

Her Best Life
Besties
Best friends Jackie Henderson and Gemma O'Neill are on the quest to live their best lives. Listen if you want to live yours too, or want to laugh at their attempts! Her Best Life is true girl chat. Raw, vulnerable, unfiltered conversations on topics such as sex, relationships, healing, careers and it might include some amateur astrology.
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Episodes each Wednesday
Follow us @wearebestiesofficial
Check out the Red Flag Project here https://www.wearebesties.com/courses
Episodes each Wednesday
Episodes
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Oct 14, 2025 • 2min
A little update…
Dear Besties, we’ve tried our hardest to never miss an episode, but sometimes life gets in the way! We promise we’ll be back to usual as soon as Gemma is home later this week as there’s plenty of updates to share. This episode was brought to you by Omoda Jaecoo. Follow us @wearebestiesofficial Check out the Red Flag Project, and the Negotiation Power course herehttps://www.wearebesties.com/courses Episodes each WednesdaySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Oct 7, 2025 • 45min
Most people have never been in love
Jackie stumbled upon a fascinating article about love this week, that got us really questioning things. Plus, we the ladies cover Brazilian waxes gone wrong, farting in your sleep and what makes them feel sexy. This episode was brought to you by Omoda Jaecoo. Follow us @wearebestiesofficial Check out the Red Flag Project, and the Negotiation Power course herehttps://www.wearebesties.com/courses Episodes each WednesdaySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Sep 30, 2025 • 44min
Am I too old to start again?
After reading Erik Erikson's 8 Stages of Development, this week Jackie wanted to deep dive Generativity versus Stagnation and discuss and the stage in life that starts at 40 and goes through to 65 as a lot of women ask themselves: Am I happy? And can I really start again? This episode was brought to you by Omoda Jaecoo. Follow us @wearebestiesofficial Check out the Red Flag Project, and the Negotiation Power course herehttps://www.wearebesties.com/courses Episodes each WednesdaySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Sep 23, 2025 • 28min
Things have gone too far…
A lot can happen in a week, especially for Jackie and Gemma! This week’s episode covers everything from an unacceptable invasion of privacy, an unexpected holiday alongside an influencer (but what exactly does an influencer do all day?) and some education about how we’ve been cleaning our private parts wrong for all our lives. This episode was brought to you by Omoda Jaecoo. Follow us @wearebestiesofficial Check out the Red Flag Project, and the Negotiation Power course herehttps://www.wearebesties.com/courses Episodes each WednesdaySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Sep 16, 2025 • 42min
Sexual Trauma
This episode of Her Best Life comes with a trigger warning as Gemma opens up about the importance of processing the memories she’s suppressed for most of her life through EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing). If this is a topic you may find distressing, please skip this episode. If you’ve struggled with any of the topics in this episode and would like to speak to somebody for help, please call 1800 RESPECT. This episode was brought to you by Omoda Jaecoo. Follow us @wearebestiesofficial Check out the Red Flag Project, and the Negotiation Power course herehttps://www.wearebesties.com/courses Episodes each WednesdaySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Sep 9, 2025 • 49min
Obsessive Thoughts (About Him)
If you can’t get a man off your mind, then this episode is one for you! Jackie and Gemma break down how to break free of this approach to dating and why learning about the word “limerence” has been so eye opening. Plus, Gemma details her first big disagreement with boyfriend Scott and Jackie reveals her latest hobby… will this one last, though? This episode was brought to you by Omoda Jaecoo. Follow us @wearebestiesofficial Check out the Red Flag Project, and the Negotiation Power course herehttps://www.wearebesties.com/courses Episodes each WednesdaySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Sep 2, 2025 • 42min
Unexpected tears
This week’s pod covers everything from meeting the parents, a big relationship milestone and the rise of male escorts, including why more women are booking sex workers. Plus, Jackie gets emotional reflecting on her spiritual journey and thinking about the things she hopes daughter Kitty never struggles with. Find out more about the Kundalini awakening Zoom classes here: https://peaceinside.me/kundalini-activation This episode was brought to you by Omoda Jaecoo. Follow us @wearebestiesofficial Check out the Red Flag Project, and the Negotiation Power course herehttps://www.wearebesties.com/courses Episodes each WednesdaySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Aug 27, 2025 • 14min
A beginner’s guide to sex toys (bonus episode)
After Gemma’s recent trip to a local sex store was a little more vanilla than she’d have liked, Jackie arranged a surprise with Love Honey who have kindly gifted a selection of toys for her to spice things up! In this bonus episode, Jackie talks her through what each one does... This episode was brought to you by Omoda Jaecoo. Follow us @wearebestiesofficial Check out the Red Flag Project, and the Negotiation Power course herehttps://www.wearebesties.com/courses Episodes each WednesdaySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Aug 26, 2025 • 45min
The Summer I Turned Pretty
Dead rats, signs from above and disastrous stories about meeting the parents, this week’s podcast is quite the rollercoaster as Gemma prepares to take her relationship with Scott to the next level! Plus, Jackie and Gemma dissect viral TV show The Summer I Turned Pretty and how women around the world are responding to the different male characters. Are you Team Conrad or Team Jeremiah? This episode was brought to you by Omoda Jaecoo. Follow us @wearebestiesofficial Check out the Red Flag Project, and the Negotiation Power course herehttps://www.wearebesties.com/courses Episodes each WednesdaySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Aug 19, 2025 • 49min
Sex shop drama (Q&A)
To start our 50th episode Gemma shares a wild story about overcoming her unlikely fear of sex stores and Jackie introduces her to anal beads! The ladies then answer your questions on red flag friendships, money versus happiness, addiction, making new friends as an adult and co-parenting. Thanks to all of you lovely listeners for joining us since the start of Her Best Life! This episode was brought to you by Omoda Jaecoo. Follow us @wearebestiesofficial Check out the Red Flag Project, and the Negotiation Power course herehttps://www.wearebesties.com/courses Episodes each WednesdaySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.


