Soul Talks With Bill & Kristi Gaultiere

“How are you?” Whatever our work, or even if we’re retired, often we answer, “Busy!” But CS Lewis taught, “Only lazy people are busy!” How can this be? The most effective and fruitful leadership is born out of rest, prayer, and discernment — it’s not just working hard, it’s working SMART!

God is always present loving us and inviting us to join the wonderful things he’s doing. C.S. Lewis calls this “Narnia.” But if we’re “checked out” emotionally we miss out. To help you experience the in-breaking of Christ and his Kingdom of the Heavens Bill tells the story of an alcoholic pastor he helped into recovery.

You’ll enjoy Bill and Kristi’s spiritual friendship as they share their experience of visiting C. S. Lewis’ home, “The Kilns” in Oxford, England. They share fascinating stories from this great Christian thinker. You’ll be inspired to have your own soul talk with a friend and to shine the light of Christ in your world.

The most important thing about our life, relationships, work, and ministry is having our heart warm with God’s love. Without this we become tired, discouraged, and see little fruit. Drawing on inspiration from John Wesley is a great way to get a heart-warming soul talk started!

What do you do when you feel discouraged, inadequate, guilty, or ashamed? We may deny our emotions or escape into compulsive behavior. St Francis shows us that following the footprints of Christ is the path of great joy. Like Francis, we do this through prayer and soul friendship.

Bill shares about his relationship with his dad: blessings he appreciates, wounds he’s forgiven, and his journey of emotional healing. He and Kristi also talk about Saint Francis’ father wound and how he overcame this to become a wounded healer in the service of Christ.

When we read about a great saint’s experiences with God it’s tempting to compare ourselves negatively. Feeling bad about yourself or overwhelmed, you may avoid a book that could really bless you. Here’s the help you need to stay out of shame and glean all the good that can come from a classic of Christian devotion.

There is so much profit in meditating on a Bible passage! But it’s a challenge for us to slow down and really open our hearts to God. Ignatius’ ancient approach of visualizing ourselves in a Gospel story helps us to actually experience and feel God’s grace — and then to live it out in our work and ministry.

Bill and Kristi had an emotionally upsetting conversation. Each was tempted to “cut off” and avoid working through the mess, but they stayed with it. God helped them put into practice the Bible’s teaching to “be patient, bearing with one another in love.” It’s raw. It’s real. It’s grace. It works. This is the last of 6 in the series “Repairing Torn Hearts & Relationships”

When we hurt the people we love it’s important to seek repair. Saying, “I’m sorry” is just a start. In real time Bill and Kristi process a conflict and demonstrate the power of empathy for emotional healing, reconciliation, and learning to amend problem behavior. This is the 5 of 6 in the series “Repairing Torn Hearts & Relationships”