Joyful Courage for Parenting Teens

This solo show takes a closer look at how parenting with Positive Discipline does NOT equal avoiding the hard stuff, instead it is about leaning into relationship WHEN the hard stuff shows up. Being brave is something we are invited into over and over again as we parent through the seasons of adolescence. Listen in as I explore what that looks like internally, as well as externally.   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

My guest today is Dr. Stephanie Kriesberg.  Stephanie starts by explaining what a narcissist is, what they’re driven by, & what that may look like. Stephanie shares what it’s like to be in relationship with a narcissist, how you might feel growing up with a narcissistic parent, and how that ripples out into other relationships. Casey asks for indicators that someone may be a narcissistic parent and what that relationship looks like as an adult. They talk about setting limits & boundaries that work versus cutting a parent out. Stephanie shares her wisdom on radical acceptance & letting go. Casey & Stephanie dig into how people can start dismantling their negative thinking.  Takeaways from the show What is narcissism?  What’s the experience of someone who’s in relationship with a narcissist?  Indicators that someone might be a narcissist  Role-reversal & daughters comforting mothers  Relationships with narcissistic mothers as an adult  Setting limits & boundaries that work  Radical acceptance  Dismantling negative thinking For more show notes, including full transcripts, visit our website. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

A solo show all about how to shift into the "roommate mentality" when inviting our teens to contribute and help out around the house. I know, I know, it can feel really tough to get them up and moving... But I am confident there are some nuggets here in this pod that will help you turn things around.Enjoy! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

My guest today is Olatunde Sobomehin.   Olatunde Sobomehin shares about his life-changing sabbatical and how that led to him co-authoring the book, “Creative Hustle: Blaze Your Own Path and Make Work That Matters.” Olatunde shares how to name and know your and your teen’s gifts & goals and how principles, people, & practice can help you move from gifts to goals. He shares specific questions to reflect on to discover your gifts and what he sees getting in the way for young people. They dig into how to help young adults choose work that matters while still needing to make money. Casey shares some of her story about finding and choosing work that matters to her. Sobomehin wraps up by sharing more about his book, who is profiled inside, and practical tips for encouraging your teen to stretch & find their own ‘creative hustle.’ Takeaways from the show Knowing and naming your and your teen’s gifts & goals  Principles, people, and practice  Questions to ask to discover your gifts  What gets in the way for young people?  Choosing work that matters and balancing that with finances  Encouraging teens to stretch into their “creative hustle”  For more episode info, visit our website here.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today is a solo show that highlights shifting our thinking about how we are showing up for Gen Z and why this is crucial as we move through the adolescent years with our kids. I share three essential tools for making this shift in a way that strengthens relationship and provides space for our kids to discover who they're meant to be. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

My guest today is Dr. Ann-Louise Lockhart.Dr. Ann-Louise Lockhart & Casey dig into ADHD in the adolescent years. Parents of teens with ADHD may see dysregulation looking like compulsiveness, messiness, impulsivity, & a lack of motivation. Parents may think that their kids are lazy or lacking willpower, when in reality, their executive functioning skills are truly off balance. Dr. Lockhart & Casey talk about discussing long-term goals with teens, moving backwards from there, baby steps, as well as figuring out what feels hard so we can best support them. They discuss how to support adolescents with ADHD and how that may differ from what neurotypical teen brains need. Dr. Lockhart explains what rejection sensitive dysphoria is & how to talk to teens about their ADHD. Casey asks how to get buy-in from a teen to work with an ADHD coach or other outside support or services. They finish by talking about what teens with ADHD need most. Takeaways from the show Keeping your focus on teaching life skills, not compliance  What does ADHD look like in an adolescent?   Misconceptions about teens with ADHD  Asking “what’s hard about it?”  Scaffolding & strategies like body doubling and creating a false sense of urgency  Do teens with ADHD need different things to support brain development than a neurotypical adolescent?  Rejection sensitive dysphoria Talking to teens about their ADHD  Getting your teen to utilize an ADHD coach or other outside support What do teens with ADHD need most?   For more episode details including transcripts, visit our website here.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today I am on solo to talk about moving into a new year and how community supports us in growing through what we are going through. I am here to speak directly to you, the listener, and hopeful that you feel seen and heard in what I share. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

My guest today is Casey Davidson. Casey Davidson shares her path to sobriety and becoming a sober coach. Davidson explains what Dry January is - one of five adults in the US did Dry January last year! Davidson shares which demographics are drinking more & less and how the pandemic ramped up consumption. Casey Davidson shares the effects of alcohol on the body, even for light and moderate drinkers, and some benefits that come with not drinking. They discuss what obstacles can pop up for people who are not drinking. Casey Davidson shares about the “sober curious” movement - experimenting with not drinking without the pressure of giving up alcohol completely. They dig into the highs and lows of the first 30 days of sobriety and the best “quit lit.”   Takeaways from the show Experimenting with sobriety  Dry January  Normalization of drinking in our culture  Impacts of using alcohol to “take the edge off”  Benefits of not drinking  Obstacles of not drinking  The “sober curious” movement  The first 30 days of sobriety Finding the approach that resonates with you  The best “Quit Lit” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Join Casey for the final show of 2022! Casey’s solo this episode, recapping and reflecting on the year and welcoming 2023. She revisits her 2022 vision board and some of her favorite episodes & guests from the year. Casey ends the show by leading an end-of-year manifestation ritual. Takeaways from the show: Themes & challenges during the holiday season  Releasing 2022 & welcoming 2023  Favorite Joyful Courage episodes this year  Make a list of the things you did this year  Letting go of & releasing the things you’re done with For complete transcripts and complete show info, visit our website here.   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

My guest today is Ivy Kwong.  Ivy shares about her journey to become a psychotherapist and how she’s healing her relationship and connecting with her parents. Ivy talks about increasing your capacity for discomfort and staying regulated during conversations. Casey and Ivy dig into genetic & experiential intergenerational trauma and how to start healing by expanding your awareness and reparenting yourself. They talk about knowing your inner-selves at different ages and what brings them out. Casey asks what clues we can look for that we have trauma to heal and if we need apologies from parents to move forward. Ivy explains setting boundaries with our parents. Casey and Ivy wrap up by talking about finding compassion for ourselves on our journey. Key takeaways from the podcast: Creating safe spaces for conversations  Increasing your capacity for discomfort  Healing intergenerational trauma  Reparenting ourselves  Knowing your inner-selves at different ages  Clues that you have trauma to heal  The desire to change our parents  Setting boundaries with our parents  Finding compassion for ourselves For more details including complete transcripts visit our website here.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices