

Soul Talks With Bill & Kristi Gaultiere
Soul Shepherding
It's easy to be so busy that your soul gets neglected. As Doctors of Psychology we help you thrive with Jesus in life, love, and leadership. Soul Talks is sponsored by Soul Shepherding, a nonprofit ministry to pastors, leaders, and all kinds of people who serve the Lord.
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Nov 1, 2022 • 30min
Earth Filled with Heaven (A Conversation with Aaron Damiani)
We may wonder how we find God when our emotions, thoughts, and service are running dry. A season of hitting the Wall might feel like failure, but can actually be God’s means of grace in our lives. We find rest in Jesus’ easy yoke — through practices and sacraments that invite us into renewal with Jesus and his people.Join us for this episode of Soul Talks where Kristi talks with Aaron Damiani, lead pastor of Immanuel Anglican Church in downtown Chicago, and author of Earth Filled With Heaven: Finding Life in Liturgy, Sacraments, and Other Ancient Practices of the Church. Hearing their discussion of his story and the 3 questions of spiritual formation will help you catch a vision for these ancient church practices that are essential supplies for Jesus’ life-and-death Kingdom rescue mission.Resources for this Episode:Immanuel Anglican ChurchEarth Filled With Heaven: Finding Life in Liturgy, Sacraments, and Other Ancient Practices of the ChurchIgnatian Meditation GuidesBreath Prayer GuidesLectio Divina GuidesSabbatical GuideSoul Shepherding InstituteSoul Shepherding NetworkSr. Spiritual DirectorsSr. Coaches

Oct 25, 2022 • 10min
A Prayer to Put Stress in the Father's Hands
When we combine God’s word, simple breathing, and a specific need, we discover an effective, engaging, and powerful way to pray— forming a habit that will fill small moments throughout our day with meaningful spots of prayer.Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi share how practicing breath prayers can help you release stress into the Father’s hands. You will learn techniques you can practice regularly to nourish and strengthen your union with Jesus, and use for intercessory prayer.Resources for this Episode:Breath Prayer GuidesSoul Shepherding NetworkYour Best Life in Jesus’ Easy Yoke

Oct 18, 2022 • 21min
Leadership as Suffering—Yet, There is Joy in Jesus
In leadership we experience different kinds of suffering, including loneliness, opposition, and spiritual attacks. Shepherding others involves following Christ into his way of blessing and also his suffering. Yet our Risen Savior walks with us through our trials, comforting us with his empathy, presence, and purpose.Tune in to this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi unpack some of the challenges of leadership. You will be encouraged to find enduring joy even in painful times of leadership because you are not alone—you serve with Jesus and the God of all grace, and can find support from fellow soul shepherds who understand your suffering.Resources for this Episode:Soul Shepherding InstituteSoul Shepherding NetworkSr. Spiritual DirectorsSr. Coaching

Oct 11, 2022 • 30min
Breaking the Cycle of Abuse
Many of us have experienced emotional, physical, or sexual abuse ourselves, or care for people who have these wounds. The cycle of abuse can be emotionally and relationally trapping, but the good news is that it can be reversed.Join us for this episode of Soul Talks where Bill and Kristi unpack the dynamics of the cycle of abuse. You’ll learn the necessary steps to break this cycle, increase your own awareness of the needs of those around you, put words to experiences of abuse, and help bring healing and freedom to those who are hurting.Resources for this Episode:Soul Shepherding InstituteSoul Shepherding NetworkSr. Spiritual DirectorsSoul Shepherding Coaching

Oct 4, 2022 • 16min
Encouragement for Pastors
We are blessed by our pastors who faithfully serve—loving us well, visiting hospitals and homes, counseling, teaching, and preaching. It’s a challenging time to represent Christ formally as a pastor. Often pastors carry the weight of expectations and responsibilities that many of us don’t see or understand.Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi share encouragement for those in pastoral leadership. You’ll receive insight to understand the challenges pastors face and learn practical suggestions to support and uplift your own pastors.Resources for this Episode:Soul Shepherding InstituteSr. Spiritual DirectorsSoul Shepherding CoachingSabbatical Guide

Sep 27, 2022 • 27min
Healing Hidden Hurts with Evan & Jenny Owens
Trauma can come in many forms, and all of us have experienced soul wounds. Masking our trauma under addictions—to include busyness— denies and delays the healing the Lord can bring us. We can find courage to face our trauma through connectedness with one another, and connectedness with the redemptive heart of God!Tune into this episode of Soul Talks, where Kristi talks with Evan & Jenny Owens, founders of Reboot Recovery, and authors of Healing What’s Hidden. You will find practical and accessible tips for overcoming trauma in your own life and turning your pain into purpose.Resources for this Episode:Reboot RecoveryHealing What’s HiddenJourney of the SoulSoul Shepherding Network

Sep 20, 2022 • 29min
Best of Soul Talks: The Energy You Need
What is your source of motivation? Our culture tells us to focus on self-motivation, but Jesus tells us the ultimate power and purpose for our lives comes from our connection with God.Join us for Best Soul Talks as Soul Shepherding’s Director of Operations and Programs, Jessica Stong, shares one of her favorite episodes—229 EQ: The Energy You Need. Bill and Kristi show how you can increase your emotional intelligence—focusing on the importance of activation and motivation— through greater intimacy and responsiveness to Jesus.Resources for this Episode:Soul Shepherding InstituteEmotional Intelligence: 5 Steps with Jesus to Better Living & Leading

Sep 13, 2022 • 32min
Best Soul Talks: How to Love and Lead WITH Jesus
So much of our lives focus on what we do for God. Yet burnout in ministry is common when we depend on our own strengths, natural gifts, and abilities instead of depending on Jesus. While this often leaves us feeling distant from God, there is hope!Join us for Best Soul Talks as Soul Shepherding’s Director of Operations and Programs, Jessica Stong, shares one of her favorite episodes— 207: How to Love and Lead WITH Jesus. Bill and Kristi offer deep personal and biblical insight and practical tools to help you step into life with Jesus, where his love and delight restore your soul.Resources for this Episode:Soul Shepherding InstituteSr. Spiritual DirectorsSoul Shepherding CoachingSabbatical Guide

Sep 6, 2022 • 31min
Best Soul Talks: The Unbusy Person
Workaholism and people-pleasing are well-worn paths that inevitably lead to burnout. Jesus offers a different way! Being overly busy can steal your peace and joy, and it affects those around you. But following Jesus’ way of working brings renewed peace and strength when we set aside time for what is most important instead of just what is most urgent.Join us for Best Soul Talks this week as Sr. Spiritual Director and Coach Jessica Stong shares one of her favorite episodes— 299: The Unbusy Person.Bill & Kristi extend an invitation to live “unbusy” and “learn the unforced rhythms of grace” (Mt. 11:28-30 MSG) Jesus demonstrated in his life and ministry.Resources for this Episode:Sabbatical GuideSr. Spiritual DirectorsAbandonment To Divine Providence by Jean-Pierre De CaussadeYour Best Life In Jesus’ Easy Yoke by Bill GaultiereMere Christianity by C.S. Lewis

Aug 30, 2022 • 28min
Best Soul Talks: Failure is not Fatal
Feelings of failure in ministry and life are far more common than we may realize. Whether we are “feeling” as though we failed, or we have in fact failed at something, in Christ, failure is not fatal! Join us for Best Soul Talks this week as Dave Rimoldi shares one of his favorite episodes— Failure is Not Fatal. Dave supervises the Soul Shepherding Spiritual Direction Training program and is a Sr. Spiritual Director and longtime pastor.In this vulnerable, honest conversation, Bill and Kristi look at what it means to receive empathy from Jesus in our failures and how beautiful the redemption is when we trust him.Resources for this Episode:Sr. Spiritual Director Dave RimoldiSr. Spiritual DirectorsSoul Shepherding CoachingSoul Shepherding Leadership Coaching