Strong Men Strong Marriages
Mike Frazier, MD
Helping high achieving Christian men have more intimate marriages. Start with episodes 1-4 for an introduction. Traditional marriage counseling, couples therapy, couples counseling and even Christian marriage counseling will tell you that a good marriage is based on compromise. Validating feelings. Sacrifice. I tried that for years. Unfortunately, it doesn’t work. That’s why most couples who go through marriage counseling are the same or worse off after. BUT, in my studies in neuroscience at BYU, MD training at UCLA, psychiatry residency, marriage coach training, and most importantly in my own marriage, I finally found what DOES work. Building strength. Spiritual, mental, emotional and sexual strength, while anchored in following Christian marriage principles. Strength is attractive. And, it feels great. It builds trust. Add to this the skills of communication and intimacy, and you get a marriage full of phenomenal mental, emotional and physical intimacy. And, you set the example for generations to follow. I applied this to my own marriage, I felt better than ever and had more connection and passion than I thought possible. I started teaching this to other men and couples and they were able to create mental, emotional and sexual intimacy faster than they thought possible. This even works for affair recovery and emotional affairs. Now it’s your turn. Become a strong, attractive man. Create a strong, passionate marriage.
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Sep 26, 2023 • 49min
How To Heal From Sexual Trauma… Without Reliving It
Approximately 1 in every 3 women has experienced sexual trauma in their lifetime.Given those statistics, there’s a good chance that your wife, like mine, has been through this terrible experience.There are many different types of therapy that can help your wife (or you) recover from this kind of trauma. Today we’ll explore a unique approach that could be a good fit for your wife (or you).If your wife is worried about having to tell the story of her trauma… the approach that Dr. Willow Brown and Leah Piper take is different.Learn about their approach today, and find them at sexreimagined.com and drwillowbrown.com Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
Sep 21, 2023 • 4min
You Can Expect Your Wife To Be As Honest As You Are
A long time ago, a mentor of mine had me make a list of all the qualities I wanted in a wife.I listed things like beautiful, honest, intelligent, connected to God, a hard worker, great with kids, and an expert cook.He complimented my list, and I thought my job was to go find this girl.But, he told me that if I wanted a girl like that, I had to be a guy like that.When it comes to anything you want your wife to be… You can only expect her to be as good as you.So, if you want her to be completely honest with you… you’ll need to be completely honest with her.Honesty is the price of an intimate marriage. Telling the truth even and especially when it’s hard. That’s what lets you be known in the marriage and creates the deep connection and passion that you desire. With some bumps first. But that conflict is what creates real connection.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
Sep 19, 2023 • 19min
To Spy Or Not To Spy On Your Wife?
If you’re suspicious that your wife may be involved with another man…Or if she’s been unfaithful in the past…The temptation to spy on her can be VERY high.There are pros and cons to spying, and we’ll cover them in today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
Sep 14, 2023 • 4min
When Your Wife Hugs Everyone… Except You
If your wife turns away from your hugs and kisses…But doesn’t have an issue giving hugs to friends, family and your kids…It can be VERY frustrating.But, there’s a reason for it.You are probably trying to TAKE a hug from her…Instead of GIVING a hug.Learn more in today’s episode.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
Sep 12, 2023 • 15min
When Your Wife Gives Your Kids More Affection Than You
It used to bum me out that my wife would hug and kiss my kids…But not me.They were getting more affection than I was!And my wife would tell me that she just “wasn’t very touchy…”Which I saw with my own eyes just wasn’t true.Learn why this is happening…And what to do about it…In today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
Sep 7, 2023 • 5min
How To Handle Waves Of Emotion - In You And Your Wife
If you’re at the beach and a wave is coming, you have 3 options.Option 1 - Run away. If you choose this, you will get smashed.This is like trying to avoid emotions.Option 2 - Stand there. If you choose this, you will get smashed. This is like freezing in your emotions or trying to ignore them (or push them away with things like food, pornography, etc.)Option 3 - Jump into the wave.While counterintuitive, this option lets you avoid injury. It allows you to feel a gentle up and down movement that passes quickly.Learn how to “jump into the wave of emotion” in this episode.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
Sep 5, 2023 • 19min
How To Manage The Ups And Downs In Marriage
No matter what, your marriage WILL have ups and downs.You’ll have moments of great connection… then disconnection.Your wife will be happy… then unhappy.How do you handle these ups and downs now?Many men try to fix the downs and make them go away as fast as possible.But, this often just makes the downs last longer and creates more damage.Learn what to do instead…To enjoy the good times and make the bad times opportunities for more intimacy…In today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
Aug 31, 2023 • 4min
3 Steps To Feel More Secure In Your Relationships
Step 1 - Seen. Notice your own emotions. Name them. Feel them.Step 2 - Safe. Remind yourself that you’re OK and in a safe placeStep 3 - Soothe. Deal with your emotions appropriately. Think in terms of body, mind, heart and spirit.Body - exercise, stretching, yoga, etcMind - Music, books, scripturesHeart - Connection with othersSpirit - Prayer, meditation, booksFollowing these 3 steps, you WILL create more security in your relationship with yourself, your wife, your kids and others.Learn more specific skills… and practice them with coaching… in Strong Men Strong Marriages.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-meYou’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
Aug 29, 2023 • 31min
How To Feel More Secure In Your Marriage… And With Yourself
This is, I believe, one of my most important episodes so far.We all have the desire to feel seen, safe and soothed in our emotions.Unfortunately, many of us did not get that… or did not get it consistently… from our parents or caregivers.I used to ignore this idea a lot, thinking our upbringing didn’t really matter.But, as I’ve done some of this work on my own, I’ve seen that our childhood has a MASSIVE impact on how we relate to our wife and our children.Learn YOUR attachment style (secure, avoidant, ambivalent or disorganized)...And how to create SECURE attachments with yourself and others…In today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-meYou’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
Aug 24, 2023 • 42min
How To Woo Your Wife - Interview With Monica Tanner
Today I have the privilege of talking with Monica Tanner, host of the Secrets Of Happily Ever After Podcast.We discuss insights on how to “woo your wife.”What are the things you can do today (and tonight) to make your wife feel “those feelings” again.This episode includes some extra special tips and phrases on how to do just that.Watch on YouTube here.You can find Monica at monicatanner.com http://monicatanner.comDr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-meYou’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
