Healthy + Thriving Relationships

SERIES: Men + WomenHow to Come Together as Male and FemaleThe first step in loving each other well as men + women is accepting that we are different, but equally valued by God (Pt. 1 in this series). The next step is to understand what those core differences are.  Men, we're coming at you first!  We'll tackle topics like what's a man's core fear? What do they intrinsically long for? What is the root question of the masculine heart?Join the conversation! The answers will surprise you and they may not be what you’d expect...See MORE resources @ TarahandGordon.com

SERIES: Men + WomenHow to Come Together as Male and FemaleGod desired for us to love each other well but…it feels like Men and Women are at war with each other. So, how do we love each other better as men and women? This series has 2 Arcs. The 1st Arc is about the core principles of who we are as Men + Women. While the  2nd Arc is about practical things like how we see the world and what love means from those different lenses. See MORE resources @ TarahandGordon.com

How to Enjoy Every Season of LifeOur Secret to Finding Contentment in Every Stage of LifeWhen I (Tarah) started this online business, I didn’t know that it would take me 3+ years to even get it barely off the ground. It's changed a lot since those days. Now it's the 2 of us and we are still in the early stages of our business. You could say we are a “micro startup.” And the waiting isn’t fun. Gordon and I are what most people would call “starving artists.” While we are not actually starving, we are living at a bare minimum. But it’s a good season. It’s a growing season. It’s a learning season. It’s a season where we can understand how to manage what we do have in a healthy way so that hopefully one day we can learn to manage more.There are days, though, when this season of life seems to drag on and I wonder when it will change. When will our season of barely scraping by, pass? Did I mention patience is really challenging for me?It’s hard to feel content and happy when the world (and sometimes those closest to us) tells us where we need to be in life. We need to have this career, that husband, this many babies…we need to look like that, have a house that’s “Fixer Upper” perfect, make this much money, and on and on and on.So how do we find contentment in a world of comparison?  Join the convo by clicking play :)See MORE resources @ TarahandGordon.comSee MORE resources @ TarahandGordon.com

SERIES: Healthy + Thriving DatingAncient Wisdom in a Modern Context.Isn't if funny how dating can sometimes go down the drain after marriage?  We get it.  Life gets busy, especially when you add kids to the mix.  But to set yourself up for long term happiness and connection, we have to spend time together.  Maybe we have dating all backwards?  Could it be that it's more important to focus on dating once you're married? See MORE resources @ TarahandGordon.comSee MORE resources @ TarahandGordon.com

SERIES: Healthy + Thriving DatingAncient Wisdom in a Modern Context.Healthy and thriving dating is all about setting yourselves up for great success in marriage.  Because for most of us, marriage is the ultimate goal.  But when is comes to sex and dating, we couldn't be farther away from marital success.  Cultures way of preparing us is setting us up for hurt, disappointment, and lack of sexual connection in marriage.  God wants you to experience something greater!  What does that look like?  Hit play to join the conversation :)See MORE resources @ TarahandGordon.comSee MORE resources @ TarahandGordon.com

SERIES: Healthy + Thriving DatingAncient Wisdom in a Modern Context.It's time!  Your relationship has officially entered the "serious stage."  Gordon and I are big believers in preparing for marriage sooner rather than later.   Marriage is the most underprepared for major life event, can you believe that!?  Once you think you have found someone worth spending the rest of your life with, start preparing your heart, your mind, your attitude and habits for marriage.  There's tons to talk about and prepare for!  We lay out the exact steps we took to prepare for marriage in this episode. Thus, modern courtship!  I don't want to give too much away here because well...I always do that!  Just click play and let's go!See MORE resources @ TarahandGordon.comSee MORE resources @ TarahandGordon.com

SERIES: Healthy + Thriving DatingAncient Wisdom in a Modern Context.OH breakups.  They're the worst aren't they?!  I've seen too many people I love extend their relationship to "try and make it work" with someone they just aren't compatible with.  They spend so much time and energy in making something work when in the end, it will only lead to further heartbreak and frustration.  Wouldn't it be so much easier if we had an idea of when it was a good time to end a relationship?Also, quick NOTE: we want to make it clear here that we are taking about dating.  We aren't talking to those of you who have committed to marriage.  Because in marriage you already chose, so you find a way make it work (you'd be surprised at how possible this is if you already have the commitment).So, single people,  in order to make your future marriage a little easier long term, we think it is in your best interest to find someone you're truly compatible with.  Because this one thing will help bring you clarity to know when it's time to cut ties.See MORE resources @ TarahandGordon.comSee MORE resources @ TarahandGordon.com

SERIES: Healthy + Thriving DatingAncient Wisdom in a Modern Context.This episode is one of our favorites because it's vastly different from what most of us believe - especially when it comes to our families.  You know us, we loooove to go about things in an "off the beaten path" sort of way, because well, isn't that how Jesus did it?  We believe that when it comes to dating, culture is leading you astray.  Which is why we decided to do this series in the first place! We want to see you thriving in your dating life, but to get there, you have to go against the grain a little bit. Especially when it comes to today's topic!Today,  we'll cover when is the best time to allow your 2 worlds (the people that mean the most to you w/ this person who has piqued your interest) to collide.  See MORE resources @ TarahandGordon.comSee MORE resources @ TarahandGordon.com

SERIES: Healthy + Thriving DatingAncient Wisdom in a Modern Context.We think it’s important to note that while this statement (dating doesn’t work today) is certainly true, there are exceptions to the rule. So yes, common dating tactics do work for some people, but the majority would maybe say otherwise.We have countless single friends who are fed up with online dating. Rather than feeling hopeful about who they’ll find interested the next moment they log in, they’re more anxious, self-conscious, and defeated. And while dating, in general, is about taking leaps of faith to put yourself out there, we don’t think there has ever been a time in history when singles have felt more pressure and anxiety about dating than today. Why is that? Why does it seem that single people are under more pressure and anxious than before? Click play, and join the discussion :)See MORE resources @ TarahandGordon.comSee MORE resources @ TarahandGordon.com

Discover the surprising joys of being single and why it shouldn't be viewed negatively. The hosts share personal stories that highlight how this phase can lead to meaningful self-discovery and personal growth. Embrace the freedom that comes without romantic distractions, allowing for deeper connections and exciting adventures. Tune in for biblical insights and encouragement, reminding you that this season could be a powerful journey of exploring your individuality and fulfilling your unique calling.