being chased and how you can spot them. Let’s talk about…THESE Men Love To Be Chased | Know THIS! Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends The post THESE Men Love To Be Chased | Know THIS! appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

Is He SERIOUS About You? 3 SOLID Signs | Don’t Miss THESE When was the last time you really thought about your long-term dating goal? Knowing whether you want a life partner or just want to have fun with no commitment will help you determine what kinds of questions to ask a potential partner. Also, those looking for a serious relationship will approach dating from a very different energy level than those who are looking for a casual relationship. Once you know what your dating destination looks like, you’ll be able to pick up the hints about whether your guy is serious about you or not. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about defining our long-term dating goals and what a “serious” relationship looks like to you. Let’s talk about…Is He SERIOUS About You? 3 SOLID Signs | Don’t Miss THESE Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends The post Is He SERIOUS About You? 3 SOLID Signs appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

7 EARLY Signs A Guy Wants To Be COMMITTED To You Women can often overlook crucial early signs of a partner’s readiness for commitment due to being blinded by affection. Instead of being blinded, let’s take back your power and talk about the seven telltale signs of a man’s sincere interest in a lasting bond. If you have followed me for any length of time, you’ll know that I firmly believe in the importance of emotional maturity, shared values, and the compatibility necessary for a successful partnership. Affection and being attracted to a man’s physical appearance are wonderful but those alone leave you on shaky relationship ground. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about the early signs of a man’s commitment to a relationship. Let’s talk about…7 EARLY Signs A Guy Wants To Be COMMITTED To You Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends The post 7 EARLY Signs A Guy Wants To Be COMMITTED To You appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

If A Man Does THIS, He’s Loyal To YOU! Establishing trust and building a strong foundation of loyalty from the early stages of dating is the basis for a long lasting relationship. There are certain character traits that contribute to loyalty and without them, each partner may feel insecure and start worrying about the longevity of the relationship. We’ll also chat about the significance of integrating one another into each other’s lives; the need to have a commitment mindset; and the true meaning behind the words “I love you.” Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about the role of emotional healing and individual character in fostering loyalty in relationships. Let’s talk about…If A Man Does THIS, He’s Loyal To YOU! Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends The post If A Man Does THIS, He’s Loyal To YOU! appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

Dating: A Failed Technology? What does commitment mean? In our younger years, it means finding someone to build a life with and (usually) to start a family with. Younger people often have a naive outlook on commitment, especially when it comes to marriage, when in reality, the divorce rate in the US is still hovering at the 50% mark. In midlife years, our childrearing is (usually) complete, many have lived through a divorce, and they’re approaching life – and commitment – with different eyes. Commitment in midlife years is about putting YOUR wants and desires first and many people (especially parents) don’t know how to do that, which leads to a whole other level of relationship dysfunction. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to communicate what YOU want out of a relationship and why it’s so difficult asking for what we want. Let’s talk about…Why Men (Over 40) Are Less Likely To Commit | Dating: A Failed Technology? Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends The post Why Men (Over 40) Are Less Likely To Commit appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

Do THIS When He Pulls Away… Chemistry is a huge reason why we connect with certain people. We’ve got various feel-good chemicals and hormones being released that push us into lust and limerence early in a relationship. But this chemical attraction is often misunderstood. Men will often think about how you make him feel instead of how he feels about you. Can you see the distinction? Men are often uncomfortable discussing their feelings and might pull away when asked to look at these two different scenarios. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about what silence means and how to know if he’s worth the effort or if he’s running away. Let’s talk about… A Man’s Silence Means THIS! Do THIS When He Pulls Away Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends The post A Man’s Silence Means THIS! appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

Do High-Quality Men (Men Over 40) Exist? with @raydoktor What does “high-quality” mean when we’re talking about men (and women)? Basically it means that men are doing inner work and acknowledging that they’re growing as a person daily. High-quality men don’t run away from conversations about feelings and what they want in a relationship. On the contrary, they welcome the questions because they want a high-quality woman to share in their personal growth. I’m thrilled to be joined in this conversation by Ray Doktor, Psy. D. (aka Dr. Ray). He works as a modern day relationship & rapid breakthrough coach. For the last 30 years, he’s successfully helped over 6k clients breakthrough limited beliefs and challenges to have better relationships, improved family life, and more success! Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to determine if the men you’re meeting are high-quality and what it means when you create a ‘container’ for your relationship. Let’s talk about… Do High-Quality Men (Men Over 40) Exist? with @raydoktor Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends The post Do High-Quality Men (Men Over 40) Exist? with @raydoktor appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

 Why A Man CHOOSES You Over ANOTHER Woman Did you realize that how we related to our parents during our early childhood years deeply affects how we choose our partners later in life? The lessons we learn from the primary adults in our lives from birth through age 8 or 9 shape our personalities and belief system and we carry these lessons with us forever…unless we’re open to doing inner work to change and grow. Emotional maturity is a broad title that encompasses many things but that’s what we’re diving into today. Just remember…your past does not dictate your future. In other words, both men and women alike can change their behaviors and beliefs provided they’re willing to do the work. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how one’s level of emotional maturity greatly affects the quality of a relationship. Let’s talk about… Why A Man CHOOSES You Over ANOTHER Woman Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends The post Why A Man CHOOSES You Over ANOTHER Woman appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

Attachment Styles: Why We Choose Who We Choose w/Dr. Stan Tatkin You’ve heard me talk about attachment styles before but today we’re diving deep with Dr. Stan Tatkin to really understand what each style means and how each style manifests during the early stages of a relationship. Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT, is a clinician, researcher, teacher, author, and developer of A Psychobiological Approach to Couples Therapy® (PACT). He has a clinical practice in Calabasas, CA, and developed the PACT Institute for the purpose of training other psychotherapists to use this method in their clinical practice. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about attachment styles and understand how each style plays a role in developing a relationship. Let’s talk about…Attachment Styles: Why We Choose Who We Choose w/Dr. Stan Tatkin Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends The post Attachment Styles: Why We Choose Who We Choose w/Dr. Stan Tatkin appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.