

What Would Love Do?
Jonathon Aslay
The What Would Love Do? Podcast explores life, love and inner peace through and with the eyes of love.
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Aug 24, 2024 • 0sec
Revisiting the 6 Things Men Notice First in a Woman
6 Things Men Notice First in a Woman and Find Wildly Attractive – Part 2
Have you set yourself up for success or disappointment? Chemistry is NOT the end all/be all of a relationship. True friendship is the solid foundation upon which every relationship can flourish.
However, through the years we have been taught that chemistry is what will predict the future of our relationship, which leads many of us to disappointment when that chemistry fizzles out.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to build a friendship in the dating world and how to put chemistry in a lower priority.
Let’s talk about…6 Things Men Notice First in a Woman and Find Wildly Attractive, Part 2
Resources:
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends
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Aug 20, 2024 • 0sec
Men Who Do THIS Rarely Commit To You
Men Who Do THIS Rarely Commit To You
When a man is fearful of commitment, there’s often an underlying reason (or many). Those reasons are usually rooted in some kind of pain or trauma and some men go to great lengths to cover up that pain.
Vulnerability and honesty about feelings need to happen for commitment to occur. That might entail a good amount of personal development work, both singly and together, but it IS possible to move forward past the pain and into a season of loving commitment.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to halt self-medication and release those inner demons holding you back from love.
Let’s talk about…Men Who Do THIS Rarely Commit To You
Resources:
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends
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Aug 17, 2024 • 0sec
Letting Go (Part 2): How To Know It’s Time To Move On From A Relationship
Letting Go (Part 2): How To Know It’s Time To Move On From A Relationship
Every person we meet in life teaches us lessons. We can also learn how to have a relationship by evaluating what worked and what didn’t in past relationships.
In this episode, I share my revelations about my relationship with Marie and the lessons I learned from our breakup.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about understanding relationship lessons and how to move forward after a breakup.
Let’s talk about…How To Know It’s Time To Move On From A Relationship (Part 2)
If you missed Part 1 of this conversation, listen here.
Resources:
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends
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Aug 13, 2024 • 0sec
Can Men Who Give Mixed Signals Really Fall In Love?
Can Men Who Give Mixed Signals Really Fall In Love?
We’re deep diving into this topic with the help of The Golden Bachelor. One of the final two women felt blindsided when Gerry said he was choosing the other woman.
She said he gave mixed signals about his feelings but I can speak from experience when I tell you it’s easy to get caught up in chemistry. When all the feel-good hormones are flowing, it’s very easy to feel like you love someone.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to get in touch with your feelings to know if the love you feel is real.
Let’s talk about…Can Men Who Give Mixed Signals Really Fall In Love?
Resources:
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends
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Aug 6, 2024 • 0sec
He’s Acting Distant | Does THIS Mean It’s Over For Him?
He’s Acting Distant | Does THIS Mean It’s Over For Him?
Why is it that so many women immediately think something is wrong if their guy gets distant or quiet? Doesn’t everyone take some time to think about their life and relationship?
For my clients, who are primarily midlife women, it boils down to doubt. Doubting the relationship is solid. Doubting his commitment.
And this might come as a surprise to you, but men have those same doubts! They also have self-doubt thrown in there, wondering if they’re enough for their partner and if they have the capacity to give her what she needs to be happy in a relationship.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how self-doubt presents in a relationship and how to work past it, even if you need some alone time.
Let’s talk about…He’s Acting Distant | Does THIS Mean It’s Over For Him?
Resources:
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends
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Aug 3, 2024 • 0sec
Doing THIS Repels Good Men From Wanting You with Sabrina Rising
Doing THIS Repels Good Men From Wanting You with Sabrina Rising
I’m thrilled to have my own coach, Sabrina Rising, as a guest today and we’re talking all about the energy we project and how we attract people based on the energy we put out into the world. Many times we are not aware of how we’re presenting ourselves and then we wonder why we’re attracting duds who don’t want the same type of relationship we want.
If you want to attract more high quality men into your dating life, awareness of what type of energy you’re holding on to is vital. Once you become aware, you’ll be able to make some changes in your dating profiles and in your conversations that will shift you into a higher, more positive energy vibration; in turn, you’ll attract similar types of men into your life.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about why we hold onto negative energy and how that repels the good men from your life.
Let’s talk about…Doing THIS Repels Good Men From Wanting You with Sabrina Rising
Resources:
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends
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Jul 30, 2024 • 0sec
Men Go Through These 5 Stages Before They’ll Commit To You
Men Go Through These 5 Stages Before They’ll Commit To You
Asking for a commitment to someone – especially a long-term commitment – is scary and requires a lot of soul-searching and inner work. During the midlife years, committing to someone can be extra stressful, especially if the partners have been married before and gone through a divorce.
Even if it seems like your guy is avoiding commitment, he might just be working through these different stages in his own time. Knowing these stages can set the tone for deeper conversations, especially to be sure you both have the same definition of ‘commitment’.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about why it takes some men longer to commit and how to embrace that timeline together.
Let’s talk about…Men Go Through These 5 Stages Before They’ll Commit To You
Resources:
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends
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Jul 27, 2024 • 0sec
6 Ways To Avoid EMOTIONALLY BROKEN Men Over 40
6 Ways To Avoid EMOTIONALLY BROKEN Men Over 40
Emotionally broken men have a difficult time loving, plain and simple. This might be remnants of childhood trauma or even trauma after a divorce or becoming a widower. We ALL have some sort of baggage that we carry throughout our lives but the key is in how we handle that baggage.
In these midlife years, you’ll have to decide if you have the desire and the energy to support an emotionally broken man. They CAN change but they must be willing to do the inner work. And I also invite you to really be honest with yourself about how long you’re willing to stand by while he does the work because you know this does not happen overnight.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about why you should not settle for an emotionally broken man and how to spot a guy who needs to do this inner work.
Let’s talk about…6 Ways To Avoid EMOTIONALLY BROKEN Men Over 40
Resources:
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends
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Jul 23, 2024 • 0sec
Are You Dating A Divorced Dad? Is He Ready For Love?
Are You Dating A Divorced Dad? Is He Ready For Love?
The divorce statistics in the US still hover near the 50% mark and in these midlife years, you’ll be hard pressed to find a man who is NOT divorced. And if you’re divorced guy has kids, there’s another level of honest questions you should ask him to discover his feelings about long term relationships.
You can also observe your guy for clues about his relationship with his kids and his ex-wife. Nothing takes the place of honest communication, so don’t be afraid to initiate the hard conversations.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about finding your place in a long term relationship with your guy, his kids, and his ex.
Let’s talk about…Are You Dating A Divorced Dad? Is He Ready For Love?
Resources:
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends
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Jul 20, 2024 • 0sec
Why Men Deeply Desire Women Who Do THIS (Outside The Bedroom)
Why Men Deeply Desire Women Who Do THIS (Outside The Bedroom)
A lot of dating advice seems one-sided with it sounding like women are the ones responsible for keeping the relationship afloat and are the only ones who should make an effort.
Not true!
However…women are more open to educating themselves about personal growth and relationships, which is why it seems most of the dating advice is aimed towards women.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how women can claim their power in a relationship and can also encourage their man to think more deeply about his desires for the relationship.
Let’s talk about…Why Men Deeply Desire Women Who Do THIS (Outside The Bedroom)
Resources:
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends
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