

Helping Couples Heal Podcast
Marnie Breecker
Welcome to the Helping Couples Heal podcast. If you have lost hope around healing your relationship due to infidelity, relational or betrayal trauma you have come to the right place. Helping Couples Heal is an ongoing podcast designed to help couples recover and heal from the impact of betrayal trauma on their relationships. We cumulatively bring over two decades of experience and expertise in the field of betrayal. Throughout this podcast series, we will offer resources and support and teach you the tools and skills necessary to heal your relationship. You will also hear from recovered addicts, partners, and couples who will share their stories, as well as from experts in the field of betrayal. With compassion, love and fierce commitment, we will guide you and walk beside you as you navigate this journey of recovery, hope, and healing. Thank you for inviting us into your world; we are honored to support you.
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May 25, 2020 • 31min
19: Emotional Attunement & Empathy
In this episode, Marnie and Duane discuss why emotional attunement is a necessary component for relational healing and why the" right words" without a felt sense of compassion for what your partner is experiencing and feeling just isn't enough. They also explore the role of empathy in emotional attunement and why compassionate empathy is crucial to healing partner and relational trauma. You can find out more about Duane and Marnie at http://www.helpingcouplesheal.com/ Learn More About Our Helping Couples Online Workshop at http://www.helpingcouplesheal.com/workshop/

Apr 28, 2020 • 1h 8min
18: Understanding Betrayal with Dr. Omar Minwalla Part Three
In the final episode of a 3-part interview with Dr. Omar Minwalla, Marnie and Duane continue the conversation about integrity abuse disorders and gender pathology in the context of betrayal trauma. You can find out more about Duane and Marnie at http://www.helpingcouplesheal.com/ Learn More About Our Helping Couples Online Workshop at http://www.helpingcouplesheal.com/workshop/

Mar 30, 2020 • 19min
17: Coping With The Pandemic
In this special edition of the Helping Couples Heal podcast, Marnie and Duane speak to those impacted by betrayal about the added stress and trauma caused by the current global crisis and the importance of social connection during a time of physical distancing and isolation. You can find out more about Duane and Marnie at http://www.helpingcouplesheal.com/ Learn More About Our Helping Couples Heal 2-Day Workshop at http://www.helpingcouplesheal.com/workshop/

Mar 23, 2020 • 41min
16: Understanding Betrayal with Dr. Omar Minwalla Part Two
In the second of a series of three interviews, Marnie and Duane continue their conversation with Dr. Minwalla about integrity abuse disorders; the clinically significant deficits in integrity and patterns of psychological, emotional and relational abuse which cause complex trauma symptoms in betrayed partners.

Feb 10, 2020 • 37min
15: Understanding Betrayal with Dr. Omar Minwalla Part One
In the first of a series of three interviews with Dr. Omar Minwalla, Marnie and Duane explore the impact of emotional and psychological abuse in the context of betrayal trauma and explain how this kind of abuse is part of a larger problem that Dr. Minwalla calls an integrity abuse disorder. You can find out more about Duane and Marnie at http://www.helpingcouplesheal.com/ Learn More About Our Helping Couples Heal 2-Day Workshop at http://www.helpingcouplesheal.com/workshop/

Jan 8, 2020 • 1h 7min
14: Marsha & Michael's Recovery Story
A couple shares their journey of surviving and healing from relational and betrayal trauma caused by sex addiction. Topics include uncovering deception, personal transformation, navigating support and growth, challenges of sex addiction recovery, trauma workshops impact, emotional journey post-betrayal, and personal growth in relationships.

Dec 20, 2019 • 23min
13: Trust After Betrayal
Explore the complexities of rebuilding trust after betrayal in relationships, emphasizing empathetic communication, trauma management, and successful trust-building strategies. Learn about the challenges of navigating betrayal trauma, the impact of past traumas on trust, and the dedication required for healing and reestablishing trust post-betrayal.

Nov 20, 2019 • 48min
12: Understanding Disclosure with Dan Drake
Explore the importance of disclosure in relationships, likened to necessary surgery for healing. Learn about the transformative impact of honesty and vulnerability. Gain insights on preparing for disclosure and maintaining trust through tailored professional support.

Oct 22, 2019 • 45min
11: Evolution of Partner Trauma Treatment with Stefanie Carnes
Explore the evolution of partner trauma treatment with Stefanie Carnes, highlighting the shift from codependency to betrayal trauma focus. Discover the resistance to change in understanding disorders and the importance of honesty in relationship recovery from addiction. Encourage hope and empowerment in partner trauma recovery with insights on sharing difficult truths for healing and growth.

Oct 8, 2019 • 19min
10: A Partner Sensitive Recovery Plan
Exploring the evolution of addiction recovery plans, introducing the concept of a fourth circle to include partners in the recovery process. Emphasizing the importance of integrating change and considering ripple effects on others for personal growth and relational healing.