

What Would Love Do?
Jonathon Aslay
The What Would Love Do? Podcast explores life, love and inner peace through and with the eyes of love.
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Jan 27, 2026 • 53min
New Rules For Dating: Verify THIS Before You Trust
New Rules For Dating: Verify THIS Before You Trust
We’re talking about a very important topic today: Romance Cons.
In today’s AI world and with how popular dating apps have become, it’s more important than ever to protect yourself and your bank accounts from unscrupulous con artists who will pretend to love you but only want your assets.
Let’s explore the DEEPER workings of con artists and how to protect yourself with Laurel House and Dr Alex del Carmen, hosts of the show RomConned.
Let’s talk about…New Rules For Dating: Verify THIS Before You Trust
Resources:
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends
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Jan 20, 2026 • 16min
If He Goes Silent, He Might Really Need THIS
If He Goes Silent, He Might Really Need THIS
Do men chase a fully committed relationship or are they chasing sex? Or are midlife men looking for companionship and connection without a permanent commitment?
All of these things are possible in the midlife dating pool but men and women both can get caught up in their own fears.
Fear of the unknown, fear of having to sacrifice, not wanting to settle. When these types of fears arise, going silent is often easier than having a conversation about those fears.
Let’s explore the DEEPER ways to keep fear at bay and how to open up communication without judgment.
Let’s talk about…If He Goes Silent, He Might Really Need THIS
Resources:
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends
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Jan 6, 2026 • 53min
Every Man Needs THIS Before Fully Committing To You
Every Man Needs THIS Before Fully Committing To You
When was the last time you were in a healthy, heart-centered relationship? You probably only remember those unhealthy relationships, yet so often we repeat the same cycles.
Falling in love is often based on lust or limerence and that is certainly a fun experience. But is this TRUE love or love based on physical chemistry?
Let’s explore the DEEPER ways to create a heart-centered relationship based on friendship instead of chemistry.
Let’s talk about…Every Man Needs THIS Before Fully Committing To You
Resources:
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends
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Dec 30, 2025 • 17min
Men Respect Women Who Do THIS First
Men Respect Women Who Do THIS First
Have you ever been on a date where the other person only talks about themselves?
Or they are so focused on giving you the ‘right’ answers to your questions that they don’t ask any questions of you?
Being present is a big sign of respect IMO. Showing an equal interest in the conversation and asking your own questions helps drive the conversation but also helps both parties determine if another date is worth pursuing.
Let’s explore the DEEPER ways to be present in the dating world and how to determine if your guy is looking for a way to move on to the next person.
Let’s talk about…Men Respect Women Who Do THIS First
Resources:
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends
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Dec 23, 2025 • 0sec
How to Tell If It’s Real Love or Just a Chemical Crush
How to Tell If It’s Real Love or Just a Chemical Crush
Have you experienced ‘love bombing’? Mostly women have this experience of receiving exaggerated feelings of love, often spurred by lust or limerence.
Love bombing might feel good at first but it’s not an indication of true feelings. Lust is all about wanting to fulfill a sexual need and limerence is an exaggerated infatuation with a person.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about what it means to experience dopamine love and seratonin love (yes, they are different!)
Let’s talk about…How to Tell If It’s Real Love or Just a Chemical Crush
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends
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Dec 13, 2025 • 0sec
Why Does Love Feel So Hopeless?
Why Does Love Feel So Hopeless?
One of the most powerful things about being a human is that we have choices to make in every aspect of our lives.
If you’re feeling hopeless about dating, I invite you to make a choice about how much negativity you watch or listen to online.
Everyone has an opinion on every topic imaginable and if you CHOOSE to fill your mind with all the negative aspects of dating, that’s exactly what you’re inviting into your world.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about choosing to ignore the dating disaster negativity and embracing how dating can be a fun, positive experience.
Let’s talk about…Why Does Love Feel So Hopeless?
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends
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Dec 9, 2025 • 0sec
Man Who Seeks Love Who Needs Brotherly Advice
Man Who Seeks Love Who Needs Brotherly Advice
In this episode I’m helping a listener, Jay, who wants to have a loving, long term relationship but feels his time is running out to find that special woman.
We talk about the ways he ‘puts himself out there,’ how he socializes, and what his experiences with online dating were like.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to stay positive about finding love when it feels like you’re trying everything and you still don’t have that special person.
Let’s talk about…Man Who Seeks Love Who Needs Brotherly Advice
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends
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Dec 6, 2025 • 0sec
Can I Get A Man To Open Up Emotionally?
Can I Get A Man To Open Up Emotionally?
Why can’t we keep the honeymoon phase of a new relationship going longer?
Why do we seem to fall into a trap of having this phase and these feelings for only a short time before “real life” sets in?
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about what defines emotional and spiritual relationships and why very few people are good at examining their emotions.
Let’s talk about…Can I Get A Man To Open Up Emotionally?
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends
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Nov 29, 2025 • 0sec
Jonathon’s 3 Golden Keys for Relationship Success
Jonathon’s 3 Golden Keys for Relationship Success
In today’s world, women are able to take care of themselves financially. Gone are the days of the 1950s when women couldn’t buy their own home or get a credit card in their own name.
With this empowerment, it’s no surprise that women are also more vocal about what they want in a relationship. Casual sex is great if that’s what both adults want.
But long term relationships take more time to cultivate and these keys will help you build a strong foundation.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about why it’s important to know what type of relationship you want and why there’s no harm in planning a future together.
Let’s talk about…Jonathon’s 3 Golden Keys for Relationship Success
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends
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Nov 25, 2025 • 0sec
Can A Psychic Predict Your Love Life?
Can A Psychic Predict Your Love Life?
Psychics are not all created equally. Some do care about their clients and will use their intuition for good and others will give random answers just to make a buck.
However, it’s less about the accuracy of the psychic and more about the willingness to be honest about what you truly want in your life.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how intuitives/psychics work and how they can lay out the possibilities for us that were hidden from view.
Let’s talk about…Can A Psychic Predict Your Love Life?
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends
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