

What We Said
Dear Media
Intended to inspire and entertain, best friends Jaci Marie & Chelsey Jade talk candidly about health, business, relationships, life, etc. You can expect the girls to be joined by occasional guests, reading friends' & fans' stories, & offering unsolicited but heartfelt advice. | Introduction music by Lowercase Committee | Cover art by Chloe Bruderer.
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Dec 9, 2025 • 1h 22min
WHO’S IN THE RIGHT?
The girls are tackling the dilemmas you sent in and deciding who stands where. Things start strong with a classic inconsiderate brother-in-law and quickly spiral into wedding dodgers, family thievery, and a friendship situation so confusing it practically needs a flowchart. The lines between right and wrong will get blurred, but one thing’s for sure: the Valley girls are always correct.// WHAT WE ARE WEARING/MENTIONING // https://shopmy.us/shop/whatwesaidpodcast SHOP OUR MERCH: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/what-we-said !!! FOLLOW US !!!INSTA: @WHATWESAID, @JACIMARIESMITH, @CHELSEYJADECURTISTIKTOK: @CHELSEYJADECURTIS, @JACIMARIESMITHYOUTUBE: WATCH WHAT WE SAID, CHELSEY JADE, JACI MARIE// SPONSORS // Kendra Scott: Visit kendrascott.com/gifts and use code WWS20 at checkout for 20% off ONE full-priced jewelry item. Aura Frames: $35 off with code WHATWESAID at auraframes.com Rocket Money: Cancel your unwanted subscriptions and reach your financial goals faster with Rocket Money. Download the Rocket Money app and enter my show name What We Said in the survey so they know we sent you! Columbia: Head to columbia.com to get your hands on an Amaze Puff jacket for the holidays—they’re tough on cold, soft on you.Gruns: Visit gruns.co and use code WHATWESAID at checkout for up to 52% off your first order. Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Dec 2, 2025 • 1h 13min
SISTER-IN-LAW DRAMA
This week, the girls are diving into the worst kind of chaos - sister-in-law drama. From stealing the spotlight at someone else’s big moment to blowing through their husband’s money for a scandalous getaway, these listener write-ins prove that girls really can do it all… sometimes in the worst possible ways. Buckle up, this one gets messy.// WHAT WE ARE WEARING/MENTIONING // https://shopmy.us/shop/whatwesaidpodcast SHOP OUR MERCH: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/what-we-said !!! FOLLOW US !!!INSTA: @WHATWESAID, @JACIMARIESMITH, @CHELSEYJADECURTISTIKTOK: @CHELSEYJADECURTIS, @JACIMARIESMITHYOUTUBE: WATCH WHAT WE SAID, CHELSEY JADE, JACI MARIE// SPONSORS // Aura Frames: Go to auraframes.com and get $35 off with code WHATWESAID. Squarespace: Go to Squarespace. com for a free trial, and when you’re ready to launch, squarespace.com/WHATWESAID to save 10% off your first purchase of a website or domain.Betterhelp: Visit BetterHelp.com/WHATWESAID today to get 10% off your first month.Skims: Shop our favorite bras and underwear at SKIMS.com. And if you’re looking for the perfect gifts for everyone on your list - the SKIMS Holiday Shop is now open at SKIMS.com.Clean Simple Eats: Visit CleanSimpleEats.com and use code WHATWESAID10 at checkout for 10% off your FIRST order PLUS free shipping. DripDrop: Go to dripdrop.com and use promo code WHATWESAID for 20% off your first order.Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Nov 28, 2025 • 1h 7min
MY FRIEND CONFESSED THEY LOVE ME
It's your favorite time of the month, the advice column is here! Our girls are diving into everything from holiday homesickness (or… is it nostalgia? seasonal depression? honestly, who knows) to handling pushy family members around religion, jealousy when friends start having babies, and what to do when someone keeps copying your every move. They also unpack a very tangled friends-with-benefits situation and plenty more listener dilemmas that prove adulthood is basically one long string of “wait… how do I handle this?” conversations.// WHAT WE ARE WEARING/MENTIONING // https://shopmy.us/shop/whatwesaidpodcast SHOP OUR MERCH: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/what-we-said !!! FOLLOW US !!!INSTA: @WHATWESAID, @JACIMARIESMITH, @CHELSEYJADECURTISTIKTOK: @CHELSEYJADECURTIS, @JACIMARIESMITHYOUTUBE: WATCH WHAT WE SAID, CHELSEY JADE, JACI MARIE// SPONSORS // Kendra Scott: Visit kendrascott.com/gifts and use code WWS20 at checkout for 20% off ONE full-priced jewelry item. Tia Health: Book an appointment today at asktia.com/wws. Gruns: Visit gruns.co and use code WHATWESAID at checkout for up to 52% off your first order. Butcher Box: As an exclusive offer, our listeners can get free steak in every box for a year PLUS $20 off your first box when you go to ButcherBox.com/whatwesaid. Wayfair: Head to Wayfair.com right now to shop all things home.Laundry Sauce: During our Black Friday/Cyber Monday Signature Sale, you’ll save up to 40%, get $75 in free gifts, and free shipping at LaundrySauce.com. Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Nov 25, 2025 • 56min
THE NICEST THING EVER
Get your tissues ready this Thanksgiving, because the annual tearjerker is back. This week, the girls are reading your heart-melting submissions to “the sweetest thing someone’s ever done for you,” and honestly, we’re not okay. From strangers stopping to help on the side of the road to partners setting the bar sky-high, and even real-life heroes showing up at the perfect moment, this episode is pure serotonin. It’s a much-needed reminder that kindness is alive and well — and if the Valley girls teach you one thing this week, it’s to never lose hope in humanity.// WHAT WE ARE WEARING/MENTIONING // https://shopmy.us/shop/whatwesaidpodcast SHOP OUR MERCH: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/what-we-said !!! FOLLOW US !!!INSTA: @WHATWESAID, @JACIMARIESMITH, @CHELSEYJADECURTISTIKTOK: @CHELSEYJADECURTIS, @JACIMARIESMITHYOUTUBE: WATCH WHAT WE SAID, CHELSEY JADE, JACI MARIE// SPONSORS // Fabletics: Go to Fabletics.com/WHATWESAID and sign up as a VIP and get80% off everything. Skims: Shop our favorite bras and underwear at SKIMS.com. And if you’re looking for the perfect gifts for everyone on your list - the SKIMS Holiday Shop is now open at SKIMS.com.Columbia: Head to columbia.com to get your hands on an Amaze Puff jacket—they’retough on cold, soft on you.Clean Simple Eats: Visit CleanSimpleEats.com and use code WHATWESAID at checkout for 20% off your FIRST order PLUS free shipping. Chewy: Right now you can save $20 on your first order and get free shipping by going to Chewy.com/whatwesaid. Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Nov 18, 2025 • 1h 16min
HE GHOSTED ME
Halloween vibes linger as the girls dive into the chaotic world of ghosting. They share wild listener stories, from birthday no-shows to surprise engagements that went dark. Delight in tales of a ranch summer fling that turned into a committed relationship after a mysterious hiatus. They explore ghosting patterns and the emotional maturity needed to navigate relationships. Expect laughs and a few shocking revelations—perfectly blending October's spookiness with relatable dating dramas!

Nov 14, 2025 • 1h 26min
MANIFEST YOUR DREAM LIFE 101
Mimi Bouchard, founder of the Activations app and author of Activate Your Future Self, shares her journey from personal audio recordings to creating a transformative app. She emphasizes the difference between activation audio and meditation, highlighting how it energizes daily tasks. Mimi discusses the power of daily habits, the importance of intention and accountability in manifestation, and provides practical tips for fostering gratitude and resilience. With insights on aligning with your future self, she inspires listeners to design their dream lives.

Nov 11, 2025 • 1h 16min
LUCKY GIRL ENERGY
This week, the girls are feeling extra lucky — and they’ve got the stories to prove it. It started earlier this week by scoring some unbelievable finds at an estate sale, but then Jaci and Chelsey dive into listener submissions all about good fortune and serendipity. From sneaking into concerts for free to landing dream jobs out of nowhere, these stories will have you believing that good karma is very real. It’s a feel-good episode full of manifestation energy, lucky breaks, and major main character vibes — because honestly, Valley Girls are just the luckiest girls around…// WHAT WE ARE WEARING/MENTIONING // https://shopmy.us/shop/whatwesaidpodcast SHOP OUR MERCH: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/what-we-said !!! FOLLOW US !!!INSTA: @WHATWESAID, @JACIMARIESMITH, @CHELSEYJADECURTISTIKTOK: @CHELSEYJADECURTIS, @JACIMARIESMITHYOUTUBE: WATCH WHAT WE SAID, CHELSEY JADE, JACI MARIE// SPONSORS // Cotton: Learn more at TheFabricOfOurLives.com. Leesa: Go to leesa.com for 25% off mattresses PLUS get an extra $50 off with promo code.Wayfair: Head to Wayfair.com right now to shop all things home.Clean Simple Eats: Visit cleansimpleats.com and use code WHATWESAID10 at checkout for 10% off your FIRST order PLUS free shipping. Square: Get up to $200 off Square hardware when you sign up at square.com/go/WHATWESAID. Kendra Scott: Visit kendrascott.com/gifts and use code WWS20 at checkout for 20% off ONE full-priced jewelry item. Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Nov 4, 2025 • 1h 13min
UNHINGED TRAVEL STORIES
Dive into wild travel tales as the hosts share your hilarious and cringeworthy stories! From a UTI emergency mid-flight to a terrifying spring break prank gone wrong in Cabo, these adventures will keep you on the edge of your seat. Hear about a creepy stay in Belgium and a sailing trip filled with embarrassing mishaps. Expect laughter, a few gasps, and maybe a reevaluation of your own travel plans! Plus, they reflect on their recent tour, gratitude, and share predictions for their Spotify Wrapped.

Oct 31, 2025 • 56min
SPOOKY CATCH UP
Get ready for a Halloween recap filled with drama and laughter! The hosts unveil their chaotic Los Angeles tour stop, complete with crazy special effects makeup and costume mishaps. They share hilarious stories of a mistaken cue and a rowdy crowd that made for an unforgettable experience. Tiffany's onstage charm amps up the energy, while the Tezza photo booth takes the spotlight. Plus, they dish out family costume ideas and home renovation plans, all while keeping the spooky spirit alive!

Oct 28, 2025 • 1h 2min
SCARY STORIES!!
Halloween is creeping up, and the girls are out this week — which means Chester and Jasper are back to take over the mic 🎃 .Their mission: to read your terrifying listener write-ins. From music mysteriously blasting in empty rooms to candles blowing out on their own and strange creatures lurking where they shouldn’t be, these stories will give you chills. Plus, Tyson calls in to spill the tea on his unforgettable (and slightly disastrous) spill at a photoshoot. It’s spooky, hilarious, and perfectly chaotic — just in time for Halloween.// COME SEE US ON TOUR // LAST SHOW TONIGHT IN LA: OCTOBER 28, CLICK HERE FOR TICKETS. // WHAT WE ARE WEARING/MENTIONING // https://shopmy.us/shop/whatwesaidpodcast SHOP OUR MERCH: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/what-we-said !!! FOLLOW US !!!INSTA: @WHATWESAID, @JACIMARIESMITH, @CHELSEYJADECURTISTIKTOK: @CHELSEYJADECURTIS, @JACIMARIESMITHYOUTUBE: WATCH WHAT WE SAID, CHELSEY JADE, JACI MARIE// SPONSORS // Wayfair: Head to wayfair.com right now to shop all things home.Rocket Money: Cancel your unwanted subscriptions and reach your financial goals faster with Rocket Money. Download the Rocket Money app and enter my show name What We Said in the survey so they know we sent you! Skims: Shop our favorite bras and underwear at SKIMS.com.Columbia: Head to columbia.com to get your hands on an Amaze Puff jacket—they’re tough on cold, soft on you.LittleSpoon: Get 50% off your first online order at littlespoon.com/WWS with code WWS at checkout.Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.


