

Sari Swears
Sari de la Motte
Sari de la Motte is the host of "Sari Swears" and has been dubbed the "Attorney Whisperer" because of her unique ability to help attorneys communicate their real selves. Tune in every Friday for a new episode of the best fucking podcast on the Internet. I swear. (Like… a LOT. Parental discretion is advised.)
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Mar 24, 2019 • 15min
FB Live Episode - Why You Should Stop Focusing on Finding "Bad" Jurors and Find Your Ideal Juror Instead
On this FB Live Episode, we discuss the problem with looking for "bad" jurors and the benefits of creating your "ideal juror profile" instead.

Mar 20, 2019 • 20min
Lawyers Are Hostages Too
In this episode, we discuss how the same threats that your jurors face are the ones that you face in the courtroom. Using the SCARF model, we break down the common fears that confront you and begin to recognize that you are a hostage too.

Mar 17, 2019 • 18min
FB Live Episode - Welcome to the FB Group
On this FB Live from 03/14/19, we talk about the From Hostage to Hero FB Group, the intention the goals, the community, etc.

Mar 13, 2019 • 22min
Stop Focusing On Kicking Jurors Off and Start Focusing On What Jurors You Want On
In episode 7, we're going to talk about why you need to stop focusing on kicking jurors off, and instead begin focusing on what jurors you want on.

Feb 13, 2019 • 24min
Prove Fairness
Today we're talking about the last P in The Five Ps Model. We're exploring how to reverse the threat jury selection creates for jurors by taking a look at how attorneys can Prove Fairness.

Jan 17, 2019 • 19min
Ep. 5 - Promote Relatedness
To reverse the threat jury selection creates we've been looking at the Five 'P's: Preserve Status Provide Certainty Protect Autonomy Promote Relatedness Prove Fairness We've been looking at the last three in the last podcasts – Status, Certainty, and Autonomy. Today we're taking a look at how to Promote Relatedness. * * * * * FREE H2H TRAINING * * * * * LET THE JURY SOLVE YOUR PROBLEMS IN 3 EASY STEPS Aren't you tired of searching for the shiny new formula for winning? I love you but the truth is: the shit you're doing with the jury isn't working. You need to let the jury solve your problems for you. Use my H2H Funnel Method for voir dire so that your jurors tell YOU the principles of the case instead of you telling THEM (yes, really). Get the training here: https://bit.ly/h2hfunnel

Jul 31, 2018 • 12min
Ep. 4 - Protect Autonomy
In this episode, we continue to discuss the five social needs that, when threatened, keep the jurors hostage to the process. As we try to move them from feeling like a hostage to being a willing team player, we address the third social need: Protect Autonomy. The biggest thing you can do to protect a juror's autonomy is to actually give them a choice. * * * * * FREE H2H TRAINING * * * * * LET THE JURY SOLVE YOUR PROBLEMS IN 3 EASY STEPS Aren't you tired of searching for the shiny new formula for winning? I love you but the truth is: the shit you're doing with the jury isn't working. You need to let the jury solve your problems for you. Use my H2H Funnel Method for voir dire so that your jurors tell YOU the principles of the case instead of you telling THEM (yes, really). Get the training here: https://bit.ly/h2hfunnel

Jun 5, 2018 • 12min
Ep. 3 - Get To The Point
In Episode 3, Sari continues in the training on "The Five P's," giving attention to "Provide Certainty." Learn what you can do to help move the jury away from survival mode during jury selection and to a place where they can participate as willing volunteers. * * * * * FREE H2H TRAINING * * * * * LET THE JURY SOLVE YOUR PROBLEMS IN 3 EASY STEPS Aren't you tired of searching for the shiny new formula for winning? I love you but the truth is: the shit you're doing with the jury isn't working. You need to let the jury solve your problems for you. Use my H2H Funnel Method for voir dire so that your jurors tell YOU the principles of the case instead of you telling THEM (yes, really). Get the training here: https://bit.ly/h2hfunnel

Apr 16, 2018 • 18min
Ep. 2 - We Must Preserve A Juror's Status
Building upon the SCARF model from Episode 1, Sari discusses "The Five P's" and takes a more complete look at the first one: Preserving Status. Learn why preserving a juror's status is important, practical ways to assure that you are addressing this need, and hear examples of how this tactic has lead to winning cases. * * * * * FREE H2H TRAINING * * * * * LET THE JURY SOLVE YOUR PROBLEMS IN 3 EASY STEPS Aren't you tired of searching for the shiny new formula for winning? I love you but the truth is: the shit you're doing with the jury isn't working. You need to let the jury solve your problems for you. Use my H2H Funnel Method for voir dire so that your jurors tell YOU the principles of the case instead of you telling THEM (yes, really). Get the training here: https://bit.ly/h2hfunnel

Feb 9, 2018 • 16min
Ep. 1 - Choice Changes Everything
Sari de la Motte is the host of "From Hostage to Hero" and has been dubbed the "Attorney Whisperer" because of her unique ability to help attorneys communicate their real selves. Join us, once a month, as Sari shares tips that will help you up your game at trial and connect with your jurors. * * * * * FREE H2H TRAINING * * * * * LET THE JURY SOLVE YOUR PROBLEMS IN 3 EASY STEPS Aren't you tired of searching for the shiny new formula for winning? I love you but the truth is: the shit you're doing with the jury isn't working. You need to let the jury solve your problems for you. Use my H2H Funnel Method for voir dire so that your jurors tell YOU the principles of the case instead of you telling THEM (yes, really). Get the training here: https://bit.ly/h2hfunnel


