

Autism Parenting Secrets
Len Arcuri, Cass Arcuri
Are you a parent of a child with Autism? Are you ready to rise above the diagnosis? Each week on Autism Parenting Secrets, we are going to share how you can rise up and become the parent you need to be. Get personalized support at: elevatehowyounavigate.com
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Jan 15, 2026 • 38min
Self-Care Is PRIMARY Care
Dr. Lawrence Rosen, an integrative pediatrician and founder of the Whole Child Center, discusses the critical importance of self-care for parents, especially those with special needs children. He explores how guilt and isolation can hinder self-care, offering insights from his own experiences with burnout. The conversation delves into the necessity of community support and challenges cultural views on prioritizing personal health. Dr. Rosen also shares a simple five-minute self-care practice that parents can adopt to enhance their well-being.

Jan 8, 2026 • 45min
Toxic Load BLOCKS the Breakthrough
Welcome to Episode 289 of Autism Parenting Secrets.In this conversation, Len sits down with Dr. Anju Usman Singh, Medical Director of True Health Medical Center and a leading faculty member of the Medical Academy of Pediatric Special Needs (MAPS).Dr. Singh shares why autism, ADHD, and related challenges are best understood as neuroimmune inflammatory conditions — and how toxins, allergens, and persistent infections keep the immune system stuck in overdrive.She explains why low-level lead exposure is far more common than most parents realize, why there is no safe level of lead, and how even subtle toxic burden can impair attention, behavior, cognition, and emotional regulation.This episode brings clarity to how environmental toxins drive inflammation, how inflammation creates neurological “excitation,” and why addressing toxic load is often the missing step that unlocks progress.The secret this week is…Toxic Load BLOCKS the BreakthroughYou’ll Discover:How Chronic Immune Activation Creates Excitation in the Brain and Behavior (8:36)Why Low-Level Lead Exposure Is Far More Common Than Most Parents Realize (9:51)Why Standard Lab Testing Misses Hidden Metal Burdens (12:55)The Most Surprising Everyday Sources Of Lead and Other Toxins (17:27)What Signs Suggest Your Child May Be Carrying A Toxic Burden (25:36)About Our Guest:Dr. Anju Usman Singh is a globally respected physician with nearly three decades of experience caring for children with autism, PANS/PANDAS, developmental delays, allergies, and complex neuroimmune conditions. She is widely recognized for her deep clinical expertise in environmental toxicity, chronic infections, immune dysregulation, detoxification, and the biomedical factors that drive inflammation in the brain and body. As a leading faculty member of the Medical Academy of Pediatric Special Needs (MAPS), Dr. Usman Singh trains and mentors clinicians from around the world, helping advance more thoughtful, root-cause–oriented care for this generation of children. Her work bridges rigorous clinical experience with practical guidance for families navigating complex health challenges.Learn more:https://truehealthmedical.comReferences In This Episode:Medical Academy of Pediatric & Special Needs (MAPS)Boyd Haley Research On Synergistic Heavy Metal ToxicityLead Safe MamaXRF Rental CompanyAdditional Resources:To learn more about personalized 1:1 support go to www.elevatehowyounavigate.comTake The Quiz: What’s YOUR Top Autism Parenting Blindspot?If you enjoyed this episode, share it with your friends.

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Jan 1, 2026 • 11min
Start With the Right FOCUS
In this insightful discussion, the host emphasizes that true progress stems from focus rather than mere effort. Parents often exhaust themselves chasing symptoms; the key lies in observing their child's present needs. By understanding past stressors and identifying root causes, clarity emerges, guiding effective action. The host outlines four critical focus areas: present observation, historical context, root cause identification, and consistent action. Practical tips like prioritizing and seeking support help parents cut through the noise and drive meaningful change for their children.

Dec 25, 2025 • 12min
Choose PEACE
Welcome to Episode 287 of Autism Parenting Secrets.This episode was recorded during the holiday season — a time when beauty and connection often exist right alongside pressure, exhaustion, and emotional overload.In this solo reflection, Len invites parents to consider peace not as a feeling or a personality trait, but as a deliberate objective. He shares why peace is something parents generate internally — not something granted by circumstances or behavior — and why learning to return to calm after disruption is one of the most powerful leadership skills a parent can develop.This episode is not about doing more.It’s about choosing a steadier place to operate from.The secret this week is…Choose PEACE You’ll Discover:Why Peace Is A Choice — Not A Circumstance (1:30)How To Respond Without Overreacting Or Shutting Down (4:30)Why Wants Create Peace — And Expectations Destroy It (6:55)How Returning To Stillness Strengthens Your Leadership (8:45) References In This Episode:Man’s Search for Meaning — Viktor Frankl Additional Resources:To learn more about personalized 1:1 support go to www.elevatehowyounavigate.comTake The Quiz: What’s YOUR Top Autism Parenting Blindspot? If you enjoyed this episode, share it with your friends.

Dec 18, 2025 • 39min
A Regulated Nervous System Starts at HOME
Brian Hoyer, founder of Shielded Healing and an expert in EMF mitigation, reveals how your home environment affects nervous system regulation. He discusses the hidden dangers of electrical interference and the impact of cumulative EMF exposure on healing. Brian emphasizes the importance of a calming bedroom atmosphere for better sleep and shares simple changes to reduce stressors. From assessing harmful lighting to advocating for safer technology, his practical insights provide parents with tools to improve their child's well-being at home.

Dec 11, 2025 • 46min
Wireless Safety Starts at Home
Welcome to Episode 285 of Autism Parenting Secrets.Today, we’re taking a closer look at one of the most overlooked environmental stressors affecting our kids: wireless technology. From Wi-Fi to Bluetooth to cell phones, these exposures are everywhere — and for sensitive children, they can make a significant difference.My guest is Cece Doucette, a leading advocate, educator, and speaker on wireless safety. She helps schools, towns, and families understand the science and practical actions available right now. Her work empowers communities to reduce exposure and create safer environments where kids can thrive.The secret this week is…Wireless Safety Starts at HomeYou'll Discover:Why Wireless Exposure Overwhelms Sensitive Kids Quickly (1:23)What A Meter Instantly Shows About Your Child’s Environment (13:53)What To Ask Your Local Library To Do (14:40)Practical Tweaks To Dramatically Reduce Exposure in Your Home (18:00)Why Protecting Sleep From Wireless Signals Makes Such a Big Impact (24:55)Why Smart Meters, Cars, and Earbuds Can Be Major Hidden Sources (30:50)Why A Nightly Digital Detox Can Unlock New Breakthroughs (40:40)About Our Guest:Cece Doucette is the Director of Massachusetts for Safe Technology and an advisor to schools, municipalities, medical professionals, and industry leaders on wireless safety practices. She is also a frequent speaker and collaborator with Children’s Health Defense. Cece has helped introduce best-practice policies for safer technology use, supported legislation, and collaborated on educational initiatives including the award-winning film Generation Zapped.Learn more at:https://MA4SafeTech.orgReferences In This Episode:The Bioinitiative Report704NoMoreZapped: Why Your Cell Phone Shouldn't Be Your Alarm Clock and 1,268 Ways to Outsmart the Hazards of Electronic Pollution by Ann Louise GittlemanFilm: Generation ZappedAPS Episode 145: TECH Is The Great DYSREGULATOR with Peter SullivanAPS Episode 23: Autism Is NOT Hardwired with Dr. Martha HerbertSafe and Sound Pro II RF Meter — Safe Living TechnologiesAPS Episode 101: Make The Invisible VISIBLE with Rob MetzingerAPS Episode 56: Simple Tech Changes Make Summer Travel Safer with Mary Anne TierneySafe Tech NCThe EMF Medical Conference 2021Environmental Health TrustSafer Screentime CourseAdditional Resources:To learn more about personalized 1:1 support, go to www.elevatehowyounavigate.comTake The Quiz: What’s YOUR Top Autism Parenting Blindspot?If you enjoyed this episode, share it with your friends.

Dec 4, 2025 • 17min
You DON’T Have To Carry It All
Welcome to Episode 284 of Autism Parenting Secrets.If you’ve been listening for a while, you know I talk a lot about personalized support — not as a slogan, but because it truly changes outcomes for parents.I used to believe I had to figure everything out alone. I thought muscling through was strength.But that approach made everything heavier, slower, and far more painful than it needed to be.In this episode, I break down why going it alone holds parents back — and why expanding your vision and getting supported helps you move forward faster and with far less weight on your shoulders.The secret this week is…You DON’T Have To Carry It AllYou'll Discover:Why Lowering Your Expectations Quietly Slows Progress (1:05)The Hidden Trap Of “Lesser Goals” And How It Shows Up (2:10)How The Caddy Analogy Reveals What Parents Are Missing (3:45)The Hypocrisy Trap And Why Alignment Changes Everything (5:00)What Happened In The Twins Study And Why It Matters For Your Family (9:45)References In This Episode:Start TodayAutism Parenting Secrets: Episode 220 - Parent Coaching Is the CatalystReversal of Autism Symptoms among Dizygotic Twins through a Personalized Lifestyle and Environmental Modification Approach: A Case Report and Review of the Literature, The Journal of Personalized Medicine, Volume 14, Issue 6Additional Resources:To learn more about personalized 1:1 support, go to www.elevatehowyounavigate.comTake The Quiz: What’s YOUR Top Autism Parenting Blindspot?If you enjoyed this episode, share it with your friends.

Nov 25, 2025 • 39min
Stop Guessing, Start UNLOADING
Welcome to Episode 283 of Autism Parenting Secrets.This week’s guest is someone I admire deeply. Few people have shaped the autism world more than Patricia Lemer.She’s a counselor, diagnostician, longtime host of Autism Detectives, and the author of the essential books Outsmarting Autism and now Total Load Theory: Transforming Lives in Autism, ADHD, LD, SPD, and Mental Health.Patty helps parents understand root causes and the stressors that overload the body. The secret this week is…Stop Guessing, Start UNLOADINGYou'll Discover:Why Patty Returned With A New Book (3:24)Why Nervous-System Regulation Must Come First (6:45)The Lifestyle Basics That Still Move the Needle Most (11:20)What “Total Load Theory” Reveals About Hidden Stressors (17:41)How One Family Made Big Gains By Going Back To Nature (25:30)How Patty’s New AI Tool Helps — And Why Source Matters (29:13)About Our Guest:Patricia S. Lemer, M.S., M.Ed., LPC is a licensed professional counselor, educational diagnostician, and co-founder of Developmental Delay Resources. She hosts The Autism Detectives and is the author of Envisioning a Bright Future, Outsmarting Autism, and her newest book Total Load Theory, which integrates functional medicine, sensory processing, developmental vision, and lifestyle foundations.www.patricialemer.comBook: Total Load Theory (Skyhorse Publishing) or on AmazonReferences In This Episode:Total Load Theory by Patricia LemerOutsmarting Autism by Patricia LemerThe Sensitive Patient’s Healing Guide — Dr. Neil NathanAPS Episode 212: You Can’t Heal If You Don’t Feel Safe with Dr. Neil NathanAPS Episode 280: We CAN Change The Neurodevelopmental Trajectory with Dr. Larry PalevskyBRMI – Bioregulatory Medicine InstituteDr. Christian Bogner & Autism Is BiomedicalThe Optimal Parent Facebook PagePeter Sullivan Additional Resources:To learn more about personalized 1:1 support go to www.elevatehowyounavigate.comTake The Quiz: What’s YOUR Top Autism Parenting Blindspot?If you enjoyed this episode, share it with your friends.

Nov 20, 2025 • 40min
TARGETED Support Transforms
Welcome to Episode 282 of Autism Parenting Secrets.Every parent wants transformation for their child. But it doesn’t come from guesswork. Real change happens when the right support is identified and applied with precision.That’s why I’m excited to welcome back Dr. Jerry Kartzinel. He last joined us in Episode 199, “Autism is Treatable.” Dr. Jerry is a trusted leader in functional medicine and pediatrics with decades of experience helping children on the spectrum.This conversation is about why doing less, but with focus, can work better than trying everything — and how targeted nutrition and supplements can bring results that may surprise you.If you’ve felt overwhelmed by too many options or stuck in trial-and-error, this conversation will bring clarity.The secret this week is…TARGETED Support Transforms You'll Discover:Why Less Can Be More With Targeted Support (7:49)How Parents Can Avoid Trial-And-Error Burnout (13:05)The First Steps Dr. Jerry Recommends For Families (19:36)Why Generic Protocols Rarely Deliver Transformation (25:15)A Story Of Transformation Through Precision Support (32:54)How Coaching Helps Parents Maximize Practitioner Guidance (39:04)About Our Guest:Dr. Jerry Kartzinel is a Board-Certified pediatrician and a Fellow in the American Academy of Pediatrics who specializes in the recovery of neurodevelopmental, chronic neuro-inflammatory diseases, and hormonal dysfunctions. He is the author of the best-selling book Healing and Preventing Autism (co-authored with Jenny McCarthy). Dr. Jerry has helped thousands of children on the autism spectrum through targeted, individualized medical care. https://drjerryk.com/https://www.mendingnaturally.com/References In This Episode:APS Episode 199 “Autism IS Treatable” w/ Dr. Jerry Kartzinel Additional Resources:To learn more about personalized 1:1 support, go to www.elevatehowyounavigate.comTake The Quiz: What’s YOUR Top Autism Parenting Blindspot? If you enjoyed this episode, share it with your friends.

Nov 13, 2025 • 37min
Clarify The Leucovorin Confusion
Welcome to Episode 281 of Autism Parenting Secrets.If you're a parent who’s heard about Leucovorin, folinic acid, or calcium folinate—and you're confused—you’re not alone. There's a lot of conflicting information right now, especially in the wake of the Leucovorin case and increased media attention.This week’s guest returns to the podcast to help clarify what really matters. Nicole Rincon is a board-certified Physician Assistant, a microbiologist by training, and a deeply committed parent who’s been supporting children with autism—including her own triplets—for over a decade.She brings both clinical and lived experience to this topic—and today, we dig into the nuances of folate metabolism, pharma vs supplement forms, and the specific use cases for Leucovorin and related supports.The secret this week is…Clarify The Leucovorin ConfusionYou'll Discover:Why Leucovorin Is Suddenly Getting National Attention (4:23)Signs of Cerebral Folate Deficiency (8:11)How To Know If Pharma Or Supplement-Based Support Is Right For Your Child (12:15)Why Supporting The Folate Pathway Can Improve Speech, Focus, and Behavior (18:28)What Parents Should Ask Before Starting Leucovorin (24:17)Whether Leucovorin Is A Short-Term Fix Or Long-Term Support (33:13)About Our Guest:Nicole Rincon, MS, PA-C, is a board-certified Physician Assistant with a background in microbiology and genetics. She received her Master’s Degree from Western University of Health Sciences and has been working with children with autism—including her own triplets—for over a decade. Nicole offers functional and integrative care, combining deep clinical knowledge with personal insight.🔗 More about Nicole at Rossignol Medical CenterReferences In This Episode:The Folate Fix: Exploring the Role of Folate in Autism and Neurodevelopmental Disorders by Dr. Richard FryeAPS Episode 245: “Evidence-Based Treatments FIRST” w/ Dr. Richard FryeAdditional Resources:To learn more about personalized 1:1 support, go to www.elevatehowyounavigate.comTake The Quiz: What’s YOUR Top Autism Parenting Blindspot?If you enjoyed this episode, share it with your friends.


