

Soul Talks With Bill & Kristi Gaultiere
Soul Shepherding
It's easy to be so busy that your soul gets neglected. As Doctors of Psychology we help you thrive with Jesus in life, love, and leadership. Soul Talks is sponsored by Soul Shepherding, a nonprofit ministry to pastors, leaders, and all kinds of people who serve the Lord.
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Jun 14, 2022 • 32min
Living With a Perfectionist

Jun 7, 2022 • 33min
Suffering, Empathy, and Returning Joy
Some of us are enduring chronic pain or suffering that can be exhausting. We may struggle to accept our own grief, loss, and lament around difficult circumstances that drain us of life and joy. But even in the midst of these trials, sharing our true emotions with soul friends can be the means to receive God’s comforting presence.Join us for this episode of Soul Talks, as Bill and Kristi talk about long-term trials, chronic pain, and ways we can return to joy. As a wounded healers, you need to care for your soul by sharing your emotions with others who listen with compassion and love. You are then freed to be Jesus’ ambassador, offering empathy and grace to those around you. Resources for this episode:Paraclete Mission GroupSoul Shepherding InstituteJourney of the SoulSoul Shepherding CoachingYou can read the transcript here.

May 31, 2022 • 27min
Post Traumatic Growth
Post-traumatic stress is a frequent topic of discussion in our culture today. Sometimes we may experience trials and are unable to see hope for our future. But there is another, less well-known side of trauma that is accessible to us as we lean in with our Risen Lord — post-traumatic growth.Tune into this episode of Soul Talks as Kristi interviews Georgia Shaffer — author, speaker, coach, psychologist, and four-time cancer survivor. Georgia is a wounded healer sharing the beauty of post-traumatic growth that can flourish in the midst of pain and suffering. In and after trials, soul care practices in your discipleship to Jesus can bring you post-traumatic growth too—empowering you to face your fears, embrace your limitations, and experience deeper intimacy with Jesus.Resources for this episode: Soul Shepherding InstituteFree PDF Resource: The Difference Between Grieving and Self-PityGeorgiaShaffer.comA Gift of Mourning Glories: Restoring Your Life After LossJourney of the SoulYou can read the transcript here.

May 24, 2022 • 43min
Recovery From Spiritual Abuse
Some of us may have been impacted by spiritual abuse or church hurt. Many of us have hit a wall spiritually and experienced prolonged desert seasons. This doesn’t have to be the ending of our story—there is hope for healing, restoration, and freedom as we discover the hidden treasure of the Kingdom of the Heavens!Join us for this episode of Soul Talks where Bill and Kristi interview pastor Brian Steele unpacking his experiences in an abusive cult, and his journey with Jesus that ultimately led to true freedom, sabbath rest, and overflowing delight. Your heart will be encouraged to learn how you too can experience these gracious gifts from the Lord, regardless of the past seasons you’ve walked through. Resources for this Episode:Free PDF Resource from Brian Steele: Five Tools to Establish a “Kingdom-First Culture”Soul Shepherding InstituteSpiritual Direction CertificateJourney of the SoulWellspring Retreat Center for Cult VictimsYou can read the transcript here.

May 17, 2022 • 31min
Care for Depression
As we go through various trials in life, we may experience different types of depression. This can cause us to turn our anger inward, judging and shaming ourselves into loneliness and isolation. But friends, our Risen Savior goes ahead of us always, and we are not alone. One of the hardest but most crucial things the Lord wants for us in our depression is to take action!Tune into this episode of Soul Talks, where Bill and Kristi share vulnerably about their experiences with depression. Be encouraged and filled with hope as you learn powerful, Biblical tools and practices to help you lean into an emotionally honest faith, receive empathy and support, and care for others around you who may be struggling. Resources for this Episode: Your Best Life in Jesus’ Easy YokeJourney of the SoulUnforsakenSoul Shepherding NetworkSoul Shepherding InstituteFocus on the FamilyAmerican Association of Christian Counselors

May 10, 2022 • 29min
Help for Addiction and Compulsive Behavior
Many of us have either personally experienced mental health issues like addiction, or we know and love people who have. These struggles are a normal part of our humanity, and there is no shame in these experiences. We have access to God’s healing power in the Kingdom of the Heavens right now!Join us for this episode of Soul Talks, where Bill and Kristi unpack valuable tools and techniques for addressing and overcoming addictive behavior. Be encouraged with practical strategies that you can learn and integrate with your discipleship to Jesus. Resources for this Episode:The V.I.M. Plan StrategyThe Soul Shepherding NetworkThe Soul Shepherding InstituteSoul Shepherding CoachesSoul Shepherding Spiritual DirectorsYou can read the transcript here.

May 3, 2022 • 34min
Caring for Anxiety and Mental Health
Many people are held back in their lives by anxiety. Problems with anxiety are the most common mental-emotional disorder for American adults today. But here’s the good news: there is hope for people who are struggling with anxiety! Jesus heals anxious hearts.Tune into this episode of Soul Talks, where Bill shares vulnerably about his experiences with anxiety. You’ll be equipped and inspired with tangible spiritual formation tools to help care for your own anxiety and mental health, and that of those around you as a wounded healer.Resources for this Episode: Soul Shepherding CoachesSoul Shepherding Spiritual DirectorsSoul Shepherding NetworkSoul Shepherding InstituteYou can read the transcript here.

Apr 26, 2022 • 23min
How to Be a Spirit-Led Speaker
When we are leading conversations, preaching, or speaking to others, it can be tempting to rely solely on our own strength — on our own preparation, experiences, and knowledge. But the Lord has given us his Spirit that dwells in us and intercedes on our behalf in the Kingdom of the Heavens! As such, the greatest blessings and biggest impacts of our words come when we are guided by the Holy Spirit.Join us for this episode of Soul Talks, where Bill and Kristi share their speaking experiences and continue teaching about how you can live a Spirit-led life. You’ll be equipped with practices and habits that engage your heart and turn your focus to Jesus, allowing your speaking to be reliant on the Spirit, and abounding in God’s will. Resources for this episode: Soul Shepherding InstituteJourney of the SoulSoul Shepherding EventsYou can read the transcript here.

Apr 19, 2022 • 24min
The Blessing of Spirit-Led Ministry
When we're serving God with our gifts, it can be easier than we think to become overly dependent on our own abilities and energy without realizing it. In his graciousness, the Lord then often uses periods of trials or waiting to draw us into deeper intimacy with him and to cultivate a longing for his Spirit. And when we allow our work to be Spirit-led, we can be refreshed in Christ — relying on the presence and power of Jesus, and not on our own!Tune into this episode of Soul Talks where Bill and Kristi unpack how you can lean into Spirit-led ministry. You’ll be encouraged and inspired to learn how you can experience a fresh awakening to God’s goodness and grace, leading you not only to doing your work for God, but with God.Resources for this Episode: Journey of the SoulSoul Shepherding InstituteSoul Shepherding Spiritual DirectorsSoul Shepherding Spiritual Direction Certificate ProgramSoul Shepherding CoachesYou can read the transcript here.

Apr 12, 2022 • 23min
Returning to Joy
As Christ followers, how can we find true joy that mingles with the sorrow, stress, and other negative emotions that we experience in our lives? We know that the Risen Lord was a man of great joy! And just like Jesus, we can learn how to care for all of our emotions and ultimately return to joy. Tune into this episode of Soul Talks, where Bill and Kristi unpack how you can absorb the joy of Jesus (hint: it’s not by trying harder or denying your emotions!). Be encouraged with tangible practices and disciplines for genuinely processing your struggles and training to experience the fruit of the spirit of joy!Resources for this episode: Soul Shepherding Spiritual DirectorsSoul Shepherding Spiritual Direction Training ProgramYou can read the transcript here.