Attaching to God: Neuroscience-informed Spiritual Formation

In this episode, hosts Geoff & Cyd Holsclaw talk with Bill and Kristi Gaultiere, founders of Soul Shepherding, and authors of Deeply Loved: Receiving and Reflecting God's Great Empathy for You. The conversation explores the Gaultiers' journey into psychology and ministry, their insights into empathy and emotional intelligence, and their focus on providing resources for emotional and spiritual health. The discussion also touches on fostering healthy attachment with God and others, stewarding empathy, and the importance of integrating care and guidance in ministry.And join us for the FREE Attaching to God Summit (Oct. 14-16). Register Now. FREE Attaching to God SummitBuilding Emotional & Spiritual Health by Attaching to God: Register Free NOWStay Connected: Check out our Attaching to God 6-Week Learning Cohort. Join the Embodied Faith community to stay connected and get posts, episodes, & resources. Support the podcast with a one-time or regular gift (to keep this ad-free without breaking the Holsclaw's bank).

In this engaging conversation, Summer Joy Gross, an Anglican priest and author of The Emmanuel Promise, discusses the transformative impact of attachment theory on spiritual direction. She emphasizes the essential balance between intimacy and independence in spiritual growth. The dialogue uncovers how understanding attachment styles can lead to deeper connections with God and others. Summer also highlights the dual nature of spiritual environments, encouraging nurturing yet challenging practices to foster holistic development.

Monica Mouer, a therapist and founder of the Center for Family Transformation, shares insights from her new book, 'Landscapes of the Soul.' She discusses attachment strategies using vivid metaphors like the JUNGLE and DESERT, emphasizing the importance of intimacy and independence over fear. The conversation highlights how joyful connections can transform relationships and the role of secure attachments with God in healing. Listeners will gain a deeper understanding of attachment theory and its practical applications in both therapy and spiritual growth.

Discover how personalized approaches to spiritual growth can reshape your connection with God and others. Explore the impact of attachment relationships on faith, dissecting how early experiences influence emotional survival strategies. Learn about transforming trauma into joy and the importance of secure attachments in navigating life's challenges. Delve into the dynamics of faith and connection, understanding how God's love can help you break free from spiritual stagnation. Embrace the journey towards peace and deeper intimacy with God.

A heartfelt story introduces the concept of attachment-based spiritual formation, inviting listeners to explore their connection with the Good Shepherd. The journey of a sheep through varying landscapes highlights themes of trust and companionship. A calming tale through a dark forest showcases the shepherd's reassuring presence, emphasizing safety and love. The narrative culminates in a serene picnic, illustrating the vital importance of support and belonging in our lives. It's a nurturing approach to faith that resonates deeply with listeners.

In this enlightening discussion, A.J. Swoboda, an Associate Professor of theology and an acclaimed author, shares insights on cultivating a teachable spirit. He confronts the challenges of vulnerability in a critique-heavy culture. Drawing parallels to Biblical figures like Abraham, he emphasizes the transformative journey of faith and belonging. The conversation also touches on the value of humility and learning from adversaries, urging listeners to embrace diverse perspectives to deepen their connection with God.

In this conversation, Michael John Cusick, a licensed professional counselor and founder of Restoring the Soul, shares his insights on healing trauma and forging sacred attachments with God. He explores the disconnect between belief and experience, especially in the context of spiritual exhaustion. Michael discusses how humility fosters a deeper connection with divine love and how integrating our brokenness can transform our faith. Personal stories and practical symbols highlight the journey from detachment to a more profound spiritual relationship.

In this engaging discussion, Dr. Joshua Cockayne, Director of the Bede Centre for Church Planting Theology, explores the depths of corporate worship. He challenges the view that worship is mere information transfer or emotional manipulation. Instead, he highlights how joint attention in communal worship shapes spiritual experiences and fosters deep connections. The conversation also dives into attachment theory and cognitive-emotional interplay, emphasizing how collective worship enhances community bonds and individual transformation.

In this engaging discussion, Sarah Boyd, a writer and child development expert, shares insights from her book, Turn Down the Noise. She emphasizes the importance of fostering resilience and emotional health in families amidst today's chaos. Key topics include the need for self-regulation and co-regulation between parents and children, as well as the essential role of play in building connections. Sarah advocates for simplifying home environments to create calm and joy, encouraging families to thrive in a fast-paced society.

In this enlightening discussion, Dr. Chuck DeGroat, a licensed therapist and Professor of Counseling at Western Theological Seminary, dives deep into the evolution of narcissism during the internet age and its alarming effects on church communities. He examines the rise of performative narcissism, the erosion of empathy, and the need for accountability in church leadership. DeGroat emphasizes the importance of genuine connection, vulnerability, and returning to self-emptying values amidst a culture often driven by anxiety and digital distractions.