
Unashamed Unafraid
Unashamed Unafraid is a show dedicated to being unashamed about sexual addiction recovery and unafraid of coming unto Christ for healing. Pornography and sexual addiction are not something you are stuck with to manage your whole life. We share real stories of recovery, the best resources, information from experts, and answer anonymous questions with those who know. All to help you on the path of being 100% healed from pornography and sexual addiction.
Latest episodes

Feb 18, 2025 • 41min
EP 148: Matt & Katie's Story
This episode features Katie and Matt and the challenges they have faced due to Matt's struggle with pornography addiction. Katie describes her role in the recovery process, initially trying to control Matt's recovery before realizing she needed to focus on her own healing. Matt shares how he overcame his addiction by taking personal responsibility and how both of them involved God in their healing journey. The episode highlights honesty, vulnerability, and the importance of individual recovery within a marriage, while also discussing their efforts to help others through similar struggles.*You can connect with Matt and Katie here: instagram.com/thechristianbetrayalcoach, Website: thechristianbetrayalcoach.com,Email: katie@thechristianbetrayalcoach.com Follow us on social media! Instagram & FacebookSubscribe to our YouTubeCheck out our recommended resourcesWant to rep the message? Shop our MERCH! For more inspiration, read our blogDo you have a story you are willing to share? Send us an email! contact@unashamedunafraid.com

Feb 11, 2025 • 18min
EP 147: Live Unashamed- DIY Recovery
In this discussion, Chris, James, Sam, and Ella gather to talk about the reality of DIY recovery. Ella's experiences as a woman struggling with sexual addiction are highlighted, prompting an exploration into whether it is possible to recover from addiction without community support. The consensus among the participants is that achieving true recovery independently is extremely challenging, if not impossible. They all share personal anecdotes emphasizing the importance of community, therapy, and support systems in their recovery journeys.Follow us on social media! Instagram & FacebookSubscribe to our YouTubeCheck out our recommended resourcesWant to rep the message? Shop our MERCH! For more inspiration, read our blogDo you have a story you are willing to share? Send us an email! contact@unashamedunafraid.com

Feb 4, 2025 • 41min
EP 146: Nick & Anja's Story
In this episode, Sam and James engage in a heartfelt discussion with Nick and Anja about their life stories, meeting each other, and the struggles they faced, including addiction, mental health, and personal trauma. They share insights on their relationship dynamics, particularly focusing on honesty, vulnerability, and coping mechanisms. They detail Nick's journey through addiction, feelings of unworthiness, and moments of suicidal ideation, while Anja discusses her own struggles with multiple sclerosis and feelings of being unlovable. Despite their challenges, they highlight the importance of mutual support, understanding God's unconditional love, and continuous efforts toward healing. The episode also touches on the role of the podcast and community support in aiding their recovery.Follow us on social media! Instagram & FacebookSubscribe to our YouTubeCheck out our recommended resourcesWant to rep the message? Shop our MERCH! For more inspiration, read our blogDo you have a story you are willing to share? Send us an email! contact@unashamedunafraid.com

Jan 28, 2025 • 14min
EP 145: Live Unashamed- Finding Humor in Recovery
Join James, Sam, Ella, and Chris as they explore how to find humor in the recovery process. From hilarious anecdotes and personal stories to reflections on the nature of recovery, this episode emphasizes the importance of laughter and joy even amidst serious challenges. Hear funny experiences, the value of not taking oneself too seriously, and the role humor plays in healing and overcoming addiction. Also, learn why it's essential to laugh at our mistakes and view recovery with a lighter heart. Tune in to discover why sometimes, laughter truly is the best medicine.Follow us on social media! Instagram & FacebookSubscribe to our YouTubeCheck out our recommended resourcesWant to rep the message? Shop our MERCH! For more inspiration, read our blogDo you have a story you are willing to share? Send us an email! contact@unashamedunafraid.com

Jan 21, 2025 • 44min
EP 144: Ever Accountable with Tyler Patterson
In this episode, hosts Sam and Steve, engage in an insightful conversation with Tyler, the founder of Ever Accountable, an app designed to help individuals overcome porn addiction through accountability. Tyler shares his personal journey of creating the app, which monitors and reports browsing activities to chosen accountability partners, helping users stay accountable. They discuss the effectiveness of accountability versus traditional internet filters, the challenges of developing such technology, and the importance of community and support in recovery. Tyler also addresses common questions about using the app, including its compatibility with different platforms and considerations for choosing accountability partners. Connect with Tyler and the Ever Accountable team here:Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@everaccountableInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/ever_accountable/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/EverAccountableX: https://x.com/everaccountableLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/ever-accountable/Reddit: https://www.reddit.com/user/everAccountable_/Linktree: https://linktr.ee/everaccountableTo sign up for a 14 day free trial visit: everaccountable.comEmail support@everaccountable.com for questionsFollow us on social media! Instagram & FacebookSubscribe to our YouTubeCheck out our recommended resourcesWant to rep the message? Shop our MERCH! For more inspiration, read our blogDo you have a story you are willing to share? Send us an email! contact@unashamedunafraid.com

Jan 14, 2025 • 19min
EP 143: Live Unashamed- Navigating "The Talk" with Friends
In this episode, Chris, Steve and Sam delve into the complexities of discussing pornography and sexual addiction among friends. They explore the shame and fear associated with sharing one's story, the impact of cultural stigma, and the intimate connection between sexuality and identity. The conversation includes practical advice on discerning who to share with and how to approach these sensitive topics, emphasizing the importance of compassion, understanding, and safe spaces. The hosts also highlight their own experiences and the positive outcomes of being open about their struggles, encouraging listeners to take steps towards open dialogue and recovery.Follow us on social media! Instagram & FacebookSubscribe to our YouTubeCheck out our recommended resourcesWant to rep the message? Shop our MERCH! For more inspiration, read our blogDo you have a story you are willing to share? Send us an email! contact@unashamedunafraid.com

Jan 7, 2025 • 53min
EP 142: Betrayal Trauma with Beckie Hennessy
In this powerful episode, Steven and James are joined by Beckie Hennessy, a seasoned therapist with nearly two decades of experience, to delve deep into the intricacies of betrayal trauma. They discuss Beckie's personal journey through betrayal, her professional insights, and the challenging process of recovery and healing. From defining betrayal trauma to addressing the role of accountability and the impact of personal growth on relationships, this episode offers invaluable advice for anyone struggling to navigate the aftermath of betrayal. Tune in for a heartfelt discussion, practical insights, and the promise of unimaginable hope and healing.*To connect with Beckie, visit AcceptedLife.comFollow us on social media! Instagram & FacebookSubscribe to our YouTubeCheck out our recommended resourcesWant to rep the message? Shop our MERCH! For more inspiration, read our blogDo you have a story you are willing to share? Send us an email! contact@unashamedunafraid.com

Dec 31, 2024 • 21min
EP 141: Live Unashamed- The Struggle and Importance of Reaching Out
In this episode, Steve, Sam, James and Ella discuss the challenges and necessity of reaching out for support. They explore personal experiences and societal messages that discourage people from seeking help, such as beliefs that reaching out is a sign of weakness. They also touch on the roles children often take in families and how these roles affect their willingness to seek assistance. The episode concludes with a call to action for listeners to challenge their barriers and reach out when they need help, reinforcing the message that everyone deserves support.Follow us on social media! Instagram & FacebookSubscribe to our YouTubeCheck out our recommended resourcesWant to rep the message? Shop our MERCH! For more inspiration, read our blogDo you have a story you are willing to share? Send us an email! contact@unashamedunafraid.com

Dec 24, 2024 • 49min
EP 140: Sam's Story
The episode is a conversation among Sam, Steve, and Chris about Sam's personal journey through addiction, recovery, and healing. Sam shares his story of growing up in a seemingly picture perfect Christian family, facing emotional challenges, and struggling with addiction from a young age. He discusses key moments of realization, the effects of trauma, pivotal experiences in therapy, and the impact of finding hope and authenticity. The discussion also explores the dangers of the "try harder" mindset and touches on the importance of honesty, community support, and spiritual connection in the path to recovery. Sam emphasizes the shift from trying to achieve sobriety alone to embracing God's unconditional love and support in his ongoing journey.To connect with Sam, send him an email at sam@unashamedunafraid.comFollow us on social media! Instagram & FacebookSubscribe to our YouTubeCheck out our recommended resourcesWant to rep the message? Shop our MERCH! For more inspiration, read our blogDo you have a story you are willing to share? Send us an email! contact@unashamedunafraid.com

Dec 17, 2024 • 49min
EP 139: The GLORY Retreat
Join us in this special episode as we dive into the details of The GLORY Retreat [God's Love Opens the Real You], an interfaith Christian retreat designed exclusively for women. With guests Jayne, Beckie, and Tricia, we explore the retreat's mission to guide you in experiencing the real you, the real God and your real story. Set at the beautiful Lost Canyon Camp in Williams, Arizona, the retreat promises a blend of worship, adventure, and experiential activities, catering to women from all walks of life. The discussion highlights the importance of taking time for oneself amidst life's challenges and the potential for personal growth through real, immersive experiences. Listeners are provided with logistical details, including costs, accommodations, and registration information, encouraging them to join this unique event to foster genuine faith and community. Visit TheGloryRetreat.com to sign up now and use code "GLORY95" to save $95! (code is valid through Jan 31st, 2025)Have questions? Send an email to TheGloryRetreat@gmail.comFollow us on social media! Instagram & FacebookSubscribe to our YouTubeCheck out our recommended resourcesWant to rep the message? Shop our MERCH! For more inspiration, read our blogDo you have a story you are willing to share? Send us an email! contact@unashamedunafraid.com